I have just had a gobfull from my "friends" friend. This is the guy that when we last talked was seriosly considering dumping his girlfriend and dating me.

I called him (Craig) to wish him a happy birthday, and we chatted for a while when his "best friend" came round and satrted acting a tw*t again, i told Craig that i was angry last time i called him due to this reason, and now he was doing it again, so Craig put me on to this other guy who said something along the lines of "get your f**ing gay arse down here you puff and ill f*king knock you back to sheffield you f*king gay tw*t" im like WTF? Where did this come form so i said "Have you quite finished?" and then got another mouthful. Craig came back on and just hung up on me!

This guy has tested my patience far too much. He cant even be bothered to call me and apologise, and he just stood by while his friend gave me abuse so i can olny assume he feels the same way. This has got me REALLY mad! :rant: :rant: The thign is i really liked this guy until now....i so wanna go down there and give that little chav a good beeting!

What should i do? Just ignore him and hope he will go away or call hiom and tell him how mad i am?

The best thing you can ever give a worthless man ........... is nothing..........:thumbsup:

I wouldn't call him back let them have the last word while you walk away with the knowledge that your the better person. x

I'd just drop it for a while mate, let your friend decide on his own wether he wants to be with girlfriend or you.
I gather your mate is'nt that straight? If he was one way or the other he'd know what he wants.
Sounds like he's told this guy that gave you the verbal another story.
Just play it cool, chill and time will do the talking.

My lads gay, so know how emotional you lot get, honestly it's not worth stressing yourself out or getting into trouble over.

Avalon, you must be very confused, upset, hurt and disappointed right now as well as angry.

If it were me, I'd follow the good advice from cloudybay and danum ... just give him the Big Ignore ... he doesn't deserve any more of your attention.

(((X)))

I can't help thinking you're on a hiding to nothing with this one Av. Just walk away before it gets worse! :)

K x

Avalon,

Not really been in this situation ever, but I would say just walk away and show yourself to be the adult, rather than the petulant brat that the other fellow is.

If you feel the need to express your anger, write a note, stick it in an envelope, put said envelope in a drawer and leave it for a week or two. You'll almost certainly not feel the need to do something that's irrevocable. And at the end of that time, burn the letter.

Keeping anger burning makes a prisoner of you; whilst it will feel good for a short time, take the longer view and walk away.

Good Luck.

Joe

*Sigh*

Thanks folks....im still mad bt im trying not to think about it.

Joe: I might just do what you suggest...see if it helps!

A =)

Ignore them, they are very childish by the sound of it, and Craig is no friend, if he was he would hardly have let the other person speak to you in such a way.

My advice is just forget about them

and then in a few months send them both this

MOD:Adult link removed. .....very childish so it'll probably be right up thier street, please don't view this if easily offended,

ha ha ha:hihi: :hihi:

LOL - that flash clip is nuts! Very funny, but as other people have said - I think the best thing to do is be the bigger person and just ignore them... he's not worth the time or effort.

Disclaimer: I'd just like to point out that I have no idea who Avalon is, and am not the Craig mentioned :cool:

I was only joking about sending the flash clip to them:hihi: :hihi:

just thought that it might cheer him up. I too think that you should ignore them

Don't forget that the string of abuse vented at you, probably applied equally to the other pair of ears listening ;)

Your friend didn't have the benefit of a couple of miles of phone wire to separate him from this tw4t, and probably felt quite intimidated being in the same room.

I'd feel sorry for him if I were you. If he's not strong enough to stand up for his convictions like you are, he's in for a rough ride :(

If he threatened you then go and threaten him back - don't be a wallflower. This is a classic battle between two men for one man so go and get your pistols coz you should be drawing them at dawn.

Originally posted by melbournian
If he threatened you then go and threaten him back - don't be a wallflower. This is a classic battle between two men for one man so go and get your pistols coz you should be drawing them at dawn.

Im with him on this one im afraid- its not the right thing to do as it could escalate but no-one threatens me!! :D