This is an actual extract from a home economics book printed in the 1950s, 'The Good Wives Guide'.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper,etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal. Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems
Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. A good wife always KNOWS HER PLACE.

One word: stoneage.

I think that is totally preposterous :rant:
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It doesn't mention having his pipe and slippers ready! Really standards are slipping :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

I first saw this ages ago and thought then as I do now - if he earns loads of money and I can have an entire room to devote to my handbags - I'll do all of the above and more :)

The 50s? My mother didn't have a washer - & a dryer!!! unheard of. She used a boiler in the cellar and a mangle - she ended up with arms like a weightlifter. She had 3 children under 3. I can just imagine her reaction if dad complained that it wasn't a haven of peace and quiet.

Lol Mr H.P sent me this in an email the other week.. And the cheeky beggar had highlighted sections.. :hihi:

Those were the days when, according to my late father-in-law,"Men were men and women were glad of it":)

What excellent advice! This should be required reading for all women!

Even better, perhaps it could be made law? ;)

Originally posted by JonJParr
One word: stoneage.

Hmmm.... what's the divorce rate at the moment?

40% of all marriages breakup nowadays?

I wonder why........ :suspect:

Originally posted by Abdul
Hmmm.... what's the divorce rate at the moment?

40% of all marriages breakup nowadays?

I wonder why........ :suspect:

Not enough being "a little gay and little more interesting" perhaps ?

Is this the generation thats living its days out amongst us as todays pensioners?? God I cant believe how much things have changed, I wonder what it will be like when were old and what the young uns will be like then!! If it follows the same trend it might be something like this..

"Men, make sure your wife's dinner is cooked waiting for her at home with a smile as her day has been very hard.... "

Originally posted by Duffer
"Men, make sure your wife's dinner is cooked waiting for her at home with a smile as her day has been very hard.... "

I dread the day when science will allow men to carry children :D

:hihi: What reason would a man have to divorce his wife if she was like the robot described above?? And if the woman the robot above, she wouldn't be able to think independently enough to initiate a divorce.
If you want a slave, marry a slave = happy "marriage".
If men want a decent partner, then they have to stop holding onto the 50's, when women didn't work/have educations!


Originally posted by Abdul
Hmmm.... what's the divorce rate at the moment?

40% of all marriages breakup nowadays?

I wonder why........ :suspect:

Originally posted by nick2
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.


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anyway :) I remember finding a web site a few years ago that had 50's posters that advertised to 'housewives'. "try fanny's hot dripping muffins" or somesuch

Originally posted by Abdul
Hmmm.... what's the divorce rate at the moment?

40% of all marriages breakup nowadays?

I wonder why........ :suspect:

Simple answer Abdul, because they got married in the first place. Make divorce a thing of the past, don't get married. I would love to see all those greedy Solicitors go bankrupt.................... :thumbsup:

Originally posted by stars_gazing
:hihi: What reason would a man have to divorce his wife if she was like the robot described above??

Yep, that was the point I was trying to make, without sounding like a sexist pig :)

And if the woman the robot above, she wouldn't be able to think independently enough to initiate a divorce.

err.... your point being...?! ;)

If you want a slave, marry a slave = happy "marriage".
If men want a decent partner, then they have to stop holding onto the 50's, when women didn't work/have educations!

Call me old-fashioned if you will, but I prefer having a wife who stays at home nurturing our children... although I realise in these enlightened, progressive times of conspicuous consumption, widescreen televisions, multiple vehicle ownership, childcare costs and high house prices, this isn't always possible :help:

Originally posted by cloudybay
I would love to see all those greedy Solicitors go bankrupt.................... :thumbsup:

Cheeky madam :nono:

Those solicitors provide a vital servicve to the public, such as letting celebrities get away with crimes that would get ordinary peasants like us thrown in jail for a very long time.

If anyone is greedy, it's those airhead, gold-digging, 'women' who claim to strike a blow for sisterhood by landing a rich husband, then screwing him (!) for everything they can, along with a couple of nice holiday homes and a six-figure annual maintenance charge, for manicure and hairtrims :rant:

Like this (http://www.divorceuk.com/pages/casestudies/parlour.php) one

Originally posted by Abdul
Call me old-fashioned if you will, but I prefer having a wife who stays at home nurturing our children... although I realise in these enlightened, progressive times of conspicuous consumption, widescreen televisions, multiple vehicle ownership, childcare costs and high house prices, this isn't always possible :help:

That is old-fashioned Abdul. I would prefer the option of letting my wife choose rather than forcing her into something that I wanted.

Originally posted by Zenmaster
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anyway :) I remember finding a web site a few years ago that had 50's posters that advertised to 'housewives'. "try fanny's hot dripping muffins" or somesuch

almost as good as the classic line uttered by Johnny Craddock after Fanny had just shown you how to make donuts - "Hopefully your donuts will look like Fannys"

Originally posted by Abdul
I dread the day when science will allow men to carry children :D

If this ever happens im sure we wont make as much fuss over it as women do, i mean how painful can it be?

:D

Originally posted by Duffer
If this ever happens im sure we wont make as much fuss over it as women do, i mean how painful can it be?

:D

According to Vera Duckworth (she of Coronation Street noteriety), if men had to endure childbirth, 'it would be the end of the world'!

(or maybe she was talking about period pains) :blush:

Originally posted by Duffer
If this ever happens im sure we wont make as much fuss over it as women do, i mean how painful can it be?

:D

So can I take it you'll be first in the queue to give it a go, Duffer?

Good man! :D

StarSparkle

Originally posted by Abdul
Those solicitors provide a vital servicve to the public, such as letting celebrities get away with crimes that would get ordinary peasants like us thrown in jail for a very long time.

If anyone is greedy, it's those airhead, gold-digging, 'women' who claim to strike a blow for sisterhood by landing a rich husband, then screwing him (!) for everything they can, along with a couple of nice holiday homes and a six-figure annual maintenance charge, for manicure and hairtrims :rant:



Spot on Abdul. I rest my case. Strange how in these days of equality, some money grabbing folk think it's OK for their ex to continue to pay for the roof over their head, the food they put in their mouths and the designer clothes they put on their backs. I call it theft, bit like income tax really, but what do I know? :)

Okay after Nick's original post, this has become fairly dull and serious. People have pointed out the ridiculously outdated 1950's concept of how a woman should behave and yes it's true times have changed and things have moved on. Today we increasingly see THE WOMAN of the house go out to work while her spouse takes care of the domestic chores. In recognition of this remarkable volte face and to bring some balance to this thread, please find the below tips for the modern man on how to 'keep house'.


MODERN HOUSE HUSBANDRY

To the staunch gentleman of leisure, this situation can be of more benefit than it sounds. Within the bond of Holy Matrimony, we will be permitted to spend the entire day abandoning ourselves to the muse (while the muse herself goes out and earns a crust), giving full vent to the artistic creations that well within us like a dormant Vesuvius.
However, take heed. As the day draws to a close, you can expect your beloved to arrive home after a hard day on mammon's exercise wheel, and it is at this juncture that you must lay your notebook/harpsichord/tapestry aside and devote your attentions to her comfort. Here is a step-by-step guide to maintaining a happy modern marital home.

1. First of all, prepare yourself for her homecoming. Refresh yourself, wash off any stains you may have incurred during the day, and perhaps put a clean tie on. Be a little gay and interesting to your wife, for she will have spent the entire day with dull, ambitious people. Take her mind away from office politics by reading her a fragment of verse, plucking her a song on your lyre, or dancing a merry jig around her as she tries to barge past you into the nuptial home with her bulging briefcase.

2. Have a large, stiff drink ready as soon as she walks through the door. Take large draughts of it as you listen raptly to her account of her day. Perhaps even offer her a drink herself, if she feels like one. Many women are quite hungry when arriving home from work, so this might be a good time to enquire about dinner. If your wife's proposed menu is to your satisfaction, then you might want to help her put the apron on. If it is not, then this would be a good time to begin perusing the drawerful of takeaway menus in the kitchen.

3. Over dinner, speak in a low and soothing voice and listen carefully to your wife's conversation. Let her speak first, for her topics of conversation are much more important than yours. Remember, she is the mistress of the house and will ultimately be responsible for the utility bills and so forth, so it is probably wise to keep on the right side of her. As soon as the meal is over, offer to make an appraisal of the evening's televisual offerings while she washes the dishes. This will give her a sense of being cared for and nurtured.

4. Never complain if your wife comes home late or extremely drunk. This is normal in the world of business, and probably means
she will soon be up for promotion - which is good news for you in the long run. Even if she neglects to come home at all until the following day, looking tired and dishevelled, count this as a positive benefit for the future of the household; expect a few generous gifts during the next few days.

5. The key to enjoying the few shared hours you have together, as a result of your wife's professional commitments, is to include her in every activity - even the ones you would normally consider out of bounds for the ladies. For example, when you settle down on your Turkish cushions with the nozzle of your hookah firmly set between your teeth, you might ask her to read you a bedtime story. Saki is always a good choice, or perhaps something by Edgar Allan Poe if the fancy takes you. As the Lebanese hashish takes its effect, your wife will gaze at you affectionately and plump up the cushions around your head, feeling that her long day at the office was all worth it.

6. When it comes to bedtime, your wife will need several minutes in the bathroom to lovelify herself for the boudoir. Make this easier for her by not making her wait too long outside the bathroom while you apply your hair net and de-wax your moustache. As every gentleman knows, these nocturnal grooming procedures can take up to an hour, so reward your wife for her patience by planting a mouthwash-enlivened kiss on her forehead as you relinquish the bathroom.

7. When it comes to intimate relations with your wife, it is important to remember that the modern lady has quite radical views on the matter. In all things be led by her wishes and wait for her to make the first move. If you're lucky, she will simply fall asleep as soon as she gets into bed, and you can settle back into a pleasant eight hours in the arms of Morpheus. Should your wife suggest congress, however, then accede humbly, all the while being mindful that the woman's satisfaction is more important than the man's. When she reaches her moment of fulfilment, a small moan from yourself is encouraging, and quite sufficient to indicate any enjoyment you may have had. Should your wife suggest any of the more unusual sexual practices, leap out of bed and give her a brief illustrated lecture on the dangers of syphilis and gonnorhoea. It is likely that your wife will fall promptly asleep immediately after lovemaking. This would be a good time to set the alarm clock for her, and put on a sturdy pair of earmuffs so it doesn't wake you up in the morning.

8. Preparations for the morning's breakfast should ideally be made the night before. This means that your wife will not have to be doing with such things first thing in the morning. When you arise, some four hours after she has left for the office, it makes a pleasant start to the afternoon to find a tray in the kitchen with teapot, cup, saucer, jug of milk, and a casserole full of fresh kedgeree in the oven.

Now that's a bit fairer isn't it everybody :hihi: :hihi:

Originally posted by JonJParr
That is old-fashioned Abdul. I would prefer the option of letting my wife choose rather than forcing her into something that I wanted.

This is an interesting point. Some sociologists believe that Western society (for want of a better term) is doing something of a backflip where women are increasingly returning to the home - not because they HAVE to as in the past, but because they WANT to.

It's not all sunshine and roses, though. Whereas in the 50s women were frowned upon for going out to work instead of tending to the home, women who now choose to stay at home are being frowned upon because apparently it means they have no drive, no ambition, no willingness to succeed - just because they are not out there working 80 hour weeks in an attempt to get to the top of every career ladder possible. Us girls can't win!!

As a 21 year old woman halfway through a university degree, I can't wait to get out in the work force and be the best that I can be in my chosen profession (communications/PR). However, I am also so excited at the prospect of having kids when the time is right and taking the necessary time out of my career to stay at home and raise them. If that means spending a few years at home being my husband's 'little woman' then I'm perfectly happy to do that! :)

Originally posted by daverity
Okay after Nick's original post, this has become fairly dull and serious. People have pointed out the ridiculously outdated 1950's concept of how a woman should behave and yes it's true times have changed and things have moved on. Today we increasingly see THE WOMAN of the house go out to work while her spouse takes care of the domestic chores. In recognition of this remarkable volte face and to bring some balance to this thread, please find the below tips for the modern man on how to 'keep house'.


MODERN HOUSE HUSBANDRY

To the staunch gentleman of leisure, this situation can be of more benefit than it sounds. Within the bond of Holy Matrimony, we will be permitted to spend the entire day abandoning ourselves to the muse (while the muse herself goes out and earns a crust), giving full vent to the artistic creations that well within us like a dormant Vesuvius.
However, take heed. As the day draws to a close, you can expect your beloved to arrive home after a hard day on mammon's exercise wheel, and it is at this juncture that you must lay your notebook/harpsichord/tapestry aside and devote your attentions to her comfort. Here is a step-by-step guide to maintaining a happy modern marital home.

1. First of all, prepare yourself for her homecoming. Refresh yourself, wash off any stains you may have incurred during the day, and perhaps put a clean tie on. Be a little gay and interesting to your wife, for she will have spent the entire day with dull, ambitious people. Take her mind away from office politics by reading her a fragment of verse, plucking her a song on your lyre, or dancing a merry jig around her as she tries to barge past you into the nuptial home with her bulging briefcase.

2. Have a large, stiff drink ready as soon as she walks through the door. Take large draughts of it as you listen raptly to her account of her day. Perhaps even offer her a drink herself, if she feels like one. Many women are quite hungry when arriving home from work, so this might be a good time to enquire about dinner. If your wife's proposed menu is to your satisfaction, then you might want to help her put the apron on. If it is not, then this would be a good time to begin perusing the drawerful of takeaway menus in the kitchen.

3. Over dinner, speak in a low and soothing voice and listen carefully to your wife's conversation. Let her speak first, for her topics of conversation are much more important than yours. Remember, she is the mistress of the house and will ultimately be responsible for the utility bills and so forth, so it is probably wise to keep on the right side of her. As soon as the meal is over, offer to make an appraisal of the evening's televisual offerings while she washes the dishes. This will give her a sense of being cared for and nurtured.

4. Never complain if your wife comes home late or extremely drunk. This is normal in the world of business, and probably means
she will soon be up for promotion - which is good news for you in the long run. Even if she neglects to come home at all until the following day, looking tired and dishevelled, count this as a positive benefit for the future of the household; expect a few generous gifts during the next few days.

5. The key to enjoying the few shared hours you have together, as a result of your wife's professional commitments, is to include her in every activity - even the ones you would normally consider out of bounds for the ladies. For example, when you settle down on your Turkish cushions with the nozzle of your hookah firmly set between your teeth, you might ask her to read you a bedtime story. Saki is always a good choice, or perhaps something by Edgar Allan Poe if the fancy takes you. As the Lebanese hashish takes its effect, your wife will gaze at you affectionately and plump up the cushions around your head, feeling that her long day at the office was all worth it.

6. When it comes to bedtime, your wife will need several minutes in the bathroom to lovelify herself for the boudoir. Make this easier for her by not making her wait too long outside the bathroom while you apply your hair net and de-wax your moustache. As every gentleman knows, these nocturnal grooming procedures can take up to an hour, so reward your wife for her patience by planting a mouthwash-enlivened kiss on her forehead as you relinquish the bathroom.

7. When it comes to intimate relations with your wife, it is important to remember that the modern lady has quite radical views on the matter. In all things be led by her wishes and wait for her to make the first move. If you're lucky, she will simply fall asleep as soon as she gets into bed, and you can settle back into a pleasant eight hours in the arms of Morpheus. Should your wife suggest congress, however, then accede humbly, all the while being mindful that the woman's satisfaction is more important than the man's. When she reaches her moment of fulfilment, a small moan from yourself is encouraging, and quite sufficient to indicate any enjoyment you may have had. Should your wife suggest any of the more unusual sexual practices, leap out of bed and give her a brief illustrated lecture on the dangers of syphilis and gonnorhoea. It is likely that your wife will fall promptly asleep immediately after lovemaking. This would be a good time to set the alarm clock for her, and put on a sturdy pair of earmuffs so it doesn't wake you up in the morning.

8. Preparations for the morning's breakfast should ideally be made the night before. This means that your wife will not have to be doing with such things first thing in the morning. When you arise, some four hours after she has left for the office, it makes a pleasant start to the afternoon to find a tray in the kitchen with teapot, cup, saucer, jug of milk, and a casserole full of fresh kedgeree in the oven.

Now that's a bit fairer isn't it everybody :hihi: :hihi:
Great post Daverity. One small tip though...............less of the stain washing in Para 1 might lead to a more interesting Para 7 ................. :D :D :D

Its all a bit Stepford Wives isn't it?

That's what I thought... I can't believe there are still women who *aspire* to be housewives... If a boy told people he aspired to be a househusband, people would mock the thought out of him. Why is it ok for girls?

Originally posted by Batspice
Its all a bit Stepford Wives isn't it?

Originally posted by StarSparkle
So can I take it you'll be first in the queue to give it a go, Duffer?

Good man! :D

StarSparkle

ok ok i might have been a bit rash :D theres no need to start throwing suggestions like that one around StarSparkle lol

Haha! Theres nothing wrong with staying at home to look after the children - but these parts are a bit cuckoo:


Originally posted by nick2
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. A good wife always KNOWS HER PLACE.

Originally posted by stars_gazing
That's what I thought... I can't believe there are still women who *aspire* to be housewives... If a boy told people he aspired to be a househusband, people would mock the thought out of him. Why is it ok for girls?

Don't be so judgemental - lots of women stay at home to look after their children because they want to. Bringing up children is (I'm led to believe) one of the most rewarding things you can do. Who are you to tell people what they should aspire to?

http://www.snopes.com/language/document/goodwife.htm

not to be a bore, but its a little unlikely eyyy

Originally posted by nick2
This is an actual extract from a home economics book printed in the 1950s, 'The Good Wives Guide'.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper,etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal. Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems
Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. A good wife always KNOWS HER PLACE. it should be on every wedding licence :D

Originally posted by depoix
it should be on every wedding licence :D

DON NOTE: Here Here!! :hihi:

Is this an attempt to start an argument? As my quote where I said, "I can't believe there are still women who *aspire* to be housewives" was actually in the reply you posted... I still can't. Imo it's pathetic. More so, if she has an education. Life is too short. There are so many things to experience and I think that just staying at home to look after the children is a cop-out. These are my opinions and I am entitled to them, just as you are entitled to yours. Note: I did not mention 'bringing up children' (I firmly believe that you can both work and raise your children) - I was talking about 'housewives'.
In addition, it does not set a good example for their children. I have never heard anyone call their housewife mother their role-model. That is just how I feel.

Originally posted by kathythebean
Don't be so judgemental - lots of women stay at home to look after their children because they want to. Bringing up children is (I'm led to believe) one of the most rewarding things you can do. Who are you to tell people what they should aspire to?

:suspect:



i bet a man wrote that

This is an actual extract from a home economics book printed in the 1950s, 'The Good Wives Guide'.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper,etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal. Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems
Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. A good wife always KNOWS HER PLACE.

You have taken this too fAR.

I`m an oldie but I never saw any household like that described, not even close. Is there anyone on SF who does recall such a set up?

This is an actual extract from a home economics book printed in the 1950s, 'The Good Wives Guide'.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper,etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal. Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems
Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. A good wife always KNOWS HER PLACE.

someone who has that much time to write that is obviously someone who is lonley and hates men and uses a rabbit but a lot sad

I wonder whatever happened to Abdul? Long time no see.

ive just read some of the other posts and realised the poster is a beaten wife who is now in a hostel claiming benifits and spreading the word that all men are bad and dont hoover up

someone who has that much time to write that is obviously someone who is lonley and hates men and uses a rabbit but a lot sad

Things may well have changed for the OP, who started this thread in December 2005.

I think its a bit of give and teck on both sides. My Husband helps me with the washing up, dusting and hoovering and he still does after 36yrs of been married. I still say tho whats his is mine and whats mine is mine.

ive just read some of the other posts and realised the poster is a beaten wife who is now in a hostel claiming benifits and spreading the word that all men are bad and dont hoover up

Are we talking about Nick2 here? If so you couldn't be further from the truth.

Are we talking about Nick2 here? If so you couldn't be further from the truth.

That assumption made me titter! I wonder if Nick2's seen it yet. :o

remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

I cracked up reading that. And I'm a bloke.

I take exception to the idea of "encouraging" children to be quiet. Boxing the ears and a lecture on being seen and not heard is more in order, surely?