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GothicCharm 28-09-2005, 18:16 Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...:|
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?! :|
cloudybay 28-09-2005, 18:17 Send me his address Filthfan...............I'll sort him !:clap:
Craig7777 28-09-2005, 18:18 Dunno tell him your really a man?
Three words for you...
'Sorry, I'm Gay'.
BrainThrust 28-09-2005, 18:18 Perhaps you should tell him it's creepy and that you don't want anything to do with him?
Best way is always to be honest!
Wilf
mikeyspikey 28-09-2005, 18:18 how old are you and does the boy live nearby?
Originally posted by FilthFan
Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...:|
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?! :|
I thought you were male!
A woman called "FilthFan"... Hello ;)
Craig7777 28-09-2005, 18:20 Sorry i will stop pm'ing you if you like:o lol
Honesty is the best policy me thinks
Jimbob1989 28-09-2005, 18:25 Originally posted by mikeyspikey
how old are you and does the boy live nearby?
She's 15, nearly 16 I think :)
tslogf74 28-09-2005, 18:26 Originally posted by GazB
I thought you were male!
A woman called "FilthFan"... Hello ;)
What's wrong with a girl being a filth fan? :)
I think I assumed she was male to start with (do women automatically assume everyone is female, I wonder), until I read a few more posts.
Jimbob1989 28-09-2005, 18:27 :D Want me to have a word?
It's a reference to Cradle of Filth the band :thumbsup:
I only knew she was female coz Lotti introduced her as 'my sister'
I always assume forumers are 'people' until I find out otherwise :hihi:
GothicCharm 28-09-2005, 18:37 hi. lol yeh im 15, 16 in june. nah thats ok jimbob, people can just be so annoying. and yes its reference to cradle of filth...i only realised how it sounded after i wrote it
mikeyspikey 28-09-2005, 18:46 reason i asked your age is that i thought it was the classic case of schoolkid crush on older person --cos thats happened to me!
got to be a real worry but it got sorted at the school where i work!---in your case id just tell him how you feel and try and let him down gently!--thats if hes a nice kid!
Originally posted by FilthFan
Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...:|
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?! :|
best way to get rid of someone in my experience is set them up with someone else. He has a shcoolboy crush (bless) and I doubt he will go away until we finds someone else to obsess on or you make him cry a lot.
Originally posted by robbie
....or you make him cry a lot.
.... which is when he starts sharpening his axe :shocked:
Would agree with Wilf.
Be gentle about it, but basically say that you like him as a friend but don't want anything more serious yet.
The old Todd Rundgren line 'can we still be friends' may even cross your lips.
Assuming you still want to be friends with him, taht is. Somtimes a total break might be better.
Joe
msbehavin 28-09-2005, 19:19 I had a 19 year old flirting with me recently - was over the moon! LOL (didn't let him know that of course, lol):heyhey:
Originally posted by msbehavin
I had a 19 year old flirting with me recently - was over the moon! LOL (didn't let him know that of course, lol):heyhey:
Yeah, I flirt with my girlfriend's mum too.
msbehavin 28-09-2005, 19:58 yeah - come to think of it - my daughter's boyfriend is 19 too!!! aint him though!!!
Jimbob1989 28-09-2005, 20:36 :loopy: Strange people, lol.
:D Not too worry people, lol, I'll help FilthFan out if she needs it.
pattricia 28-09-2005, 21:37 Originally posted by FilthFan
Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...:|
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?! :| What the heck does randomness wife, mean ? Thats what puzzles me.!:suspect:
tslogf74 28-09-2005, 21:59 Heh, yeah. I thought that.
I get the feeling that the word "random" is taking on a subtle new meaning.
cgksheff 28-09-2005, 22:06 Vialle
Post: Queen of Amber, Lady of Rebma
Wife to Random.
A lady of Rebma, Random was forced to marry her as a punishment. When Random was placed under house arrest, she willingly spent her time in confiment with him. She is a good listener as well as a good judge of character. Random grew to love her and hides no secrets from her.
She generously accepts Martin and little is then heard of her. She became queen of Amber when Random is crowned by the Unicorn.
?????????
FairyNormal 28-09-2005, 22:25 I currently have a 22 year old pestering me! I'm 36 and just not interested. He waits for me when I come home from work and tells me how he dreams of kissing me! Oh pleeeeeease!
I got so fed up that I told him to p**s off and get a life and he left me alone for a few weeks. Unfortunately he's just stared again this week, begging for 5 minutes alone with me.
I don't think so! He's a nuisance.
matsalleh 29-09-2005, 07:07 Originally posted by FetishFairy
I currently have a 22 year old pestering me! I'm 36 and just not interested. He waits for me when I come home from work and tells me how he dreams of kissing me! Oh pleeeeeease!
I got so fed up that I told him to p**s off and get a life and he left me alone for a few weeks. Unfortunately he's just stared again this week, begging for 5 minutes alone with me.
I don't think so! He's a nuisance.
Now this sounds a lot more dangerous,possible stalker,take care.
Ahh he's only 14 - be gentle with him or it could mean another Woody Allen (you are too young to know him).
Give him the I'd rather be your friend sketch or you have to concentrate on school/college or just say you are interested in someone else.
Try to be nice about it though and not to tell too many friends cos it would be awful if everyone starting taking the p*** out of him and could mean years on the therapy couch!
Good Luck :thumbsup:
Jimbob1989 29-09-2005, 09:46 :D Tell him your going out with me, lol :P
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