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pdrnsf
23-04-2005, 18:39
I am looking into gay, lesbian, bisexual relationships:

areas including; legal rights, societal acceptance, all areas of discrimination and oppression, employment issues, legislation/law etc.


I am also investigating how the strategies to resist oppression for g/l/b have been developed.

Would appreciate any thoughts, both neagtive and positive.

miniminch
23-04-2005, 18:50
Originally posted by pdrnsf
I am looking into gay, lesbian, bisexual relationships:

areas including; legal rights, societal acceptance, all areas of discrimination and oppression, employment issues, legislation/law etc.

ok gay people like people of the same type

lesbian people are gay but too feminist to have anything to do with men

Bisexual are just really confused and would basically go with anyone

There are hetrosexual who tend to stick to the opposite sex

I hope this clears your confusion up


ps Ive never heard of those areas - my area is meersbrook

once again good luck with the search for yourself:|

melthebell
23-04-2005, 18:54
im a lesbian trapped in a mans body :)

sorry

*says to self "stop it with the crap jokes"*

miniminch
23-04-2005, 19:04
Originally posted by melthebell
im a lesbian trapped in a mans body :)

sorry

*says to self "stop it with the crap jokes"*

no please, please , please continue - i'm begging you!:D

pdrnsf
23-04-2005, 19:06
Anyone with any serious comments please come forward!

This was not intended to be a joke, infact it's anything but.

I wouldnt want anyone to be offended if idiots take this downhill, so please dont.

melthebell
23-04-2005, 19:12
Originally posted by pdrnsf
Anyone with any serious comments please come forward!

This was not intended to be a joke, infact it's anything but.

I wouldnt want anyone to be offended if idiots take this downhill, so please dont.
Tbh i know absolutely naff all on the subject, being a straight........ish bloke :P

BUT what i have noticed is.............my sisters a lesbian and has gone through partners like theyre going out of fashion, i dont mean as in sleeping around, but arguing and falling out with them...i dunno what it means but thats just something ive noticed with her relationships from afar

pdrnsf
23-04-2005, 19:13
THANKYOU! now thats a start!

melthebell
23-04-2005, 19:21
Originally posted by pdrnsf
THANKYOU! now thats a start!
ive always been a late starter, but once started....theres no stopping me :P

miniminch
23-04-2005, 19:21
Originally posted by pdrnsf
THANKYOU! now thats a start!
Two men in a sauna. The first one says to the second one, "Do you want see a magic trick?"
"Yeah"

"OK. Face away from me and get down on your hands and knees"

Second guy turns around and gets down on all fours.

"There," says the first one, "...does that feel like you've got a thumb up your arse?"

"Yes!"

The first guy waves both of his hands in the air, "Magic!"

pdrnsf
23-04-2005, 19:22
Nice one, i see you are in whitby! I used to live in sunny scarborough, well actually, just scarborough!! Forget the sunny!

melthebell
23-04-2005, 19:23
Originally posted by pdrnsf
Nice one, i see you are in whitby! I used to live in sunny scarborough, well actually, just scarborough!! orget the sunny!

I live "near" whitby :P

the only thing i can remember about visiting scarborough was i bought a ramones 7" from a second hand record stall in the covered up market place.thats it, lol

xafier
23-04-2005, 19:29
lesbian and gay people are exactly the same as straight people... the people that are my "type" are different to the "type" that another guy would like, same as the "type" that guy likes is probably different to the "type" the guy next to him likes...

so where is the problem when one guys "type" happens not to include women with huge breasts but instead a ruggid looking man? surely its not right to discriminate on someone for having a different type, when we all have different tastes anyways?

at the end of the day if someone makes someone else happy then where is the problem with it? it's not like homosexuality is a new thing and that we should start shunning it, its been around probably as long as man has

anyways back to the topic... lol

I don't know many gay or lesbian people but the ones I do know I have found that there is generally a lot of added pressure on the r/ship from day one due to the fact their friends/family most likely aren't very approving, and every new b/f or g/f is one step in their mind that their son/daughter/friend isn't just going through a "phase"... also theres the social implications, with the amount of people that are still very against homosexual r/ship's I would imagine going out and having fun like a normal couple could be hard... having a laugh going ice skating is fine for a straight couple... with two women, probably quiet acceptable too because most people wouldn't put 2 + 2 together... but two guys holding hands and having a laugh... well... they're just going to get stares, which is obviously going to be off putting and make you feel unfortable...

I kinda feel sorry for homosexual people at times, it would be great to live in a world where everyone isn't gudged for stupid reasons... having spent a large portion of my life being bullied just because I have ginger hair, which is THE stupidest thing ever I've learnt to see both sides of the story's when it comes to be people being outcast because of their sexuality, dress sense, weight problems, looks etc...

Kthebean
23-04-2005, 19:37
Well said, xafier, ya big ginge ;) (sorry, just joking!)

I know a lesbian couple and they often say that the hardest part of being gay is deciding when to tell people, for example, at a new workplace. You dont want to come straight out with it from the beginning because then it defines you and people think you're shoving it down their throats. And the longer you leave it the harder it gets, or people don't think you've been honest with them.

miniminch
23-04-2005, 19:46
Originally posted by kathythebean
Well said, xafier, ya big ginge ;) (sorry, just joking!)

lesbian couple...... say that the hardest part of being gay is....... shoving it down their throats. And the longer you leave it the harder it gets, .


Remember this is a family forum you sicko:rant:

melthebell
23-04-2005, 19:50
Originally posted by miniminch
Remember this is a family forum you sicko:rant:
LOL
even i never noticed the innuendo in that sentence :(

*bangs head on wall*

Kthebean
23-04-2005, 19:54
Neither did I and I wrote it!! I did actually mean what it said..I must have sex on the brain..

melthebell
23-04-2005, 19:59
Originally posted by kathythebean
Neither did I and I wrote it!! I did actually mean what it said..I must have sex on the brain..
see, and they say being addicted to weeds bad, sex can be too :)