ello i need a little pick me up!

i am still not over my ex and it is hurting! we occasionally see each other and wen we do we end up in bed! but it means more to me than him!

so i need some external advice!

'Wot the hell do i do?'

thanxs!

think you need to gte over him hun!
go out on girls nights out, that sort you out!
hope it helps

Without wanting to sound to unsympathetic, it's hardly General Sheffield Chat is it!

I've been in that situation, but obviously as the guy i'd say he cant find anyone else, so he's using you till he can.

Get rid of him, blank him out of your life and, if you want to, go find another fella!

It'll make him jealous and he'll hate it, cos at the moment he just thinks you really need him and that he's got you wrapped around his little finger. Make him realise that's not the way things are! Its the best in the long run.

Sammy,

You know he is just using you cos he's getting it on aplate don't you?:( Sorry for being so blunt but i am a guy and have i am ashamed to say done this too.

Your best bet is to stop seeing him or if that is difficult because of your friends/where you hang out. You need to stop the physical stuff or yer never gonna get over him and move on and get another bloke.

Hes getting what he wants and your taking it as a green light that he still cares a little. Do you think he will be intersted in you as soon as he meets someone else? Me thinks not.

I checked out a piccie of you, so your not gonna be short of guys sweetie!:thumbsup:

thanx i shall try!

wot i need to do is find a nice guy and have fun!

any one out there!
lol

slimsid2000 is looking to meet a girl. Why don't you PM him???

I feel like Cilla :D

Sammy,

Jumping in to bed with this guy is not going to help you move on.
You are just making it harder for yourself. I know it is hard to make yourself NOT meet up with a person whom you still love BUT I guarantee if you can refuse him that first time...then subsequent times become much easier. Your getting naked with this guy whenever suits HIM is not going to earn you any respect. In fact, I think he may think that you are nothing more than an easy lay. Be strong...say no once and you will feel so proud of yourself, hell, you may even laugh inside, and you will slowly find it easier to withdraw from this guy! Good luck!

NO SEX WITH YOUR EX - it's most important bit of information a welshman has ever given me!

Originally posted by jackthedog
Without wanting to sound to unsympathetic, it's hardly General Sheffield Chat is it!

Agreed, so moved.

we occasionally see each other and wen we do we end up in bed! but it means more to me than him!

Sex with the ex is a definate no-no! Go out with your girly mates, have a laugh...

I think people have already covered this but this little phrase has stuck with me - shag on tap!

Leave him the hell alone and perhaps all men for a while. To get into a cycle of dependancy on anyone is a dodgy one and can lead to loosers.

So my perscription for this is a long hot soak a pile of chocolate and a night out with the girls - not neceserily in that order

Moon

Sammy,

Why don't you go along to the next Forum meetup at the Classic Rock Bar on March 21st....you never know there may be someone there for your!!

The whole ex thing is a minefield and one I'm sure there's a bunch of people are sitting here and going.. "Oh lord... :loopy: time"

But yeah... avoid the whole bed jumping thing... it saps your self respect and it's just use and abuse... possibly short term feel good but it won't help you get over things.

Ironically I really would recommend getting out, having a laugh.. learn to enjoy your own company, that of friends and just forgetting the whole "relationship" thing for a while...

T'is a LOT easier said than done... but in the long run... well worth it...

Oh it sounds so familiar.
MOVE ON!
Well that's my advice and from someone that's been there too. Don't deny yourself the chance to meet the right person. It took me 40 years and about a 100 of the guys like yours. I met my husband at 39 and married a year later. Sounds so cliche but yes mum was right. Mr Right IS out there. Just go looking. It may take a while I can tell ya.
;)

Originally posted by max
Agreed, so moved.

Even better, how about moving it altogether - possibly Claire Rayner or a similar agony aunt would be more suitable?

you didnt by any chance go out with a bloke on saturday night and hav s*x with him and then again on sunday morning did you? and then drove him home.

Just wondering.

she cant drive!! learning

why the question

Originally posted by kittykat
you didnt by any chance go out with a bloke on saturday night and hav s*x with him and then again on sunday morning did you? and then drove him home.

Just wondering.
i cant drive so no!

i went to kingdom friday night and he picked me up out side kingdom then we went to a hotel!

why u ask?

ha ha! :D Don't be so worried.. it was to do with this thread:

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=7570

:thumbsup:

I got the connection, Kitty... :)

whats the connection?
i cant see it

Originally posted by GazB
ha ha! :D Don't be so worried.. it was to do with this thread:

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=7570

:thumbsup:
so it anit got nothin to do wiv me?

i am confused! enlighten me plz!

lol

it's not rocket science......

im just askin!

i am not sure wot he was on about!

Originally posted by fnkysknky
it's not rocket science......
I know... which is why I don't understand... :P

Ahhh, being that the link above points to the wrong thread then it wouldn't make sense. It should have been http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=7563 - at least I think it should :)

SO U THOUGHT I WAS DAT GIRL HE WOZ ON ABOUT????

Originally posted by fnkysknky
Ahhh, being that the link above points to the wrong thread then it wouldn't make sense. It should have been http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=7563 - at least I think it should :)
So, it's not a case of rocket science but ESP :P

Excuse me while I laugh my a** off at the total fubar there... :loopy: :thumbsup:

Oops.. You're right I did post the wrong link. I knew which I meant but I forgot who posted it and couldn't be bothered reading them again!

Originally posted by Martin_s
So, it's not a case of rocket science but ESP :P

Excuse me while I laugh my a** off at the total fubar there... :loopy: :thumbsup:

Ooooh maybe I'm psychic............ :D