Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?

Marry him honey! :clap:

K x

Originally posted by Kristian
Marry him honey! :clap:

K x

lol - class !! ..... the ultimate punishment ... a lifetime sentence !!!

Jamie,

This is one of those threads which sensible men should stay away from...;)

Joe

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?
It's not all men, it's just a woman's view of what all men are like. Contrary to a woman's opinion, all men are not the same.

Ive promised my partner if he ever does it to me i'll find the bluntest knife i can find and cut his b*lls off !!

And the best things is he thinks im right for even thinking such a thing !! :clap:

i must say, that i am so much in love with my fiancee, :love: we've been together for almost 3 yrs, and i would never dream of cheating on her, let alone actually do it, she is my life. there is nothing i wouldnt for her, and she knows that. (i hope)
contrary to popular belief, not all men are complete s***'s!

i must say, that i am so much in love with my fiancee, :love: we've been together for almost 3 yrs, and i would never dream of cheating on her, let alone actually do it, she is my life. there is nothing i wouldnt do for her, and she knows that. (i hope)
contrary to popular belief, not all men are complete s***'s!
(god, my spellin sux 2day!)

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.

why should there be a punishment!! end of the day, men get bored of same person over and over, and feel they have to liven things up a little!!

it keeps the relationship he has that llittle bit better!!

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?
KILL HIM!! :bigsmile: just joking!! Men are all different!!

Well as I told my partner as we drank a toast to love early in our relationship...

"Here's to me and here's to you
Here's to love and laughter
I'll be true as long as you
And not a second after."

He obviously doesn't give a **** about fidelity, so why should you?

Forget the berk and move on. There's plenty more fish in the sea and not all men are going to cheat. I know that, because I found an original (so there can't be many of them left). Good luck!

I went out with a bloke, a few years ago, who , it appeared, thought fidelity was simply a make of hi-fi.....

When we embarked upon the relationship, I was told by him that he was free (as in available, i.e. not "spoken for")

After a short while, it became clear that he was still actually with his "live-in love", and that they weren't split up.

Believe me, his feet did not touch the floor as he was sent, quite determinedly, toward the door.

he turned up, like the proverbial bad penny, on my doorstep a few months later, thinking that he could just fall into my arms, and all woul d be forgiven.

(mwah-hah-hah! was he wrong!)

I answered the door to him, - Ooh was I annoyed at his sheer cheek!

he said "I was just passing, and I thought I'd call and see how you were..."

I said "ok, you can see me... you can see that I am perfectly fine...

i continued:-

"you said you were passing? keep bl**dy well passing!!!"

SLAM! (I shut the door firmly in his face).

the French have a saying:-

"When a mistress becomes a wife, she immediately creates a vacancy...!"

I would not put up with going out with a cheater, either as the mistress or as the partner...

I would be constantly thinking "if he's cheating on her, with me, who will he be cheating on me with?"

And I can tell you, I know I am worth far more than that. If someone doesn't think I am important enough to be faithful to, they are the ones who aren't worth knowing!

It's fidelity all the way, on both sides, or it's the door!

If a man of mine cheated on me, the wrath of Lorena Bobbitt would look like a stroll in the park, compared to the wrath I would wreak on him! i would have his "whatnots" for earrings!

PT

Originally posted by Plain Talker
I would be constantly thinking "if he's cheating on her, with me, who will he be cheating on me with?"PT

Yep, exactly PT! My friend was seeing this bloke for about 9 months, although he had a girlfriend. They spent more time together than he did with his girlfriend, and eventually he finished things with his girlfriend.
18 months later, I get a tearful phonecall because "Russell has been cheating on me...":cry:
Don't think you will be the one to change him - it very rarely happens in my experience.

As for people cheating on me, they will never, ever see me cry or get angry. They can just bugger off, which has happened sveral times. Whatever happens - keep your dignity. Don't do anything in the heat of the moment!

On a happier note, I met two girls on holiday once. They had both been seeing the same bloke for several months, but neither of them knew about the other girl. When they did find out, they both told him where to go, and are now best friends!

Please Remember

Honesty has caused more pain and heartache than Infidelity :o

Originally posted by owdlad
Honesty has caused more pain and heartache than Infidelity :o

being totally honest is a really bad curse, my lack of ability to lie or even bend the truth really sucks at times when you need to lie... but meh well, I guess people always know where they stand with me and know I dont ever lie, and if I try to, its VERY easy to spot a mile off...

I believe theres no point entering into a r/ship unless your going to be fully committed... if you aren't ready to be fully committed then don't agree to be seeing eachother, although, no offense females, but women don't seem to comprehend the difference between casually seeing someone and dating... it means the same to most women I know...

anyways, I spent an entire year apart from my (now ex) girlfriend whilst she was in Africa and I stayed 100% committed to her the entire time... I would never cheat on a woman no matter what the circumstances, if I felt the need to cheat it would be because my r/ship wasn't working... and if my r/ship wasnt working I'd be trying my hardest to correct the problems or break things up...

What about cheating women?

Do they deserve to have their cracks sewn up? This seems reasonable considering most women would cut some poor blokes nads off!!

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?

Sorry to say Tracy,

I think men are men the world over. Must be their hormones. I tried to be careful when I was younger and unmarried, but I got fooled once. Needless to say, I told the skunk to go back to his wife, we were through.

I felt bad about it for a long while, but one of my friends pointed out that I didn't knowingly do anything wrong, he had lied to me.

And one of my sisters finally had enough and divorced her husband after she caught him with his secretary. (I know, the guy had NO imagination! lol)

Punishment? I dunno. Something slow. And painful. heh.

:) Sierra

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them? please !!!!!!!!! explain criteria for ultamate woman ?

a million men have spent a life time searching,but alas to no avail,do you know the secret ? please let us mere men know,we,ll pay you!!

joking aside i know what you mean, no its not just us northerners,its universal, but then again it happens in equal proportions.male / female.human nature i suppose

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?


My partner is a Northerner and I am confident and secure enough in our relationship to know that he wouldnt cheat because we love, trust and respect each other.

My previous partner on the other hand who was a southerner was a lying cheating scumbag and had children with another woman behind my back.

We both have a son together and he hasnt bothered with his son for over 4 years he decided that he no longer wanted to see his son as he wanted to concentrate on his social life
(His words not mine) plus he has also never paid me a penny of child support for our son in 5 years.

The way I look at it, is I was a niave fool to be taken in by such an arsehole, but thankfully I eventually wised up, I'm not bitter or twisted by the experience but I am a pi**ed off with him for being a crap father and resentful that he left me to raise a child alone with no support.

I dont think you can or should inflict punishment because all it does is fuel the fire of hurt and anger that you are going through, I think at the end of the day the best revenge is moving on and showing the rat that it was his loss and somebody elses gain.

I know this is easier said than done, but my boyfriend once said to me not all blokes are like my ex and not all blokes cheat.

Regards

Jo

Do what I did - boot him out - then hope he did what mine did - he met his match, married a cheating woman and lived unhappily ever after!

Originally posted by xafier
anyways, I spent an entire year apart from my (now ex) girlfriend whilst she was in Africa and I stayed 100% committed to her the entire time... I would never cheat on a woman no matter what the circumstances, if I felt the need to cheat it would be because my r/ship wasn't working... and if my r/ship wasnt working I'd be trying my hardest to correct the problems or break things up...

My thoughts exactly Xafier!

I've never cheated on anyone, and simply wouldn't. It's only fair to let the other person know if it's over. I think anyone who has been cheated on will know how much it hurts, and in fairness being dumped doesn't feel so good either! Being dumped just leaves you with a little more self respect.

K x

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?

Try turning the question round.
If these men are cheating who are they sheating with? Married women, single women?
If married women then these women are cheating as well.
If single women then your unmarried sisters are knowingly cheating on you.
Try looking for blame in the morals of society as a whole.

Originally posted by beckyaa
Yep, exactly PT! My friend was seeing this bloke for about 9 months, although he had a girlfriend. They spent more time together than he did with his girlfriend, and eventually he finished things with his girlfriend.
18 months later, I get a tearful phonecall because "Russell has been cheating on me...":cry:
Don't think you will be the one to change him - it very rarely happens in my experience.

As for people cheating on me, they will never, ever see me cry or get angry. They can just bugger off, which has happened sveral times. Whatever happens - keep your dignity. Don't do anything in the heat of the moment!

On a happier note, I met two girls on holiday once. They had both been seeing the same bloke for several months, but neither of them knew about the other girl. When they did find out, they both told him where to go, and are now best friends!

Yeah, there's a saying something like... If you don't shut up and leave me I'll find someone who will. :)

Originally posted by coopster1974
What about cheating women?

Do they deserve to have their cracks sewn up? This seems reasonable considering most women would cut some poor blokes nads off!!

Be more like a brick-layer's job for some of them. ;)

Originally posted by coopster1974
What about cheating women?

Do they deserve to have their cracks sewn up? This seems reasonable considering most women would cut some poor blokes nads off!!

S P O O K I L Y enough...
The only people I know who's marriages have ended due to extra marital affairs

have been because the woman half of the relationship had been out hawking her duck :suspect:

Men are programmed to sleep with as many women (or "other people") as possible, it's an evolution thing.

I don't believe that all men - Northern or otherwise - are unfaithful. Men fall in love too. You will always find people (men and women) who can't settle with one person, but there are plenty who can and want to. I met my ex in the August of 2000 and we were together until the end of 2002, when I found out that he had never actually split up with his ex :P I didn't want to be in a relationship where I couldn't trust my boyfriend so I ended it. That was a bad experience, but it doesn't mean that all future relationships will be the same :bigsmile: Give him the boot Tracy, have some time to grieve and get over him, and move on :)

WOMEN CHEAT TOO god damn it - something i know only too well

in fact sometimes when i'm out i've been propostioned by married women (or women in a relationship)

so what do we do with a cheating woman?

Surely it's simple. If your partner cheats on you (male or female) then the relationship is over. Full stop. At the end of the day it's all about self-respect. You deserve better than somebody who obviously doesn't think you are good enough..you deserve somebody who loves you dearly for you are. Move on, life is too short.

Well said......
you should be big enough to say ive had enough i dont want to be in this relationship no more for men and women,

me and my partner have promised each other if we ever feel like we want to stray or dont fancy each other any more we will tell one another..thats how it should be !!

If anyone cheats in a relationship then they obviously don't value their supposed partner. The 'cheater' should be set free to cheat to their heart's content and the other person can then get on with their own life.

Only stay with a cheater if you like to lose sleep, cry a lot and worry endlessly; the only results being dark circles under your eyes, wrinkles and a puffy face. That definately won't encourage him/her to stay with you.

The hardest part of it all is letting go - as you adapt to a new role and change a few habits in life. Cry it out and spring clean your system, then return all your ex's gear to them intact and start afresh.

Am I being too practical? It has happened to me (twice)and I did get over it and while life could be better I'm happy.

If there's one thing in the world that really annoys me and gets me :rant: more than anything else then it is people who make sweeping generalisations!

Not all men cheat!

Not all men are driven by their hormones and think with their d**ks!!

Some of us place love MUCH higher in our priorities and would NEVER EVER even dream of cheating on someone.

And those who do cheat on their partners.... NOT ALL MEN!! Women cheat too! Infact I hate to point this out but several studies I've heard about (mostly in US I beleive, but aren't these things always?) have found that a higher % of women cheat than men!

(Takes a deep breath) ok, rant over - sorry.

Originally posted by craigb
Women cheat too! Infact I hate to point this out but several studies I've heard about (mostly in US I beleive, but aren't these things always?) have found that a higher % of women cheat than men!



I concur, a higher percentage of women cheat than men, its a math thing, as there are more men on the planet than women it makes sense that its the women who do most of the cheating?

Or not?? doh!!!

The title of this thread makes me want to set it to the tune of "what shall we do with the drunken sailor" but it needs more lyrics :P

What Do We Do With A Cheating Man?
Stick his tackle in a frying pan!

Originally posted by jonsastar
I concur, a higher percentage of women cheat than men, its a math thing, as there are more men on the planet than women it makes sense that its the women who do most of the cheating?

Or not?? doh!!!
I think it's safe to assume they took the same number men and women and asked them.

As I've said before I've never held too much importance or credit on these things as there's nothing to say the people they asked are a true and accurate sample of society in general...

All I was trying to prove is that it is not just men who cheat...contrary to popular belief :rolleyes:

Originally posted by craigb

All I was trying to prove is that it is not just men who cheat...contrary to popular belief :rolleyes:

I agree with you craigb, filthy cheating cheaters every last one of us, errr I mean em, :wink:

What Do We Do With A Cheating Man?Stick his tackle in a frying pan!

ouch! :hihi: :hihi:

I'm sure there are endless lyrics to be written for this - I just hope I don't find myself making them up for the rest of the week. I need to go & listen to music that knocks that tune out of my head now :gag:

Originally posted by Siân
The title of this thread makes me want to set it to the tune of "what shall we do with the drunken sailor" but it needs more lyrics :P

:P It works if you drag 'ma-an' over two syllables Sian :D I know, because I've sat here and sang it through twice :P

Alternatively we could substitute 'boyfriend' for man :P :hihi: :hihi:

It works if you drag 'ma-an' over two syllables Sian I know, because I've sat here and sang it through twice

roflmao! You too! Boyfriend works much better you are right but it doesn't help with getting the tune out of my head - it's having the opposite affect :gag:

I think E man grooving's tunes are going to be v much needed tonight if this doesn't stop :suspect:

How many men here would share my opinion?

Most young women find the irresponsible, cheating type of man much more exciting and romantic. At the wooing stage most women are programmed to fall for the dumbest types of lies.

An honest, straight-up sort of bloke has much less chance.

Originally posted by JohnRebel
How many men here would share my opinion?

Most young women find the irresponsible, cheating type of man much more exciting and romantic. At the wooing stage most women are programmed to fall for the dumbest types of lies.

An honest, straight-up sort of bloke has much less chance.

Hit the nail on the head here mate!!!
If women find they're being cheated on, the should look firstly to themselves as to why their selection criteria for a man selects cheaters? I don't know why, but (generally) if a bloke acts like a ******* to a woman, they are more likely to pull. I know this because i've tried it and i know many others that do. As the saying goes, nice guys finish last.

I swear if i hear the "all men are ********" line one more time, i will go insane!

I have had three past relationships and was cheated on by all of em. I think now I have found a nice genuine guy at long last.
Hes the best in my opinion:clap:

Originally posted by jonsastar
as there are more men on the planet than women


that's not right - there are lots more women primarily because they live longer

Originally posted by JohnRebel
How many men here would share my opinion?

Most young women find the irresponsible, cheating type of man much more exciting and romantic. At the wooing stage most women are programmed to fall for the dumbest types of lies.

An honest, straight-up sort of bloke has much less chance.

I'm not a man (obviously I hope :P) but as a 'young woman' I thought I would comment - I for one certainly don't seek irresponsibility or a tendency to cheat in a man. If anything, I'd actively look for someone quieter and sensitive - smooth talking men really put me off.

Originally posted by Sidla
Contrary to a woman's opinion, all men are not the same.

you'll have a hard time proving that one mate.. I do agree with you though :thumbsup: :clap:

Originally posted by Grim
I swear if i hear the "all men are ********" line one more time, i will go insane!

Most men who upset their women are awarded with the grand title of '*******' and generally most men will upset their partners at some point in the relationship whether they split up or not. Anyone would think that it was always the men who do the upsetting though. You don't often hear the line 'all women are bitches' do you. :roll:

Back on topic though, what to do with a cheating man? Cheating is a very destructive thing but you have to ask why that person is cheating surely. Just 'because he's a *******' isn't quite enough for me, sorry. :)

I had one bloke go behind my back continuously his excuse was "we was not exclusive". Fine I thought but when I started to redress the balance it didn't go down very well. Not all men are b******ds my current fella's a diamond. The best thing to do with a cheat (male or female) is to walk away and show em that you don't need nor want them. x

I tried to stay out of this thread but made the mistake of reading some of the posts.

It's always men, isn't it?

How women can get away with tarnishing the male image by stereotyping them in this deeply offensive way, I shall never know.

Just because one or two of you have had bad experiences doesn't mean that all other men are the same.

It really is so shallow and lacks even the most basic levels of common sense to categorise in this ridiculous manner.

Think first, post later.

Your right Sam Miguel its ridiculous to tar people with the same brush, women are just as likely to cheat as men however the topic is "What to do with a cheating man". It was bound to have the ladies unburdening their past disappontments.

Well... what with knowing lots of men, and being one myself (despite what some people believe), I would say that the 'all men are ********' thing isn't exactly a million miles from the truth. I'll be fair though, it's only 99% of men who most women would consider '********'.

Originally posted by Snook
Well... what with knowing lots of men, and being one myself (despite what some people believe), I would say that the 'all men are ********' thing isn't exactly a million miles from the truth. I'll be fair though, it's only 99% of men who most women would consider '********'.

I wouldn't say 99%, but certainly more than half!

K x

Originally posted by TRACY123
Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?
Tracy, why are you the ultimate woman? is it because you have only made 1 posting?

Originally posted by muddycoffee
Tracy, why are you the ultimate woman? is it because you have only made 1 posting?

Wow! A woman that shuts up without being told! :wow:

*Kristian adopts brace position, and awaits torrent of abuse* :D

K x

I have only cheated on my partner once
SHE wanted 8 and i wanted 15.
When she went to the lavvy, I put some better cards in my hand.

Funny game Crib. :suspect:

Originally posted by viking
I have only cheated on my partner once
SHE wanted 8 and i wanted 15.
When she went to the lavvy, I put some better cards in my hand.

Funny game Crib. :suspect:

You would have been safer just moving the pegs! :suspect:

K x

why should there be a punishment!! end of the day, men get bored of same person over and over, and feel they have to liven things up a little!!

it keeps the relationship he has that llittle bit better!!

Yes and helps spread nasty diseases and sometimes ends up in unwanted pregnancies!
Don't you think women get bored too?! But we are mentally stronger to resist the temptation and not cock up the relationship we have.

I had one bloke go behind my back continuously his excuse was "we was not exclusive". Fine I thought but when I started to redress the balance it didn't go down very well. Not all men are b******ds my current fella's a diamond. The best thing to do with a cheat (male or female) is to walk away and show em that you don't need nor want them. x

what about if you are married them and have kids?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two and a half years, we are both only young (I am 17, he is 18 ) and neither one of us can imagine cheating on the other.

People do cheat, though. It's nature. If a relationship is getting repetitive and tedious, then of course someone may stray. It's a given.
All you have to do if that happens is walk away and forget about it. Go out drinking, and forget what has happened.
And then if they come back to you, you have the right to tell them to go forth and multiply.

And even though I am a girl, I don't believe that it is just men. It's the human race in general. Some people go through life unable to make a commitment, it's just who they are, male or female.

Ok, I'm going to go now. I feel like I'm reiterating points.

Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?



Punishment?

Tie a rope round his penis (piece of string if he only got a tiddler) and hang him by his penis to a washing line (so hes dangling).

Then, get a friend round and have a game of swingball, using his testicles as the ball. When you hit his balls, he will go round on the washing line to your mate, who will then hit him back to you

:thumbsup:

Punishment?

Tie a rope round his penis (piece of string if he only got a tiddler) and hang him by his penis to a washing line (so hes dangling).

Then, get a friend round and have a game of swingball, using his testicles as the ball. When you hit his balls, he will go round on the washing line to your mate, who will then hit him back to you

:thumbsup:

Why on earth would you reward a man like that for something as awful as cheating?

Mybe its just people men/women both cheat About the same. Some do, Some dont, Some say they would and have, Some say they wont but have!

Why is it that when a man finds the ultimate woman,he still has to go ahead and cheat on her?.
Is it just northern men who do this or all the country?
If they do,what punishment should be inflicted upon them?Im not going to read through this entire thread and the vitriol from all the scorned women out there - but it works both ways, I have been married twice - and crapped on from a great height both times...

How many times have you heard the phrase.."I love my man, I've found the answer to all my dreams..he's so considerate and loving".

2-3-4 yrs later...."He's a B*****d!! and I hope he rots in hell with the other she-devil he's sh*****g".

As said...it's a two way thing.

Unlike men..women do seem to have long memories though!

No such thing as the ultimate woman or man...not at least until the next ultimate arrives. Maybe that's the prob, thinking in terms of "ultimate".

Have cheated, have been cheated upon, and have been 'the other bloke'. Yes, I've been a slut.

Thing is, if you need to have advice on how to hurt your partner, you haven't reached the ultimate point. If you just want to hurt him, that almost says you want him.

Trust me, and I say this from terrible, painful experience, just walk away. As hard as it is, just do it.

Nothing will hurt him more than the cold shoulder. I still hurt every single day.

Have cheated, have been cheated upon, and have been 'the other bloke'. Yes, I've been a slut.

Thing is, if you need to have advice on how to hurt your partner, you haven't reached the ultimate point. If you just want to hurt him, that almost says you want him.

Trust me, and I say this from terrible, painful experience, just walk away. As hard as it is, just do it.

Nothing will hurt him more than the cold shoulder. I still hurt every single day.

Top advice HH.


And you get to keep your dignity too.

nothing let him get on with it. my ex husband cheated on me only now im having the last laugh the woman he left me for has now left him said at the time it wouldn't last gave it 2 years tops and thats how long it lasted. must be psychic

nothing let him get on with it. my ex husband cheated on me only now im having the last laugh the woman he left me for has now left him said at the time it wouldn't last gave it 2 years tops and thats how long it lasted. must be psychic

Not psychic enough to know he was going to move on from you. Just think...if you had of used those psychic powers when you were with him..:hihi:

If blokes weren't meant to cheat, God wouldn't have invented younger women.

If blokes weren't meant to cheat, God wouldn't have invented younger women.

...or older, "more experienced" women. :)

...or older, "more experienced" women. :)

Or women ;)

It wouldn't happen in our house, I dread to imagine the consequences.

I'd wake up upside down to a tape recording and some doll, "hello digsy, I want you to play a game, you may have noticed you are suspended by your testicles, if you want to survive you have 3 minutes to self circumcise with the rusty spoon hanging beside you."

It wouldn't happen in our house, I dread to imagine the consequences.

I'd wake up upside down to a tape recording and some doll, "hello digsy, I want you to play a game, you may have noticed you are suspended by your testicles, if you want to survive you have 3 minutes to self circumcise with the rusty spoon hanging beside you."

Surely the unpleasant task would be to self-castrate?

Neither sound like much fun to me :gag:

with cheating men what goes around comes around

with cheating men what goes around comes around

And cheating women - it's not exclusive to us, you know ;)

Whichever way about, it's not fun.

It wouldn't happen in our house, I dread to imagine the consequences.

I'd wake up upside down to a tape recording and some doll, "hello digsy, I want you to play a game, you may have noticed you are suspended by your testicles, if you want to survive you have 3 minutes to self circumcise with the rusty spoon hanging beside you."

I like Mrs Digsy's style...

Beat him to within an inch of his life with a rolling pin

My ex girlfriend cheated on me even though i used to be the cheat in previous relationships. karma i know, but it just goes to show.

Peace and love, peace and love

I have known my other half for nearly 25 years and have never even thought about cheating on her because I am happy and content with the love and support she gives me.
My wifes friend left her fella because he was contually cheating on her and also beat her up. There is nothing my wife could do that would make me raise a hand to her, because I have too much respect for her and apart from that our relationship is built on trust and its a really good relationship, I love her to bits

Im not going to read through this entire thread and the vitriol from all the scorned women out there - but it works both ways, I have been married twice - and crapped on from a great height both times...

There's probably little point in quoting the OP, it was posted 4 years ago and I don't remember seeing her posting recently.