Well, she's not a complete stranger. I work with her, although our paths don't cross all that often.

When I first started working at my current location, I was a little spellbound by this girl. Since then, she sort of disappeared off the scale and faded into obscurity. However, I've since got to know her a little more, and I can't stop thinking about her.

I saw that you guys were very good (nay, excellent!) at helping out people in similar situations, and I thought: "I gotta get me some o'that! That kinda advice looks miiiighty fiiiiine!"

Seriously though, any advice would be appreciated enormously :D

Hiya Pilon..... I know where you are coming from. What a feeling it is to love someone. Take your time in approaching Her.... I mean dont be full on or make it plain you are available.... we are all animals and we love the chase and women loved to be wooed as do we all.

It is Christmas soon..... maybe you might be able to get together a bit closer at a work do?..... if not just be very interested in what she has to say and talk about Her, too many fellas want to talk about themselves..... leave the asking out for a while ( days not weeks ) and then suggest you get together for a drink sometime but put no time on the get together..... She will respond with your answer.... I hope!

Dont be disappointed if She finds someone else though.... it happens to us all but we all end up happy ( in the ideal world )
and I'm sure you will too no matter what.

When you do meet Her in more affectionate circumstances and it seems mutual.... dont be afraid to tell Her your true feelings.... She will respect you.

get in there before someone else does let her know your interested dont stand on the side lines

Play it cool man, Women like that.Treat em mean,keeps em keen !:thumbsup:

Originally posted by pattricia
Play it cool man, Women like that.Treat em mean,keeps em keen !:thumbsup:

Buy em no shoes and theyll never leave ya :D

OK - time for an update. If you're not up to speed, then read above.

Tonight was our work Christmas party. I didn't get too drunk, but I found out / accomplished a number of things. Here's the concise list:

1) Me and "The Object Of My Desire" (henceforth known as TOOMD) have been subject to a rather strict regime of matchmaking over the past seven days.

2) TOOMD has expressed an interest in me, although she was more keen on me months ago than she is now.

3) TOOMD is currently single.

4) I accquired the phone number of TOOMD.

5) TOOMD is one of the purest people on the planet. Not only is she lovely, but she has the sense to preserve her beauty, and in the strictist possible way. TOOMD is pure in the purest sense of the word; she is untouched and uncontaminated in every way.

6) TOOMD, after originally wanting to catch a taxi with me (and a few other people), did an about turn and left with a rather dashing manager from the firm (along with a few other people). who has spent the evening flirting with her. (Please take into account point 5, but nonetheless it is a little disheartening.)

Forumers, your words please. I implore you.

oh it all started off so well! to me it sounds like she did llike you a lot, but cos you didnt make a move she thought you werent interested, maybe the dashing manager was more forthright with his feelings? anyway i think you should ask her out NOW before its too late! :thumbsup: keep updating!

i feel a ban coming on

Originally posted by mattyuk1
i feel a ban coming on

Take the tablets and lie down. :D

I think the dashing manager may have beaten you too it. She has admitted to liking you but that has cooled for whatever reason.

Your number 4/. is the main thing. Time to stop pussy footing around now Pilon, just give her a call and ask her on a date.

Let us know how you get on.

dont bother mate, if she is purer than snow she sounds boring!!
get yourself a naughty girl :heyhey:

lol i like how the update is set up like a legal document henceforth know as TOOMD

Text her, drunkenly if need be. In fact, send a text to her 'by mistake' addressed to one of your friends saying how much you like her but how you find it hard to communicate directly because you're not sure if she likes you back and don't want to embarrass yourself / put yourself in line for rejection (worked for me once, although that actually was a mistake).

For pity's sake- either summon up the courage to say something and risk the few minute's worth of embarrassment that that will entail, or accept that other people will talk to her and you may lose your chance.

If she's as beautiful as you say then there will surely be other people who think the same of her as you do, and if they speak up before you do then you probably won't like the consequences.

If she didn't think you were interested then of course she's going to consider other people. It's up to you to make the choice and SAY SOMETHING. Oh, and by the way, MAKE IT GOOD!

Originally posted by Preacher Man
get yourself a naughty girl :heyhey: :wave: :thumbsup: someone call? :heyhey:

Tis the time of year for Christmas cheer,
A wine, some Brandy or even a beer.
A time where that work crush,
can be given a further push.

What you forget Pilon is December is the time of the office party,
A time where drinks flow free and the food is hearty.
So wash off the office photo copier, unlock the stationary room,
Next thing you know, they will be calling you the groom.


Good luck.