What is everyones experience?

It seems EVERY Girl ive been out with has turned nasty in the end.

Perhaps im being too nice & they are taking me for granted!

well, from my experience the 'friends with an ex' thing has never worked unfortunately, even though we have both agreed to keep in touch etc. I think it is a good idea in theory but then when someone new comes along it's not so easy and can turn nasty.

its difficult to be just friends when you have shared so much but i suppose it depends on the relationship

we used to gr89 2gether, but since march, she changed for the worse.

Started snapping at me, being in moods, having an attitude & all this everyday!

The big pain is we have a house together & we have to put up with each other until we both find somewhere else

When i broke up with my ex i hated her so much, i even wished she was dead, but a good friend told me "let it go mate" the hate for her was making me ill.

Daz let it go mate its not worth worring about ;) plenty more fish in the sea.

and time is a healer damn right it is.

My first ex that i was with for 7 years and I are still mates, rarley see each other because she lives in france now, but the inital hate feelings passed and we get on well now. My last ex is a complete basket case who i have tried to be mates with, but her version of mates is a lot more like going out rather than mates.

Joel

i,ve been friends with my ex for 2yrs and we are still in touch although he does ask if he could sleep with me for old time sake but i tell him no because im in love with my current boyf(hadron)and we have a daughter together(2mnth old)i dont want to ruin what we've got together.

I was good friends with my ex hubby but when he re-married things changed because I don't think his new wife liked or understood us being civil to eachother and now we only talk if we have to!

Still mates with most of my exes... in the little village where I come from its very difficult not to be as everybody is friends with everybody!

One Im still friends with, we get on better now she lives down south :hihi:

The others I wouldn't give the time of day :nono:

It took me a good six months or so to sort things out with my ex, but now we're really good friends, and go out drinking together all the time. Although I do have a few who I never made the friends effort with, realised after they weren't worth it!

I don't mind any of my ex's... although one really hates my guts, for some strange reason...

another I talk to online but haven't really seen her for quite a while, still wind eachother up which is fun :D and my most recent ex we had a good few months where we just bickered... but I think now were on fairly good talking terms... dont think we'll be as close friends as we were before we started dating, which is a shame... but maybe eventually she'll be more willing to go out as mates again for a drink and a laugh and stuff... who knows...

to be honest I'm really not the sort of person that holds grudges against people, no matter what they've done to me... life really is too short to hate anyone, even people that have hurt you... grow up, move on! it's the only way!

Originally posted by daz25
we used to gr89 2gether, but since march, she changed for the worse.

Started snapping at me, being in moods, having an attitude & all this everyday!

The big pain is we have a house together & we have to put up with each other until we both find somewhere else

Thats just called PMT mate. All women have it.

Originally posted by xafier
life really is too short to hate anyone, even people that have hurt you... grow up, move on! it's the only way!

That differs in every case... Not always easy.. I certainly don't miss em :thumbsup:

i just wish i cud do something but i cant! its more harder as we're stuck in the same house together!

I moved here cos she wanted to, now im in a strange place & know NO-ONE

I dont even know any good pubs to go to. plus i cant really goto pubs on my own

Originally posted by daz25
Started snapping at me, being in moods, having an attitude & all this everyday!

When it gets to that stage, it seems that even the sound of your breathing will be an irritant and make the other person angry and aggressive towards you.

Something must have happened to make your partner feel like this about you. I'm not saying it's anything you've done, necessarily but she obviously can't stand the sight of you - so there must be something?

Think about when all this started and what happened about that time ... it might help you to put things right. If you want to that is...

If every woman you've been with turns nasty in the end ... there's only one common denominator in your past relationships ...

it all started when we got 2 sheffield

She also suffers with depression in a VERY bad way

I think u can be freinds with x's, i still see few my x's, but only one of my x's i dont see as he say dont stop being freinds with any if his x's.but the 1ns i do see get on very well indeed,i seem to get on more better now with them then i did when we was together.but i say if you can not be friends you can not be lovers in first place..no point in hateing an x.just get on with it i say,