As alot of you may know me and know of my baby Candy when she had to be speyed and she was having fits....it has totally broke my heart and i am crying as im writing this and have done nothin but cry all morning..she passed away around 4:30am to 5am this morning she has been with me ever since my 10th birthday and im just so sad that she has gone and didn't get to see my 21st with me in January, nothing will ever replace her and shes in my thought all the time will never be forgotten run free my baby i'll miss you


RIP

Sorry to hear your news.

Losing 'fur family' is always difficult. I've mourned more for my cats than I have for some of my human family.

Take care.

So sorry to hear about candy.my heart goes out to you ,i have a five year old cavalier and he is my little shadow keep her in your heart.xxx

I am so sorry for your loss Lisspot - but you did the right thing getting your baby spayed- remember, she was already on borrowed time before her opand if anything, you helped to prolong her life a little longer, relieving any pain she was in and giving her some dignity in her twilight time before she finally went on that long sleep. She will always be grateful for that and she is no longer in any pain, at the other end of the rainbow bridge. Lots of love and hugs to you, best wishes xKathryn, the dobermutt, the felines, the furries, feathered and finned.

I'm so sorry :( Holly sends you a lick and a hug

Im very sorry to hear your news. Its heartbreaking to lose a much loved pet.

I am so sorry to hear about candy , it is heartbreaking losing a much loved pet.

RIP Candy xx

really sorry for your loss, lost one of mine last December.!
little Charlie, and she will like yours never be forgotten.!..I know the grief your feeling..

jt

I'm really really sorry.

So sorry to hear about Candy.

RIP little girl - safe journey to the bridge xx

sorry know how your feelin

So sorry to hear about Candy :sad:

Awww.....so sorry for the loss of your little girl. It's heartbreaking. Look after yourself xx

LIVING LOVE

If you ever love an animal, there are three days in your life you will always remember …
The first is a day, blessed with happiness, when you bring home your young new friend.
You may have spent weeks deciding on a breed. You may have asked numerous opinions of many vets, or done long research in finding a breeder.
Or, perhaps in a fleeting moment, you may have just chosen that silly looking mutt in a shelter - simply because something in its eyes reached your heart.
But when you bring that chosen pet home, and watch it explore, and claim its special place in your hall or front room - and when you feel it brush against you for the first time - it instills a feeling of pure love you will carry with you through the many years to come.

The second day will occur eight or nine or ten years later.
It will be a day like any other. Routine and unexceptional.
But, for a surprising instant, you will look at your longtime friend
and see age where you once saw youth.
You will see slow deliberate steps where you once saw energy.
And you will see sleep where you once saw activity.
So you will begin to adjust your friend's diet - and you may add a pill or two to her food.
And you may feel a growing fear deep within yourself, which bodes of a coming emptiness.

And you will feel this uneasy feeling, on and off, until the third day finally arrives.
And on this day - if your friend and God have not decided for you,
then you will be faced with making a decision of your own - on behalf of your lifelong friend, and with the guidance of your own deepest Spirit.
But, whichever way your friend eventually leaves you -
you will feel as alone as a single star in the night.
If you are wise, you will let the tears flow as freely and as often as they must.
And if you are typical, you will find that not many in your circle of family or friends will be able to understand your grief, or comfort you.
But if you are true to the love of the pet you cherished through the many joy-filled years, you may find that a soul - a bit smaller in size than your own - seems to walk with you, at times, during the lonely days to come.
And at moments when you least expect anything out of the ordinary to happen, you may feel something brush against your leg - very, very lightly.
And looking down at the place where your dear, perhaps dearest, friend used to lay - you will remember those three significant days.
The memory will most likely be painful, and leave an ache in your heart.
As time passes, the ache will come and go as if it has a life of its own.
You will both reject it and embrace it, and it may confuse you.
If you reject it, it will depress you.
If you embrace it, it will deepen you.
Either way, it will still be an ache.
But there will be, I assure you, a fourth day when - along with the memory of your pet -
and piercing through the heaviness in your heart -
there will come a realization that belongs only to you.
It will be as unique and strong as our relationship with each animal we have loved, and lost.

This realization takes the form of a Living Love - like the heavenly scent of a rose that remains after the petals have wilted, this Love will remain and grow -
and be there for us to remember.
It is a love we have earned.
It is the legacy our pets leave us when they go.
And it is a gift we may keep with us as long as we live.
It is a Love which is ours lone.
And until we ourselves leave, perhaps to join our Beloved Pets -
it is a Love we will always possess.

Author: Martin Scot Kosins

So true Lspacehopper, another one that made me cry

Be brave Lisspot, I have two cavaliers and they are my babies, and I know how hard it is to lose one of our little ones,
but I promise you will feel better in time,
try to remember all the happiness she brought to you, and all the love and happiness you gave to her.

So sorry thinking of you, run free little girl no more pain

thanks for all your kind words i know that she is no longer in pain though i dont think she was in pain but she is free from those horrid fits it made me cry just reading your replies, today she has been cremated and her ashes will be scattered there also...her daughter died 2 year ago so i want them to be together. Everytime i think of her i just cry i can't believe she has really gone she was my baby and the thing what hurts the most is that i took her everywhere with me she was bought for my 10th bday but didn't get to see my 21st i thought she would be there forever but you always think something lasts forever when it doesn't the day before she died she was running around playin with her toys now all i have is the photos i have allover my bedroom of her ever since i had her... the one thing that really gets to me though is i was the one that always looked after her treat her and spoiled her and its my dads wives daughter that has taken the teddy what I gave candy to comfort her during her operation by rights i should get that back and i will do she never bothered with candy always pushing her to get off her bed or shoutin at her for going up the stairs when she was at my house she could go and do anything she wanted now im just lost without her and it's goin to take me along time to get right i haven't even been able to go to work cause of it its just heartbreaking

People who have never owned pets dont always understand just how deeply it hurts when they're gone, but you are amongst friends here who do understand and feel for you at this awful time. I'm so glad to hear Candy was running around and happy the day before she died and I hope that is one of many, many happy memories you can treasure. You loved her and she adored you. She could'nt be with you forever, but she stayed for as long as she could and she will always be there in your heart. xK