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Male_Masseur
27-07-2005, 10:07
I was watching a programme last night that said ugly men are more sexually attractive to women.
So I thought lets see if this is true.

I know some people don’t want to answer these questions in case their spouse is on line and does not match their desires, so to those PM me with male of female added to the questionnaire and I will add them to the results but not mention your name.

So lets run a thread to see what kind of man or woman really turns you on.
I have to go away on business till Saturday, which will give you all plenty of time to get the questionnaire in, if you want to that is.

I will run the results Sunday.

SO!!!

Question-------------------------------------------------Answer

Eyes------------------------------------------------------Blue
Brow------------------------------------------------------Plucked
Hair--------------------------------------------------------Blond
Lips-------------------------------------------------------Thin
Chest----------------------------------------------------36b+
Height--------------------------------------------------4ft6 to 5ft7
Weight-----------------------------------------------don’t care
Body shape-----------------------------------------don’t care
Nose------------------------------------------------not pointed
Tummy---------------------------------------------don’t care
Body Piercing-------------------------------------yes please
Tattoos-----------------------only small ones on a woman
Nails-----------------------------------------------painted and neat
Legs-----------------------------------------------shaped
Feet----------------------------------------------small
Bum----------------------------------------------pert
Body Hair---------------------------------------none
Skin Tone “IE Tanned”-----------------------tanned
Personality-------------------------------------extrovert
Humour------------------------------------------dry
Education--------------------------------------don’t care
Looks-------------------------------------------don’t care
Employment-----------------------------------don’t care
Stature-----------------------------------------don’t care
Financial----------------------------------------don’t care
Dress-------------------------------------------sexy but not tardy
Traits----------caring- considerate and romantic.
best first date---------------------------------------------------------------- a fine meal then a walk along the sand barefoot enjoying the moonlight.


I am sure I have missed something as I am sure you will tell me.

Now I am 5ft 8 black hair, brown come to bed eyes, average build, and just too dam good looking to be alive. HE HE

But according to the programme I don’t stand a cat in hells chance with women. That’s probably why I am still a virgin at 44. LOL

So I think it would be fun to collate the questionnaire.

But the question is, do you.

This is for both sexes by the way, I will collate a generic list of , what men like compared to what women like.

God I am confusing myself now.

scottf
27-07-2005, 10:12
I like for women to be good looking and yes thats what initially attracts me to them but its whats underneath that counts at the end of the day if your looking to be in a long term relationship.

They could have the best boobs and the best eyes in the world but if you can't talk to them then whats the point?

nick2
27-07-2005, 10:13
I'm attracted to people who will do rude things to me.

Carmine
27-07-2005, 10:15
Originally posted by nick2
I'm attracted to people who will do rude things to me.
Like call you names, moon you or jump in and nick a cab that you just flagged down?

Or do you mean "Mum & Dad" rude?

wibbles
27-07-2005, 10:16
This seems so much like a thread that slimsid2000 would start!!!

nick2
27-07-2005, 10:22
Originally posted by Carmine
Like call you names, moon you or jump in and nick a cab that you just flagged down?

Or do you mean "Mum & Dad" rude?

all of the above.

Carmine
27-07-2005, 10:23
Originally posted by nick2
all of the above.
Whatever floats your boat!:D

Duffer
27-07-2005, 10:23
Petite girls, with pretty faces usually turn my head but then as soon as you get to know them it is the personality that make you like them more or not like them.

Lea1979
27-07-2005, 10:30
its a very hard question to answer because like scottf said once the initial wow he's fit thing has gone, its all down to personality.

i would be far more attracted to a man not so good looking and poor but who was kind, caring, trustworthy, certain amont of intelligence and made me laugh than one who was stunning and rich but was boring and stupid.


good example - jude law, absolutely bloody gorgeous to look at but he's a cheater, it puts me right off.

Carmine
27-07-2005, 10:33
Originally posted by Lee1979
good example - jude law, absolutely bloody gorgeous to look at but he's a cheater, it puts me right off.
Also he can't pull off a Yank accent for love nor money! :hihi:

Don_Kiddick
27-07-2005, 10:52
What type of person do you fancy?

Human.
Female.
Pulse - preferable, not essential (still warm will do).
Non-smoker.

sugarnspice
27-07-2005, 10:54
Originally posted by Don_Kiddick
Human.
Female.
Pulse - preferable, not essential (still warm will do).
Non-smoker.


You'll never get a woman if you're that fussy.

:hihi:

Splodge_CRB
27-07-2005, 10:58
I'm a celibate female.......

But that's just me being kind ;)

coral_amber
27-07-2005, 11:01
u should take ppl for who they are , not what they look like.

nick2
27-07-2005, 11:06
Originally posted by coral_amber
u should take ppl for who they are , not what they look like.

But what people look like tells you a lot about them too.

Lea1979
27-07-2005, 11:10
Originally posted by nick2
But what people look like tells you a lot about them too.

do you not mean how they dress/style of hair etc ?

Andy78
27-07-2005, 11:21
I wish that I knew what I went for, but I have no idea. I'm just attractted to someone or I'm not. The people I have been attracted to in the past have have all been completely different.

Don't like the idea of a type, it just restricts my already limited options.

When people talk about type, I think it's generally based on the people they have been attracted to in the past.

nick2
27-07-2005, 11:33
Originally posted by Lee1979
do you not mean how they dress/style of hair etc ?

Yeah, and other physical things, like if their eyebrows meet in the middle they are evil.

Carmine
27-07-2005, 11:35
Originally posted by nick2
Yeah, and other physical things, like if their eyebrows meet in the middle they are evil.
Prejudice against those afflicated with a monobrow...I would have expected better from the enlightened users of this forum!;)

thestruggle
27-07-2005, 11:41
In terms of phsyical appearance: Really dark hair, must be smaller or equal to my height, lighter or equal to my weight.

In terms of personality: creative, randomly excitable, loyal, monogamous, broody, artistic, patient, likes to travel, not materialistic...

But since I dont have such a pretty face to attact such person,
I'd most likely devote my time and love to any girl that found me remotley attractive and wanted to be with me.

madblast
27-07-2005, 11:45
for me its whats inside that counts most, my ideal man would have to be caring, romantic, faithful, trusting,and be a good family man. id rather be with someone who has all these , forget rich, big house, new car, fit of a hunk, a guy with my desired qualities and be a happy girl.

*Ryan*
27-07-2005, 11:49
for me, i fancy a person that can match my confidence, and be silly, and not serious, big boobs are always nice

adaline
27-07-2005, 11:49
Originally posted by madblast
for me its whats inside that counts most, my ideal man would have to be caring, romantic, faithful, trusting,and be a good family man. id rather be with someone who has all these , forget rich, big house, new car, fit of a hunk, a guy with my desired qualities and be a happy girl.
Thats what they all say :rolleyes: !

thestruggle
27-07-2005, 11:50
Originally posted by madblast
for me its whats inside that counts most, my ideal man would have to be caring, romantic, faithful, trusting,and be a good family man. id rather be with someone who has all these , forget rich, big house, new car, fit of a hunk, a guy with my desired qualities and be a happy girl.

So where do women like that hang out? Infact, do you happen to know a few that think like this...and do you happen to have there phone numbers?

Berberis
27-07-2005, 11:59
Originally posted by scottf
I like for women to be good looking and yes thats what initially attracts me to them but its whats underneath that counts at the end of the day ...

So you make sure they look hot naked before commiting to a relationship :heyhey: Or have I got the wrong end of the stick :D

ReginaldD
27-07-2005, 12:45
Most really good looking girls when you start talkng to them are stuck up there own backside. They need to sort themselves out.
Its all about having an open mind, but i would want someone who dresses like a tart

sugarnspice
27-07-2005, 12:46
Originally posted by ReginaldD
Most really good looking girls when you start talkng to them are stuck up there own backside. They need to sort themselves out.
Its all about having an open mind, but i would want someone who dresses like a tart


That's soooooo funny. :hihi:

MTheo
27-07-2005, 12:49
Originally posted by ReginaldD
Most really good looking girls when you start talkng to them are stuck up there own backside. They need to sort themselves out.

thanks for letting me know reginald....coz they never talk back to me :(

:rolleyes:

robbie
27-07-2005, 14:16
mainly

small
cute
a bit dizzy
any hair/eye colour aslthough green and blue are my favourites
long hair
good sense of humour
pretty
intellegent

or any that'll have me :D and I change on a case by case basis.

Tubthump
27-07-2005, 14:28
Originally posted by nick2
Yeah, and other physical things, like if their eyebrows meet in the middle they are evil.

That's unfair. I have a monobrow and I've only murdered in cold blood once.

Hoofie
27-07-2005, 14:39
I like typical "english roses" - plain but beautiful. Kate Winslet-esque types. Preferably with glasses. I'm not interested in girls who dress for people to look at them. I like wallflower types... :)

coral_amber
27-07-2005, 14:47
Originally posted by nick2
Yeah, and other physical things, like if their eyebrows meet in the middle they are evil.


ok so for instance ................. would u date a woman thats overweight .................. wears glasses...............but she has a sence of humour and looks too ........................ or would u go for the model type that cant make u laugh and cant hold a conversation to save her life.

nick2
27-07-2005, 15:02
Originally posted by coral_amber
ok so for instance ................. would u date a woman thats overweight .................. wears glasses...............but she has a sence of humour and looks too ........................ or would u go for the model type that cant make u laugh and cant hold a conversation to save her life.

Sorry, I'm a bit shallow, it's looks that attract me, if they then turn out to be boring then I'm off after the next lucky victim.

Unfortunately there is no way of detecting who is ideal personallity wise, unless you are sugesting that all goodlooking people are a bit thick and all overweight people are fabulous conversationalists, so you go for the person you find attractive, then see if their personallity is ok too.

DragonofAna
27-07-2005, 15:42
I'm 6'1", slim, grey haired but dyed blonde-ish, green brown eyes.

Females - I am not picky - as long as they are about 5'10", blonde hair, blue eyes, 28-ish, intelligent, computer literate, into witchcraft, 2 kids ... whoops! Watch this space.

Dragon

darkcharm
27-07-2005, 16:06
i like 5ft 10 to 6 ft male, dark brown eyes,dark long curly hair,nice tan.rarely moody and very romantic dont ask for much do i eh?

skny
27-07-2005, 19:21
She has to be at least a 7 out of 10.

LoopyLou
27-07-2005, 19:25
Tall dark handsome intelligent - with just a bit of mystery and























hung like a donkey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just kidding.......... :D

sugarnspice
27-07-2005, 19:49
Originally posted by LoopyLou
Tall dark handsome intelligent - with just a bit of mystery and























hung like a donkey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just kidding.......... :D


Tee hee! You do right to search for such a man!

royjames
27-07-2005, 20:47
Tall blonde blue eyes nice long legs,yep thats about it for me.:hihi:

the_rudeboy
27-07-2005, 21:00
hung like a donkey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Aren't all men?

*Twinkle*
27-07-2005, 21:01
Tall, dark eyes and hair, olive skin, athletic build with a 6pk preferable! And yes, Loopy Lou, I agree with the last bit about the donkey lol! :clap:

Oh yes and the personality has to be spot on too!

D2J
27-07-2005, 21:02
Originally posted by caprice
Tall, dark eyes and hair, olive skin, athletic build with a 6pk preferable! And yes, Loopy Lou, I agree with the last bit about the donkey lol! :clap:

Oh yes and the personality has to be spot on too!

So you ain't that fussy then :suspect: :roll:

As for me, Im currently researching so I shall be back shortly :D

*Twinkle*
27-07-2005, 21:04
Originally posted by Deejay
So you ain't that fussy then :suspect: :roll:


Lol thats the things that I like... But my bf doesn't fit many of those criteria lol... I'm not saying I wouldn't give a second glance to a guy who doesn't fit the list... But if I could pick a look, it'd be that hehe

robbie
27-07-2005, 21:13
Originally posted by royjames
Tall blonde blue eyes nice long legs,yep thats about it for me.:hihi:

starts to get worried:suspect: ;)

royjames
27-07-2005, 21:24
Originally posted by robbie
starts to get worried:suspect: ;)


Lol nah your ok robbie,your not my type.;)
By the way I liked the cartoon you did of you and cherry.:thumbsup:

SHsheff
27-07-2005, 21:38
You're all mad - or all right ............

It's whatever we find attractive at the moment that counts.

And doncha just hate it (girls) when the most attractive man is the one with no money no car no looks who just happens to attract? :(

It's what makes the world go round. And it's the moment when you realise that the rest of it doesn't matter (much lol)

:)

MTheo
28-07-2005, 16:57
Originally posted by royjames
Lol nah your ok robbie,your not my type.;)
By the way I liked the cartoon you did of you and cherry.:thumbsup:

:rolleyes: different robbie me thinks roy.

melthebell
28-07-2005, 19:50
depends on the person

i do go on looks to a certain degree BUT i have noticed certain ladies who look good know it and are bitchy (which turns me off :P)

i like people who have a good sense of humour, friendly and nice to be around, aswell as the good looks and good in bed etc :)

spinny
28-07-2005, 20:10
Originally posted by melthebell
depends on the person

i do go on looks to a certain degree BUT i have noticed certain ladies who look good know it and are bitchy (which turns me off :P)

i like people who have a good sense of humour, friendly and nice to be around, aswell as the good looks and good in bed etc :)

I second to what melthebell said.took the words out of my mouth.i been out with good looking men (my x) and he had no humour at all and other stuff.i rather have someone chilled laid back and gsh to go with it.and be like a friend as well as a lover.

sheffieldcpl
28-07-2005, 20:47
Females - I am not picky - as long as they are about 5'10", blonde hair, blue eyes, 28-ish, intelligent, computer literate, into witchcraft, 2 kids ... whoops! Watch this space.

Dragon

i dont know, u got rid of one old witch now ur after another??

DragonofAna
29-07-2005, 06:44
I miss the interesting theological debates - what can I say?

There is something about going to bed at midnight after a hard days work and then talking for a couple of hours about the principles and origins of the craft and its many facets.

She wasn't that old you cheeky so and so.

Dragon

Lestat
29-07-2005, 10:51
Got to be tall, intelligent, the gothic look is always good.
http://l00075.myspace.com/00075/87/14/75664178_l.jpg

Not asking for much really . . . . . :cool:

Jess22
29-07-2005, 11:10
Male, with something sexual about them, which could be anything ........ as long as they know how to have fun and don't worry about lifes hiccups, they have a chance! :hihi: