Another thread got me thinking.... (about pigeon holes, if you're curious)

We all have an identity that we are happy to flaunt, so what's yours?

Strix
... Dog lover
... Scouser
... Engineer
... Individual!

i used to define myself at least in part by being single, but now im seeing someone im finding it difficult to redefine as being someone's girlfriend...it scares me!!
would be more interested in how one of my friends would define me and how it differed from my perception.

Originally posted by Mel_K
i used to define myself at least in part by being single, but now im seeing someone im finding it difficult to redefine as being someone's girlfriend...it scares me!!
would be more interested in how one of my friends would define me and how it differed from my perception.

I dont think you should define yourself as by who you are attached to. Any relationship, no matter how strong, shouldn't be a permanent descrition of who you are.

Originally posted by Strix
We all have an identity that we are happy to flaunt, so what's yours?

Strix
... Dog lover
... Scouser
... Engineer
... Individual!

... Wine lover
... Fluent Japanese speaker (grew up there)
... Chirpy morning person
... Chinos and polo shirt kinda bloke
... Jazz listener
... Urbanite!

people try to pigeonhole me, because of my disability, but i refuse to be defined by it!.

I am

a campaigner,
outspoken
"Buzzy" (a livewire)
caring,
a good friend
a laugh
occasionally a ditzy blonde....
bright
hardworking
plain-talking,
honest

PT

Originally posted by Strix
Another thread got me thinking.... (about pigeon holes, if you're curious)

We all have an identity that we are happy to flaunt, so what's yours?

Strix
... Dog lover
... Scouser
... Engineer
... Individual!

Absolutely amazing
Witty
Cool
hard
Modest:D

Originally posted by Mel_K
i used to define myself at least in part by being single, but now im seeing someone im finding it difficult to redefine as being someone's girlfriend...it scares me!!
would be more interested in how one of my friends would define me and how it differed from my perception.

I think 'His bird' would suffice:|

Originally posted by miniminch
Absolutely amazing
Witty
Cool
hard
Modest:D

You're just a downright fantastic dude, eh, Mini? ;)

StarSparkle :thumbsup:

tree-hugging, nature-lovin', book-reading, cat-cuddling, sandal-sporting scruffy student.

Collar Popper
Cheeky
Optimistic
Like no other
Handsome ;)

I guess I should leave modest out :D

Originally posted by Strix

We all have an identity that we are happy to flaunt, so what's yours?



Not sure about the flaunt bit. But I am content to be defined as -

Caring.

Err...... that's it!

Unique...:thumbsup:

Originally posted by Shiesh
Unique...:thumbsup:

That's the word I was looking for but settled for "Like no other".

Kind
Hugging
caring
music loving
trusted
listening
beer drinking
Partying
understanding
Sharing
Adventurous
Mischievous
Curious
Friend

and maybe some more stuff!

Originally posted by Andy78
Kind
Hugging
caring
music loving
trusted
listening
beer drinking
Partying
understanding
Sharing
Adventurous
Mischievous
Curious
Friend

and maybe some more stuff!

and generally drunk..hic hic :thumbsup:

Originally posted by Shiesh
and generally drunk..hic hic :thumbsup:

Yes, drunk and wobbly :)

deejay helped me with mine:

Friendly
Welcoming
Fun
Alcoholic
Nice


few om my own:

Kind
Caring
Listens
trusted
Loyal
etc
:thumbsup:

And I got help with mine...

* Cheeky
* Loving
* Loyal
* Alcoholic (only at weekends)

From me directly

* Sarcastic (too much for his own good)
* Ambitious
* Creative ( Evidence (http://www.sheffzone.com) )

I got an etc but she has not specified what that means :suspect:

I think mine would be ........

Mother
Trustworthy
Loyal
Bubbly
Caring
Loving
Practical
Kinky

humanoid.
adult.
own hair.
own teeth.
own opinions.
4 limbs - 1 on each corner.
irrepressible good samaritan.
familyman.
hate bullies.
Englishman by birth, Yorkshireman by the grace of God.

just quickly b4 i head of to brum.

martial artist
argumentative (on here)
geeky
social
book reader

Originally posted by Andy78
Hugging

I'd agree there - v huggy person :)

Friendly
Talkative
Trustworthy
Moody (cetain time of month!!!)
Mum of four but not Mumsyfied
Partaker of the occasional Vodka
Naughty but Nice :heyhey:

This is a hard one and I m sure the answers woud change quite a bit over time and in different situations.

I have many different identities - I don;t mean schizo!, but at work I am a different person to at home, and again different when I am with some friends rather than others.

But overall

SENSIBLE..........(hate that word - but that is how people always describe me and there is no getting away from it!)

RESERVED.........(at first till I get to know and trust you)

CARING.............(if I trust you, you could never find a more supPorting, caring 'be there for you' sort of a gal)

Drop dead georgeous.......... (If only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

im honest
but have a big gob
i will help if i can
i love dogs
the pdsa
rspca
hate the piggy blades.

i love life,
to sum it up,
dont worry it might not happen.
Mr care free.

Indefinable.

(grr "your message is too short" grrr!)

Oh yeah, and easily annoyed :)

some good answers! heres mine ....

......short arse
......clever clogs
......dog lover
......caring [nurse!]
......yorkshire lass
......booze lover
......mischievious
......curious
......sarcastic beatch
......fun loving
......foookin gorgeous!