I'm not looking for cheesy chat up lines. You know the scene in a noisy pub, a girl likes the look of you and fancies a chat. Even if that's all it is how do you 'break the ice'?

Rock up to her, plunge your fingers into her............drink, pick out an ice cube, hurl it on the floor, jump on it, then say "well that's broken the ice".

Works vitually none of the time....

Rock up to her, plunge your fingers into her............drink, pick out an ice cube, hurl it on the floor, jump on it, then say "well that's broken the ice".

Works vitually none of the time....

And then, start crying once she's punched you in the face for putting your manky fingers in her drink :hihi::hihi:

"You've got nice legs...when do they open?"

works a treat. Honestly.

Can I buy you a rohypnol and coke?

or

Does this smell like chloroform to you?

Enter into a detailed and lenghthy discussion about bus deregulation with her.

ok seriously , why should she not break the ice with you/ WEhy si it always men who have to make the first move?

ok seriously , why should she not break the ice with you/ WEhy si it always men who have to make the first move?

It's not always the men that make the first move. We're all modern these days.

Well how come girls never make the first move with me?

Well how come girls never make the first move with me?
Resist, resist :hihi:

I have been approached first more than twice but i do find it difficult to make the first move...don't you?

Shove your face in her cleavage and blow!

It's never failed me yet and I do it all the time! :D

"That barstool looks rather soft...why don't you come and sit on something hard?"

Seriously though, I always need a few drinks before I talk to any female. The only problem is, I can never remember how I start conversations with them...

"Get ya gums roond me plums"

classic. Works every time.:hihi:

If people can’t understand “I'm not looking for cheesy chat up lines” what chance have they got of understanding woman. :roll:

just talk....its so easy.....easiest thing in the world...dont think...dont plan...just talk....about ANYTHING

I use the old 'excuse me love, im not from Sheffield so i was wondering where the best bars are' line and you take it from there. If the conversation is flowing i always admit that i am from Sheffield and just needed an excuse to talk to em, then offer to buy em a drink for lying to em.

tell her she looks nice whilst looking into her eyes and NOT at her boobs usually works

just talk....its so easy.....easiest thing in the world...dont think...dont plan...just talk....about ANYTHING
Really Goldenfeece, some of us just are not the easy going chatty types.

I always find it's easier to talk to women while you're at the bar waiting to be served, compliment them somehow, who doesn't like being complimented?

At the bar is the most common environment to get chatting Shoesme, i agree.

At the bar is the most common environment to get chatting Shoesme, i agree.

And it gives you something to talk about if you've been waiting a while.

Which is often the case lately.

'We're going to have sex tonight...'

'Oh really?, Why's that?'

'Because im stronger than you'


Should work.

I have been approached first more than twice but i do find it difficult to make the first move...don't you?

very.................

How's abouts shouting 'Oi, you, NOOOOOO!Hula hoops r rnd, they're stayin' rnd, and they'll be around forever:hihi:

It's nice sometimes to chat to different people in bars without it being chatting someone up - I have a boyfriend and I'm not interested in pulling someone else, but it's good to go out and meet new people rather than only ever talking to the people you're out with. It's just a shame people often assume you're making a move on them just because you have a 2 minute conversation while you're waiting at the bar!

Well how come girls never make the first move with me?

Have you ever considered pretending to be gay? Girls seem to like gay fellas.

And hey, if the girls don't like you, you might get lucky with someone called Bob or Horace.:o

I've had the blokes try it on too mate!

I've had the blokes try it on too mate!

Wow, you must be hot:hihi:

Have you ever considered pretending to be gay? Girls seem to like gay fellas.

And hey, if the girls don't like you, you might get lucky with someone called Bob or Horace.:o

I suspect that most of the reason for this supposed "girls like gay blokes" thing is that we know they're not just trying to get us in bed...a lot of the time when a guy talks to you in a bar, you assume he's making a move on you. If that's not what the girl is looking for, a lot of girls will leg it rather than stick around for a chat and then end up spending the evening having to hide from some drunk bloke who won't leave them alone (I'm not in any way saying that all blokes are like this, just that enough of them are for a lot of girls to feel like it's easier not to get into conversation in the first place).

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I suspect that most of the reason for this supposed "girls like gay blokes" thing is that we know they're not just trying to get us in bed...a lot of the time when a guy talks to you in a bar, you assume he's making a move on you. If that's not what the girl is looking for, a lot of girls will leg it rather than stick around for a chat and then end up spending the evening having to hide from some drunk bloke who won't leave them alone (I'm not in any way saying that all blokes are like this, just that enough of them are for a lot of girls to feel like it's easier not to get into conversation in the first place).

Or, it could just be that some fellas like to talk to a bird without getting her into bed.

I find that a fair few just like women to talk to and have a laugh with. Not everyone has an ulterior motive.

Or, it could just be that some fellas like to talk to a bird without getting her into bed.

I find that a fair few just like women to talk to and have a laugh with. Not everyone has an ulterior motive.

I completely agree with you, believe me I don't think all men are just out to get a shag or whatever, and I think it's incredibly sad that some people do believe this. As I said in a previous comment, personally when I go out I really like just meeting new people and chatting to them, with no ulterior motive whatsoever, but I don't think this happens often enough - and I think one of the reasons for this is that some girls can be wary of getting into conversation with a guy and then find themself being accused of leading the guy on or unable to get rid of him if it then turns out that what they thought was a perfectly nice conversation was actually the guy making a move on them.
It's only my point of view, but I know in my experience as a girl there've been quite a few occasions where I've got chatting to guys in pubs and not thought anything of it, only for the guy to assume that me talking to him means that I'm interested in something more, and it getting very awkward when it's become obvious that I'm really not. I'm no supermodel, but this has happened often enough that I've become a bit hesitant about getting chatting to guys I don't know when I'm out, which is a real shame and I wish it wasn't like this. It makes it very difficult for both men & women - I know a lot of my male friends have said that they find it very difficult to approach a girl they don't know, and one of the reasons for this is that they're worried about coming across as a sleazy git who's just trying to get her into bed there and then, when actually they'd be quite happy just chatting and then maybe seeing her again if they get on well.

Incidentally, I don't see why everything I've said shouldn't apply equally to men who are approached by a girl in a bar - but being a girl, I can't say for certain!

*waits for a couple of inevitable misguided sexist replies along the lines of "as if any bloke wouldn't be pleased if some girl came up and wanted to get him into bed!"*

One thing that annoys me as a bloke, i get lots of women flirting. But is it a flirt or a definate come on? It takes some practice judging it right. The classic is when you notice someone looking at you then they turn their head away. For you girls i find this very annoying. I have fallen for this once or twice and when you find what it takes to BTI they claim they were'nt looking or don't fancy a chat. So much for sticking my neck out.

I always say " Show us yer money Big Boy " !! That breaks the ice. Makes em run a mile. :D

It takes a lot to make me be rude to someone who just initiates a bit of chat in a pub, I hate it when people polarise their night to the people they are out with. There was a drunken bloke who was really not my type in the pub the other night whilst the bloke I was with was trying to get served. He stood on my foot and apologised and we chatted for a mo, if he'd have stayed around too long, I would have had to get rid, but much preferred him to all the people who bumped in to me and trod on me and pretended they hadn't noticed!

hey electric pop, im that woman from poundland, lol

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I brek the ice between me teeth - a chronic cruncher when I am bored.