hi

i really need some advice -

i girl chatted me up the other night and asked me out -
i said yes and we arranged to meet on saturday
we went out saturday night and had a really good time - anyhow i went back hers and we had s*x when we were drunk and again in the morning when sober - anyhow after the second time she turned away from me and when i asked her what was wrong she said she felt awkward - she then got up and when i asked her why she felt bad she said because of her x who had been texting her on saturday night - she then drove me home

they had finished a while ago - she finished with him but he is still into her - actually she was a bit 'cold' with me all morning before we had s*x for the 2nd time

anyhow, she sent me a text later on the sunday saying thanks for a good time - i replied saying i had a good time too -

my question is - what do i do now? i want to see her again as i really like her but i'm so confused - should i text her again and ask her out for a drink or does it sound like she wants rid of me - is she on the re-bound?? she finished with him and insisted that she definately doen't want to go out with him again - i do believe that actually but why was she so cold then had s*x with me and then cold again and then why bother sending me a text later in the day to say thanks for a 'really good night' and i know that she fancies - fancied me

*confused* :0(

Leave it as a one nights stand!

wot i suggest is: u leave it up to her! then wen she does text/ring u, you will feel wanted! if u get wot i mean.

she will contact you i am sure!

so hang on in there luv!

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Leave it as a one nights stand!

well yea maybe i should but it's rare i meet someone i wanna be with - am bored of randoms

you think i should leave it then sammy?? and wait for her thing is she was really assertive - she asked me out - she arranged to meet on saturday - all down to her - maybe she doesn't think i'm that bothered and my 'reputation' preceeds me, reputation based on a throwaway comment by someone by the way

i do want her to know i like her - maybe that put her off that i didn't seem THAT bothered - but i'm a bloke - that's what we do

You know the girl a lot better than us - do whatever you think's best. If it turns out to be a bad decision - well you'll know for the next time :P
(PS - beware of pyscho exes)

he is a psycho apparently!

but that's ok i'm 'ard! :0)

Originally posted by moimoi
he is a psycho apparently!

but that's ok i'm 'ard! :0)
LOL...... can't beat a bit of modesty young man :P

Just send her a short, non-clingy, non-whining text letting her know you're interested and then do nothing, let her come to you.

"Hi <insert her name>, Hope you're ok. Just letting you know I enjoyed it at the weekend and would love to do it again sometime. Let me know if you fancy it. <insert your name>.

GazB that's actually exactly what i was thinking of doing!!!!!!

think i just needed someone to confirm that

thanks mate!

yeah u shud send her a text like that or exactly like that! (wot gazb wrote)

u either leave it up to her because u sed she is assertive or u take the lead and let her know u are there if she wants u!

well thats all have to offer!

xx

Originally posted by Sammy
yeah u shud send her a text like that or exactly like that! (wot gazb wrote)

u either leave it up to her because u sed she is assertive or u take the lead and let her know u are there if she wants u!

well thats all have to offer!

xx

and what you have to offer just about sums it up nicely
cheers guys

i'll keep you posted on how i get on!

Originally posted by moimoi

i'll keep you posted on how i get on!
That wont be necessary, we weren't that interested anyway :P

















Just jestin mate, I can't help it... the sarcasm just emerges from nowhere

Originally posted by DaBouncer
That wont be necessary, we weren't that interested anyway :P
Just jestin mate, I can't help it... the sarcasm just emerges from nowhere


thats not very nice! we shud all share probs on here!

lol

Welcome to the Sheffield Forum Agony Aunt page...

yup i'd be cynical too but i'm not gonna ask my mates - they'd think i was soft!!

and what you've written has genuinely helped ... well hopefully!

RING her and TELL her what you want to say instead of texting and wrtiting....People seem to have lost the art of conversation nowadays...thats the easy way out!!

Originally posted by wibbles
....People seem to have lost the art of conversation nowadays...

Tell me about it.
http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=6889

I wonder if they're happily married now......

I wonder if they're happily married now......

its been 4 weeks since his last post on this thread, maybe the crazy ex got him:hihi:

its been 4 weeks since his last post on this thread, maybe the crazy ex got him:hihi:

3 years and 4 weeks!

ask her out again for another date.. and leave it at that a date, charm her.. she'll come running.. why do people have sex on the 1st date? are they easy? let the sexuall tension build up, that way its more fun and both parties enjoy it more..

in my opinion anyway

she's play-acting, it amuses her probably to have you on call

I wonder if things worked out for them :rolleyes: they could even be married by now :hihi:

I thought I was having deja vu for a minute there :hihi: - I remember the thread from the first time round! :D

They've probably got about 3 kids by now.... :suspect:

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