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  1. Weston park museum is lovely for children and there's a park next to it, and another next to that with a decent little playground. Or it's a short walk or bus ride from the museum into town and the winter gardens and milenium gallery are good on rainy days. The butterfly gardens are really great and an annual pass is money well spent imo.
  2. Caffeine is a stimulant, cannabis is a hallucinogen.
  3. He's grieving. There are no 'shoulds' about how he feels. No-one should ever be pressurised into sex, but a simple 'no, I am too upset to do that' is very different to accusing him of being wrong for wanting that sort of physical comfort at this time. Maybe he just wants to feel close to someone after losing someone so close. There's nothing more life affirming than sex with someone you love. Maybe he just needs to feel something other than pain.
  4. If your child is old enough to drink beer, he's old enough to decide whether or not to wear the shirt. If he's not, you need to look at your own actions and sort them out before you damage your child for life. Don't react to the shirt infront of him. It'll teach him 2 things. One, that he's a pawn in the middle of your argument. Two, that the divide you grew up with is an issue. Isn't it time to let it go?
  5. I'm looking to get between 3 and 4 rooms floorboards stripped back and varnished. There will be some patching to do. Can anyone recommend someone who does this well, please? Doing it myself isn't an option for health reasons. Thanks.
  6. Interesting question. If religious groups are seen as clubs, then they can make their own rules within the law and do what they like. If they're seen as providing a legal service by marrying people, then it should be classed as discrimination to refuse to marry divorced people or perform civil partnership ceremonies. I have no problem with churches making up their own rules within the law, but if they're performing legally binding services then they should be bound by discrimination laws. What I find amusing is when people claim their previous marriage didn't count because it wasn't performed in their chosen place of worship. They weren't 'married in God's eyes'. Which is odd because then they go on explain that God is everywhere.
  7. Playspace - good area with lots to do but easy to keep an eye on the kids, food healthy and good quality. Bit expensive though. Junglemania - huge area with loads to do. Big place to play ball games. Reasonably priced. Hard to keep an eye on tiny ones. Lots of climbing round after them! Tots to Tens - very good value, nice area for little ones, lots for older ones but smaller and parents don't have much room if they're sitting having a cuppa. Pirate Ship - Excellent for older ones. Huge space. Space Fun Zone - another big space with lots to do. Megakids - I like it there a lot. Only problem is that younger ones who are old enough to get over the soft barrier can get into the space for older ones - with a near vertical slide and a rope swing that goes quite fast. But there are extra activities some mornings where a drink and toast are included in the bargain price.
  8. I'm largely of the same opinion as Crayfish. People make life choices, relationships don't work and I get that and may find myself in that position one day, so there's no judgement placed on any of this. But for me, I wanted to be with someone who had never had the experience of having children with someone else and who had never made marriage vows to someone else and then broke them by splitting up.
  9. NOO! It doesn't sound like teeny is being in any way unrealistic. She says: 'although at times he does things i feel he shouldn't' and 'He may let me down' as well as saying that she trusts him completely, which suggests to me that she has a very healthy relationship, in that she knows he's not perfect and loves and trusts him absolutely. Which in my opinion is exactly the right balance. I trust my husband absolutely and completely. He's the kindest, warmest soul I've ever met. There are no rose coloured specks. He really is like that. He might screw up somewhere down the line, because people make mistakes, but I'm certainly not going to spend a single second contemplating that he'd ever hurt me, intentionally or otherwise.
  10. Beanies is just up the hill from the arts tower. It's a whole foods shop on Crookes valley road.
  11. The guy with the dog on the unicycle - is that you, drumstuck? Got to say, I've never seen anyone bump down stairs on a unicycle before, never mind with a dog on a lead. But I've seen that guy do it a few times and make it look very easy! Both my child and a friend have fallen on that path and grazed their hands. To be honest, they both kicked up much more of a fuss than they usually do and there was definite peeled skin rather than the usual scratches.
  12. Sorry. I realised after I'd posted that you might not have seen the update. This is why I think it's down to individual couples. If one partner doesn't like porn or objects to it on moral grounds, or if one is using it inappropriately (definition of which is also an individual thing) then it's up to the couple to work it out and isn't for other people to pass judgement on one way or the other.
  13. That's not abnormal. It works for you, so why would there be a problem? What isn't right is someone being on holiday with their partner, saying they were going to join them in the bath, but instead, sitting looking at porn THEN telling her to get lost if she's unhappy with that. It shows monumental disrespect to her and to their relationship. If the OP was happy to sit there with the bath water going cold, waiting for him to finish with his porn, then there wouldn't be a problem.
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