Morning Ladies
It looks like it may be over already for me :(
I started bleeding on Saturday night and had very bad cramps. I called NHS Direct on Sunday morning who were very helpful, then I went to see my GP on Monday morning who said that it's very likely I'm having a miscarriage but because I'm only at 5 weeks there's no way to be sure, so I have a scan at the EPU on Monday to see if there's anything there but I'm pretty sure it's over. I was in a lot of pain last night, my temperature has dropped back into the normal pre-pregnancy range and I just don't 'feel' pregnant anymore.
I'd only known for 5 days so although I'm gutted I'm holding up pretty well. The fact that I can get pregnant naturally is a big enough boost so I'm keeping that as my positive thought for now and I know after some R&R I shall be back in the New Year and ready to have another go (hopefully without the Clomid too!) :thumbsup:

Honey, I dont know what to write. Im so sorry, so so sorry x


Keep positive amd like you say, see you here next year x x

I've been where you are and am just a pm away if you want to chat.

Lots of love

I'm sorry to hear what your going through hun. I know how you feel, I've had a few miscarriages and despite how long you've known or how far gone you are still going to hurt just as much.
Keep your chin up and like Lapis says stay positive. We're here for you if you need to chat. xxxxxx

Really, really sorry to hear your news. I've been in your position, and its heartbreaking. If its any consolation I'm now pregnant after the 3rd round of clomid, due in the spring. Like you, I had a very 'iffy' PCOS diagnosis - seemed to vary as to whether I had it or not depending on which member of staff I saw. At least now you know that you can conceive so must be ovulating naturally.
I'm not trying to 'poach' you away from SF, but a forum I've found incredibly useful is a PCOS support group, verity-pcos.org.uk. They have a 'trying to conceive' board that was my lifeline through darker days. take care of yourself.

I'm so sorry to hear how things have turned out GoGo dancer- there's nothing that anyone can say to make this any easier for you, but I'm sure that there are more people out there than you know who have been through both the heartache of failing to conceive and the finality of losing a baby, all of whom will be feeling for you right now.

All I can suggest is to try to be good to yourself. Thinking of you.

I'm really sorry to hear that, GoGo, but it's fantastic that you've still had the boost that you CAN get pregnant naturally at all. Fingers crossed for next time.

Sorry go go dancer to hear your news. Keep positive my thoughts are with you charlie x

I'm sorry to hear of your news. Thinking of you.

Thanks again everyone, we'd only told a handful of relatives and and close friends so it's nice to be able to come on here and get an 'outside' perspective on things.
I know miscarriages are incredibly common, isn't it something like 1 in 4 nowadays? And I know it's nothing I've done or anything like that, it's just one of those things, so yes, I'm still feeling pretty positive about things (and I get to add that bottle of Bailey's back onto my christmas list! :hihi:)
Thanks again, and thanks for my PM Lapis! ;)

I am really sorry too.

Oh, sorry to hear this Go Go. Thinking of you and good luck next time around, which hopefully will be sooner rather than later x

I'm sorry. Big hugs xxxx

Echoing the sentiments of others, I hope you feel better soon and you have better news in 08.

So sorry to hear the news Go Go :(

So sorry xxxx:(

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*hugs*

Really really sorry, sending you big hugs xxxxxx

Awww luvvy, I'm so sorry to hear this.. :cry:

((((HUG))))

xx

im really sorry ,i will be thinkin of you

I know I don't know you, but I was thinking about you today - hope you're ok.

I know I don't know you, but I was thinking about you today - hope you're ok.

Thank you so much, that's really kind! Everything went as expected yesterday, the scan confirmed the miscarriage and in a way I'm glad it was a complete miscarriage so I don't have to go back! The nurses were lovely, I thought one of them was going to start crying!
One funny thing did happen, the sonographer said I have the strangest shaped uterus....apparantly it's almost back to front and on it's side (hey, I like to be different!), she said it's not an issue, it's "just the way I'm made"! And then she started looking at my cystic ovaries and telling me all about Posh Spice and Jules Oliver having it and how they have loads of kids.....wow, I have celebrity status fertility issues!! Bless her...:hihi:

Mt wife's just short of 7 months on at the moment and we had a bit of a scare a couple of weeks ago so I think I have a pretty good idea how you must be feeling.
As it happens it look like we are going to be OK but something like that gave me an insight into what worry really is and what it must be like to loose a baby.

Take care and best wishes.

Mt wife's just short of 7 months on at the moment and we had a bit of a scare a couple of weeks ago so I think I have a pretty good idea how you must be feeling.
As it happens it look like we are going to be OK but something like that gave me an insight into what worry really is and what it must be like to loose a baby.

Take care and best wishes.

Thanks upinwath, I'm glad to hear everything is ok, and I hope the rest of your wife's pregnancy is smooth sailing! :)

sorry to hear the news - i have polycystic ovaries - i have two children (did take a while though nearly 10 years) good luck for the future