View Full Version : Based on time healing wounds would you ever get back with your EX


trans
11-09-2008, 07:02
Based on time healing wounds would you ever get back with your EX wife or girlfriend. How many years would that be on now?:love::confused:

rhodesian
03-08-2009, 12:13
1st ex ann yes

teddie
03-08-2009, 13:00
No never. That's why they are exes

Plain Talker
03-08-2009, 16:13
You have to remember why your ex is an ex....

someone asked me if I would talk to my ex. I said, "Yes, through Doris Stokes!"

I have a soft spot for my ex, mind you.....














It's a peat-bog in the middle of Dartmoor!

flyer
03-08-2009, 18:45
or would your X want u back

medusa
03-08-2009, 20:15
The only one who I'd choose to get back together with is the one from whom I was separated by death, not a break up.

whitewitch
03-08-2009, 21:27
Nope I wouldnt, I broke up with my ex's for a reason, let the past stay in the past and look forward to a wiser future :)

MissGiggles
03-08-2009, 22:27
i would never get back with an ex. an ex is an ex for an reason

DUFFEMS
04-08-2009, 07:47
I went back to an ex and we've been very happily married for nearly 40 years now. It proves that you can make mistakes or just simply "grow up".
Duffems

Treatment
04-08-2009, 09:03
No chance.

Eighties Gir
05-08-2009, 12:20
Based on time healing wounds would you ever get back with your EX wife or girlfriend. How many years would that be on now?:love::confused:

The one that got away - if I knew then what I know now . . . .

rhodesian
05-08-2009, 12:49
40+-----------------

Dusty5
05-08-2009, 12:59
my mate had an ex get in touch nearly split him and his wife up :( as she hounded him for weeks. so to anyone thinking about doing it think of the trouble it can cause

Ghostrider
05-08-2009, 14:06
I got back together with my ex wife - it was doomed to failure, one day I will learn....

Harleyman
05-08-2009, 15:49
I'd like to get back with my ex but only to collect the 350 quid she still owes me. Being the drunk that she was, collecting the money would be a lost cause more than likely

xfox3x
05-08-2009, 18:17
I got back with my ex after 15 years apart.......best decision I made although at first I was wary............we've been together 9 years and I'm so glad I 'went for it':love:
HOWEVER!!!! he is still a moody knowitall git:hihi::hihi:

*binty*
05-08-2009, 21:36
Definitely not!

RiffRaff
05-08-2009, 22:04
Certainly....divorced 25 years ago....probably the worst decision I ever made.

beamer
05-08-2009, 22:24
Definately not for me either. My ex is my ex and that what he will always be.

IRONMONGER
06-08-2009, 16:43
Even after forty-one years NO
not a hat in cells chance.

rhodesian
06-08-2009, 17:13
is that barry ironmonger bye any chance mid 60s

IRONMONGER
07-08-2009, 17:22
Ironmonger by trade - not by name
sorry Rhodesian it aint Barry

scallyboy
08-08-2009, 09:47
no and what i find really weird and creepy are the ones who are still good friends with their ex .

wwcrazy
08-08-2009, 10:14
they're an ex for a reason!

rhodesian
08-08-2009, 15:26
Ironmonger by trade - not by name
sorry Rhodesian it aint Barry

thankyou for your response ironmonger rock on

whissiewoo
08-08-2009, 19:53
no and what i find really weird and creepy are the ones who are still good friends with their ex .

there's nothing weird or creepy about being good friends with your ex. My ex husband and my husband now have always got on quite well - my ex's family is just an extension of ours and vice versa - we've been on holiday together, visited each other in hospital, had barbeques. my ex and I both met our present partners well after we had split up, the daughter we had together now has two more sisters and they all get along. They are very close sisters (we don't have half sisters or brothers) The son my husband and I had is very close to them too. we have had no bitterness at any time. our parting was amicable and our friendship means a lot to both families. I get on very well with my ex's wife, so much that she is like a true friend.

*Twinkle*
08-08-2009, 22:55
Nope. Not a chance.

depoix
10-08-2009, 13:56
i would like to meet her once more ,just to nod goodbye to as the curtains closed and the congregation filed out of the crem

beamer
11-08-2009, 20:31
there's nothing weird or creepy about being good friends with your ex. My ex husband and my husband now have always got on quite well - my ex's family is just an extension of ours and vice versa - we've been on holiday together, visited each other in hospital, had barbeques. my ex and I both met our present partners well after we had split up, the daughter we had together now has two more sisters and they all get along. They are very close sisters (we don't have half sisters or brothers) The son my husband and I had is very close to them too. we have had no bitterness at any time. our parting was amicable and our friendship means a lot to both families. I get on very well with my ex's wife, so much that she is like a true friend.

How easy would life be if every break up of partnership was like yours? Unfortunately lots of breakups hold grudges and have too much jealousy to stay friends, Good for you all. Stay happy x

BoroughGal
12-08-2009, 07:35
I got back with my ex - have now been back together for about 5 years (8 in total). It can work, but things obviously have to change.