parmo   10 #1 Posted January 15, 2010 Has anyone had the same thoughts about there partner,and if so why? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
vizsla   10 #2 Posted January 15, 2010 What has she done, does she drink alcohol or take drugs, we cannot really answer unless we know. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   574 #3 Posted January 15, 2010 This illness exhibits such a long list of disorders that its hard to give an opinion. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
parmo   10 #4 Posted January 15, 2010 Everything is my fault Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cgksheff   44 #5 Posted January 15, 2010 Recently, every time I go outside, I get confronted by a slipperipath. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Agent Orange   11 #6 Posted January 15, 2010 Out of the below, which is she guitly of:  Glibness and Superficial Charm   Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.   Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."   Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.   Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.   Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.   Incapacity for Love   Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.   Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.   Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.   Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.   Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.   Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.   Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.   Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.   Some of the above personality traits I recognise in previous partners Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
skinz   10 #7 Posted January 15, 2010 Everything is my fault  She's probably right. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Ghostrider   11 #8 Posted January 15, 2010 Out of the below, which is she guitly of: Glibness and Superficial Charm   Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.   Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."   Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.   Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.   Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.   Incapacity for Love   Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.   Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.   Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.   Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.   Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.   Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.   Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.   Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.   Some of the above personality traits I recognise in previous partners  Goddamn - im a sociopath Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
shortcrust   10 #9 Posted January 15, 2010 Recently, every time I go outside, I get confronted by a slipperipath.  :hihi: That made me laugh and laugh and laugh.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
millhouses24 Â Â 10 #10 Posted January 15, 2010 Has anyone had the same thoughts about there partner,and if so why? Â Darling, stop talking about me on a public forum. And you know when you patted your dog goodbye this morning? I hope you enjoyed it cause little Rover is making soup right now. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
parmo   10 #11 Posted January 15, 2010 Most of the below, "I do everything for you and you do nothing for me" She told someone i never give her any money,and when i asked her why she said it, she said "well, you dont" but i do! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
boyfriday   21 #12 Posted January 15, 2010 Recently, every time I go outside, I get confronted by a slipperipath.  :hihi: That made me laugh and laugh and laugh....  :hihi:  Me too, but I guess that's what happens when you walk all over her Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...