IM FEELING A BIT LIKE A CHILD IN A SCHOOL PLAYGROUND
NOT NOING WHAT TO DO AND VERY SAD .
MY MUM REACENTLY HAD A [DONT KNOW IF I'VE SPELT THIS RIGHT !!]
ANURISUAM IN HER BRAIN AND AS WELL AS THE SHE HAD A SROKE AT THE SAME TIME .
SHE HAD SAID SHE WASENT FEELING WELL THAT SHE'D GOT A REALY BAD HEADACE '' SORRY MY SPELLINGS TERRIBLE '' AND I KEPT SAYING TO HER MUM YOUVE GOT A MIGRAINE BECOURSE THE WAY SHE WAS DESRIBEING IT TO ME WAS JUST LIKE A MIGARINE
THE NEXT THING I KNOW I HELPED HER TO THE TOILET AND DAWN SHE WENT IVE HAD SOME SCARY THINGS HAPPEN TO ME IN MY LIFE BUT THAT JUST BEAT THEM ALL
STRAIGHT AWAY I TOLD MY HUSBAND TO PHONE FOR AN AMBULANCE
I TALKED TO THEM ON THE PHONE UNTILL THE PARAMEDICS ARRIVED
THEY KEPT ASKING ME IF HER EYES WHERE ROLED TO THE TOP OF HER HEAD,
DOSE SHE LOOK LIKE SHE'S TURNIG BLUE
MY REPLIY WAS I DONT KNOW IM VISULEY IMPARED !
SO THEN MY HUSBAND TALKED ON THE PHONE WHILE HE WAS STOOD AT THE SIDE OF ME
BECOURSE I DIDDENT WANT TO LEAVE HER SIDE
IT WAS SCAREY
WITH IN MINUTES THEY WHERE THERE
SHE JUST LAID THERE WITH HER TONGE HANGING OUT GASPING FOR AIR
THEY TOOK HER TO HOSPITAL AND TOLD US NOT GET OWER HOPES UP AS IT DIDENT LOOK GOOD
SHE WAS IN INTENSIVE CARE FOR 2 WEEKS AND SEEING ALL THEM TUBES AND THINGS COMING OUT OF HER ,WELL NOTHING CAN PREPARE YOU FOR THAT .
IT HAS NAW BEEN 7 WEEKS SHE HAS BEEN IN HOSPITAL AND SHE IS FIGHTING FIT SHE'S AWAY WITH THE FAIRYS A LOT OF THE TIME AND SHE ALLWAYS THINKS SHE HAS ONLEY BEEN THERE A FEW DAYS AND KEEPS SAYING HAVE YOU BROUGHT MY CLOTHES FOR GOING HOME IN ??
AND MY YONGEST DAUGHTER HAS SEEN HER FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 7 WEEKS
IJUST CAN NOT BELIVE HAW WELL SHE IS DOING .
THE ONLEY BAD THING IS SHE KEEPS SWEAREING A SOME OF THE NURSES BECOURSE SHE DOS'ENT LIKE THEM SHE TELLS THEM AS WELL AND THEY JUST LAF IT OFF
BUT I THINK IT'S HARD FOR THEM SOMETIMES BECOURSE SHE CAN BE A HANDFULL (LOVE HER!!)
SO THATS WHY WHEN SHE COMES OUT I'M GOING TO SEND THEM A NICE BIG CAKE TO SAY THANKYOU FOR ALL YOUR HELP
THANKYOU FOR READING THIS I HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO TALK ABOUT IT BECOURSE I THOUGHT BE HONEST WITH YOU "I THOUGHT SHE WAS GOING TO DIE AND I WAS GOING TO LOOSE MY MUM !

THANK YOU BYE
TEREAZA :):thumbsup:

That sounded so traumatic.
Hope she gets well soon.

Lets Hope So :|

My niece had water on the brain and was in a coma for some time. When she came out she talked part the time as if she was okay and the rest about someone kidnapping children and her having to protect them and other even more alarming stories. When things settled down she made more sense but it took a while. She has some physical handicaps but her thinking is back to normal. It takes a while to recover from such things.

thanks for that
that makes me feel somewhat better she keeps saying her greyhounds have died ''they havent''
and her freainds dogs have died everyones dieing as far as she knows .
and then im seeing someone else im not married anymore she keeps asking am i still seeing that man ?
i hope she dose get better please do .
and then ive got my brother playing god becourse he's the next of kin
he's been so cruel with some of the things he's doeing youd think his main concern wolud be mum getting better but all he is botherd about is ; having the keys for the house and not leting me in to see mums dogs
he wont let me help he keeps telling people things that im supposed to of said there very hurtfull and when you look at him he has big grin on his face
i dident thinck he colud be so hurtfull i dont know what to do
he seems to be turning everyone against me i feel so lost. :cry::cry:

i had a appointment with the phisio today she told me that mum will probibley get better in time we need to take photos of the family ,
her dogs ,grandkids , etc she has some photos at the moment she just thinks that she needs more o diffrent people to help her remember .
she has been a lot better today i could actuley understand some of what she was saying
as for my brother i think we will do our own thing as he's made it clear he doesnt wont to be part of mine today .:sad::?::(:shakes:

Hi Fabcakes
Just to let you know I SUFFERED a MAJOR HEAMMORHAGE?? in Jan 2003 :gag:

I was in Hospital & rehab for NINE months !! EEEKKK

BUT !!

I'm HERE NOW, with my SECOND wife :thumbsup: & another TWO LOVELY KIDS !!

THERE IS HOPE

X

(((((Fabcakes))))) Just wanted to send you a hug. All the best to your mum too x

Fabcakes, hope your mum's doing better, ****BIG HUGS****x

I cant offer you advice, all I can offer you is an ear to bend if you need it, good luck!!

Does Anyone know how fabcakes mum is getting on now, was looking over threads the other day & started thinking about them all

sorry to say my mum has died
she had another massive hart attack
she died on mothers day.:sad:

I'm so sorry to hear that my love.

:(

It sounds like you had one wonderful Mother.

X

yes i did have a very lovly mum

sorry to say my mum has died
she had another massive hart attack
she died on mothers day.:sad:

oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. Much Hugs...

I lost my mum 25 years ago this year to an anyeurism that caused a brain haemorrhage.

sorry to hear about your mum fabcakes, again if you want an ear to bend.......

thank you
its been hard but you have to move on
my brothers + relatives have been so heartless they all just ganged up on me with sutch nasty coments
i found it best to just walk away from the lot of them
ive felt better since for me & my familey
ive just lost my mum i dont need the hassel from them !:suspect:

Go on girl u sound like the most strogest person i can think of your mother sounded so wonderfull.so do u no what they say dont u .u can pick ur frinds but not your family.they will need u first.so like i said go girl an hold your head up high for urself and ur own family unit x x x x x x x x

Sorry to read your story fabcakes, I can sympathise on 2 counts. I became visually impaired in April 07 and also lost my mum in July 07. Hope you feel better soon and I hope your mum knew just how much you loved her....mine did xxxxx

thank you
its been hard but you have to move on
my brothers + relatives have been so heartless they all just ganged up on me with sutch nasty coments
i found it best to just walk away from the lot of them
ive felt better since for me & my familey
ive just lost my mum i dont need the hassel from them !:suspect:

Hi fabcakes

I was in tears reading your posts, your story is similiar to mine. I lost my mum to a brain tumour and haven't spoken to a couple of siblings since. I agree that sometimes life is easier without certain people around however sad it may seem. The one good thing is that the family I am in contact with, I now have a better relationship. Things do get easier with time honestly, be kind to yourself and you will be fine.

thank you
its been hard but you have to move on
my brothers + relatives have been so heartless they all just ganged up on me with sutch nasty coments
i found it best to just walk away from the lot of them
ive felt better since for me & my familey
ive just lost my mum i dont need the hassel from them !:suspect:

Im so sorry dear. I lost my mom and also got bad comments from relatives. It will take you a long time to get over this. Just remember "she is now free" (your mom)

Go on girl u sound like the most strogest person i can think of your mother sounded so wonderfull.so do u no what they say dont u .u can pick ur frinds but not your family.they will need u first.so like i said go girl an hold your head up high for urself and ur own family unit x x x x x x x x

i tell you something with a family like mine who needs enemies

my own family is whats more important now !!!:thumbsup:

thankyou for all your comments its at times like this you find out who your freainds are :mad:

Just seen this thread, I remember your Mum being ill when you wanted to get your puppy and you put it off to look after her, so I was truly sorry to hear that she has now died and that your having such a hard time of it, no one needs all of that at a time such as this...love to you Fabcakes xxx