ok im sure most of u no me from the topic about people in wheelchairs.
im havin a bit of a problem with my relationship with my bf because last nite i asked if he was happy and he says he is but it doesnt feel like im his gf is there but he hopes that with change wen he comes to visit which i cant wait for but is there and thing i can do to b sure ive done the rite thing in taking him back?

Check his parts for nasty infections.

J-Blaze, that's not one of your more useful observations.... :)

Sometiems you might have to take him at his word, but then see if his words are matched by his actions.

Have you any reason why you feel that he's not happy with you? Why doesn't it feel like you're his girlfriend?

All relationships have their up and down times. A word from the wise - don't dwell on relationship issues when you're tired, lonely or feeling off colour.

Only you know whether you've done right by taking him back; has his behaviour cahnged from the reason why you parted in teh first place? If so, well, perhaps it's going to be fine. If it hasn't changed, then you may need to rethink why you've taken him back.

Joe

I don't want to sound like I'm being rude/mean or anything, but you guys both keep posting threads about your relationship and asking for peoples advice. Don't you think its a bit weird reading each other's pleas for help and the advice that people give each of you? I just don't get it. Maybe its just me.

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29882

Originally posted by JoePritchard
J-Blaze, that's not one of your more useful observations.... :)

Sometiems you might have to take him at his word, but then see if his words are matched by his actions.

Have you any reason why you feel that he's not happy with you? Why doesn't it feel like you're his girlfriend?

All relationships have their up and down times. A word from the wise - don't dwell on relationship issues when you're tired, lonely or feeling off colour.

Only you know whether you've done right by taking him back; has his behaviour cahnged from the reason why you parted in teh first place? If so, well, perhaps it's going to be fine. If it hasn't changed, then you may need to rethink why you've taken him back.

Joe I would take joes advice he normaly makes good sense of things.:thumbsup:

Princess

I take it that as you say "when he comes back for a visit" that you are not both in the same town. It could just been that he is worried that your relationship may not work because it is a long distance one. Give him time, reassure him tell him how you feel about him. Let him know that you will feel this way even though you are apart.

Stick with it - only time and reassurance will tell.

thanks guys i will take all ur advice into concideration he is the best think in my life and i dont no if i could bare to lose him.
and the reason he doesnt feel like im his gf is cos we act the same way we did be4 we got bk together