I am just going to start a wind-up question -



Why do some men see women as sexual objects

I'm glad you had the word 'some' in there! Certainly can't argue with you there though!!

yes but since time began it was always the women who were perceived that way IMHO, I never have perceived men that way, perhaps because their 'assets' are more concealed, yet if they weren't it would be off-putting anyway - to me
I am sure some men and women would find the 'in the face sexual appearance' attractive , if so come on and say why

I have never seen my wife as a sex object;she never objects

I have never seen my wife as a sex object;she never objects

hmmm does she see you as a sexual object?:P

No idea. I find they have much more practical uses than just sex.

hmmm does she see you as a sexual object?:P


Nah,I dont object either ;):P:D

[QUOTE=Ginner;3067913]No idea. I find they have much more practical uses than just sex.




Like cooking & cleaning ?

I am just going to start a wind-up question -



Why do some men see women as sexual objects

Why do some women see men as sexual objects??

Nah,I dont object either ;):P:D


no I wouldn't thinkyou would somehow:cool:

no I wouldn't thinkyou would somehow:cool:



Very observant;):hihi:

Why do some women see men as sexual objects??

I'm hoping there will be some women who are brave enough to say 'yes I can't help it that if I see a fanciable guy - sex does enter my head'

any ways, your original question..

"Why do some men see women as sexual objects"

Should read...

"Why do some men see SOME women as sexual objects"

and the answer, Just look how some women dress, look at how women are used in advertising etc, its the media and society that's to blame, us men are just acting on our natural instincts, we see a woman dressed in a certain way, and we just act in response to that.

any ways, your original question..

"Why do some men see women as sexual objects"

Should read...

"Why do some men see SOME women as sexual objects"

and the answer, Just look how some women dress, look at how women are used in advertising etc, its the media and society that's to blame, us men are just acting on our natural instincts, we see a woman dressed in a certain way, and we just act in response to that.


oh Ghozer how do you react to them do you salivate, ogle, make a remarks - isn't it possible for men to be a bit blase about badly dressed women, thinking perhaps, 'I've seen it all before'?

oh Ghozer how do you react to them do you salivate, ogle, make a remarks - isn't it possible for men to be a bit blase about badly dressed women, thinking perhaps, 'I've seen it all before'?

not really, I do get a little 'excited' (in my mind), and I think with most men, they imagine certain things... I dont salivate, or ogle, or anything, though if/where possible, i'll keep trying to take a second, and third, and fourth look, etc (and most men probably do too) but again, You see someone that's attractive/pretty/whatever to you, its just natural reactions..

You eat something that tastes nice, you want to eat it again, you see something that looks good, you want to look again, you hear a song you like, you want to hear it again, Its just the same thing..

would you take it further with these 'in your face women' or not bother?

would you take it further with these 'in your face women' or not bother?

It would depend on the situation, if they were just out and about on the street, probably not, but in a nightclub or pub or other such social event/gathering, may go over, say hi etc... plus it depends how they're dressed, good thing your only attracted to what attracts you :/ (if that makes any sence)

however, I'm taken for so no :)

so does that mean you are often attracted to this type, would you go and say 'hi' when you were sober or would have to have had a few?

so does that mean you are often attracted to this type, would you go and say 'hi' when you were sober or would have to have had a few?

You seem to be classifying as a 'type', its not, some women who dress in a suggestive way, aren't attractive to me in the slightest, while others who are almost totally covered are, Its not just about what they are wearing, more of the whole, and again, it depends who she is, where I saw her, etc if i'd go and say hi... sober or 'had a few' wouldn't make a difference.

ok what if this person was an obvious bimbo, then there may be another who was only obvious when you chatted to her, these women perhaps are vulnerable in a way because they think that the way to attract men is with their physical assets - so they then attract the wrong tpe of men - those who would take advantage of them, this is very similar to the scenario which we read of where women who take up with pop stars or football stars and end up in situations where they are used

well a situation like that, You always have a backup plan, Like I know women do when they go and talk to a guy, they often ask friends to watch for some sort of signal as a 'get out'... us guys often do similar...

But then, its not very likely that you I talk to the woman in the first place, as even if she wasn't an obvious bimbo (as you put it), you can often still tell, as there's different levels of how women dress, in a sort of classy to none classy way..

some women (and some men I was informed by a man) have no fashion sense, so copy each other - and then there are people of both sexes who are just not streetwise, I don't go to clubs anymore, but I would have thought there was a dress code - I've heard of bouncers not allowing people in who were improperly dressed. I think Stringfellows in London operates in this way. Is there a Stringfellows in Sheffield or Leeds?

I think you're all wrong :P

I think you're all wrong :P

possibly, there can always be someone who knows better, he or she will be on soon I expect:P


Heavens am I miserable now!

possibly, there can always be someone who knows better, he or she will be on soon I expect:P


Heavens am I miserable now - where is that charming man?

If you're all lucky, I might actually join in this debate later on. Won't that be nice?

If you're all lucky, I might actually join in this debate later on. Won't that be nice?

oh a night owl, join in any time you like or I'll end up talking to myself:hihi:

oh a night owl, join in any time you like or I'll end up talking to myself:hihi:


I wish i could be a night owl, but it will probably be an early morning response. I do my best bickering when I've just woke up, my mind is clearer and I'm more p'd off i didn't die in my sleep.

so I am going to bed soon, what type of woman do you avoid?

so I am going to bed soon, what type of woman do you avoid?

I avoid the simple ones! Give me a complicated woman any day of the week. Every day of the week just to be safe :D

Oh that's interesting - a man who can put up with a woman every day of the week, really do you prefer men's company up to closing time, and then a female later (just upping the anti)

Oh that's interesting - a man who can put up with a woman every day of the week, really do you prefer men's company up to closing time, and then a female later (just upping the anti)

I'm not fussed either way! I tend to have the same type of conversations with women as I do with men. I'm no good at chatting anyone up so I just talk normally to them. I'm a real social animal, I'm comfortable with my own company but prefer hanging out.

Anyway I find the best adventures and socialising is done after closing time, regardless of gender :D

I'm not fussed either way! I tend to have the same type of conversations with women as I do with men. I'm no good at chatting anyone up so I just talk normally to them. I'm a real social animal, I'm comfortable with my own company but prefer hanging out.

Anyway I find the best adventures and socialising is done after closing time, regardless of gender :D

I like that post. Do you go out a lot socially?

I like that post. Do you go out a lot socially?

Wish I had to money to, or lived somewhere that made it easy. I came back from city living in Manchester and am going a bit stir crazy out in the sticks.

The forum is the only thing keeping me sane. But Jabbers is seeing to that one quite well!

Wish I had to money to, or lived somewhere that made it easy. I came back from city living in Manchester and am going a bit stir crazy out in the sticks.

The forum is the only thing keeping me sane. But Jabbers is seeing to that one quite well!

well I have been 'Jabbering' for most of the evening so I can catch him up, wait till I tell him tomorrow:P

btw I was in Manchester on Wednesday, I live eight miles out from there, do you miss the music scene?

btw I was in Manchester on Wednesday, I live eight miles out from there, do you miss the music scene?

I miss everything except where I lived. Last time I let my flatmates pick here we live. There's so much student let property there that is sub standard.

it's only 40 minutes on the train from Sheffield, you could always sleep over if you are in touch with friends who you knew when you were there

it's only 40 minutes on the train from Sheffield, you could always sleep over if you are in touch with friends who you knew when you were there

That requires the money to travel. Y'see I have the time to go visit at the moment but need a job to get the money, when i get the job to go visit, I won't have the time :(

I do plan on going soon though, I have to. I miss everyone there.

Cressida you don`t think men are sex objects!! What about 007 Craig.

Cressida you don`t think men are sex objects!! What about 007 Craig.

now Herbie you know with Daniel and moi it's a meeting of minds, no way was I interested in his lunchbox till Dame Judi mentioned and made a meal of it, oops - did I say that on purpose, in fact her description nearly gave me the vapours;)

Women ARE sex objects, its their place in nature.

I mean, what other use do they have?

Women ARE sex objects, its their place in nature.

I mean, what other use do they have?

said from a safe distance methinks, er have you read all this thread
perchance (I've caught you up but I'm going out after lunch so no doubt I'll be playing catch-up when I get back);)

Damn right its from a safe distance! I may be loopy but I aint stupid! :D

I just responded to the first post and felt the urge to annoy ladies!

Damn right its from a safe distance! I may be loopy but I aint stupid! :D

I just responded to the first post and felt the urge to annoy ladies!

you're good at that, I hope you don't do it all the time;)

you're good at that, I hope you don't do it all the time;)


He do`s and he`s my hero.:banana::banana:

what's that song by Rolf Harris 'Two little boys' lol