are there any single guys in sheffield!!! im sick of looking and tryin

17 is hardly time to be sick of looking and trying! Go out, have fun, don't look or try and you will be beating blokies off with a stick!

trust me you dont want a long term relationship at 17... i had one of them and i missed out on 3 years of me life! single now though funny enough!

well i prefer to be in relationships!! i had enuf of being single! so........yeah thts me

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
are there any single guys in sheffield!!! im sick of looking and tryin

what you want is alot of one night stands

what you doing this weekend?? :heyhey: :heyhey: :heyhey:

17 year olds today hey....... tut

i remember being 17, the world was my oyster.... now 5 years later, im dead and buried :help:

I would have thought at 17 you would have easily found a boyfriend.
If I had my time to be a 17 year old again I would deffo wanna be single.
Its when you get to my age being single is bad news, I am virtually an outcast nowadays.

yeah but im different i dont enjoy being single!!
im bored of just sex!!
theres alot more emotions in it:loopy:

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
yeah but im different i dont enjoy being single!!
im bored of just sex!!
theres alot more emotions in it:loopy:

at 17 though? you should just be enjoying yourself, it all leads to heartache otherwise

it doesnt always lead to heart ache
i guess i just want someone to be there for me like more than a friend :)

It seems there are different pressures on the young nowadays, all these magazines promoting yob culture and instructing the young on how to dump there partners.
The pressure appears to be aimed at keeping the young sexually active and single.
I dont think its any fun at all being single, in fact its pretty crap.
I think its good you want a stable partner to be with.

yeah AJ got it right
i want to be in a steady relationship :)

I cant remember being single really, I have always been in long term relationships. The last one ended just 3 months ago after being with her for almost 10 years. The thing is I cant even remember what I did in between these relationships, I have no idea how you can find a partner.
I know one thing, the more you look the worse you feel. I guess they just happen, like a lot of things in life.:rolleyes:

R U a police seargeant trapping middle aged pervy groomer types or r u for real - When u reply please be honest and state "bah - rumbled" if applicable

Originally posted by Simmy
R U a police seargeant trapping middle aged pervy groomer types or r u for real - When u reply please be honest and state "bah - rumbled" if applicable
Honest guv, I had no idea :( Ahh well the 18 months will fly by :sad:

elo elo elo - wots all this ere then - well be avin non o that around these parts Mr Glitter - This is a local forum for local pervs

okay then!!!
whats all tht about?

i beat women off wid my sock

yes thats right, i have a beating sock

and no you can't have a go

old uns gag b4 ur time - My daughter always used to pull in Meadow hall in arcades - Never had casual relationships so might be good hunting ground - good luck

o.k o.k, 10 pence a go
no fighting, line up all nicely like

fine be like that

come on sock, let go

hang in there cazzie im sure the right person will come along just enjoy life why your young listen to me u would think im 50 not 21

"Love is just one damn fool after another"

(Oscar Wilde... used to play for Barnsley FC)

okay..............so the answer to my question IS anyone in sheffield single

im guessing its a NO

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
it doesnt always lead to heart ache
i guess i just want someone to be there for me like more than a friend :) cazzie,enjoy your self while you can,dont get tied down yet and if you want some one to be there for you well you have hundreds of mates on here
your only young once enjoy it, time passes so quickly it wont be that long before youre looking back and thinking...if only....
honest, take it from some one who knows, enjoy the best years of your life now,youll never get them back once there gone.

the pub sounds like a good choice

contact slimsid, i think he might be looking:bigsmile:

sid, did u used to work at mail solutions in retford

ell im single and obviously numeous othe rmen are, but men dont like a woman that seems desparate, ie you

Originally posted by Robbie_Lovin
ell im single and obviously numeous othe rmen are, but men dont like a woman that seems desparate, ie you

Ahaha...

Sorry =D

thats just cruel

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
yeah but im different i dont enjoy being single!!
im bored of just sex!!
theres alot more emotions in it:loopy:

BLASPHEMY! Ask anyone who's not got any for a while & let them tell ye how "bored of sex" they are (or rather aren't)

it pains me that at 17 you feel the need to be in a relationship. I think kids grow up way too fast nowadays

You all seem to be bitching about her wanting to be in a relationship and she should rather be sleeping around. Surely thats wrong?! I know its fun and all but when i was around that age there was a time that i really felt i needed someone close that i could do things with :rolleyes: and trust. Being single is so uncertain. It can be fun but theres all the times when you could just do with someone to talk to and cuddle up to, and watch a film or something.

Hope that dosent sound to gay. :D And, erm, im single! Have been since last sept :|

Originally posted by scaramanga
You all seem to be bitching about her wanting to be in a relationship and she should rather be sleeping around. Surely thats wrong?! I know its fun and all but when i was around that age there was a time that i really felt i needed someone close that i could do things with :rolleyes: and trust. Being single is so uncertain. It can be fun but theres all the times when you could just do with someone to talk to and cuddle up to, and watch a film or something.

Hope that dosent sound to gay. :D And, erm, im single! Have been since last sept :|

I'm not getting at her at all, atleast she knows what she wants which is half the battle right??!

Its not being single thats uncertain, it's life in general. I think people are made to feel like its wrong to not be in a relationship and i think its a shame.

Originally posted by CherryNicole
I'm not getting at her at all, atleast she knows what she wants which is half the battle right??!

Its not being single thats uncertain, it's life in general. I think people are made to feel like its wrong to not be in a relationship and i think its a shame.

that is true but after a few months of being single i know all i want is something stable so i can get that feeling of knowing someone and sharing some compassion. It is nice!

Originally posted by scaramanga
that is true but after a few months of being single i know all i want is something stable so i can get that feeling of knowing someone and sharing some compassion. It is nice!

I wouldn't know anything about that unfortunatly, so maybe i have no right to comment!

In what sense? You havent been single that long or the opposite?

I'm always amazed when a girl states she cant find a guy, do girls/women really need to ask for men??

I thought it was the opposite way round. You can always find the young lads complaining that they cant get the girl but rarely the other way round. Maybe i'm being naive! :?

Cazzie, there must be 1000's of young single men out there who want a girlfriend and hopefully many may have PM you, although i supsect you may get more wanting one thing from you than the oens you actually want.

Get out there and meet people and i'm sure you'll not be on your own long :D

To be fair to the girl i much prefer being in a relationship, i hate being single.

I must agree with you there scottf. Its only those people in relationships who say being single is great!

im not single but just a suggestion.........

why not attach a piccy of urself to this thread??

if no one knows what u look like then they may be hesitant to come forward. nothing worse than a blind date

Originally posted by serapis
I must agree with you there scottf. Its only those people in relationships who say being single is great!

No mate- i am in a relationship!!! :)

i started going out with someone at 17, with him for four years. THen straight into another four year relationship which ended last October and i am absolutely loving being single and and happy to remain so until prince charming comes along and sweeps me off my feet !!

Originally posted by scottf
To be fair to the girl i much prefer being in a relationship, i hate being single.

I agree with you buddy, and i'm single, and i was the same when i was in a realtionship.

Joel

Maybe the younger generation of Sheffield Forummers should get chatting and establish a regular meeting place or plan regular night's out etc.

Organise something - go on I dare you.

Good luck

A mum's advice is 'not to go out looking for it or you'll get it alright'!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (meaning you'll find the wrong kind).

If you don't like living/being with yourself you can't expect anyone else to.

Originally posted by tiffy

If you don't like living/being with yourself you can't expect anyone else to.

Thats a good point

Joel

I hated being single when I was 17, but I think that definately is because at that age it feels like everyone is in a relationship and you're not. As much as anything else it's the type of time when people in relationships are pretty inconsiderate and drop their mates in a flash if there is a new partner on the scene.

I reckon you should go out and meet as many new people as possible. that way, not only are you statistically more likely to find someone, but if you don't then you will also have more friends and be less bothered about being tied up.

Jesus christ. When I was 17 I was out with friends, having a sneeky drink and having fun. Not whining about being single on the flippin Internet.

GET OUT MORE

Originally posted by scaramanga
In what sense? You havent been single that long or the opposite?

I have never been in a relationship, so maybe it's not as much of an issue to me cos i don't know what i'm missing??? Doesn't mean to say i don't want to be in a relationship, it just troubles me that people feel they need to be in one.

I see some of my friends relationships, with all this 'where've you been?' 'who've you been with?' and its just like having another mother, it took me long enough to get rid of the last one, i don't need another one.

youwhatref - I think the issue is that if a girl wanted just any guy, she could get one easy, but most girls want someone more special than that. A girl wants to feel special, not that she was the first/only girl that a guy could find on a drunken night out.

I think girls are less forthcoming to say they can't find a man, cos it just looks desperate

Originally posted by mullers
Jesus christ. When I was 17 I was out with friends, having a sneeky drink and having fun. Not whining about being single on the flippin Internet.

GET OUT MORE

I couldn't agree more. I'm 26 and never been in a relationship (long term ones anyway). I reckon I'd have done a lot less with my life if id spent the last 9 years being attached to significant others. Stops you doing anything YOU want to do. There is so much out there to do, without worrying about this ideal relationship thing that you see on the telly. If it happens it happens, there's no point LOOKING for it.

Originally posted by scottf
No mate- i am in a relationship!!! :)

Well that pi**ed on my Rhubarb :D

Originally posted by AJ sheffield
I would have thought at 17 you would have easily found a boyfriend.
If I had my time to be a 17 year old again I would deffo wanna be single.
Its when you get to my age being single is bad news, I am virtually an outcast nowadays.

How true !! Everyone of my age group are newly weds and starting families etc...I seem to have missed the boat! :( .................poor me.

Originally posted by cruella
How true !! Everyone of my age group are newly weds and starting families etc...I seem to have missed the boat! :( .................poor me.

You'r only two years older than me! I dont think we're quite "on the shelf" yet - at least I don't feel that way. Yeah I've been to three of my friend's weddings this year but I do have a lot mroe friends who aint at that stage too.

everyone is different!!
some people prefer being single
some people prefer being in a relationship
im one of those that prefers being in relationships that just me how i am!!! im NOT desperate! robbie i was bored and wanted to see what reactions i'd get for putting this topic up!! can some one PM me with how to put a pic up cos i have no idea!!! am still pretty new here!!

You need some webspace to hold it on, such as www.imageshack.us then just add a link to it.

Oh and hi, your not far from my work, I work in Ecclesfield, i can sit at my desk and throw stones at chapeltown :P

Joel

Well folks, let me tell it from a single, midle aged woman's perspective .............I've had lots of relationships.......mostly with men who were unavailable for whatever reason, emotionally, physically..............and with all honesty I can say there is nothing worse than a bad relationship. Millions of couples out there play happy families every day of the week, but inside, they are dying.......So, please don't be conned into thinking being alone is odd, or pitiful or that their state ofaffairs is better than yours. Just be happy, enjoy life and your freedom......life is like a train.....many people get on and off..........but some stay until the end............

Originally posted by cruella
How true !! Everyone of my age group are newly weds and starting families etc...I seem to have missed the boat! :( .................poor me.
Theres always hope :) or so couples keep telling me :cry:

Single. 33. male.

Probably gonna be like that the rest of my life at this rate. Except being 33 of course :P

lol!!! you peeps make me laugh sometimes im addin this link okies http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y274/cazzie_1987/mee.bmp
if this doesnt work then..........:help:

Originally posted by cloudybay
...Millions of couples out there play happy families every day of the week, but inside, they are dying.,.

This is probably the most profoundly accurate thing I've ever read on this forum - or anywhere else for that matter. So absolutely true, and so well put.

I second that Rock

Originally posted by cloudybay
Millions of couples out there play happy families every day of the week, but inside, they are dying.


That's about the most horrible and depressing thing I've ever read on here!

That really concerns me. A relationship like that would be worse then a prison sentence. Why would a couple do that to themselves?

For their kids, for their own financial security, for their emotional security - and because they're scared of the alternative. Loads of reasons.

Originally posted by AJ sheffield
Theres always hope :) or so couples keep telling me :cry:

that is so true. When you get to my age you do begin to feel like an outcast still being single. My mates tend to be in relationships or single by choice.

when I was 17 I had a 9 month relationship that (at the time) did me the world of good. I don't think to say that someone should want to be single when they are that age is right really.

there are loads of singleguy out there (it always seems a lot more than women :suspect: although I assume men are more likely to be out and about in pubs than girls.

If you have a quick look there was a right romantic on here last week.

try being single when you don't live in a city. its even harder :(

yeah so anyways!!
part of me says be alone dont bother with men ever
and the other part says ........nothing really hahaaa

people are putting that if they did have a relationship they would not have done some of the things they have done, but i tottally disagree with that, ive found myself in a couple of longish (depending on how you look at it) relationships, and i still lead my life how i feel :D

Do you go to corp cazzie_1987? I'm sure you could find someone in there, there are loads of single guys. This sounds really daft but try to look like your not out on the pull,it seems to work better! And this sounds like a cliche but remember, your only 17, don't go out with someone just for the hell of it, if you do that you might as well stay single. When I was 17 I went out with the biggest t*** in the world just cos I didn't want to be single, we didn't really like each other and were more miserable together then on our own!

What I'm trying to say is don't just go out with anyone!

Oh, and I'm only 20 so I'm not trying to give you advice like 'when I wer your age blahblahblah...'

lol!!!
well i've given up anyway
no man wants me so i dont want a man!!
:o :)

can someone change my mind about men!! cos im beginning to hate them :mad: :rant: :suspect:

I hated em for ages too love but there is hope, my boyfriends lovely...and I met him when I decided I didn't want anyone and all men were evil! Just go out and have fun, if you look happy they'll come to you!

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
lol!!!
well i've given up anyway
no man wants me so i dont want a man!!
:o :)

can someone change my mind about men!! cos im beginning to hate them :mad: :rant: :suspect:

Give over Cazzie. Why do you need to hate us guys. It's only been two minutes since you first posted on this thread.

There's thousands of decent guys out there, just be patient :D

Originally posted by cazzie_1987
lol!!!
well i've given up anyway
no man wants me so i dont want a man!!
:o :)

can someone change my mind about men!! cos im beginning to hate them :mad: :rant: :suspect:

well if you want an insight in how i used to be, you can, and i promise, you will soon start hating men :heyhey: :heyhey:

Hate is a word we should NEVER use. Men are here to be loved, just like we are. We love, we lose, we crawl away and lick our wounds. Then, we come out fighting,bigger and better than yesterday and far more informed...........before embarking upon path of revenge, first look to yourself, then, dig two graves ............

im single have been about 2 n half month now.

i was like you at first, alway thought had to be in a relationship, it was the norm etc.

but recently it dawned on me... why do i want one.

Id rather be single, go out with girls, have a laugh, not worry about any ties. plus off to uni in Leeds, so that contributed aswell.

But when your older, and you may have split with the guy you were with for 10 years from age 17, it'll dawn on you that you would have probably prefered been young free and single back then. :)

thats funny... from my point of view, its the girls that *&^% you about and mess with your head.

Lads get a bad name, but lasses are just as bad if not worse.

Im depressed today, can ya tell? :P

single-ism??? whats that? OH you meant to say the lucky ones!:heyhey:

I can live with that Madowl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am in my40s and single..a few of my friend,s are single too.
I am happy. and I think if I am meant to meet someone I will. I don,t go out looking.. it,s not a race..
17 I wish I were 17 I would not be on here moaning on over not having a fella... there,s a life outside just go and enjoy yourself... you will be fine.. when your not looking you will meet one.. I am sure...IT.S NOT A RACE....

Im only just 18. Single, but whatever, dont let it get u down.
Ive found that u meet more people when ure just out for a laugh with ur mates, rather than out looking for a relationship! Just go with it, n ull meet someone sooner or later =)

If you say you actually like to be single then your a liar because everyone wants to have someone close to love and someone to love them back, doesnt matter if your 17 or 70!

i agree!!!!
nicely said !:clap:

ya know wat, im sheffield born and bred and i love it in most ways, but the guys....Oh my god, i don't even have words to describe it, if guys r the same in every other city in sheffield then us laydee's r ****d!

*in england sorry, my bad

Originally posted by The_Pilot
If you say you actually like to be single then your a liar because everyone wants to have someone close to love and someone to love them back, doesnt matter if your 17 or 70!

Depends, just split up with my missus (tho still good friends) and moved back to Sheffield. I'm quite up for going on the pull and having some fun but the idea of getting remotely close to another girl right now is not one I'm particularly keen on. For the moment being single is awesome but given time and a return to normality it is likely that will change....

Originally posted by NJMUK
Depends, just split up with my missus (tho still good friends) and moved back to Sheffield. I'm quite up for going on the pull and having some fun but the idea of getting remotely close to another girl right now is not one I'm particularly keen on. For the moment being single is awesome but given time and a return to normality it is likely that will change....

It hasn't changed for me in the last 7 years, I'm happy being single after the last disasterous relationship.

Cazzie, you're probably looking too hard love. If you become independent, fun to be with and take it or leave it, they will be flocking after you. Don't rush into a physical relationship and take your time just having a laugh. If they aren't prepared to wait, they aren't worth it. If they like you for what and who you are, then you can build on that but play it cool girl! If you come across as needy you will be very lonely! Chin up girl!

Originally posted by Fishpole
Don't rush into a physical relationship and take your time just having a laugh.

Well said. As the saying goes, patience is a virtue and it applies to relationships so well, anything rushed usually ends with someone getting hurt.

Originally posted by The_Pilot
If you say you actually like to be single then your a liar because everyone wants to have someone close to love and someone to love them back, doesnt matter if your 17 or 70!

Not true. - for certain people at certain times, and for certain personality types, the single life has lots of attractions.

Originally posted by RockDrummer
For their kids, for their own financial security, for their emotional security - and because they're scared of the alternative. Loads of reasons. Yep i would second that well put!

"ya know wat, im sheffield born and bred and i love it in most ways, but the guys....Oh my god, i don't even have words to describe it, if guys r the same in every other city in sheffield then us laydee's r ****d!"

Why whats wrong with us?

Originally posted by steelcitygal
ya know wat, im sheffield born and bred and i love it in most ways, but the guys....Oh my god, i don't even have words to describe it, if guys r the same in every other city in sheffield then us laydee's r ****d!

am i being daft here but i can't for the life of me work out what the missing naWty word is!?

all i can think is 'robbed' but that's rubbish so can't be that :confused:

Originally posted by Bedhead
am i being daft here but i can't for the life of me work out what the missing naWty word is!?

all i can think is 'robbed' but that's rubbish so can't be that :confused:
I was thinking along the lines of rodded ;) but its text talk..r as in are ****d

'rodded' must be a sheffield thang then equivalent to shafted maybe?

if that's the case i feel sorry for the grrrrls because there are lots of mighty fine laydees in sheffield!

I think she means f***d , and the r is a seperate word -'are' at the front.
There are some foxes in Sheffield - trouble is for every one decent blokey there are ten hopeful lasses sharking. There are a whack more feasable girls out there than boys.
The lads who are good looking know it, and this usually gives them very ugly personalities - they often turn into cruel, selfish, arrogant players (slags)...!

Hi

I'm single. If you are interested please pm me.

Hey, My first time on the forum!!

I just wanted to say that I hate the stigma that single people get-its almost seems harder to be single in today's society.
If you haven't got the perfect body or trendiest haircut and the ol trophy on the arm than you get the age old "ah, whys that then" when people find out ya single!
To be fair being single rocks-especially when i see the hassle my "married" friends go through!:hihi:

What i don't get is why girlies don't always text back when i get their number after snogging the face off each other all night (classy lad me) why bother giving it me - i feel used :D

yes i realise that maybe it's just to shut me up most of the time because i'm normally hammered when i get it :roll:

Thing is, some of these even ask for my number and text me for me to reply and then i don't hear from them again! arghh

well, its that ol beer goggles thang!

you know u fancied them that nite, but u were prob extremely ****** and so theres the fear that if you text them and

a) you met up with them and you dont recognise them
b)they are dog ugly
c)they dont text back and it leaves ya feeling gutted!

Originally posted by triccivicci
well, its that ol beer goggles thang!

you know u fancied them that nite, but u were prob extremely ****** and so theres the fear that if you text them and

a) you met up with them and you dont recognise them
b)they are dog ugly
c)they dont text back and it leaves ya feeling gutted!

oh my god - maybe i'm dog ugly!!

I think if Sheffield had a beach, we'd have much more beautiful people...

Originally posted by MelonAngel
I think if Sheffield had a beach, we'd have much more beautiful people...

go on...... (?)

yeah, i am intrigued by this beach thang!

It shows you how being single brings out the insecrities in many of us (i was when single!).

You just need to remember that there are asses out there who will let you down, treat you bad but it's all apart of lifes experiences and moulds you into who you are and guides you into meeting the right person (i think :bigsmile: )

But the right person is out there (or persons if you're into that king of thing :D ) and you must be patient. Get out with your friends Cazzie and i'm sure you'll not be waiting long

O u know. well, it's probably just a fantasy of mine...all the buff foxes and babes would flock here, and all the uglys would hide away....hmmm this is not the case in Skeggers thou is it....o Grrr I'll just get me to West Coast, USA

I'm horribly single! Would help if I went out more and worked late less... but then I'm 27 and caz is only 18 (?). Really, talking from experience you don't have anything to worry about at your age. Just go and have a laugh!

After two longish term relationships i've been happily single on and off now for 5 years and I'd reckomend it to anyone. At 18 you have the world at your feet and to spend it hitched up with someone just for the sake of been in a relationship would be a waste of the growing up journey your about to embark on.

Just enjoy it !!

PS No I'm not 65 years old, 34. !!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by slimsid2000
Hi

I'm single. If you are interested please pm me.

Had to LOL, not at your message, but combining your message with your avatar :) Brilliant. I bet the replies have come flooding in :)

ok I got bored of reading after page 5...

I've been single since November now, I've gone through about 4 or 5 different stages :?

first I was hating women for being dumped, then I was desperate to get a g/f to take my mind off my ex, then I was enjoying having a laugh with my mates, now I'm kinda on the enjoying life and wouldn't mind a new r/ship but I'm not depressed about being single anymore...

you really need to be in the final stage, if your dying to be in a r/ship your just going to scare people away... trust me... I know, been there :?

haha, btw I'm only 20 (wow, still not getting used to that after my b/day yesterday!) so my advice probably sucks! :?

Originally posted by xafier
ok I got bored of reading after page 5...

I've been single since November now, I've gone through about 4 or 5 different stages :?

first I was hating women for being dumped, then I was desperate to get a g/f to take my mind off my ex, then I was enjoying having a laugh with my mates, now I'm kinda on the enjoying life and wouldn't mind a new r/ship but I'm not depressed about being single anymore...

you really need to be in the final stage, if your dying to be in a r/ship your just going to scare people away... trust me... I know, been there :?

haha, btw I'm only 20 (wow, still not getting used to that after my b/day yesterday!) so my advice probably sucks! :?

apart from the fact that i am 17, i seem to be on the same stage as you right now. although i have been single since august

edit:
i really need 2 change that signature

I find it funny reading all these posts cos im single too and can understand lots of what people are saying. Only trouble with me is that ive only had one 'proper' girlfriend and that was ages ago. I cant remember what its like to be in a relationship! is that bad? Ive become so much my own person being single for all this time i seriously cant imagine what its like not to have complete freedom in my life. Im 23 for anyone whose interested.

i completely agree....my one proper boyfriend was over 5 years ago, and in a way im too selfish at mo to have a boyfriend. not in abad sense but just my life is so full with work and friends. it seems deep down i am just too fussy and am waiting for mr right whatever that means

Well at least im not on my own! I think i might have been too fussy as well and I know whay you mean about life being busy with loads of other stuff. Ive got friends in relationships and they spend all their time in front of the telly and dont do anything else! how boring (im not saying that all people in relationships are like this... just my observation of some people i know)

im single and im LOVIN it!!! its the best thing eva!!!! so go enjoy urselves!!

Originally posted by slimsid2000
Hi

I'm single. If you are interested please pm me.

LOL I like slimsid. If ever a girl makes out she is desperate on here slimsid turns up wanting a date!! Brilliant!!

Seriously though. Last time i noticed slimsid you offered your services to a girl the same day she got dumped ( was it misrabbit?). Calm down mate and keep your hormones in check and relax. When its time it will happen!

Though if you must post on here offering yourself to any females who hate being single, PM them. It saves you from ridicule :bigsmile: