charmer   10 #25 Posted October 20, 2014 No one here has any idea whether this man is cheating or not, so ignore the stupid advice that some people have dished out.  If it is difficult to talk to him without tempers rising, why not write him a letter? This way you can raise all your concerns to him in a calm manner without getting shouted over.  Explain the situation, how you feel and the fact that you feel that the family is at risk  Good luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
RonJeremy   10 #26 Posted October 20, 2014 No one here has any idea whether this man is cheating or not, so ignore the stupid advice that some people have dished out. If it is difficult to talk to him without tempers rising, why not write him a letter? This way you can raise all your concerns to him in a calm manner without getting shouted over.  Explain the situation, how you feel and the fact that you feel that the family is at risk  Good luck. You are correct, no one knows. But this is classic behaviour, and I think the OP knows in her heart that it is the case. The letter is a good idea. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
ANGELFIRE1 Â Â 10 #27 Posted October 20, 2014 You are correct, no one knows. But this is classic behaviour, and I think the OP knows in her heart that it is the case. The letter is a good idea. Â Â The letter is a good idea, providing it's sent from another Country. Â Angel1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Billy Mack   10 #28 Posted October 20, 2014 A fair few men don't know what they've got 'til it's gone.  100% Agree but must add >> And women << "don't know what they've got 'til it's gone"  Sorry to say but yes it sounds like he is cheating. But you need to make sure you are 100% before talking to him about it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
spider1 Â Â 11 #29 Posted October 20, 2014 (edited) Next time you are alone with him just take your wedding ring off and give it to him / He will make all sort off denials but just say get out. Bet he doesnt shout and ball and ignore you then. Probably bring him in to reality up to you then if you want to give him another chance. If he takes it off you at least you will know the truth ./ Good luck. Edited October 20, 2014 by spider1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...