Redstripe

I don't know you so its not related to you as a person I was agreeing with your advice is all.

Good advice for you!

Bang on! that's my ex and his love of his own company

I had a Wickes one fitted last summer and i love it, was a mid price one as in you have to order it etc but not a silly price. Designed and fitted by the men at Rotherham wickes, i ripped it out myself and had my own plasterer and electrician who they worked with on timings of jobs.

From what you've said i'd just call it quits, you don't want the same things, you cheat on him and at least at this point you could both find someone else and enjoy your lives instead of plodding on but only you know what's best.

But that's the point, i don't stand in his way. It is not my job to make him turn up to his allotted contact times, I am not his mother, he is a grown up! and i can't talk to him even if i wanted to, he refuses to answer, i have to leave a message (yes he's that pathetic), he's deleted all his e mail accounts, blocked on fb etc.

Hmm probably not as i don't bother with him anymore, if i rang him i could probably persuade him to see them but why should i? as far as i'm concerned i'm irrelevant to his relationship with his sons. He should want to see them, he should make the effort. He knows where they live, he even has an order from the courts that he can see them 2hrs a week BUT he doesn't come.

Thanks, i know it probably wasn't easy to put that all down publicly as other people have contacted me privately instead. That has to be worse as your son had a bond with his Dad and then he was gone, at least mine have no idea who he is so don't know what they might be missing if that makes sense.

Lol its not now thanks, i met my ex/ the father of my kids on here which was a major mistake but its over now would just have all been very different if i hadn't wrote that first message.

Erm don't choose buying your house over your phD then also never write that first post on SF both of them would make my life totally different, don;t know if it would be better but i think the odds are way in my favour it would

My friend had it fir breast cancer and as above the most noticeable thing was tiredness, she kept all he hair etc just needed plenty of rest so all i can suggest is just don't make loads of plans so you have time to recover.

Only happens to me when i'm pregnant and luckily atm i'm not so free from the near vomiting scenario

I prefer less hair...Vin Diesel, Ross Kemp etc i think its more a confidence thing, men who choose to shave off their hair are to some degree breaking with convention and not hiding anything, well, except probably a balding spot lol Sexy is subjective though so there's no real yes or no answer

In a word NO! if a grown adult is so upset by a baby eating then they are able to move their eyes away or in fact themselves totally if they really are that weak. Its simple.

Been thinking lately that in the not too distant future my sons (2 1/2 year olds) will ask questions about why their father isn't around. Does anyone have any advice on what to say? he doesn't visit or ring, they wouldn't even recognise him on the street and have never even said the word daddy so i suppose we're an extreme case. I really just want them to know its not their fault but don't know how to explain Anyone in a similar situation but with older children?