Does anyone else have this problem? I always seem to fall for the people who are "out of bounds", or attatched already, or simply do not fancy me back! Its driving me nuts and im begining to wonder what is wrong with me?! :loopy:
if you see something/someone you like and you can't have it - you always want it more. You'll think about it more and dream after it more and more until it drives you mad.
Its one of those tough irony's of life.
Nothings wrong with you - its very normal, i do it all the time too. I know exactly how you feel.
It happens to everyone, don't worry about it.
the_rudeboy
11-07-2005, 11:56
It happens to us all Avalon. You've got to strive for the best. If you haven't got goals in life.....whats the point? Don't give in if you fall at the first hurdle......pick yourself up, dust yourself down & keep going.
If ya not in , ya don't win!!!!
Swan_Vesta
11-07-2005, 12:01
Don't worry Avalon. Unrequited/unobtainable love is one of the continual bug bears of life. Like taxes and death it's one more thing you can count on to make life suck - it's a pain but it happens to everyone.
I've had this more than once and I agree you start to question yourself - relax. It just proves you're as normal as the rest of us! - you'll find someone who'll love you lots and lots lots! :)
Cheers Guys! (nearly crying again)...it really means a lot....even though i have no idea who most of you are, im glad to know that im not the only person inthe world who feels this way.
Pull your lucky pants on and get out there shakin' your thang.
evildrneil
11-07-2005, 12:59
Its perfectly normal - a case of 'the grass is always greener'! Have you not noticed how much more attractive your single friends get when they get a B/F!?!?
exactly what nick2 said. just go out and enjoy yourself - do some good old fashioned flirtin with someone who can flirt back!! its all harmless fun and makes you feel so much better! also bottle of wine helps :D
If your going out on Saturday night always arrange to do something you realy enjoy on Sunday, it gives you a different outlook on the night out, a kind of "even if tonight as a bit crappy, tommorow i'm........".
Also, you're more likely to meet someone when you have plans for the following day, it's sods second law of pulling, similar to the law that states "you only will meet someone in a foreign city if you have no way of staying in that city"
the_rudeboy
11-07-2005, 13:34
Sh*t.....thats where i'm going wrong.....the lucky pants ......and there's me thinking going commando is the way forward...!!