Hi,

I have become quite bi-curious of late & wonder if anybody has any ideas how I can explore this.

I can't really meet girls in bars as I have nobody to go with, as I want to keep it quiet @ the moment, until I find out for myself & that is too daunting!

There is the added difficulty that I myself am very feminine, and am only attracted to very feminine girls; most girls I have come across on the internet are not my 'type', not who they say they are, or pretending to be bi to allure men. Help!

Try going along to something like VIP or climax which are predominantly gay nights but have a fair number of straight people turning up and see how the atmosphere / people grab ya? Alternatively go along to something like the union LGB evenings and chat to people there?

Good point evildrneil.
Climax is without a doubt Sheffield's most well known and popular gay nights.

It's held once a month (next one Fri 18 Feb) and I think you wouldn't have too much trouble finding your type.
Again as drneil say's you could try VIP (which is held every Thursday) but I can't say too much (since I'm one of the promoters) cos it might be construed as advertising from one or two members of the forum ;) :P

Unless you can find a gay dating site or gay speed dating (if there is such a thing) then you might be hard pressed other than a club night.

Check out the links on the VIP website because there are other websites you might be able to get some info from.

All the best. :thumbsup:

Originally posted by DaBouncer

Unless you can find a gay dating site or gay speed dating (if there is such a thing) then you might be hard pressed other than a club night.

Check out the links on the VIP website because there are other websites you might be able to get some info from.

All the best. :thumbsup:

err DaBouncer you are a promoter -why not do a speed dating night??? run it alongside the VIP night get more people in and be a laugh?

Originally posted by sheffbag
err DaBouncer you are a promoter -why not do a speed dating night??? run it alongside the VIP night get more people in and be a laugh?
I dont know enough about it to be honest.
I'd be happy to host something for a speed dating company along side a VIP night if they were interested.

http://www.shef.ac.uk/lgb/

http://www.gaydargirls.com/

i know a couple of people on here have run a speed dating night before why not put a thread up and see what response you get

Hi
Ive just moved back over into Sheffield myself and im finding my feet any ideas wheres good to go ive tried dempseys and takapunas no joy so if any one has any ideas im all ears..not literally all ears tho...only the 2...

Glittergirl...I have a good friend who is gay and wanting to meet new people. She's very attractive and feminine, and not into butch ladies at all, so finding it quite difficult. She has been living in Spain for a few years so new to Sheffield, I have been with her to Demspeys, but it's not really her scene, too aggressive and slightly daunting. If you're interested let me know and we'll see what we can sort out.

hi glittergirl, i find myself in similar situation to you, i'd like to check places out but have no one to go with and i'm just a big wuss. if you find a place that doesnt seem intimidating let me know!

Why dont all us girls meet up nxt friday nite theres a climax nite
heard its a great nite ive never been cus ive no 1 2go with
any 1 interested ? feel free 2 pm me
:D

Yeah,

Sounds like a good idea. Any one else interested??

cant make this friday unfortunately but will try for the next one , maybe i could meet up with you all then xxx have a good night

Brilliant! I'm going with my friend Steph, she's been before but I haven't.

I would really like to try a gay/mixed night, I've been in Sheff for a couple of years and found it so straight! But don't have gay mates to socialise with since I moved up here.

Originally posted by glittergirl
, or pretending to be bi to allure men. Help!
sorry had to comment on this...this is a huge pet hate of mind . why do women do it? ur not curious ur just being a tart! annoys me,some people do anything 4 attention.
ona nice note though Ggirl. just b urself, dont go out thinking about "straight/gay/bi" and all that jazz,just enjoy urself . try and do leeds/manchester one time, with mixed group of friends and groove girly!

Hi
This a message for mjlacey21...
Ive not been to any new places recently...i did go to Wakefield once and it was amusing but not my scene ...but was a fun night tho...what bars have you tried ??