What is the first thing that you notice about somebody when you meet them for the first time?

Excluding anything they may say, I always look at their teeth and their shoes. Both should be well brushed and gleaming.

Can't stand it when people buy new shoes and never ever put polish on them.

Their eyes.

I study their eyes and make sure proper eye-contact is kept.

The eyes ... you can tell the most about a person thru eye contact.

eyes and hair.. people tell me that my eyes are the first thing they notice and it is the first thing i look at on other people i guess.

The eyes have it!

Most definitely the eyes, all sparkly and twinkly hehe mmmm...
...then there's the cheeky smile too!!

*goes off into a dream world* haha

their eyes and the way they behaviour when they are talking

Eyes, every time. The window to the soul.

Originally posted by segasonic
Eyes, every time. The window to the soul.

I'll back that! If you consider someone with mirrored sunglasses on, you can't tell what they're really thinking. The eyes reveal so much about someone through expression. And they're pretty too.

The eyes, they never lie.

I'm gonna have to go with eyes and shoes.

The eyes is an obvious one, but I think the shoes you wear say a great deal about you. Is that shallow?

There underwear you tend to have to use you imagination most of the time…..oh and you've got to try not to stair and drool that only invites trouble…… ;)

Obviously us men are infatuated with the qualities of a womans eyes. We lose ourselves looking longingly into them... then, when she looks away, we check out their tits and bits! :D

Originally posted by Zamo
Obviously us men are infatuated with the qualities of a womans eyes. We lose ourselves looking longingly into them... then, when she looks away, we check out their tits and bits! :D

And get caught every single time.

But you don't always get called on it. They tell their mates afterwards. ;)

It's an eyes thing with me too, but I like to look at the face as a whole. I like a nice mouth and a good smile, and nice hair too. :)

I agree with satan :thumbsup: eyes and hair! The more mischevious the eyes the better (especially if they happen to be adorned with eyeliner!!!!!! *swoon*) and the crazier the hair the better, Mmmmmmmmmmmmm dreadlocks :P :P :P :P :P
Personality wise, CRAZY!!! need lively crazy people cos they bring out the lively craziness in me! :headbang: :thumbsup:
xxx

Ooooohhh....well said Moshy !!

First thing I'd notice would definitely be the hair...if it's long dark and sexy I would definitely take a second glance! :D







(Jovi...MMMM)

It's an eyes thing with me too, but I like to look at the face as a whole. I like a nice mouth and a good smile, and nice hair too.

I look at the face as a whole too, cant beat a nice friendly face :thumbsup:

They say.....(and who 'They' are I do not know)...that men prefer girls with big almond eyes, whilst girls prefer men with small, piercing eyes. Eyes are definitely the first thing you notice. I find myself attracted to certain face shapes. I personally don't go for the long, lean kind of faces but prefer a more oval or heart shape on my man. Hair isn't so important...as long as they aren't a Tefal head (sorry to all you Tefals!) nor am I bothered about a perfect set of teeth. In fact, one of the nicest smiles I have ever seen was on a guy who had a manky tooth, just right of centre. For some reason this tooth made his whole face light up and shine when he smiled. He had it corrected and filled and lost his 'je ne sais quoi' altogether. I used to love watching him smile. I like nice lips too! Sizing them up for a smooch! I HATE muscley men and I am not too partial to stick thin men...but I would rather have a stick thin man than a man with bulging muscles. Not too fussy am I?

Babooshka, ya yaaaaaa. ;) [/kate bush]

Glad to hear someone who isn't obsessive about guys with the 'perfect hollywood smile' cos not all of us have that and it always makes me feel rather self conscious about my crooked top right incisor. What can ya do eh? Short of having it straightened, (which I can't afford) not alot. Just grin and bear it. :D

I tend to go for medium build girls so after the eyes it's usually the face as a whole, then the build. I don't like waif-like girls as I'm worried about breaking them. I'm not exactly skinny as those who've met me will agree so I like a balanced weight ratio between the two of us. A tall (ish) girl with a cheeky/warm smile, around size 12-16 is good for me. Personality counts for a hell of alot though. :)

Hey Paulie, don't go worrying about that tooth. I don't know ANY girl who would give a toss about something like that. The types that WOULD care are probs so vain and false themselves, that even THEY don't know who the real 'they' are anymore. People have such ideas about 'perfection' and its' definition. Why should a set of bleached-white, straight teeth be considered perfect? It isn't natural in the majority of cases. I like natural. I like people who don't rely on trying to look a certain way to attract people. Everyone is so false these days. Give me a guy who can make me laugh and has enthusiasm for life ANY day! You can keep all those people who hide behind an image, a facade. I like someone who is REAL!!!

Ive got a slightly crooked left incisor :( from an accident when I was younger :(

Originally posted by starchild
Ooooohhh....well said Moshy !!

First thing I'd notice would definitely be the hair...if it's long dark and sexy I would definitely take a second glance! :D

(Jovi...MMMM)
Jovi hardly has dark hair now does he :P

Eyes, hair, smile :D

Johnny Depp.......
Beautiful dark brown eyes *drool* and that hair in "Pirates...." I know it was only a wig but Woof!
I like crazy hair what can I say! :thumbsup:

and Starry! do you realise Ive been downloading Bon Jovi stuff because of you! you little minx :wink:
xxx

Originally posted by Mosherchik
Johnny Depp.......
Beautiful dark brown eyes *drool* and that hair in "Pirates...." I know it was only a wig but Woof!
I like crazy hair what can I say! :thumbsup:


oooo.. ere goes with the pirates of the caribbean again.. Orlando Bloom and Johnny Depp.. mmmmmm!

as for lads looks.. dark hair (preferably long).. dark eyes... cute smile.. cant get any better than that!

Mr Depp's beauty is beyond words! I'd be his Vanessa Paradis any day. Jesus. My ideal man!

Originally posted by SatanInHeels
oooo.. ere goes with the pirates of the caribbean again.. Orlando Bloom and Johnny Depp.. mmmmmm!

What can I say hun Im obssessed! :P
Personality wise...sense of humour, open minded, playful, but doesnt mind having cozy moments of silence...before we go back to pulling hair and generally behaving like :loopy: people! :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Eccentricity is the new sanity :P
Got another un
http://www.comedy.co.nz/photos/rnoble2.jpg
Mr Ross Noble Mmmmmmmmmm - and hes a Geordie....Mmmmm Id go miles...well all the way to Newcastle to listen to Geordies!
My lovely chum James looks almost like him :thumbsup:

Irish colleen's knock me out,
You can spot a true colleen by the really dark hair, dark eyes, well balanced features,fresh complexion and wicked smile.
No real specific bits as they're stunning all over.

Originally posted by Mosherchik

and Starry! do you realise Ive been downloading Bon Jovi stuff because of you! you little minx :wink:
xxx

Ohh...and like there's anything wrong with that!! Those Versace modelling shoots are just irresistable...mmmmmm...:thumbsup:

uuumm,i'm not tall,i'm not dark,handsome,hell yes!

jt

My hair seems to put people off sometimes, they either think i'm a student or a farmer:loopy: my hair just goes curly not long.:rolleyes:

i'm tall, not dark, and lets just say erm.....brimming with something!

The first thing I notice is body language. I have been on so many corporate courses that take you through body language it just seems to be in my head all the time.

Originally posted by Babooshka
Mr Depp's beauty is beyond words!

I agree with that and i'm straight! He's one handsome b*stard.

Defo the eyes man oh n teeth but SHOES!!! come on woman (MOE) i mean my shoes HA! the aint been cleaned for ages!!!! lol

Originally posted by jackthedog
He's one handsome b*stard.

Johnny Depp...nice...

Christian Bale...irresistably stunning...the hair *drool*...the face... the body... :thumbsup:

Starchild says for further proof check out the following:

http://www.geocities.com/christianbalepics/CHRIS10.jpg


and the body shot...
http://www.geocities.com/christianbalepics/CHRIS11.jpg

:clap:

Dropping back to the original topic...

Eyes, smile and body language...

:thumbsup:

Eyes, hands,arse. menwise
Women eyes,smile.

DUFFMAN every1 just say DUFFMAN, DUFFMAN DUFFMAN DUFFMAN DUFFMAN DUFFMAN DUFFMAN DUFFMAN ok dats enough lol

Duffman quote:

Duff Man: Duff Man wants to party down with the man who sent in 10,000 Duff labels to bring me here today. I've got a bottomless mug of new Duff Extra Cold for, Barney Gumbel!
All: Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug!
Barney: I can't, I'm the designated driver!
(Everything stops)
Duff Man: Yeah that's swell, Duff wholeheartedly supports the designated driver program. Now! Who wants to Party!

I'm not sure I can follow evil_picollo's previous post!

But mine would be smile, hair, eyes I think. Or sometimes just the whole face.

Originally posted by evil_picollo

Duffman quote:

Duff Man: Duff Man wants to party down with the man who sent in 10,000 Duff labels to bring me here today. I've got a bottomless mug of new Duff Extra Cold for, Barney Gumbel!
All: Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug! Chug!
Barney: I can't, I'm the designated driver!
(Everything stops)
Duff Man: Yeah that's swell, Duff wholeheartedly supports the designated driver program. Now! Who wants to Party!

The episode - The City of New York Vs Homer Simpson -

Barney ends up driving Homer's car to New York. Now can anyone tell me where he leaves it? :thumbsup:

Originally posted by starchild
The episode - The City of New York Vs Homer Simpson -

Barney ends up driving Homer's car to New York. Now can anyone tell me where he leaves it? :thumbsup:

He leaves it at the trade centre site. Homer then has many crab juice drinks and needs to go to the toilet to find they're not open due to cleaning so he has to run to the other one, very funny episode, one of my favourites!

I always notice if a person is smiling or not when I first meet them lol

Are we still on the same thread? for me its someones eyes, if its someone i meet through work then its appearance, smart etc, if i might be interested in er getting to know them better then its totally eyes, gorgeous sexy eyes, the way someone looks at you when oh getting too carried away...

Originally posted by duffman
or a farmer:loopy:

Oooo Arrr me lad... Must be that Combine Harvester ye drives ;)

So many people have said the 'Eyes' I soooooo agree :heyhey: A great starting point...

if its a women i go straight to the backside, sorry but thats me ?.:heyhey: :heyhey:

Originally posted by leddi
Are we still on the same thread? for me its someones eyes, if its someone i meet through work then its appearance, smart etc, if i might be interested in er getting to know them better then its totally eyes, gorgeous sexy eyes, the way someone looks at you when oh getting too carried away...

Eyes, every time. There is so much you can tell about someone from their eyes - I believe a person's eyes are indeed the window to their soul.

Kind, deep, intelligent eyes with a wicked twinkle in them - mmmmm! Eyes you could drown in ......

StarSparkle :thumbsup:

Originally posted by Zamo
Obviously us men are infatuated with the qualities of a womans eyes. We lose ourselves looking longingly into them... then, when she looks away, we check out their tits and bits! :D

LOL, mucho!

Yes the curvy, soft bits have to be gawped, sorry, looked at with discretion. Don't women do the same thing with men, though?

I first notice the eyes then it has to be their teeth. I have a bit if a thing about teeth. An ex of mine seemed to have nice teeth on first appearance but infact he hardly ever brushed them, hadn't been to the dentist in years and his breath stank to high heaven. I couldn't kiss him becuase he wouldn't sort his teeth out. It just turned me right off. So to me I always look at their teeth!

I like open, friendly faces and seem to go for people who are original looking.

I did find it a little weird one time seeing lots of 'Rachels' or 'Avrils' wandering about town. It's also weird when you pass several guys all with the same hairstyle or wearing similar outfits.

It's one thing to notice someone's good bits at a distance or on a first meeting; but I have noticed how sometimes I can be chatting away to someone I wouldn't have given a second look at, only to then begin seeing lots of nice things.

Eyes and hair.

Eyes have to be brown and hair has to be none-existant.

Apart from that anything goes.

Eyes then hair then bum :D :D

Hair for me. If female, I have a bad habit of a glance at the breast department too :blush:

For me to notice a guy, he has to be tall. At least 6 feet tall is a must.

Then once he has my attention, its down to the eyes, smile and GSOH.

My hubby is 6 feet five and has all these traits.....lucky me!!

eyes,
teeth/smile,
hair,
hands
accent
arms
bum
chest/shoulders

right little old shoppin list :)

Originally posted by Sidla
... I have a bad habit of a glance at the breast department too :blush:

Errr ... why is that a BAD habit !? (sound like a good habit to me!).

What first catches my eye really depends on the persons features. I think I can honestly say there is no one thing or group of things I consitently notice first.

Mmm Dark hair gets my attention, then a smiley face - a cheeky grin and smiley eyes. Personality is sooo important - must be fun and love a laugh.

Then if you've got broad shoulders and nice little bum, well I'm bowled over!
;)