frazzle123 Â Â 10 #1 Posted December 8, 2011 A question I met someone in a pub/club, got chatting seemed a lovely guy (nice looking, well dressed etc) and we swapped numbers (which I never do) Chatted for ages, arranging a night out and then I told him I had to go back to my friends (male and female), I then get a text when he was just outside the club and could still see me saying he didnt like that I was stood with other men??I texted back saying they were friends. All night and the next day (with only one text back from me) I had nice messages but if i didnt answer straight away I would get 'talk to me now' or 'say something now' ....he has since texted and rang, but 30 odd messages on Im not having any more to do with him....why would someone do this??? Before any negative people start, Im not saying it is men only Im just wondering why someone normal would go off like this or is it that he isnt normal???any enlightment ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
fruitisbad   10 #2 Posted December 8, 2011 haha, he sounds nuts. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Nataliie   10 #3 Posted December 8, 2011 Oh gosh, please stay well clear!!!!!!  I've met a few men like that, I think it's a sign of what's to come to be honest.. Can you imagine how bad they'd be in a relationship, they're the type who control women and are just horrible.  I know some women are the same though.  Oh and he probably thought he could get away with it if you were tipsy! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
MrMoran   10 #4 Posted December 8, 2011 Whoop! Whoop!! Stalker alert!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
MrMoran   10 #5 Posted December 8, 2011 Oh gosh, please stay well clear!!!!!! I've met a few men like that, I think it's a sign of what's to come to be honest.. Can you imagine how bad they'd be in a relationship, they're the type who control women and are just horrible.  I know some women are the same though.  Some women! This kind of behaviour is far more common in men though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
frazzle123 Â Â 10 #6 Posted December 8, 2011 Whoop! Whoop!! Stalker alert!!!!! Â Just what all my friends said!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Nataliie   10 #7 Posted December 8, 2011 Some women! This kind of behaviour is far more common in men though.  I think it's probably about the same, how many stalker ish women don't let their partners see friends etc?  Maybe women are just better at hiding it.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
frazzle123 Â Â 10 #8 Posted December 8, 2011 I think you are right Nataliie...he was really charming and nice looking !!!Guess the charming bit was a hook to reel me in, luckily im not that desperate!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
fruitisbad   10 #9 Posted December 8, 2011 I think it's probably about the same, how many stalker ish women don't let their partners see friends etc?  Maybe women are just better at hiding it..  yeah but to be fair I probably would/have slept with most of my female friends. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
MrMoran   10 #10 Posted December 8, 2011 I think it's probably about the same, how many stalker ish women don't let their partners see friends etc?  Maybe women are just better at hiding it..  Or men are just a bit dim Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
MrMoran   10 #11 Posted December 8, 2011 Just what all my friends said!!!  Listen to them on this one. He may be a lovely bloke, really honest, decent and hard working but he has issues. He seems insecure and insecurity can be what sets of domestic violence. Believe me, i kinow this for a fact Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
frazzle123 Â Â 10 #12 Posted December 8, 2011 yeah but to be fair I probably would/have slept with most of my female friends. Â Not got many female friends then now eh.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...