Should i ditch the housework to start the garden or do the housework so i can spend all week in the garden, whats everyone else think? OH says do the housework but i'm worried i could be wasting a beautiful day that could be spent outside gardening!

Should i ditch the housework to start the garden or do the housework so i can spend all week in the garden, whats everyone else think? OH says do the housework but i'm worried i could be wasting a beautiful day that could be spent outside gardening!
if he wants to do the housework and you want to do the garden ... what's the problem? :confused:

Gardening everytime. :D

if he wants to do the housework and you want to do the garden ... what's the problem? :confused:

Nooooo i wish it was that simple, he does nothing except mess around with his car so its me doing either the garden or the house, he's a lazy swine!!

Gardening everytime. :D

Housework won unfortunately (says she sat on SF :hihi:) going to do gardening all week, going to make a list tonight of what needs doing/buying and hopefully going to have the best garden on the street this year :D

Nooooo i wish it was that simple, he does nothing except mess around with his car so its me doing either the garden or the house, he's a lazy swine!!
So you mean he actually told you to do the housework on your own AND the garden on your own, whilst he just ligs about doing nowt? What the point of havining a partner if you have to do everything yourself?

That's well bad, though, innit! :o

haha, I think I know what I would've told him to do if I was in your situation!

just a suggestion but have you considered burying him in the garden?
My OH does housework (including washing and ironing) and looks after the kids and is a damn good cook

So you mean he actually told you to do the housework on your own AND the garden on your own, whilst he just ligs about doing nowt? What the point of havining a partner if you have to do everything yourself?

That's well bad, though, innit! :o

:hihi: i am sooooo going to show him this, he seems to think i am a nag, whinger and a bore because i get fed up of doing everything.

In his defence he tidied up the living room today with our son and then they were both sound asleep by 8pm :hihi: i wouldn't mind but the living room wasn't that untidy to start with!!

just a suggestion but have you considered burying him in the garden?
My OH does housework (including washing and ironing) and looks after the kids and is a damn good cook

Don't tempt me lol i actually think my dog has the same idea, she's started digging the hole in the garden for me :hihi: I would do it but it'd cost a fortune to re-turf the mudded area where he was buried :hihi:

You have your OH well trained, how did you manage that? My OH doesn't even know what the washer looks like :suspect:

:thumbsup: Garden wins every time for me! I'd do anything to avoid housework! I've just had 60 paving slabs delivered to make a patio at the side of the house and I can't wait to get started. I love doing stuff outside, weeding, mowing, cutting the hedge, but I hate ironing, pot-washing, hoovering etc. :(

put weight on ?

tinkabel. if you can.t get your OH to help out why not do what i do. sort the house out when its bad weather outside and do the gardening when its good weather outside. then you will also get the advantage of fresh air.etc.