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Tiger_lily
03-01-2009, 19:24
Good evening all! :-)

I live with my boyfriend in a really nice house etc but there's on thing missing for me: cheesy photos on the mantlepiece! :D I would like a nice photo of the two of us and possibly a couple of family etc displayed in nice frames, but my boyfriend says that's just weird... is it? Do you have personal photos displayed around your home? (We have no kids to show off though so I'm talking literally us two, parents etc etc) :suspect: :)

(p.s. sorry if this has been done before... the search facility is hard to use unless you drop lucky on a good search term imo!! :o)

olorin
03-01-2009, 19:27
It's no odder than having photos of other things you may care about. I have photos of my cats, my parents and aunt, my neighbours have their photo (well technically a photo of an oil portrait) of one of the Sikh gurus, my parents have a photo of each other on their nightstands. Seems normal enough to me.

Plain Talker
03-01-2009, 19:33
yes, I have a really lovely set of photos of me and my sisters over the last forty years, from us being tots up to one taken about ten years ago, showing us growing and becoming adults.

I had a set done for my sisters fortieth birthday, and had them framed, beautifully as a gift for her. I've got pics of my parents, too, as well as some amazing pics, in B & W, from the 1910's and 20's and 30's of my grandparents and great grandparents, in some fantastic costumes.

I think they look fabulous grouped together in matching frames.

The family story stretches over a hundred years, from my grandpa who was born in 1900 and fought in the first world war, to the birth of my own first grandchild in the year 2000. The picturess scan almost every decade, up to the present. That's nearly 12 decades of photographs.

bagger
03-01-2009, 19:36
What is really tacky is those huge portrait sized pictures hanging on the wall....:gag:
Small-ish framed photos on the fireplace or bookcase etc is fine. But then that's only my personal taste.:D

Cyclone
03-01-2009, 19:38
I have a few of my best holiday snaps in frames, and a digital one with loads of photos that cycle through. I have a large one of a brilliant snowscape that I took on the bedroom wall.
I also have a few on canvas that aren't my photos but ones that I liked (you'll have seen the prints in places like Matalan).

teeny
03-01-2009, 19:38
Because my family live in the Isle of Wight and Kenya, I love to have photos to remind me what they blook like, I miss them like crazy and its a good way of them being part of my life here. They have pictures of us with all our animals my neices and nephews love them ,just as we love seeing them grow up.

Aries22
03-01-2009, 19:43
No l dont have family photo's on show at all, l dont like being watched. I do enjoy looking through the Albums and Video's once in a while.

Ouija
03-01-2009, 19:53
I don't think it's weird. I like having pictures on the wall, rather than on surfaces, as they just seem like clutter to me then. But that's just my personal taste. I mainly have picture of my mum and my son.

jellybellybean
03-01-2009, 20:51
Me and my OH live alone (although im pregnant) and we have a framed photograph of us together on the mantle piece. We also have both my scan pics in a frame on display. When our little one's here i want to have a nice canvas done of the three of us 2 put on the wall. Other than these I wouldn't go crazy with pics of parents etc everywhere!

jfish1936
03-01-2009, 22:56
Trouble is, these photos are so small!
Go to the Louvre and see some of the Napoleonic era paintings: one of those showing your family, and there's one wall tou'd never need to wallpaper again!

skinz
03-01-2009, 23:16
I have 3 prints of H.R.Giger and an original piece of work done by my daughter.

Any pics of my family I keep in albums. Their very personal to me and I like to keep it that way.
Whenever I see pics of weddings or kids at school I find them fake and to be honest soooooo boring....which in reality that's what they are.

Cyclone
04-01-2009, 10:16
Do you mean that's what you feel when you look at them in an album? Or just when you see them in someone elses house?
If it's the latter, I don't suppose they care, they see them everyday, you only see them when you visit.

Kthebean
04-01-2009, 10:28
Good evening all! :-)

I live with my boyfriend in a really nice house etc but there's on thing missing for me: cheesy photos on the mantlepiece! :D I would like a nice photo of the two of us and possibly a couple of family etc displayed in nice frames, but my boyfriend says that's just weird... is it? Do you have personal photos displayed around your home? (We have no kids to show off though so I'm talking literally us two, parents etc etc) :suspect: :)

(p.s. sorry if this has been done before... the search facility is hard to use unless you drop lucky on a good search term imo!! :o)

We have pictures of our family and our friends with us in them, for example one in my bedroom of me and my sister, but not of just the two of us. I dont see why that would be necessary, unless you want to remind yourself of a nice holiday or whatever.

Ms Macbeth
04-01-2009, 10:30
We have a few smallish family photos in nice frames scattered around the house, increased since the grandchildren arrived. :love: We have one nice monochrome one on the wall, it was the first professional one done of my granddaughter with her mum and dad. But no way would I have huge coloured family photos meant to imitate oil paintings - I really don't like them. Just my personal taste.

Our son is keen on photography, and has some of Hong Kong & Venice that he's framed and they look amazing.

Cyclone
04-01-2009, 10:40
We have pictures of our family and our friends with us in them, for example one in my bedroom of me and my sister, but not of just the two of us. I dont see why that would be necessary, unless you want to remind yourself of a nice holiday or whatever.

Or you're very forgetful :hihi:

Agent Orange
04-01-2009, 10:47
I dont have pictures around the house at the moment, but I keep trying to get around to buying some frames to put some nice pics of my family etc. The thing is, most of my family members hate having their picture taken so I am somewhat limited on the photo front.

Nothing weird about it at all.

skinz
04-01-2009, 10:48
Do you mean that's what you feel when you look at them in an album? Or just when you see them in someone elses house?
If it's the latter, I don't suppose they care, they see them everyday, you only see them when you visit.


When I look at my own in an album I get an overwhelming sense of nostalgia or affection...I don't think it has anything to do with pride. I'm sure if anyone looked at my albums or pics on display they wouldn't look at them in the same way. I don't have a need to show my pics because of pride. Bit like showing off my curtains to the neighbours. Says more about us rather than what we display. That's not an argument against choice though.

Cyclone
04-01-2009, 11:01
I don't put photos up for other people to look at, I spend far more time in my house than anyone else does.
So if you like seeing a particular picture, put it up on the wall and stuff the visitors, it'll make you feel affection every time you walk through that room, which is probably several times a day.
It's nothing to do with pride (unless it's a photo you took that's particularly good, then it might be), it's about putting a few key photos on view so that you see them more often!

mrmist
04-01-2009, 11:19
The biggest photos that we have on display are not of us or the family at all, they are just shots that we like. The only photo of us is from our wedding, which is nice.

It's really up to you though. I don't think it is odd to display family photos if you want to. Though having 15 of them squeezed onto a mantelpiece might be pushing it a little.

Dave650
04-01-2009, 11:39
I wouldn't like photos of me up. I have pics of my bikes, niece family and some holiday ones though.

Cyclone
04-01-2009, 12:53
I'm in the living room, I can see a photo of me and my SO and 2 friends in a restaurant in Canada on the digital frame (actually gone by the time I've typed this), 2 photos with my SO in them (one with my niece, one with her deceased friend) and one of her niece, oh, another one of her abseiling.
Behind me is a long canvas print of some misty woodland (from Wilkos I think).
Ah, found one more, on of both of us sat on the slope on our first snowboarding holiday.

I'm not sure what my point was now, but at least you all know what photos I have up :)

poppins
04-01-2009, 13:11
I framed some arrays of family photos for the walls in my downstairs den (playroom) took me about 3 months to sort and frame them but it gives the room a cosy feel and they make a good conversation pieces, nice to have company and walk around with a glass of wine pointing out who's who, thats before they fall asleep with boredom :hihi:

Oh !and I did have a very larged framed painting of my Grandfather in the living room at one time, took it down...miserable old bugger he was.

Tiger_lily
04-01-2009, 13:30
So, it looks like I win the battle! :hihi: I don't know what it is, I just feel the need to have one nice picture of us on display in our house, although quite discreetly, not in your face every time you walk in the room kinda thing! :)

SheShe
04-01-2009, 13:31
I love having my family photos on our "photo wall".Our parents, our children, our grandchildren.
Who WOULDN'T have a photo of their beloved daughter with her MBE, the other one winning a horse show, or our son.
We're so proud of all three of them.
We also have our 2 dogs who are no longer with us but were a big part of our lives for 15 years.

Saddler
04-01-2009, 19:14
We have lots of photos in our house, mainly of us and our family.
What I think is strange is that all of my colleagues at work have photos of their children all over the place, sometimes a bit too much in your face!!. What is more strange is that I do not have a single photo of me or my son at work. Am I weird? Are there psychotic issues with me?

funkymiss
04-01-2009, 19:40
We have lots of photos in our house, mainly of us and our family.
What I think is strange is that all of my colleagues at work have photos of their children all over the place, sometimes a bit too much in your face!!. What is more strange is that I do not have a single photo of me or my son at work. Am I weird? Are there psychotic issues with me?

I used to work with a bloke who had a massive pic of his wife as his computer desktop background. Now that's weird.

Dave650
04-01-2009, 20:00
I used to work with a bloke who had a massive pic of his wife as his computer desktop background. Now that's weird.

People set their phone wallpapers as their wives and girlfriends too...bit odd.

funkymiss
05-01-2009, 12:20
People set their phone wallpapers as their wives and girlfriends too...bit odd.

But at least the screen is smaller and colleagues aren't forced to share the view! :hihi:

Tess
05-01-2009, 12:32
I am proud to put my pictures all over the house! days out as backgrounds on the computer, family members or fella on the phone, and hundreds of photos stuck all over my bedroom walls - some of them aren't even in frames!

I just love showing off my pictures, even if its only for me to see. And I think im lucky as fellas the same so I dont have to hide them away from view when we eventually move in together.

katy1981
05-01-2009, 12:34
i only display the photos that meant something to me and photos with my good freinds in but they are usually events or occassion photos:)

cheekychimp
05-01-2009, 12:35
People set their phone wallpapers as their wives and girlfriends too...bit odd.

What's wrong with that?! :o

I have a picture of me and my oh as my background, he however has a picture of the cat.............:suspect:

I love having pics in the house, reminds me of good times and makes my house feel like my home.

Tess
05-01-2009, 12:41
What's wrong with that?! :o

I have a picture of me and my oh as my background, he however has a picture of the cat.............:suspect:

I love having pics in the house, reminds me of good times and makes my house feel like my home.

I have OH as my background on my phone...although he has one of his car..:suspect:

katy1981
05-01-2009, 12:51
I have OH as my background on my phone...although he has one of his car..:suspect:

i have david tennant on my phone, mp3 player and my desk top and screen saver! :o:help::blush:

BasilRathbon
05-01-2009, 13:55
I've decorated my home with photos of my favourite electricity pylons, which I'm hoping to exhibit at a local art gallery at some point in the future.

My neighbour has done a similar thing with photos of his favourite "keep left" signs, but I think he's a bit odd.......

Plain Talker
05-01-2009, 16:41
People set their phone wallpapers as their wives and girlfriends too...bit odd.

My screensaver/wallpaper on my phone is a picture of the destruct-o-puppy, because, despite being a right-tinker, she's gorgeous!

Swan_Vesta
05-01-2009, 16:57
I have pictures of my family around the home because I live far away from them and don't see them as often as I'd like. There's pictures of me on the walls which mark some of my achievements and ones of me and my other half which I'm proud of.

Folk don't like 'em ....... Don't come to my house.

Dave650
05-01-2009, 16:59
What's wrong with that?! :o
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I just think it's a little odd...I can't really say anything though my wallpaper is the shapely rear end ......of my motorbike* :hihi:


*(pre crash)

Dave650
05-01-2009, 17:00
But at least the screen is smaller and colleagues aren't forced to share the view! :hihi:

Unless their the type to shove the pic in your face "fit int she" :rolleyes: