can sum1 help me ive just found out my partner on and off for 16 years has subscribe to friends reunited and 1 of his x girlfriend has got in touch signing off that she has fond memories of him and that she would love to see him again with love and kisses at the end of the posting am i been paranoid and reading to much into it or should i start worrying? as you hear all sorts of stories that men run off with xs from friend reunited look at the footballer(cant remember his name) can sum1 give me sum advice:help:

I wouldn't worry too much at the moment; it's amazing how time blurs your vision. She's his ex for some reason, it's very easy to look back at someone with fond memories, and the love and kisses at the end probably just was her way of wishing him well. Last week I saw my ex of 5 years for the first time in over a year. We talked about things and, whilst I wish him all the best, I definitely know the right decision was made. Sometimes meeting up with an ex doesn't have to worry their current partner; I told Mr Kooky I'd seen my ex, and he was happy for me.

If he's been with you for 16 years I doubt he would jeopardise that over a girlfriend he had a long time ago (presumably whilst at school) that amounted to nothing and, from reading your other posts, least of all whilst your daughter is so unwell.

I'd say you're probably feeling vulnerable because of everything that's going on at the moment, try not to worry about it, I'm sure his ex is only in touch out of curiousity with what path his life's taken (I know I was and that's after only a year). It'll all be water under the bridge with them by now. You have enough going on without worrying about this. All the best, Kooky X

he is acting very strange at the moment phonecalls which he wont answer only if he goes outside and when i ask him who it is he tells me it no1. he has now gone out to ride his motorbike(unlikely) i really think he has gone to see her personally

on and off for 16 years?...

well are you on or off at the moment! if your not a couple then he can do what he pleases. if you are...then just ask him outright who is this girl...and will he be arranging to meet up with her.

On and off for 16 years?

And you know he's hiding things from you?

I think you know all the answers already ;)

at the moment we are supposely on but after a sleepless night. ive decided to end the all relationship, so he can do what he pleased with his life , but he isnt going to hurt me going behind my back

HI, Louise170419! Is this the same boy friend as in your post. Text message from x's new girl friend ? or are you just trying to wind us up? :bigsmile:

Originally posted by louise170419
at the moment we are supposely on but after a sleepless night. ive decided to end the all relationship, so he can do what he pleased with his life , but he isnt going to hurt me going behind my back If it was me.... if you have to fight for someones love then ....its not worth fighting for !

Ditch the bum Louise, then get down to this place tomorrow ;) I hear there are one or two studs down there (well plenty of them are stood about) :D

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49945

Originally posted by owdlad
Ditch the bum Louise, then get down to this place tomorrow ;) I hear there are one or two studs down there (well plenty of them are stood about) :D

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49945

:loopy: lol

how you flatter us owlad :rolleyes: money is in the post

you've lost him, he is clearly going to run off with this woman.... id plan for the future now darling :d

Once he starts taking calls outside and starts disapearing then you have lost his heart to another woman. the same thing happened to my friend she got in touch with a ex on friends reunited, it started off with flirting then it got serious secret meetings and then he left his wife to be closer to her. only thing is though, is that she is married so they see each other on the quiet! It will all end in tears but she wont be told, she loves the buzz too much! so all I can say to you is be strong and ditch him before he ditches you!

Have you actually asked him about it?

Originally posted by louise170419
can sum1 help me ive just found out my partner on and off for 16 years has subscribe to friends reunited and 1 of his x girlfriend has got in touch signing off that she has fond memories of him and that she would love to see him again with love and kisses at the end of the posting am i been paranoid and reading to much into it or should i start worrying? as you hear all sorts of stories that men run off with xs from friend reunited look at the footballer(cant remember his name) can sum1 give me sum advice:help:

Originally posted by louise170419
can some1 please help me, early hours of sunday morning i received a text message from a xs new girlfriend asking me if i had heard from him in the 7 months they have been seeing each other.DO i tell the truth or lie through my back teeth and say i havent

Sounds like you deserve each other luv :thumbsup:

Why not get in touch with trisha and see if he will do a lie detector test. Your 15 minutes of fame could be on the way

no strix you have got it all wrong. the other thread is about a x of mine who i was with when me and my partner split up. this thread is about the supposely partner im with now and have been on and off with for the last 16 years. sorry if i got any1 confuse but all i was asking for was for some advice on both matters sorry again

Life is complicated, isn't it Louise

Glad I'm not in your shoes ;)

Hope you get it all worked out :thumbsup:

so do i strix and i wish i was inside sum1 elses shoes as well