El Cid   220 #25 Posted January 31, 2015 you cant look outside for help with your life. All the answers to life are contained within (a jam donut).  Posters on this thread are saying how important others are, that is merely my aim. I am sure the support goes both ways. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
janie48 Â Â 98 #26 Posted January 31, 2015 Having faith in the ultimate goodness of human nature is what gets me through life, and coming across it in everyday experiences for most of my life despite a few let downs, has strengthened that belief. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
ubermaus   10 #27 Posted January 31, 2015 Posters on this thread are saying how important others are, that is merely my aim. I am sure the support goes both ways.  But are you looking to others for your happiness? Happiness is a state of mind, not a commodity others can give you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
bulldog D Â Â 10 #28 Posted January 31, 2015 Resilience and optimism. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Moonbird   10 #29 Posted January 31, 2015 Taking care of my pets, my lovely Grandchildren, my unshakable belief that no matter how bad things get it will come out right in the end...cake! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
El Cid   220 #30 Posted January 31, 2015 But are you looking to others for your happiness? Happiness is a state of mind, not a commodity others can give you.  I have lived on my own for the majority of my life, I should really try harder to find someone to share my life with, I do have a girlfriend at the moment, but early days yet. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
skinz   10 #31 Posted January 31, 2015 Posters on this thread are saying how important others are, that is merely my aim. I am sure the support goes both ways.  Only if you see giving as a means to getting something in return. Giving is just that...giving without expectation or need.  "Here's a gift..woe betide if you don't return the favour".  "I love you..your life will be a misery if you don't show the same love back."  These are the folk that suck the life out of opposite people and only see them as important for what they can get. Losers are rarely optimistic basically. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Super Hans   10 #32 Posted January 31, 2015 Playing Grand Theft Auto, I go and murder a bunch of people in the most horrific ways, hijack cars, set people on fire...then I go home and play GTA to unwind. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
El Cid   220 #33 Posted January 31, 2015 "I love you..your life will be a misery if you don't show the same love back.[/i]" These are the folk that suck the life out of opposite people and only see them as important for what they can get. Losers are rarely optimistic basically.  My girlfriend came round last night, and my daughter commented that i was always posative Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
skinz   10 #34 Posted January 31, 2015 My girlfriend came round last night, and my daughter commented that i was always posative  Lets hope she isn't reading the following...  I guess I have always wanted another half(girlriend) that will help me thru things, still looking. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
El Cid   220 #35 Posted January 31, 2015 Lets hope she isn't reading the following...  I am hoping she is the one, but the relationship has gone a little backwards, but still there. Saw each other every other day at first, now its just like being married But she isnt letting me into her life, she has a lot going on. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Solomon1   10 #36 Posted February 1, 2015 my unshakable belief that no matter how bad things get it will come out right in the end  Indeed  "This too shall pass" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...