Friends to love... love to friends? is it possible?

odear_17 · 30-03-2006, 22:13

u started as friends, then fall in love with each other.
then something went wrong, u end up the relationship.
after break up, both of u decided to be friends
will u fall in love with her/him again?

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:14

whats ur name?

odear_17 · 30-03-2006, 22:18

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Originally Posted by LotarsU1

whats ur name?

hi thanks for asking... but prefer to be anonimous
is that ok?

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:21

Lol. I wasnt asking for ur full name tho. But aye ok.

So what u did was become good mates with a guy and then have an argument. Then u get with another guy but then u start tlking to this friend again and ur thinking it could be possible for a relationship which is beyond that of mates?

Im a bit confused.

odear_17 · 30-03-2006, 22:27

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Originally Posted by LotarsU1

Lol. I wasnt asking for ur full name tho. But aye ok.

So what u did was become good mates with a guy and then have an argument. Then u get with another guy but then u start tlking to this friend again and ur thinking it could be possible for a relationship which is beyond that of mates?

Im a bit confused.

no, lol sorry confusing u
im talking about two person here from friendship they fall in love, then broke up and return to being friends. but then after that, they both knew that they are just holding their feelings, scared to fall in love again. scared it might not work.
as being friends are better than being couples, (gf&bf) . if its u, what will u do? will u go into relationship again or just remain friends?

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:28

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Originally Posted by odear_17

u started as friends, then fall in love with each other.
then something went wrong, u end up the relationship.
after break up, both of u decided to be friends
will u fall in love with her/him again?

sorry-i dont really understand what you are asking here?
you may want to add a bit more info...

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:31

I think 'they' need to talk to each other-weigh up the pro's and cons and then make the decision whether or not to remain friends or take things further...

indierr · 30-03-2006, 22:32

Or perhaps try spending a little more time writing your messages alittle more comprehensibly!

odear_17 · 30-03-2006, 22:32

sorry my english not good maybe

hope my reply above help?

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:38

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Originally Posted by indierr

Or perhaps try spending a little more time writing your messages alittle more comprehensibly!

if you havent got anything worthwhile to post then dont bother-soooooo bored of this critisism
*sigh*

indierr · 30-03-2006, 22:38

Apologies, I had wrongly assumed your first language is English but I realise now it is probably not. I didn't mean to cause any offence

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:40

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Originally Posted by gnomi

I think 'they' need to talk to each other-weigh up the pro's and cons and then make the decision whether or not to remain friends or take things further...

Firstly, i dnt know who this person is, secondly:

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Originally Posted by indierr

Or perhaps try spending a little more time writing your messages alittle more comprehensibly!

there is always that t*t with this smarmy comment to make...

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:42

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Originally Posted by odear_17

sorry my english not good maybe

hope my reply above help?

you dont have to apologise....
yes,your reply did help-are you worried about the risk of loosing a friend? Sometimes we have to just hold our breath and take the plunge-if you both feel the same way then its a risk worth taking IMO

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:43

Getting back, in my experience...well u could try giving me your (proper) name for that(?)

indierr · 30-03-2006, 22:47

Why is this person's name so important? It is completley irrelevant....

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:49

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Originally Posted by indierr

Why is this person's name so important? It is completley irrelevant....

Yes i know.

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:49

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Originally Posted by indierr

Why is this person's name so important? It is completley irrelevant....

I agree-he/she has already said they dont want to give their name-why is it so important for u to know?

LotarsU1 · 30-03-2006, 22:51

All forms of information and knowlege are relevant.

gnomi · 30-03-2006, 22:52

cant help but think theres been a bit of a communication problem throughout this thread-maybe we should start again

indierr · 30-03-2006, 22:53

This is getting silly (not helped by myself I concede) and detracting from the point of this thread. A name will not change, and should not, in my opinion influence any advice given to another. This is about love not identity.