Im 22 and agree with 90% of what Carbs says!

So there!
Matt

I'm 42 and I don't. So what?
Next.

Weren't you pointing out that Carbs is an 'elder' and that his views are somewhat old fashioned?

I was pointing out that Im young, agree with him, disproving your point.

Apologies if ive misread you!

1) Whats the deal with Anita - does she just DJ or perform as well?
2) I am not always negative on here "elphaba" - just inquisitive and curious sometimes
3) Has Dempseys got that espresso coffee machine yet ? It would be nice to go in there sometime and not have "alcohol only " options
4) They should heat up their food more - I know of a friend recently who got an almost cold cheess burger in there or least it was by the time they got it
5) I think there should be an older controlling influence on the young male bar staff downstairs there of an early evening who sometimes lark about with each other with inappropriate behaviour - remember straight people go in there also - and stop them JUST having a diet of Kylie and madge on the monitors ALL the time :-O

I'm straight and I go in there - yes, I'm a woman and that kind of behaviour doesn't bother me. But I'm sorry, if you're a straight guy/girl, go to a gay club and don't expect or want to see 2 men, or indeed women messing around, kissing etc, or whatever, then you're really going to the wrong place IMO.

I'm straight and I go in there - yes, I'm a woman and that kind of behaviour doesn't bother me. But I'm sorry, if you're a straight guy/girl, go to a gay club and don't expect or want to see 2 men, or indeed women messing around, kissing etc, or whatever, then you're really going to the wrong place IMO.

Yes how correct this is, its a gay bar, you should expect 2 men kissing, hugging etc etc and same with women.

I really cannot belive Carb said that.

Well personally I dont mind what they do - I was just worried for the straight men who I do know for a fact go in there cos they like it as a nice friendly bar :-~

And how dare benson&H call me an elder when he is 42 - that is ancient on the gay scene BH dear ! ANyway I am releived I can still go somewhere and dance in a cage with my zimmerframe and no-one cares a jot ;-)

Don't put words in my mouth Carb - I never mentioned anything about your age - I merely stated my own.

As for worrying about the straight men's feelings, go for it, cos (most of them) sure wouldn't be worried about ours....

I wasn't having a go at you Carb, but it does annoy me when people go to a gay club and expect NOT to see this kind of thing because it makes them feel uncomfortable - just don't go there if you ask me.

I was there the other week and this guy kept saying "I'm not gay but.....". OK - we get it, you like women, but he kept going on and on and on. It's not like anyone would have fancied him anyway :hihi:

the ones who promote 'im not gay' ususally protest 'too much' if you ask me

ive slept with a couple of 'straight' guys who frequent dempseys!

i should be quiet now lol

the ones who promote 'im not gay' ususally protest 'too much' if you ask me

ive slept with a couple of 'straight' guys who frequent dempseys!

i should be quiet now lol

I know what you mean.

Apparently the difference between a gay and straight man is between 6-8 pints*


*quoting one of my friends.

Oh, I'm there this Saturday by the way after work :banana:

I may see a couple of you there....

Lol @ KTHFB!!! And agreed, the difference between a gay and straight man is between 6-8 pints. I can confirm that!

Saturday?! You should do Friday, so much happening at the likes of Lions Lair, Sanctuary opens... then Demps, then Lions again! Wooo!

Lol @ KTHFB!!! And agreed, the difference between a gay and straight man is between 6-8 pints. I can confirm that!

Saturday?! You should do Friday, so much happening at the likes of Lions Lair, Sanctuary opens... then Demps, then Lions again! Wooo!

Ah, but I've got a busy day Friday, and my friends are out Saturday - still doing Lions and IDentity after so should still be a good one! Bring it on!

EDIT: I'm doing Thursday there too so Friday would be a bit too much for bar staff and door staff to take of me I think! :D

IDentity after so should still be a good one! :D

IDentity is now closed.

IDentity is now closed.

I told my friends that and they said it was because we'd gone down on a Thursday, and it's open on a Friday and Saturday.

I'll let them know though - and we'll probably be heading your way - you have been warned..... :hihi:

Just want to thank you all for a fab halloween it was so good . didn't think it would be that busy ! hope you all had a good night !!!!!

Carbs is out on the town tonight with friends frightening people - I might pop in later on - then maybe go for a sleep in Identity ;-)

Carbs is out on the town tonight with friends frightening people - I might pop in later on - then maybe go for a sleep in Identity ;-)

I thought you were going to a party tonight ? :suspect: