I was just wondering out of curiousity how many forum members have paid a working girl for her services?
Ok I have done this only the once when on holiday,just out of curiousity as much as anything else,I have to say I found it to be very cold and to be honest I would not try it again.
Still it will be intersting to see if others are prepared to admit what I have done?;)

No never.
I don't think I'd have the confidence to do this. I'd be far too scared of catching something.

I never have, but I would under the right circumstances.

Like Sid said, I would want a guarantee of healthyness.

I'd go to a brothel if it was safe and not sleazy.

All of the above is only if I was single of course.

Originally posted by slimsid2000
No never.
I don't think I'd have the confidence to do this. I'd be far too scared of catching something.


Of course protection was used ,better to be safe afterall.

No I haven't, I dont think I ever will..

The only thing I can admit to is a glance as Im driving past, some of them, well lets just say oh dear :gag: :shakes:

I'm curious as to know why your curious what we forummers get up to :wink:

I'm curious as to know why your curious what we forummers get up to :wink: [/B]


lol just being curious deejay,by the looks of things looks like I am the only one to have done the deed.:D

Originally posted by royjames
lol just being curious deejay,by the looks of things looks like I am the only one to have done the dead :D

Well it is early yet mate.. If the thread lasts long enough see what responses you have by the end of the day ;)

Someone once told me we all pay for sex, either emotionally or financially.

That you have done the DEAD is much more alarming.

Sorry being a smart arse now. :o

Originally posted by pete_jim
Someone once told me we all pay for sex, either emotionally or financially.

Please don't get this thread mixed up with Marriage...

oh Deejay :rolleyes:

Originally posted by pete_jim
Someone once told me we all pay for sex, either emotionally or financially.

i was going to say that but you beat me 2 it

Originally posted by sugarnspice
oh Deejay :rolleyes:

Tell me its not true... I hear all the stories.. puts me off for life I tell ya..

he is such a romantic....:)

If they where drop dead gorgeous then I might consider it, but all the ones I have had the misfortune to get accosted by have been hit with the ugly shovel, repeatable. Plus they tend to look like they have been soaking in brine for a few years! :gag:

:lol: Know what you mean. Some luck worryingly young too.

Originally posted by serapis
If they where drop dead gorgeous then I might consider it, but all the ones I have had the misfortune to get accosted by have been hit with the ugly shovel, repeatable. Plus they tend to look like they have been soaking in brine for a few years! :gag:


the ones who work in the massage parlours tend to be better looking but only just

I was going to click 'I wouldnt ever pay a prostitute', but I think I'll wait for option 4: "I would never use the services of a prostitute'. Just not paying seems a little crass ;)

Originally posted by samc
he is such a romantic....:)

Who is :confused:

That's a very good point spiffymonkey. Would seem rather cheeky.

ok good point ,if the mods want to add the 4 th option thats fine.:thumbsup:

If I could find myself a damn sexy, young smack free one I might ;)

It used to be great working off west st at night. Used to get all kinds of comedy propositions. Very cheap as well :hihi:

Originally posted by panda79
the ones who work in the massage parlours tend to be better looking but only just

This from the person who thought that the cross dressing thread wasn't suitable for a 'family(?)' type forum? Bizarre.

There are some young good looking ones in Sydney, but they won't be for long. They do it to make money to buy heroin. So their life expectancy is short.
Btw no I havn't.

Never have done and probably never will. But if a guy is single and looking for some fun i cant see the harm in it.

I dont think i could ever pick one up in the car, it'd have to be to a parlour or call one into the home.

Originally posted by panda79
the ones who work in the massage parlours tend to be better looking but only just

So, you're speaking from "experience" ? :heyhey:

Originally posted by pete_jim
This from the person who thought that the cross dressing thread wasn't suitable for a 'family(?)' type forum? Bizarre.

well it was my opinion , anyway im not going to argue the toss with you on the subject as its not worth it

Originally posted by LellyBee
So, you're speaking from "experience" ? :heyhey:

yes i would ive been to a couple of parlours in my lifetime most of them are very seedy but a few are really relaxing with good facilities etc

Originally posted by royjames
I was just wondering out of curiousity how many forum members have paid a working girl for her services?
Ok I have done this only the once when on holiday,just out of curiousity as much as anything else,I have to say I found it to be very cold and to be honest I would not try it again.
Still it will be intersting to see if others are prepared to admit what I have done?;) i havent, but i am surprised at roy for laying him self wide open with this post ( sorry for the pun ):banana: bet it bounces back at him some time,ups there i go again

still, if you want too, its up to the individual i suppose ,as long as its done in good taste,oh,enough is enough:smile: at least you are big enough to put your hand up roy, oh heck.......id better go now.....

I said "No" but never say never! ;)

Isn't it strange how so many people go out spend an awful lot of money in the vain hope hope having sex, (time and time again with no joy) but for a one of payment which ensures success, the answer is no!

Originally posted by panda79
yes i would ive been to a couple of parlours in my lifetime most of them are very seedy but a few are really relaxing with good facilities etc

not wanting to be a party pooper or anything but should we be talking about stuff like this on a so called familly forum?

to be honest i wouldnt want my child to be reading about......
you have to draw a line at something

Note: all of the above words were written by panda79, taken from a thread about cross-dressing. Despite his objections to that tame subject, it seems panda79 is quite happy for his child to be reading what Daddy gets up to!

So, would panda79 like to explain what constitutes a seedy parlour and what makes for a really relaxing visit? I'm also curious to know what are "good facilities, etc."?

Please don't be a party pooper panda79 - you're clearly unabashed to be discussing your personal experiences on this subject in front of the children. I'm so pleased that you know where to draw the line.

Originally posted by redrobbo
not wanting to be a party pooper or anything but should we be talking about stuff like this on a so called familly forum?

to be honest i wouldnt want my child to be reading about......
you have to draw a line at something

Note: all of the above words were written by panda79, taken from a thread about cross-dressing. Despite his objections to that tame subject, it seems panda79 is quite happy for his child to be reading what Daddy gets up to!

So, would panda79 like to explain what constitutes a seedy parlour and what makes for a really relaxing visit? I'm also curious to know what are "good facilities, etc."?

Please don't be a party pooper panda79 - you're clearly unabashed to be discussing your personal experiences on this subject in front of the children. I'm so pleased that you know where to draw the line.

i suggest you look above to a reply i give on this thread, im not getting into a slanging match over this ,im sure if i cross checked some of your postings id find some stuff to take you to task for but as i said before im not getting into a slanging match

In my case, I have never paid a prostitute for sex. I am happily married, and the subject of prostitution would normally never enter my head. I have no moral objection towards prostitution in principle, though. I agree with those who argue that it may serve to stop some [certainly not all] predatory, aggressive males from attacking and raping women. Of course, that is not to say that prostitutes are never raped and abused by clients.

The picture is a complex one. Some women enter the 'profession' through desperation. They are desperate to escape [relative] poverty. Are they improvident, or is social structure in the form of class, gender and 'race' the causal factor? Some women choose the 'profession' as a highly paid career, and manage their 'high class' affairs like typical businesswomen. At the other end of the spectrum is the kidnapped 'white slave' from the Balkans, beaten into submission by the gangmaster who effectively 'owns' her, and hired out by sexual sadists.

It all seems a sad, sorry, disease-ridden business to me, whatever end of the spectrum one is looking at. It is surely far more rewarding to find a partner with whom one can make love, rather than hire a body for impersonal sexual congress. I suppose the idea of impersonal, rough encounters has its appeal. However, I cannot imagine that those who rely on such 'cash for sex' encounters develop a great sense of personal pride.

Timo,

There are a few women out there who enter this 'profession' for none of your reasons mentioned....albeit it just a few .

A few years ago, I was going out with a girl who, unbeknown to me, was a prostitute working at numerous Parlours outside of Sheffield. She had a degree in Business Studies, good looking and intelligent. She got rapped by a 'client' and STILL did it.

I found out by the way when the court case was in the paper. He got off with rape cos of her 'profession. He did 2 1/2 years for threatening to kill though.

If your wondering how I didn't twig for 6 Months. She told me she worked at a Lap Dancing Bar in Leeds, hence her frequent trips out late at night.

It messed me right up, not to mention waiting to find out if I had caught an STD

Johnjo,
That really is a dreadful tale. I am sorry that you were so very cruelly deceived there. The shock must have been terrible. Let's hope that you can put the experience behind you, and move on to find a more suitable, more honest woman. Wishing you the best of luck.

Originally posted by johnjo
...He got off with rape cos of her 'profession. He did 2 1/2 years for threatening to kill though...
:o

That's just mad...

...so if I shoot and kill someone who is in the Army is that OK, because by some warped logic, "they should be expecting it".

...and what's 2 1/2 years for "threatening to kill" all about?

:o

if i got really bored of life one day id consider it, makinf sure it wasnt sleazy and she was hot..(and not previously a man)

Cheers Timo,

It was a good few years ago and im very happy with a great girl now.

Foo_fighter: She went to this 'Client's' hotel room who had booked her after meeting her at a Parlour.

He accused her of nicking £500 out of his wallet, and turned nasty. She told me she was at a party and a guy rapped her, who eventually got 6 1/2 years.

The real story being the above. Turns out It was a case of sex took place and was his word against hers to whether it was rape or not.

Who knows the justification for sentences.

Originally posted by timo
It is surely far more rewarding to find a partner with whom one can make love, rather than hire a body for impersonal sexual congress.
More rewarding maybe, but which is the easier option?

Johnjo,
I share Foo's incredulity at the sentence. I am also delighted to hear that you have met 'a great girl'. So did I, twenty years ago. Hang onto yours like I did mine!

Those stories are quite shocking but I have female friends that do similar things and none of them are particulary desparate for money they just see that it is easy money and they love sex regardless of who it is with and they see it as a bonus getting paid for it

Originally posted by foo_fighter
:o

That's just mad...

...so if I shoot and kill someone who is in the Army is that OK, because by some warped logic, "they should be expecting it".

...and what's 2 1/2 years for "threatening to kill" all about?

:o

Looks like it's a really confusing area legally:

UK Law (http://www.sw5.info/rape.htm)

Looks like it's also possible that it might get less confusing - at least on the payment front BEING A CLIENT is legal, unless you are kerb crawling. The government has indicated, however, that it is considering the creation of a criminal offence of paying a woman for sex (as is now the case in Sweden).

British sex laws (http://www.sfc.org.uk/british_sex_laws.php)

Originally posted by johnjo
Timo,

There are a few women out there who enter this 'profession' for none of your reasons mentioned....albeit it just a few .

A few years ago, I was going out with a girl who, unbeknown to me, was a prostitute working at numerous Parlours outside of Sheffield. She had a degree in Business Studies, good looking and intelligent. She got rapped by a 'client' and STILL did it.

I found out by the way when the court case was in the paper. He got off with rape cos of her 'profession. He did 2 1/2 years for threatening to kill though.

If your wondering how I didn't twig for 6 Months. She told me she worked at a Lap Dancing Bar in Leeds, hence her frequent trips out late at night.

It messed me right up, not to mention waiting to find out if I had caught an STD Just think though - you were getting for free what the other suckers were paying for - every cloud.............

it must be really hard for anyone who is so lonely and desperate for human companionship that they have to pay for sex.

Originally posted by slimsid2000
No never.
I don't think I'd have the confidence to do this. I'd be far too scared of catching something.

you're scared of meeting Forum members in a public place an' all!

Originally posted by royjames

Ok I have done this only the once when on holiday,just out of curiousity as much as anything else,I have to say I found it to be very cold and to be honest I would not try it again.


you sure she was alive?

Originally posted by melthebell
you sure she was alive? don't diss his mother!

Mini I ought to tear your head off for that comment,but like timo says you are in need of threapy.
You are pathetic.

Originally posted by royjames
Mini I ought to tear your head off for that comment,but like timo says you are in need of threapy.
You are pathetic.

And I very much agree with Timo on that issue too...

To be fair, Miniminch and I settled our differences months ago. I wish that everyone else could do so. Life is very short, gentlemen...

Mini and I called a truce some weeks ago too and are even talking of meeting up at some point to discuss our 'differences' over a pint or two. He is Ok really...maybe it's all an act on here or could be due to the fact that he has to cope with around 30 massive egos in his face every single day of the week..... (and no, he isn't in the Houses of Parliament..)

Originally posted by royjames
I was just wondering out of curiousity how many forum members have paid a working girl for her services?
Ok I have done this only the once when on holiday,just out of curiousity as much as anything else,I have to say I found it to be very cold and to be honest I would not try it again.
Still it will be intersting to see if others are prepared to admit what I have done?;)

No! but I would like to do : got anything to lend? He He:clap: :loopy: :heyhey: :hihi: :help: :gag: :thumbsup:

Originally posted by Gordie OS1
it must be really hard for anyone who is so lonely and desperate for human companionship that they have to pay for sex.

I agree with you but don't think all of the people that use the services of prostitutes are necessarily desperate for human companionship. Sex as a lust driven act is not the same thing as sex in the context of a loving relationship.

Many people who are lonely and desperate would not have the courage to visit a prostitute. Witness the phenomenal level of business done by premium rate chat lines, and the growth of sex based internet chat rooms.

By the same token someone in what appears to be a stable loving family relationship/unit can feel the loneliest person on earth if the sexual side of a relationship breaks down.

In answer to the original posting I have to admit to buying some hideously expensive drinks and meals when on holiday years ago in the Far East. I'm sure that will count though he wasn't a working girl.

I have paid for sex with a prostitute around four or five times.
All were in brothels, in a safe and relaxed environment with two consenting adults. It is around four or five years ago, the last time I had sexual relations with a prostitute. They were all whilst I was in-between relationships, and were never about companionship / loneliness etc.

I am neither proud nor ashamed of my past. It is something that I have experienced in life, that I know for a fact; a lot of men would like to experience. However, due to various reasons (never actually have). I have never made a big secret about it, most people who know me are aware of it. Some of my friends did not understand my reason's, and instead took the p*ss, because of the stigma attached to the subject. However most of my friends share my view that it is absolutely normal, and virtually the same as a "one night stand".

My partner is aware of my sexual history (as I am her's).
And was not shocked or upset when we first discussed it.

My reasons:

* I was single; each & every time, and had "normal" sexual urges.

* I was neither lonely, nor in need of companionship.

* There was nothing missing in my life. I was not trying to compensate for anything. It was purely as a sexual release.

* The women were all intellectual and were not feeding a habit. Most were young women in their early twenties who were paying for their university studies.

Will I ever visit a brothel again? I doubt it, I'm currently in a long-term relantionship & if that didn't work out in the long run, who know's?! But it was something that happened in my past. I cannot imagine myself ever having the inclination again....

As you can probably tell, this is a subject I have strong belief's about. And thought I would share them with you. Hopefully this will help shed some of the stigma, and help people feel comfortable discussing one of the last "taboo" subjects...

Having served with the army, stationed in Germany during the swinging sixties - - - how many of you others of that era didn't go to Hamburg and the reeperbahn?
Having spent a large part of my life travelling and staying in airport hotels and such - often in some exotic place or other. Well - - - - - I also had the privelidge to be doing all this "Pre Aids", so there was not the same risk attached as there is in these times. I was in a hard working, hard playing profession, and often in countries where there was no stigma whatsoever attached to a night in the bordello. Eat your heart out, as some have said "They would like to, but wouldn't have the confidence to" I have memories of some glorious parties, quite tasteful, and as wild as the company wanted to be.
After all, a lot of the time, it was only funny money we were spending. Not exchangeable internationally.
Happy days - - - long in my past.

Whats the point in going to a prostitute, when you can get a girlfriend and get a whole lot more than just sex out of it.

Originally posted by Jimbob1989
Whats the point in going to a prostitute, when you can get a girlfriend and get a whole lot more than just sex out of it.

I suppose that some people don't WANT a girlfriend but simply sex. That's a perfectly acceptable way to run your life if you want - after all, look at the number of people who have one night stands? At the risk of sounding overly utilitarian, all prostitution is doing is ensuring the sex and setting the price in advance.

It's not something I would ever consider doing, but, whatever floats people's boats.

Joe

Whats the point in going to a prostitute, when you can get a girlfriend and get a whole lot more than just sex out of it.

Because there are times when it is not fair getting involved in a relationship. When you still have feelings for an ex (thats just one example). After personally experiencing all these scenarios; one night stands, sleeping with a prostitute & making love to someone you are in love with. I can honestly say nothing comes close to the third scenario...

But this is not always possible.

For me. sex is the least important part of a relationship (because I'm with someone special). Again this is not always the case!

my blokes mate used to spend ALL his months wages going to a *coughs* house.....disgusting!!!!!!!

my blokes mate used to spend ALL his months wages going to a *coughs* house.....disgusting!!!!!!!

What do you find disgusting? The fact he spent all his wages on something that sounds a lot like an addiction. Or the fact he spent all his wages on prostitutes?

If he had spent all his money on either drink / drugs or gambling etc, would you be equally disgusted?

I'm not having a go, I'm just curious as to what you find disgusting.... :)

the fact that a 18year old lad needs to spend around £1,200 a month on prostitutes, why cant he just go out and find a girl?

So your telling me that you think its alright for people to go and c prossies???

I think not!! lol

i find the whole thing disgusting!!!!

Originally posted by MissGobby
the fact that a 18year old lad needs to spend around £1,200 a month on prostitutes, why cant he just go out and find a girl?

So your telling me that you think its alright for people to go and c prossies???

I think not!! lol

i find the whole thing disgusting!!!!

why? what's digusting about it?

So your telling me that you think its alright for people to go and c prossies???

Live and let live... Allthough I believe he has the free will to choose what he does with his money, I find the fact that he's spending that much money, a little worrying. Just as I would if he was spending that much on Drink / Drugs etc.

I accept that you find it difficult to understand why he would visit a prostitute. However who are you to judge?!?!

I can understand what your saying about being concerned with the amount he's spending. But to say So your telling me that you think its alright for people to go and c prossies???[/ I think not obviously shows you know nothing about the subject, and your views are based purely on "rumour".

Ask yourself whether anyone would consider anything you do "pathetic" or "disgusting" and then ask yourself, what gives them the right to judge!!!

just read this http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/tm_objectid=16265564%26method=full%26siteid=94762% 26headline=sex%2dslaves%2dsold%2dat%2dgatwick-name_page.html

maybe some of the good time girls arnt having such a good time after all...sorry appears the link does not work,it was in todays mirror,two girls sold at gatwick airport as sex slaves,brought to pitsmoor and forced to work as prostitutes,then sold on and moved to london,men sentenced at sheffield crown court yesterday to 21 years

if you get page not found click the link for www. daily mirror on the same page

Originally posted by MissGobby
the fact that a 18year old lad needs to spend around £1,200 a month on prostitutes, why cant he just go out and find a girl?


I wish I'd had £1200 a month to spend on anything when I was 18, he must be doing well for himself.

As for getting a girlfriend, perhaps he just wants the sex and fun without all the moaning, nagging, whining, sulking, critisiing and generaly being told he's not upto scratch that comes with a realtionship.

Originally posted by MissGobby
the fact that a 18year old lad needs to spend around £1,200 a month on prostitutes, why cant he just go out and find a girl?


Is his name Wayne Rooney? :hihi:

Originally posted by depoix
just read this http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/tm_objectid=16265564%26method=full%26siteid=94762% 26headline=sex%2dslaves%2dsold%2dat%2dgatwick-name_page.html

maybe some of the good time girls arnt having such a good time after all...sorry appears the link does not work,it was in todays mirror,two girls sold at gatwick airport as sex slaves,brought to pitsmoor and forced to work as prostitutes,then sold on and moved to london,men sentenced at sheffield crown court yesterday to 21 years

if you get page not found click the link for www. daily mirror on the same page

It's stories like this that only make it more sensible for brothels to be legalised and regulated (and taxed!) properly.

Originally posted by nick2
I wish I'd had £1200 a month to spend on anything when I was 18, he must be doing well for himself.

Couldn't agree more, wish I'd got that amount to lavish on myself now at 46!!! Wouldn't be spending it on prostitutes though, well not all of it.

I have no extreme thoughts one way or the other about prostitution but I do worry about the way it has become drug related, and the criminal element that has taken control of it. Yes I know that certain aspects of prostitution are deemed criminal but you know what I mean.

Originally posted by nick2
As for getting a girlfriend, perhaps he just wants the sex and fun without all the moaning, nagging, whining, sulking, critisiing and generaly being told he's not upto scratch that comes with a realtionship.

Or perhaps he's hideously repulsive with the social skills of a slug?

StarSparkle

Originally posted by nick2
I wish I'd had £1200 a month to spend on anything when I was 18, he must be doing well for himself.

As for getting a girlfriend, perhaps he just wants the sex and fun without all the moaning, nagging, whining, sulking, critisiing and generaly being told he's not upto scratch that comes with a realtionship.

Some people pay good money to experience all that - Mistress Dawn has to go now and do some domineering!!!:heyhey:

Originally posted by StarSparkle
Or perhaps he's hideously repulsive with the social skills of a slug?

StarSparkle

Glad yr posting so closely mirrors your strap/catchline.

Originally posted by pete_jim
Glad yr posting so closely mirrors your strap/catchline.

Ever heard of something called a 'sense of humour'?

Thought not.

StarSparkle :rolleyes:

Pardon me while I split my sides

Originally posted by pete_jim
Pardon me while I split my sides

You prove my point.

StarSparkle

And you mine, plus I knew you were a Leo before I looked at your profile.

Originally posted by pete_jim
And you mine, plus I knew you were a Leo before I looked at your profile.

And very proud of it I am! :) I know, you could tell that too....

StarSparkle