View Full Version : Explaining The Concept Of "Me" And "You"


Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 17:02
My 11 month old is just starting to talk now, and Im in the process of trying to explain ME and YOU to her.

I point to her and say YOU, so she points to herself and says YOU.
I say No, then point to to myself and say ME.
She points to me and says ME.


I spit out the chunks of carpet that Ive just attacked in frustration and calmly say NO again and hold her hand and point to myself with it and say Me, then to her and say YOU.

She holds my hand, points to herself with it and says YOU and then to me and says ME!

I cant remember how I did this with my other kids, but I DO remember being locked up in a lunatic asylum for a while each time, so could someone PLEASE help me with this?!

Heyesey
20-01-2008, 17:04
She'll pick it up fast enough if she listens to you and her mother talking to each other. Trying to explain it to her is only ever going to make things worse. :D

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 17:05
She'll pick it up fast enough if she listens to you and her mother talking to each other. Trying to explain it to her is only ever going to make things worse. :D

You can say that again! Im almost crying with frustration here! Im sure the little devil is doing it for spite!

thursday
20-01-2008, 17:07
Then there's "I" and "Us" and "We"............. :hihi:

Dozy
20-01-2008, 17:07
You can say that again! Im almost crying with frustration here! Im sure the little devil is doing it for spite!

Takes after her daddy, does she?:hihi:

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 17:08
Then there's "I" and "Us" and "We"............. :hihi:

I just bit a chunk out of my tongue.

I forgot about that.

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 17:09
You can say that again! Im almost crying with frustration here! Im sure the little devil is doing it for spite!

Takes after her daddy, does she?:hihi:

Nooooooooooooooo shes nothing like me! This child is a monster, a horror, a fiend!


Im a ikkle angel :D

pattricia
20-01-2008, 17:15
My 11 month old is just starting to talk now, and Im in the process of trying to explain ME and YOU to her.

I point to her and say YOU, so she points to herself and says YOU.
I say No, then point to to myself and say ME.
She points to me and says ME.


I spit out the chunks of carpet that Ive just attacked in frustration and calmly say NO again and hold her hand and point to myself with it and say Me, then to her and say YOU.

She holds my hand, points to herself with it and says YOU and then to me and says ME!

I cant remember how I did this with my other kids, but I DO remember being locked up in a lunatic asylum for a while each time, so could someone PLEASE help me with this?!

Ah, bless, dont rush her. This is very young to be talking. Dont confuse her. Be relaxed with her and she will soon grasp it.:)

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 17:16
. Be relaxed with her and she will soon grasp it.:)


Well that worked with mummy :D

pattricia
20-01-2008, 17:17
Well that worked with mummy :D

Geroff!!!!!:D:D:D

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:16
Give it time, she'll soon get it ;)

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:18
Give it time, she'll soon get it ;)

But how far down the road of insanity will I be by the time she does?
Shes gone to bed now, thank god, but for a moment or two back there I could feel myself slipping into lunacy.

rubydazzler
20-01-2008, 18:19
Does she recognise herself in the glass yet? I have an idea that the Me, Myself and I concept normally follows that milestone, which happens around 10-12 months old?

How cute though ... you should record yourselves and put it on for us to coo over!

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:21
But how far down the road of insanity will I be by the time she does?
Shes gone to bed now, thank god, but for a moment or two back there I could feel myself slipping into lunacy.

Give it a few days and try and explain it again.

Mod_Man
20-01-2008, 18:22
My 11 month old is just starting to talk now, and Im in the process of trying to explain ME and YOU to her.


11 months. I remember when you had her, well not you but I remember you posting on here. Blimey time does go quick on here.

medusa
20-01-2008, 18:22
You may well find that forgetting about 'you' and 'me' for the moment will work better- she's not really old enough to grasp the concepts yet.

How about using names instead? 'Who's that in the mirror/photo?' 'Daddy/Mummy/insert name here' works much easier until she's capable of grasping it.

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:24
How cute though ... you should record yourselves and put it on for us to coo over!

What? Me screaming and bubbling in frustration while she grins vilely at me?

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:25
11 months. I remember when you had her, well not you but I remember you posting on here. Blimey time does go quick on here.

Yeah its certainly flown by. Before I know it she`ll be 17 and bringing her first boyfriend home to meet us.
I bet hes a worthless chav like I was at that age :D

rubydazzler
20-01-2008, 18:25
What? Me screaming and bubbling in frustration while she grins vilely at me?

welll, erm - YES! :hihi:

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:26
Give it a few days and try and explain it again.

I might leave it. I could feel the padded walls closing in, that baby has the most insane smile on Earth and that alone is enough to push me over the edge.

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:26
welll, erm - YES! :hihi:

Kinky.


Marry me! :D

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:30
I might leave it. I could feel the padded walls closing in, that baby has the most insane smile on Earth and that alone is enough to push me over the edge.

I'd love to see a recent pic, I've seen the baby ones :hihi:

pattricia
20-01-2008, 18:36
Does she recognise herself in the glass yet? I have an idea that the Me, Myself and I concept normally follows that milestone, which happens around 10-12 months old?

How cute though ... you should record yourselves and put it on for us to coo over!

I have heard Jabbers voice on a video clip. I was surprised how well spoken he was !! :)

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:36
I'd love to see a recent pic, I've seen the baby ones :hihi:

Heres a recent (Ish) one of her after cleaning out the cats litter tray! (http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/Doppler1/SANY00042.jpg)

There are newer ones on my facebook thing- or there will be once I get snapping with the camera tomorrow.

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:37
I have heard Jabbers voice on a video clip. I was surprised how well spoken he was !! :)

Well spoken? Im a Parson Cross lad! :D

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:38
Heres a recent (Ish) one of her after cleaning out the cats litter tray! (http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/Doppler1/SANY00042.jpg)

There are newer ones on my facebook thing- or there will be once I get snapping with the camera tomorrow.


My how she looks like you! Bless her :hihi:

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:39
My how she looks like you! Bless her :hihi:

Everybody says shes my double, the poor little bugger. Fancy looking like a 47 year old bloke when youre only 11 months old, thatd scare me, that would :D

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:40
Everybody says shes my double, the poor little bugger. Fancy looking like a 47 year old bloke when youre only 11 months old, thatd scare me, that would :D

She really does look a lot like you. None of my kids look like me thank god :hihi:

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:49
The 4 year old looks like her mother, thankfully, heres a pic of her at the nativity play. (http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/Doppler1/xx4002_0001-1.jpg)


I changed it because it was a bad picture :D

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:52
I'm either tripping or thats a dreadful pic lol

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:54
Its a bad pic. I had the camera on full zoom there because I darent get too close to the big one with a camera, she` kill me!

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 18:55
:hihi: bit like me then, unless I'm squiffy

Jabberwocky
20-01-2008, 18:56
I changed it for a saner pic.. still blurry though.

*Peaches*
20-01-2008, 19:00
aww hehe she's a cutie