don't u find people who think they know things r wrong and like to cause arguement between ur friends and family

don't u find people who think they know things r wrong and like to cause arguement between ur friends and family

If that's not an open invitation to those who ' think they know things r wrong and like to cause arguement' I don't know what is... :P

don't u find people who think they know things r wrong and like to cause arguement between ur friends and family

that makes no sense to me whatsoever :confused:

Give us an example of what you mean.

for example like they might say u said something to someone but u havent and then tell that other person what u have suposed to have said and u and that other person end up argueing and fallin out

for example like they might say u said something to someone but u havent and then tell that other person what u have suposed to have said and u and that other person end up argueing and fallin out

live and learn, you'll soon find out whos worthy of your trust and who isnt

for example like they might say u said something to someone but u havent and then tell that other person what u have suposed to have said and u and that other person end up argueing and fallin out
why do I now have visions of Vicky Pollard? :hihi:

Pheonix 23- please note that it is against forum rules to post in txt spk. Please use English for future posts.

There was an auxillary nurse very good at this who used to work in Rotherham outpatients.

She'd feed you lines & get you to say something about someone; then she would break her neck to run and tell them.

Pathetic.

why do I now have visions of Vicky Pollard? :hihi:

Because you have 'special needs' & they can only be fulfilled by strange fantasies?

Do I win £5? :hihi:

for example like they might say u said something to someone but u havent and then tell that other person what u have suposed to have said and u and that other person end up argueing and fallin out

Something similar happened to me this week - something came up in the middle of a conversation with "Person 1" that was just general chit-chat and related to my circumstances. He then went to "Person 2" and told them what i'd said but made it sound very much like I'd gone to them solely with the purpose of talking about that person rather than my circumstances.

That then made "Person 2" feel very undermined and talked about and as if I had gone behind his back. When I confronted "Person 1" he was totally shocked that it had come across like that to the other person and went to speak to him. All is well now, but it taught me to be very careful what I say to "Person 1" in future.

I think sometimes people repeat things with the best of motives, and just don't think about how it sounds to the other person.
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Do I win £5? :hihi:Yeah but no but......

oh you mean s*** stirrers there,s plenty of them about

Something similar happened to me this week - something came up in the middle of a conversation with "Person 1" that was just general chit-chat and related to my circumstances. He then went to "Person 2" and told them what i'd said but made it sound very much like I'd gone to them solely with the purpose of talking about that person rather than my circumstances.

That then made "Person 2" feel very undermined and talked about and as if I had gone behind his back. When I confronted "Person 1" he was totally shocked that it had come across like that to the other person and went to speak to him. All is well now, but it taught me to be very careful what I say to "Person 1" in future.

I think sometimes people repeat things with the best of motives, and just don't think about how it sounds to the other person.
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i totally agree and thats what hopened to me doesnt it make u so mad:rant:

Something similar happened to me this week - something came up in the middle of a conversation with "Person 1" that was just general chit-chat and related to my circumstances. He then went to "Person 2" and told them what i'd said but made it sound very much like I'd gone to them solely with the purpose of talking about that person rather than my circumstances.

That then made "Person 2" feel very undermined and talked about and as if I had gone behind his back. When I confronted "Person 1" he was totally shocked that it had come across like that to the other person and went to speak to him. All is well now, but it taught me to be very careful what I say to "Person 1" in future.

I think sometimes people repeat things with the best of motives, and just don't think about how it sounds to the other person.
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Your friends are very unfortunately named....

it makes me really mad especially when you get told something and swear to keep the secret but then someone else finds out and you get blamed even though there is no proof what so ever that is was you telling people the secret :confused:

i totally agree and thats what hopened to me doesnt it make u so mad:rant:
As Pinklady said you get to know who can and cannot be trusted. Some people aren't capable of keeping their trap shut. I wouldn't worry too much though, people do know who the stirrers are and take things they say with a rather large helping of salt.

Your friends are very unfortunately named....

:hihi::hihi:Good job I've only got 3 of them

oh you mean s*** stirrers there,s plenty of them about

I have to agree. I wouldn't entertain one as a friend.

All my friends just agree with me. They know I'm always right. ;)

Seriously - this sort of thing can be a bit of a minefield, and if you do ahve friends who're saying you've said soemthing that you haven't, and that's caused problems, all you can really do is put things right with the eprson who's upset and put the other 'friend' who told the lies out of your life.

HOWEVER...it's always possible that they may have just misunderstood you?

people talking about things they know nothing about

welcome to sheffield forum im sure you wont find that here :hihi::hihi:

I've had a rather duplicitous crap-stirrer spreading things behind my back recently that are not just misunderstandings but downright untruths. Even after I openly and honestly communicated with them about it to set things straight I later found out they'd carried on just the same, and had even been 'fishing' for information about me. Luckily plenty of people are aware that the person in question can't be trusted, but I was very disheartened when I saw people I thought were friends allow themselves to be dragged into the web.

Once you find out that someone is a snake in the grass then it's easy to just step over them, and it's also a handy measure of who else you can trust, comparing who sees through it and who falls for it. :)

Once you find out that someone is a snake in the grass then it's easy to just step over them, and it's also a handy measure of who else you can trust, comparing who sees through it and who falls for it. :)

Very true. When faced with such things, people have a tendency to believe what they want to believe.