*Twinkle*
22-09-2003, 20:54
Just out of interest....
Who's more important to you? Friends or current gf/bf?
Or are they both irreplaceable?
Who's more important to you? Friends or current gf/bf?
Or are they both irreplaceable?
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View Full Version : Friends - V - Partner *Twinkle* 22-09-2003, 20:54 Just out of interest.... Who's more important to you? Friends or current gf/bf? Or are they both irreplaceable? RPG 22-09-2003, 20:56 what if you dont have either? tinajones 22-09-2003, 20:56 friends! they will always be there. over-familiarity breeds contempt (sometimes). tinajones 22-09-2003, 20:58 Originally posted by RPG what if you dont have either? ??? then come on the forum. we are your REAL friends, theres always one of us here for you!!! *Twinkle* 22-09-2003, 21:01 what if you dont have either? In that case, which would you value more? 1Man&hisBMW 22-09-2003, 21:08 Current g/f over friends would have to be my choice RPG 22-09-2003, 21:14 Originally posted by caprice In that case, which would you value more? i have no control to compare to so i cant say *Twinkle* 22-09-2003, 21:16 i have no control to compare to so i cant say :o Current g/f over friends would have to be my choice If your current gf did you wrong you'd turn to your mates though? Also, I'm interested in what constitutes a friendship in your opinion.... :lol: RPG 22-09-2003, 21:19 Originally posted by caprice :o in case you didnt know: control = something as a set standard to look back on and compare *Twinkle* 22-09-2003, 21:22 Yep I knew 8) 1Man&hisBMW 22-09-2003, 21:34 Originally posted by caprice :o If your current gf did you wrong you'd turn to your mates though? Also, I'm interested in what constitutes a friendship in your opinion.... :lol: No I would turn to my family. Friendship is great, and I am blassed to have many friends, but I don't want to be a drag on them, which eventually become if you don't get yourself out or mouring quick enuff! t020 22-09-2003, 22:32 G/f any day. Lindseyw 22-09-2003, 22:45 Originally posted by t020 G/f any day. Is that cos you don't have any friends ? LOL LOL (kiddin') halevan 23-09-2003, 07:25 Originally posted by caprice Just out of interest.... Who's more important to you? Friends or current gf/bf? Or are they both irreplaceable? It has got to be your partner, because they are who you spend your life with, to put friends first is asking for trouble. Agent Dan 23-09-2003, 08:22 I'd say friends every time, I'm afraid! I've never settled down with one girl for longer than a year though... and I don't have a big family so it's a lot a pressure just to put on my parents... I think if you've got true friends rather than just 'mates' it makes quite a difference DaBouncer 23-09-2003, 08:53 Originally posted by caprice Just out of interest.... Who's more important to you? Friends or current gf/bf? Or are they both irreplaceable? I have a mix. I love my fiancee and wouldn't want to be without her (spew, puke, gag) I dont really see much of my mates from school so they don't count. I see mates I've made over the years, but again aren't as important to me as she is. However I have a mate (who's more like a brother) we've been best mates since 4yrs old. I would never choose between em, but if the mrs tried to make me (she never would tho) i'd tell her where to go. max 23-09-2003, 09:03 Originally posted by DaBouncer I have a mix. I love my fiancee and wouldn't want to be with her (spew, puke, gag I hope that either this was the result of a hurried entry or your fiancee never gets to see it. btw My partner is my best friend so I don't have to choose. Belle 23-09-2003, 09:21 Lisa has been my friend for 24 years, I have many others of less longstanding ranging from 15 years to 2 weeks No man has ever lasted 24 years Friends like Lisa will always come first But with a true friend you dont have to choose, they let you take time away from them occasionally when the love-life gets a bit heavy etc, you understand them and they understand you As long as you give and take it shouldnt matter Just remember though who will be around in 30 years time, your mate(s) or your bloke As DaB says, anyone that makes you choose, forces you to choose, should be sacked for putting you there DaBouncer 23-09-2003, 16:06 Originally posted by max I hope that either this was the result of a hurried entry or your fiancee never gets to see it. btw My partner is my best friend so I don't have to choose. Well spotted :blush: cosywolf 23-09-2003, 16:13 Saying that, it had me giggling. Would you like to put the record straight now, DB, or have you done so already? Can't make generalisations, but seeing as my current partner is my current best friend, there isn't much to choose between unless something goes really bizarrely wrong:P ritzy 23-09-2003, 19:19 my mate would always come first before a partner, shes always been there for me and has always picked up the pieces when things go wrong. as a mate shes the best and would never let me down Moon Maiden 23-09-2003, 19:58 my husband is my best friend and worst enemy at times. I have a few good friends but my best mates are my kids!!! I don't get much time to go out meeting other folk. Anyone mention those hell holes they call playgroups and I'll slap em one with my broomstick!!! Talk about stuck up?? Moon Maiden 1Man&hisBMW 23-09-2003, 20:22 Originally posted by LouiseB No man has ever lasted 24 years I'm sure they are working on a drug of some kind to cure that problem aswell! 1Man&HisBMW DaBouncer 24-09-2003, 09:36 Originally posted by cosywolf Saying that, it had me giggling. Would you like to put the record straight now, DB, or have you done so already? Can't make generalisations, but seeing as my current partner is my current best friend, there isn't much to choose between unless something goes really bizarrely wrong:P What record do I need to put straight Yankee Doodle Dandy? Sorry.. I mean Cosy! :lol: |