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skyfitsboy 18-09-2005, 03:53 PM Just been chatting to one of my friends who saw Corrina (one of the Dempseys) door staff in Xs the other night and she said that Dempseys is closing down because they can't compete with Fuel.
Apparently the past few weeks the place has been deserted.
If this is true, it is a little bit sad had lots of good night outs in there.
Kristian 18-09-2005, 03:55 PM Maybe if they'd paid more attention to what their customers were saying before now, rather than having the attitude that they 'had us over a barrell' they would be in a better position.
I've had some laughs there, but I won't miss it.
nick2 18-09-2005, 03:55 PM Sheffield will only ever have one club, there arn't the numbers to support two.
I know people said that people will travel to Sheffield but TBH if you lived nearer to Leeds or Manchester would you bother to come to Sheffield ?
Yes, Dumpsys has us "over a barrel", but they were the only club, they called the shots, as did Planet when it was open. When you have no competition you can do what you want.
SpiderPete 18-09-2005, 03:58 PM I agree with you Kristian they thought they had us over a barrell, like nowhere else to go, but thats not the case now is it.
I see Nick2 is as cheerful and positive as ever, LOL :P
I wonder how long it will be before Xes closes.
nick2 18-09-2005, 03:59 PM Originally posted by peter41
I agree with you Kristian they thought they had us over a barrell, like nowhere else to go, but thats not the case now is it.
When Dumpsys closes it will be.
Kristian 18-09-2005, 04:02 PM Originally posted by nick2
When Dumpsys closes it will be.
There's still Xes, and if we really do find ourselves limited to one Gay club in the city centre, I'm glad it's one that's going about things properly.
nick2 18-09-2005, 04:05 PM I'm not being deliberately negative, it's just that in the last 20 years I've seen a few clubs/pubs/bars come and go in Sheffield and the pattern is always the same.
skyfitsboy 18-09-2005, 04:07 PM Originally posted by nick2
I'm not being deliberately negative, it's just that in the last 20 years I've seen a few clubs come and go in Sheffield and the pattern is always the same.
Patterns are like rules, they are made to be broken lol!:hihi:
nick2 18-09-2005, 04:11 PM Originally posted by skyfitsboy
Patterns are like rules, they are made to be broken lol!:hihi:
But it's not being broken :(
skyfitsboy 18-09-2005, 04:22 PM Hang on isnt Dempseys a proud member of "I Can Survive A Nuclear Holocaust Society"?!:D
nick2 18-09-2005, 04:27 PM I'll be the first person to put my hand up and say Dempseys is a flea pit (I wouldn't put my hand up upstairs though incase it stuck to the ceiling) but once it's gone and Xs has gone (which it will I think) where is your choice of places to go ?
Sheffield is realy weird in that it's gay scene seems to be limited to one pub and one club at any one time. As soon as something new opens everyone flocks there and the previous places, starved of customers shut down (it doesn't take long to go under when you rely on weekend customers mainly), and the whole cycle starts again.
Manchester (and Leeds to a lesser extent) have enough people out drinking to keep the "old" places going until the initial excitement about a new bar has worn off so they stay open and are still there waiting for you once you're bored with the new place.
skyfitsboy 18-09-2005, 04:31 PM Originally posted by nick2
I'll be the first person to put my hand up and say Dempseys is a flea pit (I wouldn't put my hand up upstairs though incase it stuck to the ceiling) but once it's gone and Xs has gone (which it will I think) where is your choice of places to go ?
Sheffield is realy weird in that it's gay scene seems to be limited to one pub and one club at any one time. As soon as something new opens everyone flocks there and the previous places, starved of customers shut down (it doesn't take long to go under when you rely on weekend customers mainly), and the whole cycle starts again.
Manchester (and Leeds to a lesser extent) have enough people out drinking to keep the "old" places going until the initial excitement about a new bar has worn off so they stay open and are still there waiting for you once you're bored with the new place.
Sheffield has had two gay clubs (Dumpseys & Xs) for years now, so that proves your theory is wrong and for a start Xs caters for the post 2am crowd, I doubt its losing any of its custom to Fuel.
nick2 18-09-2005, 04:33 PM Originally posted by skyfitsboy
Sheffield has had two gay clubs (Dumpseys & Xs) for years now, so that proves your theory is wrong and for a start Xs caters for the post 2am crowd, I doubt its losing any of its custom to Fuel.
Xs only survived as an alternative to Dempseys I believe.
And Xs is realy just a pub that stays open late, calling it a club is overdoing it a bit.
PINGU 18-09-2005, 05:34 PM There was a time when the people responsible for The Planet where in control of the gay scene in Sheffield. As their control spread throughout the scene, they got greedier and greedier. Prices went up and things got messy. They eventually managed to put the last nail in the Cossacks coffin. (Not sure if that was a good or bad thing)
By the time Dempseys hit town, many people had had enough. As a result, Dempseys took off, even after many attempts by the The Planet people to get the place shut down. Obviously they failed and the The Planet boys were never to be seen again.
Along comes Fuel, at a time when people are starting to get fed up with Dempseys and its ever increasing door tax, general lack of imagination and grubbiness.
The pattern is, new boy hits town all smiles and eager to please. He gets a lot of attention, it goes to his head. He gets vain, lazy and greedy, which starts to look ugly. When the next pretty boy hits town, everyone runs screaming.
I want Fuel to do well. It looks like a winner now. I hope things don’t get ugly.
Kristian 18-09-2005, 05:40 PM Originally posted by PINGU
I want Fuel to do well. It looks like a winner now. I hope things don’t get ugly.
I agree wholeheartedly.
I see no reason for Fuel to fail in the way it's predecessors have though. It has been very successful in Hull, and after chatting with Danny, it's clear the management have some excellent ideas, and are not content to rest on their laurels.
I guess only time will tell, but I have a good feeling about our new kids on the block! :)
K x
robbie 18-09-2005, 06:31 PM Dempseys makes me laugh. It is on the doorstep of on eof the biggest employers in Sheffield and yet there is not way many civil servents will go into the dump (apart from out of towners conned into it:D )
SpiderPete 18-09-2005, 06:35 PM Nick2 - Well Xes was never a pub it has always been a club and stayed open until 4am, so how you class this as a pub is beyond me, it does have its regulars but when I went down late on Friday I am afraid it has suffered from Fuel, it was empty, hopefully their "themed nights" will keep it going, because the last thing we want (and even Nick2 has to agree here) is for all the gay pubs/clubs to close down and find Fuel isnt here to stay. But I agree with Kristian new kid on the block looks good.
I have just been to the shop downstairs to get some toilet roll and saw a Dempsey flyer, yes, I am more shocked that you, they are having themed nights.
Mondays - Jamaican Evening
Tuesday - Pie & Pea evening with Quiz
Wednesday - Curry Evening
Thursday - Steak Night
All meals served with a drink, has anyone else seen these.
last ditch effort guys from them because "a bird" told me if taking are not back to normal in 2 weeks its closing. I know Dempseys survived the Planet days but Fuel is a bit different, and the pub that is benefiting from Fuel is The Roebuck.
Anyway thats my rant over.
Meaks 18-09-2005, 07:04 PM Xes will keep going because unlike Dempsey's they have been involved with Fuel and have arranged a free bus etc.
Dempsey's has only ever been interested in making money, and has never wanted to help create any sort of gay community.
At least Xes is trying by not being hostile and showing its support, which is why it was still getting the punters in last night after 2.
Kristian 18-09-2005, 07:56 PM Originally posted by peter41
I have just been to the shop downstairs to get some toilet roll...
Peter, that's way too much information!
Originally posted by peter41
saw a Dempsey flyer...they having themed nights.
Tuesday - Pie & Pea evening with Quiz
If this is an example of their theme nights, then I'm not surprised they're going under. Who are they looking to attract here? It's supposed to be a gay bar, not a homeless drop in centre! :suspect:
K x
SpiderPete 18-09-2005, 07:58 PM posted by kristian
If this is an example of their theme nights, then I'm not surprised they're going under. Who are they looking to attract here? It's supposed to be a gay bar, not a homeless drop in centre
Yes I agree with you there, I laffed at this, Pie&Peas was done in the 70`s, and who is going to pay £5.00 for pie and peas anyway.
Moonwalker 18-09-2005, 10:19 PM They can do what they like with Dempseys but for the love of god don't do anything with Climax. :nono:
miniminch 18-09-2005, 10:32 PM Originally posted by Meaks
Xes will keep going because unlike Dempsey's they have been involved with Fuel and have arranged a free bus etc.
Dempsey's has only ever been interested in making money, and has never wanted to help create any sort of gay community.
At least Xes is trying by not being hostile and showing its support, which is why it was still getting the punters in last night after 2. I don't mine gay bars but Dempseys was always a little bit too gay for its own good.
Originally posted by peter41
who is going to pay £5.00 for pie and peas anyway.
what kind of pie?
nick2 19-09-2005, 09:50 AM Originally posted by peter41
because the last thing we want (and even Nick2 has to agree here) is for all the gay pubs/clubs to close down and find Fuel isnt here to stay.
I don't believe Fuel is going to leave, once all the competition dries-up it will have a monopoly, so why leave ?
Out of interest how much competition do they have in Hull ?
XS used to be the Norfolk Arms, a pub, before it was renamed "XS", and became a "club"
Where is the "bear nights" thread ?
skyfitsboy 19-09-2005, 01:17 PM Originally posted by nick2
I don't believe Fuel is going to leave, once all the competition dries-up it will have a monopoly, so why leave ?
Out of interest how much competition do they have in Hull ?
XS used to be the Norfolk Arms, a pub, before it was renamed "XS", and became a "club"
Where is the "bear nights" thread ?
So now you agree Xs is a club then?
cellarhigh 19-09-2005, 01:32 PM dempseys would be stupid to close now when students are coming back
on friday i went to climax with some friends (it was quite funny cause the guy on the door said 'thankyou for supporting climax' so you felt the effect of fuel already!) but surprisingly considering fuel had the honeyz and bb bloke djing, climaz was actually very busy!
Spoke to my friends who chose fuel and they said it got busy by about 10, and this is before students are back properly!!
When the students get back and people actually start realising they have a bit of choice (with the novelty of a new club wearing off and mentality settling a little) dempseys should realise that it has an excellent opportunity to do itself up and become the ONLY PRE-BAR for any of the clubs, especially since its open late.
Dempseys !!!! don't pack it in, stick you're money in your pocket and slap some face on you and you'll pull in the punters no problem. get involved with all three clubs, offering to sell advanced tickets from your venue (don't isolate yourself and try and compete cause you can't) and really push yourself as part of the scene with the venues supporting each other, act as a pre-bar and give the punters some choice. They can always go to more than one bar/club per night!!
Don't just throw your toys out the pram and call it quits because you're not going to have the lions share anymore, there's no reason why you can't make money.
Its just a case of being foward minded, competition like this should help the centre get better and with more choice - not just substitute one place for the next
p.s. could anyone actually imagine sheffield ever getting to the stage where you'd do a gay/bi/tran venue pub crawl? :D
SpiderPete 19-09-2005, 01:35 PM posted by andy
what kind of pie?
You have 3 choices:
Minced Beef
Steak & Kidney
Chicken & Mushroom
nick2 19-09-2005, 01:47 PM Originally posted by skyfitsboy
So now you agree Xs is a club then?
No, it's a pub called "club XS"
However, The Earl is listed as a nightclub too, which I think is just a pub that stays open late, so perhaps XS is too and my definition of "club" is wrong.
HazyJane 19-09-2005, 02:55 PM Originally posted by nick2
Where is the "bear nights" thread ?
It got deleted, it may have been my fault. oopsies :blush:
nick2 19-09-2005, 03:28 PM Originally posted by HazyJane
It got deleted, it may have been my fault. oopsies :blush:
:(
I wanted the name of the club where you go dressed as a cuddly toy. I'll try anything once.
SpiderPete 19-09-2005, 07:19 PM posted by skyfitsboy
So now you agree Xs is a club then?
Yes you are right, it is a club
posted by Nick2
No, it's a pub called "club XS"
Xes is a club, here is there website
Club Xes (http://www.club-xes.com/portal/)
on line 1 it says this - Welcome to Club Xes, a club at the heart of Sheffield's gays scene
Hopefully that clarifies the Xes is a club as well as a pub, but for how much longer is anyones guess.
nick2 20-09-2005, 10:50 AM Originally posted by peter41
on line 1 it says this - Welcome to Club Xes, a club at the heart of Sheffield's gays scene
LOL - "at the heart of Sheffields gay scene" :) :) :) :)
I can think of several other body parts to describe the place, but not "heart".
dannyfuel 20-09-2005, 01:24 PM Hi Guys,
we at fuel fully appreciate all of your points on this thread and we understand why you would be concerned about a single venue 'monopolising' the gay scene.
we are very different to the venues that have been here before but only time will prove it!
we are here to stay, we do support the community, we do have morals and we do listen to what people want / need and respond those needs as fast and as fairly as possible.
we have sent letters and made loads of phone calls trying to forge relationships with all of the other gay places in sheffield, with the aim of working together to make the scene better and attract more people to the city.
the only people who have got back to us is xces, who we are now working with on several levels.
we wanted to work together with climax and dempseys to avoid clashing and to improve the scene overall etc but we have had no response to any of our communications.
in fact we seem to have fallen victim to bitching and rumours instead.
there is room for everyone in sheffield! we just need to pull together and attract people to the city for everyone to benefit.
this is the 4th biggest city in the country for goodness sake, not some backwater!
however, if people can't figure that out and make the changes and improvements to ensure their own success, please don't hold us responsible!
we have worked with all of the gay venues and groups in hull (except 1 straight club trying to cash in) and that has benefited the city no end. we are committed to doing the same here.
However, if we do end up as the only gay club here for any period of time, we will not take advantage of it!
we haven't in Hull for over two years and we won't here.
we have the vision to realise that we need to support the gay community before you will support us! not the other way around.
we also know what it is like to be stuck in a city with a crap club that you have to go to because it's the only place that is gay.
even though they put no effort in and charge the earth! it takes the p*ss and we won't do it!
again, only time will prove it.
take care peeps
danny
x
:)
dwhembro 25-09-2005, 11:30 AM Can anyone help solve a disscussion between me and a friend?
Ta
sugarnspice 25-09-2005, 11:39 AM http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60464&highlight=dempseys
:thumbsup:
dwhembro 25-09-2005, 11:59 AM Thanks, probem solved. Not a bar I'll be popping into. Even if there is cheap chicken, rice and peas!
Kristian 25-09-2005, 12:26 PM Mod: Threads merged. Thanks for the link Sugar! :thumbsup:
robbie 25-09-2005, 01:16 PM if it did close down and someone took it over they could turn it into an absolute goldmine. There are so many people working in Moorfoot and it would be very well used
AgentLesbos 09-10-2005, 01:40 AM Have spoken to people at Dempseys and there are no plans for it to close down. Obviously attendance has dropped somewhat with the arrival of a new club but they haven't thrown the towel in yet.
I have been a few times now to Fuel and had a fab night - its a much needed welcome addition to the scene but I would hate to see it at Dempseys expense. Fuel will always be the preferred choice for a night of clubbing - but Dempseys is currently the only fulltime (day and night) gay venue in Sheffield.
It is the only gay bar I can go to for a quick pint after work, my sunday dinner which I will be tucking into tomorrow or if I want a quiet night rather than a full on clubbing night. I even had my dinner in Dempseys this year on Christmas day. I don't know much about the other theme nights but I've been in for my curry and I can recommend it.
As far as I can see a pub and a club should work great together not be in competition.
I have previously ran two nights in Sheffield of which Dempseys was very supportive on both occassions.
Heather
_____________________________________________
"Madness takes its toll . . . Please have exact change"
Andy C 09-10-2005, 02:22 AM I'm not familiar with the 'scene' so cannot really make an educated comment here, however what Dannyfuel and agentlesbos says does make sense to me. One club does not constitute a scene, there must be enough of a market for all of the current venues providing they each do something a little different.
danbtnobacon 09-10-2005, 11:06 PM I think its rather sad that people can be so fickle, do people not realise if they dont support Dempseys then yes it will close, well some may say good, however have they actually thought about this?
If Dempseys closes people will inevitably get bored with Fuel, perhaps some foresight would be appropriate! Why not support Dempseys and go for a drink before Fuel, in that way we as customers keep both business's on their toes and we get a better gay scene as a whole rather than a limited options of where to go.
Yes Dempseys leaves a lot to be desired, however I have had some excellent nights there and I personally would like to have choice and options rather than be ghettoised into one venue.
Come on support Dempseys
i have pondered giving a reply to this thread for a while now.
gary and simon who own xes have had a great oppertunity over the last few years to develop what could have been a great clubbut instead have not really done much to make xes the venue it could have been
dempseys to me has always been a kids club it has never in my view reached the potential that it could have,
in my mind both these supposed clubs have not given much thought to what the average gay person wants when they go out for the night.
when Fuel came to sheffield you could hear the gay comunity sigh with relief at the possibility of going to a real venue,
i have tried Fuel on several different nights and up to now i must say i have not come away dissapointed, it is with out a doubt the best gay club that sheffield has had for many years,
and long may it continue, im sure if dempseys and xes do close that the owners of Fuel would look at expanding with a pre club bar and lets hope they also look into developing a second club at what i believe was called europa.
you are doing a great job you guys at Fuel keep it up
Andy
apparently the roebuck is the pub to go to before fuel sorry dempseys
mentaldave 10-10-2005, 02:34 PM There is another Gay Night in Hull.
The nightclub is called 'Pozition'(we hire) and we run a night called 'Vitesse' their each Friday. The night 'Vitesse' is owned by a transvestite(my brother) and a gay guy(me) and has been running 6 months this Friday. The Gay Scene has become more and more receptive to our night over time and even against very stiff competition we have continued to build progressively. Most of all we have fun and that is what the gay scene should be about!
I hope that helps :-)
David
x
www . vitesse-hull .com
cellarhigh 10-10-2005, 02:41 PM and long may it continue, im sure if dempseys and xes do close that the owners of Fuel would look at expanding with a pre club bar and lets hope they also look into developing a second club at what i believe was called europa.
you are doing a great job you guys at Fuel keep it up
Andy [/B]
As far as I'm aware, Europa is already underway to being another club (straight), theres a thread somewhere I'm sure.
AgentLesbos 30-12-2005, 06:29 PM As far as I'm aware, Europa is already underway to being another club (straight), theres a thread somewhere I'm sure.
Yes there is, this is the thread: sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=72718
I am actually working there so a few less nights in fuel for me as working til 6am every friday / saturday :-(
Just as well we have a bar (ie Dempseys) that opens early enough for me to go in for a quick drink before I start work . . .
Meaks 31-12-2005, 02:36 AM Shame its crap.
jauntyone 19-02-2006, 12:39 AM I am not gay, but I visited dempseys with two people who were gay.
I had a nice evening and the people in there were very friendly. It is a shame if it closes as there is not enough places for gay people to meet up in safety.
sexy90210 07-04-2006, 08:31 PM Hi guys,
Whatever you may say about Dempseys, i have to say it is pretty cool. As far as i am concerned it is the best all-round gay club in sheff. For all u people who call it Dumpseys for gods sake, grow up! Where did u go in sheffield b4 fuel? Everyone used to pack into dempseys and now everyone is slagging it off just because a new club has come along. Dont get me wrong, fuel is fab and i wish them well but guys... show a little respect for the club that u ALL used to go to b4. B4 Fuel, D's was the number 1 club in sheffield and everyone went there, and now that it has had a make-over upstairs, it just got better! if u all took the time to go there once in a while u wud see that. Gay isnt all fabulously camp queens, its evrey kind of person u can think of. im not trying to get at anyone but you know, show some respect for the club that served u b4 fuel eh? xx
367squadron 07-04-2006, 09:50 PM I actually agree. I've heard that they have redone the upstairs and apparently it's a really good night. I agree with what you were saying about people slating it now another place has opened, it was once the only place to go and gave gay people a place to meet up. I have to say though i am one of those people that haven't been since Fuel opened will i will definetly return soon to check it out.
Btw are they open til 6 now as they applied for planning permission a while back?
SpiderPete 08-04-2006, 01:48 PM I think you are both forgetting one thing ........... maybe not everyone went to Dempseys before Fuel ....... I actaully went to the other club you both forgot to mention ..... Xes ...... and I have started to go back there again..........
They might have done upstairs but they really need to do something with the downstairs part ... its shocking and thats what eveyone sees from the outside
367squadron 08-04-2006, 02:41 PM I go to xes too, usually after Fuel. I think now with Demseys getting permission to open until 6 they might steal some of the xes customers and will compete with them rather than Fuel.
sexy90210 08-04-2006, 10:40 PM yes dempseys has applied 4 a later opening time but as yet have not heard anything. and so what if the downstairs isnt as nice as it cud be does it really matter that its not perfect? after all, straight people go there too and you know, the upstairs is proper camp anyway. U have to realise, football fans walk past the downstiars all the time and if any trouble kicks off because its too outrageously camp downstairs what will happen then? u shudnt juge a place on the look off it, ok, looks mean soimething but not everythuing. I only go to dempseys because its full of friendly people not because of what it looks like lol x
bigbadgib 10-05-2006, 08:46 PM Dempseys is open til 4am on fri and sat now, 3am on other nights (don't quote me), and i think that it's a much better night out (nowhere near as much attitude!)
discodown 10-05-2006, 10:20 PM be pleased for gods sake. compared to most cities sheffields gay scene is hopeless and the backbiting and namecalling among the community doesn't help. its about time the city got a decent scene
Tyranna 12-05-2006, 06:33 PM "be pleased for gods sake. compared to most cities sheffields gay scene is hopeless and the backbiting and namecalling among the community doesn't help. its about time the city got a decent scene"
Thanks, Discodown and Sexy 90210, your messages get to the point perfectly!
The MORE Gay venues, and 'Gay Nights' at mainstream Venues there are, the BETTER it is for all; not just the LGBT Community, but for a more integrated scene as a whole.
For those who havent been to Dempseys for a while, I must say that I was knocked back with a feather when they unveiled the new-look upstairs for the first time -It is FABULOUS! a huge bar, stylish wall decor, new floor, and of course the cage!
Now, all that is needed is, yes, to do something about the downstairs; Oh, and the staircase as well; also the Cocktail Bar could do with a new look to match the main upstairs room.
Still, with the downstairs, I like the large telly they now have for the Karaoke, and the better chairs they got about a year ago, but the rest of the furniture downstairs looks grim. The food, though, both in range, and in availability (You can order food until VERY late) is fantastic, and that is one of the main selling points of Dempseys during the daytime!
Perhaps the most immediate priority would be to do something about the very dated signs outside and the dirty grey shutters which are closed early in the evening for security; How about painting them with Rainbow colours of something?
Tyranna -THE Sheffield Drag Queen!
discodown 12-05-2006, 08:45 PM "be pleased for gods sake. compared to most cities sheffields gay scene is hopeless and the backbiting and namecalling among the community doesn't help. its about time the city got a decent scene"
Thanks, Discodown and Sexy 90210, your messages get to the point perfectly!
The MORE Gay venues, and 'Gay Nights' at mainstream Venues there are, the BETTER it is for all; not just the LGBT Community, but for a more integrated scene as a whole.
and the community as a whole. i have to say i love the irony of plug now being next to niche:D :hihi: :hihi: :thumbsup:
367squadron 13-05-2006, 01:17 PM I think maybe a name change is due, also the staff - if they were a uniform it would instantly IMO look a bit more professional. It's quite simple really what they need to do.
Oooohhh just gimme a week!
djscottk 15-05-2006, 08:54 PM Perhaps the most immediate priority would be to do something about the very dated signs outside and the dirty grey shutters which are closed early in the evening for security; How about painting them with Rainbow colours of something?
Tyranna -THE Sheffield Drag Queen!
... hmm, a bit too 'in ya face' for sheffield perhaps?:hihi:
i think the old bigots in the city would lynch the shutters.
SpiderPete 15-05-2006, 09:08 PM Does anyone know is Dempseys still have their quiz night on a Tuesday ?
Tyranna 15-05-2006, 10:42 PM Dempseys Quiz Night still on? Yes, indeed it is! I popped in briefly last Tuesday, although sometimes there are only a couple of teams, I like a lot of the questions.
Have Fun!
SpiderPete 15-05-2006, 10:44 PM Dempseys Quiz Night still on? Yes, indeed it is! I popped in briefly last Tuesday, although sometimes there are only a couple of teams, I like a lot of the questions.
Have Fun!
Oh I must start going down again, not been there on a Tuesday for aaaages now, I know my friends used to go that night, about 5/7 of them, and they always used to win the crappy prizes.... they certainly know how to splash out, lol
raisin 17-05-2006, 07:16 PM Its great to have fuel on the scene and looking forward to their relaunch in a couple of weeks. However went hte other night and was far from impressed with the barstaff, in general no worries, shame about the blonde in drag who needs to buck up their service, a smile would be nice and some fair service! Have words Fuel! Anyone else found this?
Tyranna 26-05-2006, 01:13 AM "Its great to have fuel on the scene and looking forward to their relaunch in a couple of weeks. However went hte other night and was far from impressed with the barstaff, in general no worries, shame about the blonde in drag who needs to buck up their service, a smile would be nice and some fair service! Have words Fuel! Anyone else found this?"
Hear, HEAR!!!
I smile everytime and will always give my own customers maximum satisfaction -ALWAYS- when doing my own Drag Cabaret.
Tia-Anna -Possibly The Best Drag Queen In the World!
happysherpa 27-05-2006, 10:16 AM i have just found this thread.. im so not in touch with all these different topics.. i need a map lol
SpiderPete 27-05-2006, 10:39 AM i have just found this thread.. im so not in touch with all these different topics.. i need a map lol
I did suggest this, but it didn`t get much response, it would keep all the GLBT threads together, you are right they can get lost in all the threads about.
http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=101593
SpiderPete 29-05-2006, 01:48 PM Does anyone know what time Dempseys shut every night during the week ?, don`t ask me to contact the pub/club, I have tried and got no respsonse....
Tyranna 30-05-2006, 07:51 PM On some nights it appears to be open until 4 am, but I don't know if it shuts earlier than this on certain days such as Sunday or Mondays...
discodown 30-05-2006, 10:12 PM the big problem with dempseys is that apart from it being a gay club i have no idea what happens there.
whats the music policy?
who dj's there?
whats the difference between friday and saturday night?
why is it never promoted?
all these questions and more need answering to give it a proper identity then it might get more punters.
the gay scene in sheffield is shockingly under promoted and represented. if the venues that are around stopped hiding and started shouting a bit maybe the scene would pick up
happysherpa 31-05-2006, 09:59 AM you hit the nail on the head...
Dempseys have done a little work on their club..and its looking pretty trendy upstairs.. now they need to promote the club, get a website and a few leaflets. I think maybe the staff that work there are tooo old and stuck in the old days lol
Dempseys..its time to move forwards. Someone give them a Shake!!
SpiderPete 31-05-2006, 02:19 PM the big problem with dempseys is that apart from it being a gay club i have no idea what happens there.
whats the music policy?
who dj's there?
whats the difference between friday and saturday night?
why is it never promoted?
all these questions and more need answering to give it a proper identity then it might get more punters.
the gay scene in sheffield is shockingly under promoted and represented. if the venues that are around stopped hiding and started shouting a bit maybe the scene would pick up
Yes you have valid points here, at least Climax, Fuel and Xes have websites and you can work out what is happening, there is nothing for Dempseys, I have tried contacting them several times about the above questions and still awaiting a reply, maybe Happysherpa is right and they are "set in their ways". I don`t even know who owns it, anyone got any ideas ?
stackmonkey 01-06-2006, 02:57 PM you hit the nail on the head...
Dempseys have done a little work on their club..and its looking pretty trendy upstairs.. now they need to promote the club, get a website and a few leaflets. I think maybe the staff that work there are tooo old and stuck in the old days lol
Dempseys..its time to move forwards. Someone give them a Shake!!
I have to agree. Knowing some of the bar staff, they're quite keen to do this stuff but the owners don't like spending the money.
Personally, if I'd spent some money doing the place up, I'd spend the little extra to get it marketed properly.
stackmonkey 01-06-2006, 03:01 PM whats the music policy?
Not sure, it is different for each night, but it's only posted up inside the club...
who dj's there?
2 or 3 of the bar staff usually.
whats the difference between friday and saturday night?
saturday night is usually busier.
why is it never promoted?
see my earlier post
Gayham 01-06-2006, 03:09 PM you hit the nail on the head...
Dempseys have done a little work on their club..and its looking pretty trendy upstairs.. now they need to promote the club, get a website and a few leaflets. I think maybe the staff that work there are tooo old and stuck in the old days lol
Dempseys..its time to move forwards. Someone give them a Shake!!
Oh yeah defo 'Old 80's Erasure Gay' but to be fair they have improved a little with the decor change but I very much doubt that would of happened if Fuel had not come along....I'm sure they will keep their faithful crowd. However they should really be moving with the times...
Dj_Shadowman 01-06-2006, 06:14 PM Yes you have valid points here, at least Climax, Fuel and Xes have websites and you can work out what is happening, there is nothing for Dempseys, I have tried contacting them several times about the above questions and still awaiting a reply, maybe Happysherpa is right and they are "set in their ways". I don`t even know who owns it, anyone got any ideas ?
Good god, even I know who owns it - its Keiron and Ian, Keiron dj's upstairs and Ian does downstairs with the karaoke when Rat isnt doing it.
SpiderPete 01-06-2006, 06:24 PM Good god, even I know who owns it - its Keiron and Ian, Keiron dj's upstairs and Ian does downstairs with the karaoke when Rat isnt doing it.
Oh good, fanxs for letting me know, maybe my last few attempts of addressing everything to "The Manager" got them all confused, lol
but the owners don't like spending the money.
it costs them a first class stamp to get advertised properly on my webiste, surely they can even afford that :o :o
Does anyone know if they have a email address ?, surely they musthave one of these in todays technology :)
Dj_Shadowman 01-06-2006, 08:15 PM Oh good, fanxs for letting me know, maybe my last few attempts of addressing everything to "The Manager" got them all confused, lol
it costs them a first class stamp to get advertised properly on my webiste, surely they can even afford that :o :o
Does anyone know if they have a email address ?, surely they musthave one of these in todays technology :)
Best suggestion, go in one weekend with a digital camera.
Have a word with Keiron and let him know you want to give the place some publicity on your site.
He is a decent bloke, Im sure he wont mind.
stackmonkey 01-06-2006, 08:38 PM Right,
I've spoken on the phone to an ex of mine who works there.
Colin and Kieran are the joint owners and managers, Colin being the licence holder.
Kieran, Ian, Dawn and Paul all do DJ slots upstairs.
Tues - Quiz night
Wed - Karoake with Ian as DJ
Thur - Stripper
Sun - Karoake with rat as DJ
Mon, Fri and sat are Disco/Dance nights with lots of requests to be played.
M
happysherpa 01-06-2006, 10:15 PM wow we are definitly gettting somewhere..at this rate.. Fuel wil be closing down haha ha ha
we just need to gather all this information.. make up a draft website.. and leaflets... and put the idea to Dempseys.. easy peasy.. altho i cant see any of this happening... Prove me wrong lol
SpiderPete 01-06-2006, 11:05 PM Well I can stick it on my website, I just need the closing times now ..... at least its gettin somewhere, its like pulling teeth out, lol
mjk001 02-06-2006, 12:03 AM Have to say the last time I went to Dempseys was the first time in quite a while and I was quite impressed with what they have done and I think if they play it right they can be a good alternative to Fuel. Unlike Fuel dempseys has the downstairs area in which music isnt played at full blast and so people can actually talk to each other. They should try and play that to its full advantage and also renovate the downstairs area.
MK
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http://www.myspace.com/markk01
stackmonkey 02-06-2006, 10:32 AM Umm they do have a website, but it's out of date.
They've obtained a late closing licence til VERY late, so can effectively close when they want, I think. I'd need to check that one.
Their food isn't bad either.
Meaks 02-06-2006, 10:46 AM Umm they do have a website, but it's out of date.
And what is the URL for said site..?
SpiderPete 03-06-2006, 01:13 PM Well I was a bit bored of drinking in The Monk last night and everyone else who was out from work seemed to want to stay there, so I went down to .... Dempseys ..... haven`t been down there at all this year, and I liked upstairs, shame they cannot spend any money downstairs, there was quite a few people in as well..
I got the closing times : Sunday --> Thursday 3am, Friday and Saturday 4am.
I am sure I will be down there more often. :thumbsup: drinks are much cheapeer than Fuel, only costing £2.40 a pint :)
happysherpa 04-06-2006, 10:07 AM i think we should organise a SF forum meet down at Dempseys.. give the place some publicilty and customers lol
Kthebean 04-06-2006, 10:14 AM I am sure I will be down there more often. :thumbsup: drinks are much cheapeer than Fuel, only costing £2.40 a pint :)
:o What is that some kind of gay tax? :o
SpiderPete 04-06-2006, 12:12 PM i think we should organise a SF forum meet down at Dempseys.. give the place some publicilty and customers lol
Good idea, but would anyone turn up though ?
discodown 04-06-2006, 12:16 PM Good idea, but would anyone turn up though ?
i'll dj if it happens
SpiderPete 04-06-2006, 12:24 PM i'll dj if it happens
Well my birfinday meet thread at Fuel ain`t gone down well, so maybe I should change it to Dempseys instead........ :thumbsup:
stackmonkey 04-06-2006, 12:40 PM lol,
I'm on hols from 10th to 17th, otherwise I'd be there.
djscottk 05-06-2006, 04:54 PM Well my birfinday meet thread at Fuel ain`t gone down well, so maybe I should change it to Dempseys instead........ :thumbsup:
and lol what about climax.. ur so fickle.:loopy: :thumbsup:
SpiderPete 05-06-2006, 07:47 PM and lol what about climax.. ur so fickle.:loopy: :thumbsup:
I have already told ya, I will be there for Viva Climax :P
SpiderPete 11-06-2006, 04:20 PM So then, who is poppin down tonight for Karaoke night ?
HappySherpa and Tyranna are gonna be singing, I mght pop down for a few, I know we mentioned this on the Fuel thread, and it should have appeared here, we dont wanna be blasted for high-jacking the Fuel thread. lol
Also I think the title of this thread could do with changing to "The Dempseys Megathread" now that we know it aint gonna be closing down now. :thumbsup:
Dj_Shadowman 11-06-2006, 04:22 PM Tonight, look out for the guy wearing the "EAT PUSSY" t shirt :hihi:
Meaks 12-06-2006, 11:36 AM Well I went to Dempsey's with Kristian and Spider40Peter1 on Saturday night and to be honest I'd forgotten how crap it was. BUT it was half the price of fuEL to get in, the drinks were cheaper, the campness levels were high and we had a good laugh! It still has its problems (mainly with the clientele) but the place is looking better. :) :thumbsup:
Was surprised how busy it was to be honest - obviously the novelty value of fuEL has worn off. All went well until SpiderPete treated everyone to a pole dance in the new cage...
Dj_Shadowman 12-06-2006, 11:43 AM I got there early, stayed till around 11pm.
Had no chance to get on the karaoke thanks to the "Usual Suspects"
Could have queue jumped but as im in the same line of work I know how people feel when this happens.
Ended up having a chat with Ian & Colin then went home.
Either missed you lot or no one saw the t shirt :hihi:
happysherpa 12-06-2006, 12:26 PM aww im sad i missed the event.. i thort we were going on wednesday =o(
Tyranna 14-06-2006, 06:49 PM "HappySherpa and Tyranna are gonna be singing, I mght pop down for a few, I know we mentioned this on the Fuel thread, and it should have appeared here, we dont wanna be blasted for high-jacking the Fuel thread. lol"
Sorry, but as it turned out, I WASN'T there on the 11th...
Because of financial constraints (i. e. no job at present), I CANNOT come down on a regular basis to LGBT venues anymore to do Drag UNLESS I AM PAID FOR IT. I will be at Climax on 16th June (I believe they will have a Karaoke specially for that night) but that will all for a while, folks....
Doing Drag is EXPENSIVE, so unfortunately at the present, it is: No pay? No Way!!!
You are welcome to PM me if you are interested in a genuine booking for my services!
discodown 14-06-2006, 10:10 PM it would be good if someone from dempseys would actually comment on this thread, tell people whats going on, if they are closing, future plans etc
Meaks 15-06-2006, 11:07 AM it would be good if someone from dempseys would actually comment on this thread
That's assuming they can read and write.
happysherpa 15-06-2006, 11:18 AM That's assuming they can read and write.
you took the very words from my mouth
djscottk 15-06-2006, 01:35 PM righty then
after this friday the next CLIMAX will be
July 14th at this event we will be looking for our own 'Viva Diva' a lucky climax regular who will become VIP for the whole next 12 months at climax, with loads of special privileges still to be confirmed...
THEN
ITS VIVA CLIMAX TIME once again on July 29th a special all day climax with lots of fun-tastic stuff going on... MOUSSE T (Horny, Sexbomb) is an already confirmed PA holidays to Amsterdam Pride, Manchester Pride, Brighton Pride all up for grabs too...
:love: :love:
I thought dempseys was great. I started to go to fuel when it opened but stopped like a few people when they were asked for I.D to people over 25. One night the bouncer let me after i showed my i.d the next day he didn't. He said he knew who i was but i needed my I.D on me.
Are any of the staff who worked there before fuel still there? as i heard a few of them got laid off.
SpiderPete 25-06-2006, 07:28 PM Well Karen has just emailed me and Dempseys have a website.
http://www.dempseys-sheffield.co.uk/
Best to have a look at it.
happysherpa 26-06-2006, 08:51 AM at last.. checked out the website.. its a little basic.. but better than nothing. wow the 1st picture is of me... lol
djscottk 26-06-2006, 10:21 AM ooh
its great.
SpiderPete 28-06-2006, 01:28 PM I might pop down there tonight, as I am out in town tonight in The Howard straight afetr work, so might see what it is like on a Wednesday, I CERTAINLY wont be singing though.
djscottk 28-06-2006, 04:03 PM I might pop down there tonight, as I am out in town tonight in The Howard straight afetr work, so might see what it is like on a Wednesday, I CERTAINLY wont be singing though.
thank the lord for small mercies.
SpiderPete 29-06-2006, 02:30 PM thank the lord for small mercies.
:( thats not nice, I`ll have to slap ya one when I see you Monday night at Fuel, not many did sing though and they started late.
Tyranna 30-06-2006, 07:24 PM Just a reminder from Sheffield's Favourite Drag Queen to all the regulars at Dempseys:
EUROPRIDE IN LONDON is on TOMORROW, SATURDAY 1ST JULY!
I have been allocated a place in the EUROPRIDE PARADE for myself and anyone else from the Sheffield/S. Yorks LGBT Community who would like to come.
You can PM me (Before 7pm today) or ring/text me on the following number: 07896474243, to arrange meeting up at the start which will be near Hyde Park Corner, London, tomorrow.:thumbsup:
stackmonkey 01-07-2006, 01:13 AM Just a reminder from Sheffield's Favourite Drag Queen to all the regulars at Dempseys:
You mean that there weren't QUITE enough leaflets even before you came in tonight? :hihi:
eighty4 01-07-2006, 05:51 AM Dempseys shouldve been shut years ago i havent met one person that has anythin good to say about the place !
SpiderPete 01-07-2006, 11:45 AM Well I popped in there last nite and it was a bit quiet, went to Xes after and that was even quieter.
happysherpa 01-07-2006, 01:40 PM so is Dempseys closing down?
Dj_Shadowman 01-07-2006, 02:31 PM so is Dempseys closing down?
Simple answer....NO
djscottk 01-07-2006, 05:01 PM haa haaaaaaa
oh to live in worksop, and call it retford on gaydar.
:thumbsup:
stackmonkey 02-07-2006, 01:15 AM Well I popped in there last nite and it was a bit quiet, went to Xes after and that was even quieter.
what time were you in dempsey's then? I was in last night from about 10 until 11.15 ish when tyranna came in, and then left a few minutes later.
Meaks 02-07-2006, 01:59 AM I was in last night from about 10 until 11.15 ish when tyranna came in, and then left a few minutes later.
I'm guessing that wasn't a coincidence! :hihi:
SpiderPete 02-07-2006, 02:01 AM what time were you in dempsey's then? I was in last night from about 10 until 11.15 ish when tyranna came in, and then left a few minutes later.
phew I left before Tyranna came in
Dj_Shadowman 02-07-2006, 02:09 AM I'm guessing that wasn't a coincidence! :hihi:
Oh aint you got that right :hihi:
stackmonkey 02-07-2006, 04:21 PM I'm guessing that wasn't a coincidence! :hihi:
lol, it was a coincidence.
I'd forgotten my wallet so only had enough money for 2 drinks.
happysherpa 02-07-2006, 11:38 PM haa haaaaaaa
oh to live in worksop, and call it retford on gaydar.
:thumbsup:
was that post directed at me lol
yes.. unfortuantly.. im not very proud of living in worksop.. altho i do work in retford..so spend most of my time there...
Retford is much better then worksop.. if you like farm shops.. and old people
Meaks 02-07-2006, 11:47 PM im not very proud of living in worksop..
We're here, we're queer, get used to it! :hihi: x
djscottk 03-07-2006, 03:11 PM lol, it was a coincidence.
I'd forgotten my wallet so only had enough money for 2 drinks.
or one at dempseys prices.
djscottk 03-07-2006, 03:12 PM was that post directed at me lol
yes.. unfortuantly.. im not very proud of living in worksop.. altho i do work in retford..so spend most of my time there...
Retford is much better then worksop.. if you like farm shops.. and old people
ahh ha, Retford is gorgeous. i used to live there.
happysherpa 03-07-2006, 04:07 PM are you a gay from retford?? or just a gay friendly?
Dj_Shadowman 03-07-2006, 06:20 PM lol, it was a coincidence.
I'd forgotten my wallet so only had enough money for 2 drinks.
Im sure you could have thought of a way to raise some cash in Dempseys :heyhey:
Colin, Keiron, if you are reading this, I do apologise.......not :hihi:
SpiderPete 03-07-2006, 06:23 PM I am sooo confused about tonight ............
dunno wether to go to Demps or fuEL .........
Meaks 04-07-2006, 12:26 PM I am sooo confused about tonight ............
dunno wether to go to Demps or fuEL .........
Where did you end up dear?
(Before the gutter :) )
SpiderPete 04-07-2006, 12:27 PM Where did you end up dear?
I did both............ :thumbsup:
Bluewater --> Lions Lair --> Dempseys --> Fuel --> back to Dempseys and watch Chicago downstairs.
djscottk 04-07-2006, 01:29 PM are you a gay from retford?? or just a gay friendly?
lol
im a gay from scotland who lived in retford, thats all.
:hihi:
djscottk 04-07-2006, 01:29 PM Where did you end up dear?
(Before the gutter :) )
what a strange night.:help:
happysherpa 04-07-2006, 02:07 PM going out on sunday for my friends birthday..
we have decided to go to Dempseys... is it worth it?? will we have a good night? is anyone else going..or want to go.. so it doesnt look to empty?
never been on sunday b4!!!:|
NatalieSheff 04-07-2006, 02:22 PM berlins (fuel) and europa are owned by same people arent they? cant stand dempseys think its scruffy and seedy wouldnt dream of taking gay friends there and our nights out in sheffield. Cant say ive been to fuel yet thou - heard mixed reports - what happened to takapunas gay night? Got a buddy hwo goes to Xes who says its a bit like insomniacs years ago. We could do with a bit of Queens court in sheffield or canal st (certain parts obviously) a bit a class wouldnt go amiss! althoug i love sheffield - everything just seems a little scruffy lately
Yeah, a trendy gay bar would be nice, preferably with a late licence so we have an alternative to the expensive clubs.
NatalieSheff 04-07-2006, 02:41 PM agreed, takapunas seemed to be getting there, but then.... anyway, anything but seediness would be nice
nick2 04-07-2006, 03:29 PM agreed, takapunas seemed to be getting there, but then.... anyway, anything but seediness would be nice
Takapunas was a good venue, I liked it there.
happysherpa 04-07-2006, 05:46 PM what ever happened to Takapunas?????? :confused: it was a very classy night.. loved it!!
Meaks 04-07-2006, 05:50 PM Nobody went I guess - it was overpriced and it was on Thursday.
Samcked of 'lets get the gays in on a quiet night'.
nick2 04-07-2006, 06:17 PM If it had been cheaper it would have been more successfull, queens are notriously tight fisted.
Dj_Shadowman 04-07-2006, 06:18 PM If it had been cheaper it would have been more successfull, queens are notriously tight fisted.
Is it just me that sees the joke there :hihi:
nick2 04-07-2006, 06:19 PM "tight", not "tightly"
Dj_Shadowman 04-07-2006, 06:20 PM "tight", not "tightly"
But if its tightly clenched, wont it fit easier ?
nick2 04-07-2006, 06:21 PM But if its tightly clenched, wont it fit easier ?
not if you leave your watch on.
Dj_Shadowman 04-07-2006, 06:27 PM not if you leave your watch on.
Ribbed :heyhey:
Im starting to get worried now....
nick2 04-07-2006, 06:28 PM Ribbed :heyhey:
would it be selfish to wear a ribbed condom inside out, so you get all the pleasure ?
Dj_Shadowman 04-07-2006, 06:31 PM would it be selfish to wear a ribbed condom inside out, so you get all the pleasure ?
Hmm, not sure about that.
What about being bisexual - is that just being greedy :hihi:
happysherpa 04-07-2006, 07:28 PM i think we have left the topic of the thread.. altho dempseys is a bit boring at times..maybe it be workth wearing a human sized ribbed condom for when we have a night out there:hihi:
stackmonkey 04-07-2006, 07:49 PM well, if you're volunteering... ;)
NatalieSheff 04-07-2006, 11:41 PM Nobody went I guess - it was overpriced and it was on Thursday.
Samcked of 'lets get the gays in on a quiet night'.
are you crazy ?? thursday is the best night to boogie - DISCO 2000! or whatever they call it now :love:
Vip @ Takapuna was ace but unfortunatley never did take off.
For whatever reason people chose to goto dempseys instead maybe the backward gay scene of sheffield doesn't want anywhere that's classy and sophisticated.
nick2 05-07-2006, 10:43 AM I guess not, I did suggest they get some glitterballs and mirrored urinals but they wern't going for it :(
SpiderPete 05-07-2006, 01:16 PM IMO problem with Takapuna was it was on the wrong night, yes it was a bit pricey but they did have special offers on.
i guess the choice of night wasn't brilliant but at the time till it proved itsself it's all they could get
SpiderPete 06-07-2006, 06:06 PM oh well after the Mah Jong night, I will pop down to Demps and see what it is like on Thursdays.
happysherpa 06-07-2006, 08:09 PM me and my friends still ehading down to Dempseys on Sunday :) Fingers crossed it delights us with a fun packed evening...with lots of fun and willies lol
we want to have dinner in sheffield too.. any recommendations??:)
djscottk 06-07-2006, 09:13 PM Fuel fri and sat nights, come join me in the trash palace - this week only x
Dj_Shadowman 07-07-2006, 04:01 AM Fuel fri and sat nights, come join me in the trash palace - this week only x
Thought this thread was about dempseys :huh:
djscottk 07-07-2006, 11:02 AM Thought this thread was about dempseys :huh:
no flies on u sweet cheeks :cool:
Meaks 07-07-2006, 11:06 AM oh well after the Mah Jong night, I will pop down to Demps and see what it is like on Thursdays.
How was the stripper dear?
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 12:37 PM How was the stripper dear?
Well.......... it was a eventfull night, some I cannot mention on a family forum but it was a "different" night, must say after winning at Mah Jong in the Dev Cat :clap: I popped down to Dempseys as I have found my membership card in the kitchen and now costs nowt to get in before 10pm, I saw some friends I had not seen for ages, I mean months, and they mentioned a stripper was on.
Then I went upstairs, and someone knew me, I didn`t have the foggiest idea who he was, I was a bit drunk (no surprise there), and the rest I shall save for PM land, as its a family forum.
If you haven`t been down on a Thursday night, get down, its a brill night......and as usual I behaved myself :thumbsup: and left about 3am.......... and just woke up, I might even pop down tonight. :hihi: :hihi:
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:12 PM Just been chatting to one of my friends who saw Corrina (one of the Dempseys) door staff in Xs the other night and she said that Dempseys is closing down because they can't compete with Fuel.
Apparently the past few weeks the place has been deserted.
If this is true, it is a little bit sad had lots of good night outs in there.
WHO GIVES A **** IF IT'S CLOSING DOWN OR NOT IT'S A DIVE ANYWAY...!! GOOD RIDDENS TO BAD RUBBISH, FUEL IS WAY BETTER ANYWAY!!! :thumbsup:
Meaks 07-07-2006, 01:18 PM WHO GIVES A **** IF IT'S CLOSING DOWN OR NOT IT'S A DIVE ANYWAY...!!
It isn't though dear!
No need to shout BTW. :P
GOOD RIDDENS TO BAD RUBBISH, FUEL IS WAY BETTER ANYWAY!!! :thumbsup:
Fuel is very different to Dempsey's and although I prefer it the novelty value has worn off. From what I have seen Dempsey's is becoming more of viable alternative, and it can be a fun night as long as you aren't expecting too much. As SpiderPete says its much cheaper.
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:20 PM It isn't though dear!
No need to shout BTW. :P
Fuel is very different to Dempsey's and although I prefer it the novelty value has worn off. From what I have seen Dempsey's is becoming more of viable alternative, and it can be a fun night as long as you aren't expecting too much. As SpiderPete says its much cheaper.
YEAH IF YA LIKE SLUMMING IT IN **** HOLES... :loopy:
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 01:21 PM Fuel is very different to Dempsey's and although I prefer it the novelty value has worn off. From what I have seen Dempsey's is becoming more of viable alternative, and it can be a fun night as long as you aren't expecting too much. As SpiderPete says its much cheaper.
I cannot believe I am gonna type this but the Fuel novelty has warn off, and is expensive compared to Dempseys, which I have been in 3 times this week and spent bugger all.............. and it aint closing down at all, if anything its picking up again...... I couldnt go to Fuel on £20 like last night and have the most wicked time ever.......
I think this tread title needs changing now........
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 01:22 PM WHO GIVES A **** IF IT'S CLOSING DOWN OR NOT IT'S A DIVE ANYWAY...!! GOOD RIDDENS TO BAD RUBBISH, FUEL IS WAY BETTER ANYWAY!!! :thumbsup:
No need to shout at all, I take it you don`t like Dempseys.....
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:23 PM it needs closing not changing....!!!
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:24 PM No need to shout at all, I take it you don`t like Dempseys.....
sorry im not shouting i just left the caps on....:hihi:
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 01:25 PM it needs closing not changing....!!!
thats it, why not shut down the whole gay scene, do you work at Fuel by any chance ?
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:27 PM thats it, why not shut down the whole gay scene, do you work at Fuel by any chance ?
i was talking about the thread...!!
No i dont work at fuel and have no desire to...!!
You have to admit that dempsey's has seen better days, it doesn't exactly look inviting does it, come on be honest it looks a right hovel...!!!
Meaks 07-07-2006, 01:31 PM You have to admit that dempsey's has seen better days, it doesn't exactly look inviting does it, come on be honest it looks a right hovel...!!!
To be fair its looking better than it was two or three years ago when there wasn't anywhere else to go. Back then I'd agree it was pretty horrendous, but now it seems to have improved a little - although its by no means classy! :hihi:
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:33 PM To be fair its looking better than it was two or three years ago when there wasn't anywhere else to go. Back then I'd agree it was pretty horrendous, but now it seems to have improved a little - although its by no means classy! :hihi:
I think your just being nice, to say it's improved a little by this you mean they've hovered the carpet or cleaned the toilets...:hihi:
Meaks 07-07-2006, 01:34 PM cleaned the toilets...:hihi:
They certainly haven't done that! :gag:
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 01:35 PM Must also say : the bar staff in Dempseys are much more friendlier, unlike Fuel who are just stuck up arrogant young skinny people, who just dont have the time or day for you, give me someone who is "normal" day to day guy to serve me and they get my money....... sorry if it sounds a bit harsh but its true IMO.
Monday in Fuel was a fine example of this.
SpiderPete 07-07-2006, 01:35 PM I think your just being nice, to say it's improved a little by this you mean they've hovered the carpet or cleaned the toilets...:hihi:
Have you been upstairs at all ?, cause thats changed, yes they need to do something downstairs but I am sure they know that anyway.
blondie-blue 07-07-2006, 01:36 PM Must also say : the bar staff in Dempseys are much more friendlier, unlike Fuel who are just stuck up arrogant young skinny people, who just dont have the time or day for you, give me someone who is "normal" day to day guy to serve me and they get my money....... sorry if it sounds a bit harsh but its true IMO.
Monday in Fuel was a fine example of this.
cant say that ive encountered this when ive been in, must av not liked the look ov u or summat...:hihi:
SpiderPete 08-07-2006, 02:48 PM Well eneded up in Dempseys again last night, thats 4 times this week, gosh lol.
The friendly bar staff even knew what I wanted to drink, and only £2.50 to get in after midnight as well. :thumbsup:
stackmonkey 08-07-2006, 09:42 PM lol, so last time I left just as tyranna turned up; this time I left just as you arrived! :hihi:
SpiderPete 09-07-2006, 12:17 PM lol, so last time I left just as tyranna turned up; this time I left just as you arrived! :hihi:
I presume you mean me, oh well..... lol. :)
Even if you were there, would you know who I was ?
djscottk 09-07-2006, 02:16 PM they've hovered the carpet
Nor That:gag:
djscottk 09-07-2006, 02:17 PM lol, so last time I left just as tyranna turned up; this time I left just as you arrived! :hihi:
u appear to have mastered the knack of avoidance.
SpiderPete 27-07-2006, 07:09 PM I might pop down there tonight, I am at a loose end, and I know there is a stripper on there tonight, although I am not one to look anyway
liar
Ghostrider 27-07-2006, 07:11 PM I might pop down there tonight, I am at a loose end, and I know there is a stripper on there tonight, although I am not one to look anyway
liar
Pete, if you see Ian the dj - tell him the guy that sings the "dirty" versions of well known songs will be going down to see him soon.
He will know who you mean :thumbsup:
SpiderPete 27-07-2006, 07:16 PM Pete, if you see Ian the dj - tell him the I will be going down
ooooooooooooooo how wude , lol :P :P
Ghostrider 27-07-2006, 07:18 PM ooooooooooooooo how wude , lol :P :P
He wishes.
He has been trying to pull me for nearly 2 years now.
SpiderPete 27-07-2006, 07:21 PM He wishes.
He has been trying to pull me for nearly 2 years now.
:o :o :o really.............
happysherpa 28-07-2006, 09:53 AM did i hear Stripper... Pete does he have a BIG wanger:hihi:
SpiderPete 28-07-2006, 01:18 PM did i hear Stripper... Pete does he have a BIG wanger:hihi:
Well lets put it this way, he was a big lad........ I obviously tried not to look :thumbsup:
SpiderPete 04-08-2006, 01:46 PM Well I might be having a mince down here tonight ........... a dit drunk as well no doubt, but nothing knew there :)
bigbadgib 04-08-2006, 03:50 PM SpiderPete - were u there last thursday? My god i nearly died when i saw it!!! Was it real? Seriously, that cannot be functional? Poor Auntie Pam (sat at the side of me) nearly had a heart attack! lol
SpiderPete 04-08-2006, 06:15 PM SpiderPete - were u there last thursday? My god i nearly died when i saw it!!! Was it real? Seriously, that cannot be functional? Poor Auntie Pam (sat at the side of me) nearly had a heart attack! lol
I think I was there last Thursday, this one was a black guy, and he was a bit big.
Meaks 06-08-2006, 02:00 PM Well after our disgraceful treatment by Sheffield's biggest and most expensive gay venue we minced down to Dempsey's last night and had a great night.
Cheap, friendly staff and last night there was a good atmosphere.
We sat at a table and chatted downstairs (met some nice girls who were staying for the night in Sheffield :wave: ), minced about upstairs, had a dance and had a good old drink! :)
Workin 9 to 5.... :hihi:
discodown 06-08-2006, 07:41 PM just to change the subject.
i'm wanting to get back djing on the gay scene, does anybody know who do i need to speak to at dempseys to make it happen?
SpiderPete 06-08-2006, 08:51 PM Well after our disgraceful treatment by Sheffield's biggest and most expensive gay venue we minced down to Dempsey's last night and had a great night.
Cheap, friendly staff and last night there was a good atmosphere.
We sat at a table and chatted downstairs (met some nice girls who were staying for the night in Sheffield :wave: ), minced about upstairs, had a dance and had a good old drink! :)
Workin 9 to 5.... :hihi:
We should go down more dear, maybe we should do a Dempseys meet thread. :thumbsup:
Yes the girl was nice and friendly.
discodown 06-08-2006, 09:35 PM We should go down more dearyou do enough of that according to the rumours!;) ;)
SpiderPete 06-08-2006, 09:37 PM you do enough of that according to the rumours!;) ;)
:o :o how very dare you .......... its all lies lies lies :P
discodown 06-08-2006, 09:40 PM :o :o how very dare you .......... its all lies lies lies :Pmost probably, i must stop listening to rumour!
stackmonkey 07-08-2006, 11:51 PM Well after our disgraceful treatment by Sheffield's biggest and most expensive gay venue we minced down to Dempsey's last night and had a great night.
Cheap, friendly staff and last night there was a good atmosphere.
We sat at a table and chatted downstairs (met some nice girls who were staying for the night in Sheffield :wave: ), minced about upstairs, had a dance and had a good old drink! :)
Workin 9 to 5.... :hihi:
Now why do I know that you all arrived after I left! :hihi:
I was in from about 10.30 until 1am(ish), mainly downstairs at that....spent a fair time talking to martin at the bar.
djscottk 07-08-2006, 11:53 PM just to change the subject.
i'm wanting to get back djing on the gay scene, does anybody know who do i need to speak to at dempseys to make it happen?
ian or colin, id guess... :hihi:
SpiderPete 07-08-2006, 11:53 PM Now why do I know that you all arrived after I left! :hihi:
I was in from about 10.30 until 1am(ish), mainly downstairs at that....spent a fair time talking to martin at the bar.
We were all sat downstairs from about 11.15pm until abouit midnight, and then went upstairs, so the chances are you may have seen us. We were sat next to the big tv screen :thumbsup:
djscottk 07-08-2006, 11:55 PM Now why do I know that you all arrived after I left! :hihi:
I was in from about 10.30 until 1am(ish), mainly downstairs at that....spent a fair time talking to martin at the bar.
u get any juicy gossip al-a martin that u want to share with us?
happysherpa 07-08-2006, 11:59 PM Stackmonkey.. you must have seen the forumers..they stand out in a crowd :hihi:
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:00 AM We should go down more dear, maybe we should do a Dempseys meet thread. :thumbsup:
Yes .. we need to organise a Dempseys meet for sure.. on a stripper night of course lol
SpiderPete 08-08-2006, 12:00 AM Stackmonkey.. you must have seen the forumers..they stand out in a crowd :hihi:
:o :o we are a quiet bunch
SpiderPete 08-08-2006, 12:01 AM Yes .. we need to organise a Dempseys meet for sure.. on a stripper night of course lol
Yes that would be a Thursday .............. not that I knew this, I had to ask ;)
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:01 AM o yeah very quiet indeed.. until you consume jugs of pimms lol
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:03 AM Spiderpete as been promoting the stripper night since he saw it with his own eyes.. he was quite impressed by the length..i bet he was stood right at the front of the crowd..and willingly volunteerd to be of assistances lol
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:04 AM o yeah very quiet indeed.. until you consume jugs of pimms lol
hi sherpa, was edinburgh fun?
:)
SpiderPete 08-08-2006, 12:05 AM Spiderpete as been promoting the stripper night since he saw it with his own eyes.. he was quite impressed by the length..i bet he was stood right at the front of the crowd..and willingly volunteerd to be of assistances lol
erm .......... no I wasn`t, I am the one at the back............ ;)
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:07 AM o boy o boy o boy.. yes had the best time in Edinburgh.. it was the start of the festival.. lots of parades and street entertainment.
also experinced the deadly vaults..saw ghosts and goules. Got wipped with a women in a black cloak.
Met some crazy scotish girls while clubbing.. who treated us to a night of crazy dancing.
Glad to be home and resting.
Missed SF x
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:08 AM erm .......... no I wasn`t, I am the one at the back............ ;)
yes with your tail in your hand lol
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:09 AM o boy o boy o boy.. yes had the best time in Edinburgh.. it was the start of the festival.. lots of parades and street entertainment.
also experinced the deadly vaults..saw ghosts and goules. Got wipped with a women in a black cloak.
Met some crazy scotish girls while clubbing.. who treated us to a night of crazy dancing.
Glad to be home and resting.
Missed SF x
ooh i am glad u enjoyed urself.. did u remember my edinburgh rock?
:suspect:
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:10 AM yes with your tail in your hand lol
what a horrific thought. please spare a thought for those of us with delicate stomachs.. :gag:
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 12:10 AM ooh i am glad u enjoyed urself.. did u remember my edinburgh rock?
:suspect:
well erm erm yes i did... but.. unfortuantly i left it up authers seat.. :( you might have to climb up and get it.
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:13 AM well erm erm yes i did... but.. unfortuantly i left it up authers seat.. :( you might have to climb up and get it.
ooh... maybe it will taste better if i let it mature before even going near it, just like a good whisky or wine needs...
ill let u know in a few centuries time, upon collection if the maturing process has been beneficial... or whether it has become some freak example of disaster in its lowest form, and would have to be rapidly disposed of into a bin?
ooh, deja vu moment (please do excuse moi... ) i have just remembered some wretched thing that physically has definately without a shadow of doubt matured, and it could be argued it has actually unrealistically severely over-matured in physical terms!!! way beyond anybody's wildest dreams! however in all terms other than physical, the specimin in question has in fact become so immature, i doubt it could ever ever be classified.. this freak example of all the lowest of the low must be shredded in a cross cut shredder, and then decompressed, into a vile pink shade recycled toilet paper.. with no antibac qualities, and too cheap and nasty to even come in a package and therefore only is available in lets say dumpseys loo, most nights, slumped on the floor in a heap, trying to attach itself to something much younger, fresher than its-self, only to be seen clearly by everyone else at the end of the night clinging to this innocent much younger and fresher thing and then in just the nick of time.... the super hero thing, known only to appear in the most severe cases of lecherous, filthy beastiality, swooped down from very high and moral place in the night sky, covering the filthy from dumpseys loo in over ripened manure, and bagging it up in some kind of plastic casing, before dumping it gracefully in the river humber. never to be seen again.
Meaks 08-08-2006, 12:17 AM Now why do I know that you all arrived after I left! :hihi:
I was in from about 10.30 until 1am(ish), mainly downstairs at that....spent a fair time talking to martin at the bar.
Oh we must have seen you then dear! I was the butch one, drinking Boddingtons... :)
SpiderPete 08-08-2006, 12:19 AM Oh we must have seen you then dear! I was the butch one, drinking Boddingtons... :)
:o outrageous comment :o
He must have seen us, he hasnt posted since, so he must have, lol
you butch dear, no dear, never dear ever dear :P
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:21 AM Oh we must have seen you then dear! I was the butch one, drinking Boddingtons... :)
by eck chuck u looked gorgeous that neet.
(hope i passed for mel sykes there...)
djscottk 08-08-2006, 12:39 AM Oh we must have seen you then dear! I was the butch one, drinking Boddingtons... :)
i just remembered, i wasnt even in dempseys - so actually dont really know at all...
:cool:
at least im on a par with mel sykes in the 'air head' department.. ill keep practising the accent.
djscottk 08-08-2006, 09:11 AM o yeah very quiet indeed.. until you consume jugs of pimms lol
with floating salad slammed in it just to ensure we didnt like it in the slightest.
:gag:
stackmonkey 08-08-2006, 10:07 AM We were all sat downstairs from about 11.15pm until abouit midnight, and then went upstairs, so the chances are you may have seen us. We were sat next to the big tv screen :thumbsup:
I'd have been there at that time. but then I'm easy to spot, ;)
and all the bar staff know me.
stackmonkey 08-08-2006, 10:09 AM u get any juicy gossip al-a martin that u want to share with us?
No, *worried* why? have I missed something? what happened? and to whom? :cool:
stackmonkey 08-08-2006, 10:10 AM Oh we must have seen you then dear! I was the butch one, drinking Boddingtons... :)
Their own label white wine? :hihi:
djscottk 08-08-2006, 11:14 AM No, *worried* why? have I missed something? what happened? and to whom? :cool:
u thought he was just pleased to see u - go on admit it... :suspect:
however, he wasnt, he was hiding the microphone from tyranna.
:P
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 11:16 AM good morning Forumers.. i got tired of all your wining last night..so departed to the bedroom lol
djscottk 08-08-2006, 11:23 AM good morning Forumers.. i got tired of all your wining last night..so departed to the bedroom lol
did sherpa start it all, then sneak out, after the floodgates opened??:suspect:
and i was wining last night, 4 juicy bottles of red.
least its good for my heart,
:love:
happysherpa 08-08-2006, 11:37 AM i jumped a sinking ship lol
SpiderPete 08-08-2006, 11:53 AM I'd have been there at that time. but then I'm easy to spot, ;)
and all the bar staff know me.
Oh I think there is a good chance I have seen you, bar staff know me as well, and they know what I drink even before I walk in. Which is a sign I go too much, but who cares, lol ;)
I am going down there tonight after the Mah Jong Forum Meet, as the venue is quite near, I think. :thumbsup:
Meaks 09-08-2006, 10:58 AM I am going down there tonight after the Mah Jong Forum Meet, as the venue is quite near, I think. :thumbsup:
Was it a good night? Any Poles? ;)
SpiderPete 09-08-2006, 01:12 PM Was it a good night? Any Poles? ;)
well, I popped down there before the Mah Jong meet for a couple, and this new guy was there and this other guy came over, and we all had a good chat and stuff.
I left about midnight-ish and had a fab time.
Nice to see a forum person there as well, had a good chat, although I was a bit tipsy when I came over to you. :thumbsup:
happysherpa 10-08-2006, 09:40 AM which forum guy did you meet? did you leave with him lol:hihi:
SpiderPete 10-08-2006, 02:16 PM which forum guy did you meet? did you leave with him lol:hihi:
:o :o how dare you, lol......... cannot say who he was and no I didnt leave with him.
SpiderPete 14-08-2006, 02:47 AM ooooooooo I ended up in Dempseys tonight, saw Tryanna sing :gag:
Met a nice man ................ place was full and went home.
Oh a fun night had :thumbsup:
stackmonkey 19-08-2006, 09:17 PM Anyone going to Dempsey's tonight?
I'm just off to get a shower - should be in there 10.00 ish...
SpiderPete 20-08-2006, 01:00 AM Anyone going to Dempsey's tonight?
I'm just off to get a shower - should be in there 10.00 ish...
Well I don`t believe it, I was in there tonight, didn`t see this post.
Oh well, one day we will meet, lol.
I was sat downstairs ............ all alone. :(
happysherpa 21-08-2006, 12:54 PM i really need to visit dempseys soon.. its been donkies years since i have been. Does the downstairs still look like a diner and smell of fatty chips?
SpiderPete 21-08-2006, 01:02 PM i really need to visit dempseys soon.. its been donkies years since i have been. Does the downstairs still look like a diner and smell of fatty chips?
Yes and No, nice simple answer :thumbsup:
skyfitsboy 23-08-2006, 01:59 PM i really need to visit dempseys soon.. its been donkies years since i have been. Does the downstairs still look like a diner and smell of fatty chips?
I really need to give Dempseys a revisit too, not been since Fuel opened last year, heard lots of people say the numbers have picked up alot recently.
Always preferred the music in Dempseys to Fuel's main room which is just so boring!!
Ghostrider 23-08-2006, 02:10 PM I went down town after work on sunday.
First went to the bedroom and got 2nd place in the karaoke competition.
For the first time in years, I fancied going to a club but couldnt think of one that may be open so just wandered around and spotted kingdom - went in and stayed about 15 minutes.
What a hole !
Went looking for somewhere else and wandered into dempseys.
They had just finished the karaoke - downer :(
Ended up upstairs where for the first time in about 15 years I WAS DANCING :o
So, if you spotted a slightly inebriated person attempting to dance upstairs on sunday night - that was me.
My apologies to anyone who had the misfortune to witness this event :hihi:
SpiderPete 23-08-2006, 06:14 PM I really need to give Dempseys a revisit too, not been since Fuel opened last year, heard lots of people say the numbers have picked up alot recently.
Always preferred the music in Dempseys to Fuel's main room which is just so boring!!
Yes I have been down over the past few weeks and the numbers have picked up alot.
happysherpa 23-08-2006, 06:51 PM I really need to give Dempseys a revisit too, not been since Fuel opened last year, heard lots of people say the numbers have picked up alot recently.
Always preferred the music in Dempseys to Fuel's main room which is just so boring!!
well if you ever fancy it..let me know.. ill come hold your hand :hihi:
roguetrader 24-08-2006, 06:12 PM Must also say : the bar staff in Dempseys are much more friendlier, unlike Fuel who are just stuck up arrogant young skinny people, who just dont have the time or day for you, give me someone who is "normal" day to day guy to serve me and they get my money....... sorry if it sounds a bit harsh but its true IMO.
Monday in Fuel was a fine example of this.
Personally I think what you said was very unfair! Yes the bar staff in Dempseys are friendly and most of them are always chatty with a smile on their face. However to say the staff at Fuel are stuck up and arrogant is a dumb generalisation.
They may be young and skinny but what's wrong with a bit of eye candy? In general though you can't say they are all arrogant or don't have 'the time of day' for you as I think most of them work hard in their role and try to encourage a positive atmosphere.
If there are particular incidents/bar members you find unfriendly I suggest you notify Stewie or Danny so they can solve the issue.
SpiderPete 24-08-2006, 06:14 PM If there are particular incidents/bar members you find unfriendly I suggest you notify Stewie or Danny so they can solve the issue.
Already told them :thumbsup:
roguetrader 24-08-2006, 06:17 PM Already told them :thumbsup:
It's good that people give feedback because otherwise how are clubs meant to improve things? :clap:
SpiderPete 24-08-2006, 06:22 PM It's good that people give feedback because otherwise how are clubs meant to improve things? :clap:
I think they are well aware of my positive and negative feedback, shame more don`t do it.
Keeping quiet is not always the answer.
duff_muff 24-08-2006, 09:26 PM I'm quite glad that you said all the bar staff in Fuel are young and skinny - that's the first time anyone's described me as skinny! :D
djscottk 24-08-2006, 10:37 PM I'm quite glad that you said all the bar staff in Fuel are young and skinny - that's the first time anyone's described me as skinny! :D
all except u :suspect:
367squadron 25-08-2006, 04:58 PM I'm quite glad that you said all the bar staff in Fuel are young and skinny - that's the first time anyone's described me as skinny! :D
Which one of the bar staff are you then, duff muff??
Is it true that 3 members of the bar staff have been sacked/made redundant?
Meaks 25-08-2006, 05:01 PM Oooh, we like a bit of gossip. :)
SpiderPete 25-08-2006, 06:31 PM Oooh, we like a bit of gossip. :)
oooooooooo gossip dear ?, well we are not one to gossip ............. but ...........;)
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