View Full Version : I want to make my girlfriend feel special?


dazza
17-08-2005, 03:09
I have been going with my girlfriend for 11yrs and i have 3 loverly kids,but i want to make my girl friend feel special and to let her no that i apprieciate her has any one got any ideas,anything would be great. thanks peeps :clap:

andy4107
17-08-2005, 03:20
Ask her to marry you. :)

spinny
17-08-2005, 04:31
Originally posted by andy4107
Ask her to marry you. :)


I agree with andy4107. 11years and 3 kids.I think by now it be special to her to pop the question, take her out for a nice meal wile you at it..;)

bobsyouruncle
17-08-2005, 04:59
totally agree, big bunch of roses, nice quite evening in or out, tell her you love her.
ask her for hand in marriage, but ask her father first for his approval:D :thumbsup:

owdlad
17-08-2005, 06:23
From the information I was given by an elderly lady, to make a woman truly happy.

You need to go out and find a really really small grand piano, one that is only around knee high from the floor, then put an advert in as many places as you can afford asking for a minature piano player. (the old lady didn't mention the piano but I am sure you will need one)

She actually only said "to keep a woman happy you need a twelve inch pianist" but I am a little hard of hearing.

:P

DragonofAna
17-08-2005, 07:17
Sorry but other than to ask her to marry you I have no answer to your question.

However - would like to congratulate you and to hope you have many more happy years ahead of you both.

Dragon

Macca
17-08-2005, 07:28
Originally posted by dazza
I have been going with my girlfriend for 11yrs and i have 3 loverly kids,but i want to make my girl friend feel special and to let her no that i apprieciate her has any one got any ideas,anything would be great. thanks peeps :clap:

Buy her a dishwasher.

JonJParr
17-08-2005, 07:44
Tell her that you love her. Tell her that every morning you wake up next to her you love her more than the last. Tell her that finding her was like discovering the other part of yourself.

Pack the kids off to their grandparents or a friend's and cook her a fantastic meal. Eat some great food, drink some fine wine and spend some quality time together. That will show her that you love and appreciate her.

ps: I'm on hand to offer fine wine recommendations.

Abdul
17-08-2005, 07:50
Originally posted by liencam
Buy her a dishwasher.

That would negate the benefits of female companionship :|

youwhatref
17-08-2005, 07:57
Originally posted by owdlad
From the information I was given by an elderly lady, to make a woman truly happy.

You need to go out and find a really really small grand piano, one that is only around knee high from the floor, then put an advert in as many places as you can afford asking for a minature piano player. (the old lady didn't mention the piano but I am sure you will need one)

She actually only said "to keep a woman happy you need a twelve inch pianist" but I am a little hard of hearing.

:P

LOL :D

I'm sure you will have thought of the marriage thing after being together all that time. I'd get someone to look after the kids and fly off somewhere for a couple of nights. Maybe book somewhere special, rent a tux, let her wear a posh dress and have a romantic night! Bit of what's your father after to compliment it :hihi:

dawny1
17-08-2005, 08:22
Why don't you book her and her best mate a weekend at a luxury health spa so she can be totally pampered.

I went to Ragdale Hall once, unfortuantely I was ill for the whole weekend with a stomach bug which I hasten to add I didn't catch there, I spent the whole time on the loo - I did loose weight though!

There are some lovely pampering weekends about. Good Luck.

sugarnspice
17-08-2005, 08:40
That was such a nice thread to read this morning. It's wonderful that you haven't forgotten how to make your time together special.

People have made some great suggestions, I would definitely agree with taking her out somewhere where she can get all dressed up & feel great.

Perhaps you would like to have a word with my boyf now? ;)

Big_Dipper
17-08-2005, 09:23
a 12 month membership to La Chambre? :heyhey:

Originally posted by dazza
I have been going with my girlfriend for 11yrs and i have 3 loverly kids,but i want to make my girl friend feel special and to let her no that i apprieciate her has any one got any ideas,anything would be great. thanks peeps :clap:

samc
17-08-2005, 09:29
Do all the house work for a month.

Load and unload the washing machine up/ fold all the clothes away after ironing.

Actually do all those little jobs round the place that need doing.

Let her a long snooze in every Saturday morning.

Make weekends completely fun time and no domestic chores for her to do.

She might think you are having an affair. Cos' if my bloke started doing this I 'd be delighted but wonder what the hell he'd been up to.

Lea1979
17-08-2005, 09:32
to make someone feel truly special, i don't think its about what you can buy or where you can take her because although that is lovely and its a fun thing to do - anyone can do it.

its all about the things you say and do.

this might just be me but - if you put your hands up on her face, look deep into her eyes and tell her how much she means to you and then give her a long and passionate kiss - she'll know how special she is.

i would probably collapse on the spot with that !!

sugarnspice
17-08-2005, 09:34
Yeah that's true but with 3 kids, I'll bet a lovely romantic night out would be absolutely fantastic for her. A break from all the Mum duties & a chance to get dressed up. That would do me right now!

I think it's so romantic that this notion is even in your head at all to be honest. Now, please, about that word with my boyf....

youwhatref
17-08-2005, 09:43
I think sugarnspice needs some serious loving! :D Maybe you can leave this post up on your PC or print it off.

And great suggestion BigDipper. lol

sugarnspice
17-08-2005, 09:45
Originally posted by youwhatref
I think sugarnspice needs some serious loving! :D Maybe you can leave this post up on your PC or print it off.

And great suggestion BigDipper. lol

Hehe. Marvellous idea!


TAKE ME OUT MR! GIVE ME SOME ROMANCE!!!

There that should do it. ;)

youwhatref
17-08-2005, 09:49
Just take a screnshot of this page and copy it to word and put it on full screen. He'll be none the wiser!

Could the origianl poster be your bloke in disguise?? I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! :D

sugarnspice
17-08-2005, 09:51
Originally posted by youwhatref
Just take a screnshot of this page and copy it to word and put it on full screen. He'll be none the wiser!

Could the origianl poster be your bloke in disguise?? I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! :D

If only! This is far too romantic to be linked to me! I think this fella's lady should see this post, wouldn't that make her feel very special indeed?

dazza
17-08-2005, 10:08
Thanks for all the great ideas i will try the marrage propsol tonight."watch this space" :suspect:

sugarnspice
17-08-2005, 10:09
Originally posted by dazza
Thanks for all the great ideas i will try the marrage propsol tonight."watch this space" :suspect:


OOOh wow how exciting! Yes do tell us all about it. You're my new romantic hero. xxx :clap:

Lea1979
17-08-2005, 10:09
Originally posted by sugarnspice
Yeah that's true but with 3 kids, I'll bet a lovely romantic night out would be absolutely fantastic for her. A break from all the Mum duties & a chance to get dressed up. That would do me right now!

I think it's so romantic that this notion is even in your head at all to be honest. Now, please, about that word with my boyf....


thats true !!! never thought of that - well just do both then :)

scottf
17-08-2005, 10:10
Originally posted by Lee1979
to make someone feel truly special, i don't think its about what you can buy or where you can take her because although that is lovely and its a fun thing to do - anyone can do it.

its all about the things you say and do.

this might just be me but - if you put your hands up on her face, look deep into her eyes and tell her how much she means to you and then give her a long and passionate kiss - she'll know how special she is.

i would probably collapse on the spot with that !!

Duely noted :D

Lea1979
17-08-2005, 10:32
Originally posted by scottf
Duely noted :D

oh good - hoped you would read it ! my cunning plan worked! xx

good luck with the proposal dazza !

sugarnspice
18-08-2005, 14:50
Originally posted by dazza
Thanks for all the great ideas i will try the marrage propsol tonight."watch this space" :suspect:


Waiting for an update!!!

Lea1979
18-08-2005, 14:52
oh yes ! come on, where are you ???

hope all went well ??? :)

back2basics
18-08-2005, 15:00
Take her away to the seaside. While she is getting ready for a night out, sneak down to the beach, write “I love you _____insert name____ (add will you marry me if you feel like it!)” in the sand. Then after the meal, walk down to the beach where you wrote the message and crack open a bottle of wine while you watch the sun set.

angelgirluk
18-08-2005, 15:08
GOOD LUCK DAZZA!!!!!!!!!!!

Lestat
18-08-2005, 15:10
Lucky old Special. . . does he know yet?

I'd warn him first though.:suspect:

owdlad
18-08-2005, 15:16
Originally posted by back2basics
Take her away to the seaside. While she is getting ready for a night out, sneak down to the beach, write “I love you _____insert name____ (add will you marry me if you feel like it!)” in the sand. Then after the meal, walk down to the beach where you wrote the message and crack open a bottle of wine while you watch the sun set.

Don't do that, if she says no you've ruined a good night out. :D

scoop
18-08-2005, 15:20
If you are goingfor a night out alone, and you know she will be in bed before you come home, sneak upstairs before you go out and leave a few special chocolates on her pillow :thumbsup:

Macca
18-08-2005, 15:21
Originally posted by scoop
If you are goingfor a night out alone, and you know she will be in bed before you come home, sneak upstairs before you go out and leave a few special chocolates on her pillow :thumbsup:

That's sick!

:hihi:

sugarnspice
18-08-2005, 15:21
Is it just forum fellas who are romantic????!!???

scoop
18-08-2005, 15:22
Originally posted by liencam
That's sick!

:hihi:
I meant the thorntons variety!

spyro2000
18-08-2005, 15:23
Originally posted by sugarnspice
Is it just forum fellas who are romantic????!!???

Yes. We dont EVER leave the house so weve got more time to think about these things ;)

Macca
18-08-2005, 15:23
Originally posted by sugarnspice
Is it just forum fellas who are romantic????!!???

Aww bless ya baby - I'm sure Mr Spice is very lucky to have you, perhaps he just doesn't know it....

Why not mention how many blokes are requesting a hand made card to say something sweet to their girlfriends. And how lovely you think that is.

sugarnspice
18-08-2005, 15:39
Lol. I didn't want to thrust the said cards down people's throats as it were. But yes, please feel free to PM me with any requests. I can make other designs ...... you may not wish to propose over mini handcuffs & sexy basques. :D

sugarnspice
20-08-2005, 19:49
As you haven't yet given us an update .... I am too scared to ask ..... :confused:

dazza
21-08-2005, 14:53
Originally posted by sugarnspice
As you haven't yet given us an update .... I am too scared to ask ..... :confused: Sorry for the long delay,i have been away,and as you will all be wondering i asked her and she said.........................................stay tuned for next weeks episode.
:banana: :banana:

dazza
21-08-2005, 15:08
Just kidding i couldnt let you wait that long. Well i took her out to the countryside where she likes it,bought her a favorite drink told her much i appriciate her and how empty my life would be without her,then tears started to roll down her face,then with one hand i wiped away her tear and said please make me the happiest man alive and marry me? she started to sob more and said no my heart sank but then she laughed and said of course i will you fool. We then both started to cry and held each other tight .It was the longest 10 mins of my life but worth every minute thanks for all the help guys and thanks to sugernspice for being interested. thanks again peeps DAZZA :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :D

sugarnspice
21-08-2005, 15:30
Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations!!!!!!! That's fab news, so happy for you both. I genuinely feel quite emotional (I do so love a romantic happy ending!).

That is sooooo sweet & has made my day.

Well done. You're my hero!

I've been checking this thread EVERYDAY waiting for news!

Fabulous, fabulous, fabulous. xxx :clap:

DragonofAna
21-08-2005, 15:49
I am happy for you both. May your marriage be long and fruitful - though perhaps not the fruit of the loin type thing - if you get my meaning.

Nice to read a happy beginning rather than a sad ending.

You will have to let us know all the deatails of the wedding and such. I for one will be keeping a close watch for further developments.

Dragon

angelgirluk
21-08-2005, 15:57
Amazing!!!!!! That's such a lovely, lovely way of doing it!!

Congratulations to you both Dazza & Mrs Dazza to be :D :D :D

Any plans as yet or is it all still so new and fresh that you haven't even thought about it yet!!

Yay, I agree with sugarnspice - it is quite emotional for us too VERY HAPPY FOR YOU!

Yipeeeeeeeeeee :clap:
x x x x x

ANGELUS
21-08-2005, 16:03
Nice one Dazza!
Congratulations to you both.

Cake
21-08-2005, 16:28
:clap: Congratulations!!!! :clap:

Zinger549
21-08-2005, 21:28
Congratulations :clap:

you know you've give an excuse for us form members to get drunk

PS. Are we all invited to the wedding. :D only joking

Zinger549
21-08-2005, 22:00
No really hope it all goes well. i guess this means that you'll be spending less time on the forum

poppins
22-08-2005, 13:11
Originally posted by dazza
Just kidding i couldnt let you wait that long. Well i took her out to the countryside where she likes it,bought her a favorite drink told her much i appriciate her and how empty my life would be without her,then tears started to roll down her face,then with one hand i wiped away her tear and said please make me the happiest man alive and marry me? she started to sob more and said no my heart sank but then she laughed and said of course i will you fool. We then both started to cry and held each other tight .It was the longest 10 mins of my life but worth every minute thanks for all the help guys and thanks to sugernspice for being interested. thanks again peeps DAZZA :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :D


OH PLEASE!:rolleyes:

slimsid2000
22-08-2005, 13:34
Originally posted by dazza
I have been going with my girlfriend for 11yrs and i have 3 loverly kids,but i want to make my girl friend feel special and to let her no that i apprieciate her has any one got any ideas,anything would be great. thanks peeps :clap:

Let her catch you in bed with another woman (or better still another man):hihi:

BruciesBabe
22-08-2005, 13:46
A really random and quite inapt posting there Slim.

BruciesBabe
22-08-2005, 13:47
Oh and congrats to dazza, its lovely news - wish there were more lovely people like u out there.

We all wish all the luck in the world.x

Sidla
22-08-2005, 13:53
Congratualtions Dazza, this thread has brought a tear to my eye!

LordSnooty
22-08-2005, 14:15
Drive her around in a white minibus with a wheelchair lift at the back.

dazza
22-08-2005, 15:01
Originally posted by Zinger549
No really hope it all goes well. i guess this means that you'll be spending less time on the forum no definatly not i will still be here:hihi:

Hook
22-08-2005, 15:09
Congratulations dude :)

I'm now a little jealous :thumbsup:

miniminch
22-08-2005, 18:19
Originally posted by dazza
Just kidding i couldnt let you wait that long. Well i took her out to the countryside where she likes it,bought her a favorite drink told her much i appriciate her and how empty my life would be without her,then tears started to roll down her face,then with one hand i wiped away her tear and said please make me the happiest man alive and marry me? she started to sob more and said no my heart sank but then she laughed and said of course i will you fool. We then both started to cry and held each other tight .It was the longest 10 mins of my life but worth every minute thanks for all the help guys and thanks to sugernspice for being interested. thanks again peeps DAZZA :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :D She said, 'of course you fool! As long as you promise to go back to college and learn to write in paragraphs!'
don't mind if I throw up!:gag:

wiseman
22-08-2005, 18:41
whose special.and why would you want her to feel him lol:o :D

PhilipB
23-08-2005, 21:09
Just realised how far I can get my fingers down my throat.

Pass the barf bag and make it a big un.

:gag: :gag:

the_rudeboy
24-08-2005, 11:37
Nice one dazza......congrats mate.

robbie
24-08-2005, 11:53
well domne mate :clap: :clap: