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Old 18-01-2007, 21:36   #101
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Wonder how MTheo is.
I wonder if ex reads this site?
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Old 18-01-2007, 21:38   #102
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I wonder if ex reads this site?
I dont think she does, but i know his ex's mate does.

Maybe she can pass on a message to her saying how upset he is?

hope hes ok
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Old 18-01-2007, 22:06   #103
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I dont think she does, but i know his ex's mate does.

Maybe she can pass on a message to her saying how upset he is?
hope hes ok
I was actually meaning for the opposite reason K!
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Old 19-01-2007, 01:26   #104
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Well, I think if the ex still have feelings for him, or have small doubts, but still have feelings, then I would encourage her to give him a second chance.

It's Sod's Law that... when we want our blokes to open up, and they don't. Yet, this guy had been very very honest about his feelings about this girl and everything, so publically as well. Well... respect to him.

It makes my heart cringe, cos if two people are so in love with each other, then they ought to be together! Speaking as a woman myself. I really don't think that any girl can turn off her emotions just like that, like a tap. Seriously. I guess it is down to her choice. Whether she does feel for him or not would be more clear a couple of months down the line...
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Old 19-01-2007, 01:31   #105
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Well, I think if the ex still have feelings for him, or have small doubts,
I guess small doubts says it all really....................
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Old 19-01-2007, 01:48   #106
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You just dunno with us womenfolk. We're crazy remember, and our hormones fly up and down in cycles.

Maybe if you caught the up cycle, all would be wonderful, but when its the down cycle. Ooo poostick. Hide under the cover!
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Old 19-01-2007, 11:18   #107
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I was actually meaning for the opposite reason K!
Ahhh ok.
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Old 20-01-2007, 11:18   #108
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Well, I think if the ex still have feelings for him, or have small doubts, but still have feelings, then I would encourage her to give him a second chance.

It's Sod's Law that... when we want our blokes to open up, and they don't. Yet, this guy had been very very honest about his feelings about this girl and everything, so publically as well. Well... respect to him.

It makes my heart cringe, cos if two people are so in love with each other, then they ought to be together! Speaking as a woman myself. I really don't think that any girl can turn off her emotions just like that, like a tap. Seriously. I guess it is down to her choice. Whether she does feel for him or not would be more clear a couple of months down the line...
Agreed.

You can't be with someone for however many months (almost 2 1/2 years in my case) and just turn your emotions off like a tap. I know I can't and haven't.

You have to both talk to each other and you have to both listen to each other in a relationship.

Give and take on BOTH sides.

No one person is EVER right all the time, much as they like to think they are. There's nothing wrong in admitting you're wrong or have made a mistake. If you love someone, you'll forgive them and not give it a second thought that they were wrong. Some people just can't seem to see that they can and do get things wrong tho.
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Old 27-01-2007, 23:07   #109
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Wonder how MTheo is.

Still wondering.
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Old 28-01-2007, 02:08   #110
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