What do people thnk of the notion of having one night stands,I myself have had many of them and I feel that as long as you know what is expected then its fine.
I s the sex as good as with a regular partner,or is it better?

depends if you have a regular partner. if not one nighters are ok, JUST TAKE PRECAUTIONS!!
if you have a regular partner, then 1 night stands are a no-no IMO.

Isn't everything a one night stand until you meet for a second time?

my view is that you always have to test drive a vehicle before you buy!!!

Too true, you wouldn't just buy from taking a look around the outside would you?!

If it was a Lamborghini.....

I think they have their place, but both of you need to know that a one nght stand is all it might be.

Sex is something best enjoyed with someone else - not alone! If both of you are up for it, and can deal with it, then good luck to you!

That said, if you do it right, why not do it with someone you respect and love?

K x

chance would be a fine thing

Originally posted by Hels
Isn't everything a one night stand until you meet for a second time?

Not if you've had several dates babe!

So, if I have several dates with the same person - it's no longer a one night stand?

Why am I getting the impression that 'the dirty deed' is compulsory as soon as you guys meet somebody?

'Here's your underwear, what did you say your name was?'

Dating and one night stands don't usually overlap for this reason.

Originally posted by Strix
Why am I getting the impression that 'the dirty deed' is compulsory as soon as you guys meet somebody?

'Here's your underwear, what did you say your name was?'

Dating and one night stands don't usually overlap for this reason.

Hels, that's what I mean't. If you have a dating relationship, and then you sleep together (or not, if he/she get's up after!), then you don't speak again, I wouldn't consider that a one night stand.

I would consider I wasn't very good in the sack though, if it happenned a lot!

K x

So, let me get this right - a 'one night stand' is where you meet someone, sleep (or not) with them, then never see them again?

So if you meet someone, get on, meet again, then sleep with them, that's a relationship?

Sorry if I sound a bit thick, but it's been a long time ....

Originally posted by Hels
So, let me get this right - a 'one night stand' is where you meet someone, sleep (or not) with them, then never see them again?

So if you meet someone, get on, meet again, then sleep with them, that's a relationship?

Sorry if I sound a bit thick, but it's been a long time ....

Hels,

I'm sorry, I'm certainly not any expert on these matters; however, I would consider a one night stand to be: meetig someone on a particular day and 'having sex' with them on that day, then not seeing them again.

I can't speak for anyone else. That's just my interpretation...

K x

Originally posted by Kristian
Hels,

I'm sorry, I'm certainly not any expert on these matters; however, I would consider a one night stand to be: meetig someone on a particular day and 'having sex' with them on that day, then not seeing them again.

I can't speak for anyone else. That's just my interpretation...

K x
That's how I understood it. I'd have put these ' ' around your 'seeing' though.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Strix
That's how I understood it. I'd have put these ' ' around your 'seeing' though. [/QUOTE

Aren't we going back to the their / there thread there? :D

K x

No, it would just indicate that you weren't intending to meet up with them, rather than they had become invisible. :thumbsup:

Originally posted by Strix
No, it would just indicate that you weren't intending to meet up with them, rather than they had become invisible. :thumbsup:

Pedantic Beggar!

I've had too much vodka to deal with you tonight! :D However, I'll get you in the morning! :D :D

K x

Originally posted by Strix
'Here's your underwear, what did you say your name was?'



psssst! Thats why you should always have your name sewn into your underwear. ;) :thumbsup: :blush: :hihi:

From a completely personal viewpoint, I couldn't have a one night stand. I have friends that do on a regular basis and I don't think poorly of them for it, but its just not for me. If I meet someone I like whilst I'm on a night out I'd rather arrange to see them again and get to know them before jumping into bed with them. It seems all backwards somehow - letting someone know you that intimately first, and then finding out everything else about them the next day...

one night stands. yea why not

As long as you tell the the person that you often have one night stands before you have it then I see no problem at all.

After all - you wouldn't want to mislead people now would you?

It's OK for boys but not for girls.

Dirty girls are for Christmas... not life! ;)

Originally posted by TracieJC
From a completely personal viewpoint, I couldn't have a one night stand. I have friends that do on a regular basis and I don't think poorly of them for it, but its just not for me. If I meet someone I like whilst I'm on a night out I'd rather arrange to see them again and get to know them before jumping into bed with them. It seems all backwards somehow - letting someone know you that intimately first, and then finding out everything else about them the next day...

Completely agree - I couldn't have put it better myself... but here goes ;)

I think it's down to personal preference. A lot of people jump from bed to bed and never getting into a serious relationship - and they are happy doing that.

Personally, I put far too much importance on emotional issues rather than the physical act to ever contemplate that.

I think the best way to put it is this... do you think of it as sex or making love? I (unfortunately, given that I'm so very single) fall into the second category.

It depends who its with doesn't it.. You cant make love to someone you've known one night :) Making luurrve is for couples!

I agree that its only ok if you both know whats going on though. (I've just reread that sentence, and it works on two levels - you both have to know its a one night stand, and you both have to be concious!!)_

Originally posted by kathythebean
It depends who its with doesn't it.. You cant make love to someone you've known one night :) Making luurrve is for couples!
Well that's kinda my point - IMHO something as intimate as that should be shared between people with an emotional connection (aka luuuuurve), and that is why (as you say) I couldn't "do it" with someone I've only known one night.

I agree making love is for couples.

I think from a blokes point of view, a one nighter is completely selfish, to satisfy ones urges normally after a night out. It doesn't seem to leave you with self satisfaction afterwards the act only during it.

Then all thats left is what my friends call 'the walk of shame' i.e. walking home at 9:00am in a dinnner suit.

In the long run, i don't think that they bring happiness, but if you live for the moment they can be fantastic! Uncomplicated orgasms, brilliant!

I think there is a big difference between "making love" and "having sex", the first you can only do with someone you have known a while, the second you can do with anyone.

Personally, I like to get into bed ASAP, I like to find out if I'm compatible with someone before I waste any money on beer, meals and flowers etc.

agreed Nick,

I spent years with someone with an incompatibility issue with. But i fell in love with her first. Maybe i should have gone for the early test drive. Luckily the full documentation never got filled out

One night stands,right or wrong? a poll?

Interesting question but is it something that should be voted?

It is such a personal issue!

Not something to encourage judgement. :(

I believe that for a women a one night stand only leads to insecurity, and if you as sensitive as me, you might just fall in love and that would be a crying sham when he don't want to see you again eh!
Women naturally want to be loved I believe, they can fool themselves that its a thrill but at the end of the night they will feel cheap! Just snog him and snog him but say no to the sex. The fantasy is alway better than the reality anyway..tee hee

Originally posted by Squeaker
Women naturally want to be loved I believe
As do (some) men, TRUST ME :help: (if only :( )

Awwwwww Craig! :cry:

Thanks, nice to know someone cares :P

Originally posted by Zamo
It's OK for boys but not for girls.

Dirty girls are for Christmas... not life! ;)
I can't believe know one commented on this.
:lol:

Thing is last one night stand I had was over 5yrs ago - I ended up marrying her :D

I have had one night stands in the past but they have usually turned into relationships.

nowdays im a little older and a little wiser and I prefer to wait for a while until you know the person a little better - how are you supposed to satisfy them in bed if you don't know what they like in life?

I don't know. maybe i need to mature, but if a girl wants a relationship with me, the last thing she should do is to sleep with me.

Originally posted by scottf
how are you supposed to satisfy them in bed if you don't know what they like in life?

I can't see how knowing that the other person likes Eastenders and Chicken Tikka makes you a better lover, the only way to know how to satisfy someone in bed (in my experience) is either to ask them what they like, or through trial and error at the time.

Originally posted by DaBouncer
I can't believe know one commented on this.
:lol:

I didn't think it deserved comment personally, a bit :loopy:

Originally posted by nick2
I can't see how knowing that the other person likes Eastenders and Chicken Tikka makes you a better lover, the only way to know how to satisfy someone in bed (in my experience) is either to ask them what they like, or through trial and error at the time.

Its all about being also to sense what they are like underneath the skin- if they are a passionate lover/ a slow lover/ a rough lover- you do this be knowing stuff about them!!!!

one thing i got taught- you can never talk about a lady TOO much!!

Well........ pondering face,
I think that unfortunately SOME guys do find us cheap if we go the whole way on the first night!
But the woman who sleeps with such a man has either been sweet talked by him or has no self respect. Such a guy must be a right lad anyway, he would tell her anything to get it in her.....and laugh after wiht his mates.

But she will be hurting

It's a nature/nurture thing, a women may have sex with a condom ...but as far as her body is concerned she is preparing for a baby so it is inevitable she will feel hurt..
For example a prostitue who has a regular client coming to her once a week......even she will from an attachment to him..no pain no gain though, I have met some serious boyfriends thought one nightstands, but I was younger then and I have learnt alot

Originally posted by DaBouncer
I can't believe know one commented on this.
:lol:

Thing is last one night stand I had was over 5yrs ago - I ended up marrying her :D

It used to be easy to provoke an argument on here!

DB, if you go on to marry the only girl you have ever had sex with then I'd argue that wasn't really one night stand.

Originally posted by Squeaker
But the woman who sleeps with such a man has either been sweet talked by him or has no self respect.

Or perhaps she just wanted a quicky, this is the 21st century BTW, women are allowed to have sex for fun.

I can't believe we have someone famous in here! I mean what happend to JUST SAY NO Zamo!

Maybe you can say i was intending it to be a one night stand and then........

Originally posted by Squeaker
I can't believe we have someone famous in here! I mean what happend to JUST SAY NO Zamo!

Maybe I'm just a sweet talking impostor?

By the way, you have the most beutiful eyes, how about a sh........ shhh, I'm a married man!

Yeah but 99% of the time she won't have fun! I think if all girls are honest with themselves, they are the ones giving the pleasure not him.......
UNLESS of course the man is exceptionally good in bed... totally out to please her ect... in which case she will probably fall in love with him, or at least want to see him again.

I mean it a girls perogative to want to be seen again... who ddoesn't want to be seen again.. its an insult really, this 21st century stuff doesn't stop you getting hurt does it

Zamo...you too grange hill man...stop flirting and think washing up and hoovering

Originally posted by Zamo
It used to be easy to provoke an argument on here!

DB, if you go on to marry the only girl you have ever had sex with then I'd argue that wasn't really one night stand.
If she was the only girl I had ever had sex with then I'd inclined to agree with you.
However it's not the case.

We actually met in a club - it was meant to be a one night stand. I took her number anyway and decided to call her, you know for a repeat performance (which didn't happen straight away I'll add :mad: ) and it blossomed into a relationship and now we're married.... DANG! :lol:

Originally posted by Squeaker
Yeah but 99% of the time she won't have fun! I think if all girls are honest with themselves, they are the ones giving the pleasure not him.......


I think a lot of blokes would be quite upset by that.

Sorry, I am probably incorrect how about 70%

Originally posted by nick2
I think a lot of blokes would be quite upset by that.
Like me for one!

Originally posted by Squeaker
UNLESS of course the man is exceptionally good in bed... totally out to please her ect... in which case she will probably fall in love with him, or at least want to see him again.

I mean it a girls perogative to want to be seen again... who ddoesn't want to be seen again.. its an insult really, this 21st century stuff doesn't stop you getting hurt does it
I ended up marrying mine so I'll take that as a plus point :D

If you both know what you are getting out of the night and no-one is being mislead then it's fine. It's not something I do much, but that it has its time and its place.

Sex in a relationship and in a one night stand is just different. Generally, it I think sex in a relationship is better, when you trust each other, but no matter how good it is it takes practice with each other to find out what really does it for you both!!

But a one night stand can be exciting and more fun than in a relationship because you don't worry so much about what they think of you if you don't plan to see them again!

It's just a personal thing, and as long as a) you don't wake up and completely regret it and feel ashamed and degraded and b) weren't so blind drunk you have absolutely no memory of it then I don't see a problem with it.

Well you two are exceptions to the rule.......
can I say that ... ?
I mean... most guys when they go out for a one nighter stander ...are they honestly thinking god can't wait to really please that girl..or are they thinking I just want to please myself....honestly huh be honest

Originally posted by Squeaker
Well you two are exceptions to the rule.......
can I say that ... ?
I mean... most guys when they go out for a one nighter stander ...are they honestly thinking god can't wait to really please that girl..or are they thinking I just want to please myself....honestly huh be honest

No I agree totally, and that is why I go out of my way to NOT be a typical bloke because that kind of thing is not me at all.

If anyone ever wants to really upset me, something along the lines of "(tuts) typical bloke" always gets my back up!

I pride myself on being the exception to the rule :cool:

Originally posted by Squeaker
Well you two are exceptions to the rule.......
can I say that ... ?
I mean... most guys when they go out for a one nighter stander ...are they honestly thinking god can't wait to really please that girl..or are they thinking I just want to please myself....honestly huh be honest

I'm sure they are but it also applies to girls,... they are thinking the same thing.

Obviously if you are both enjoying it then you both get more out of it, but still...

Originally posted by DaBouncer
I ended up marrying mine so I'll take that as a plus point :D
The big hammer must have made up for the small nail! :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

Originally posted by Squeaker
Well you two are exceptions to the rule.......
can I say that ... ?
I mean... most guys when they go out for a one nighter stander ...are they honestly thinking god can't wait to really please that girl..or are they thinking I just want to please myself....honestly huh be honest

what makes you think she isn't thinking exactly the same thing ?

I can't get my head round this "all women are nice all men are beasts" thing.

I don't know how you know what most guys are thinking.

Originally posted by nick2
what makes you think she isn't thinking exactly the same thing ?

I can't get my head round this "all women are nice all men are beasts" thing.

I don't know how you know what most guys are thinking.

Some women think that all we men think about is sex. What was that about all women having nice breasts?

Originally posted by Zamo
The big hammer must have made up for the small nail! :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:
Right Steve - outside you southern shandy drinking w***** :lol:

One scary thing I don't recommend is going back and not sleeping with a girl. I've done it, explaining i'd rather not sleep with her until I know her a little better.

(sadly and to be honest being rather lame, I was really tired) The result from this was that she liked me far more than if I had done the deed. If I had shown all my limited skills, I'm sure she would have shown me the door first thing. But as it was I had achieved a higher status, weird aye?

Originally posted by nick2
what makes you think she isn't thinking exactly the same thing ?

I can't get my head round this "all women are nice all men are beasts" thing.

I don't know how you know what most guys are thinking.
Well basically you mis-interpretated me...I never said all men were beasts, and certainly not all women are nice......

But as a general rule men are less likely to get hurt on a one night stand than women. Generally women want the man to want to see her again. Gernerallly man will not want to see her as he feels she may be a bicycle he he

Originally posted by Squeaker
Well basically you mis-interpretated me...I never said all men were beasts, and certainly not all women are nice......

But as a general rule men are less likely to get hurt on a one night stand than women. Generally women want the man to want to see her again. Gernerallly man will not want to see her as he feels she may be a bicycle he he
I dont particularly believe that at all - I think you're stereotyping men together when in actual fact it is a minority that feel this way about the same minority of women I'd put my money on.

Originally posted by Squeaker
Well basically you mis-interpretated me...I never said all men were beasts, and certainly not all women are nice......

But as a general rule men are less likely to get hurt on a one night stand than women. Generally women want the man to want to see her again. Gernerallly man will not want to see her as he feels she may be a bicycle he he

I dont see why anyone has to get hurt on a one night stand.

I think that "generally" men do what they want and don't agonise over what their mates will think and women do what they think they should because they don't want their mates to think they are "bikes" or whatever.
"generally" I think women are more bothered about what other women think than what men think, otherwise they wouln't be so obsessed with dieting.

Bizarre one night stand story!

I once picked up a girl from the Leadmill many moons ago after 'saving' her from a nasty bloke who kept harrassing her! She asked me back to her's and I shared the cab with her and her room mates back to her house. Everything was going well, we were having a laugh, getting very drunk etc. Finally ended up alone in her room and she asked me to sleep with her in her bed but didn't want any hanky-panky... I'm the perfect gentleman (lol) and so obliged, to then be kicked out of the house at 6.30 the next morning! Never saw her again :P

Not quite the one night stand I was expecting...

Originally posted by Briano
Bizarre one night stand story!

I once picked up a girl from the Leadmill many moons ago after 'saving' her from a nasty bloke who kept harrassing her! She asked me back to her's and I shared the cab with her and her room mates back to her house. Everything was going well, we were having a laugh, getting very drunk etc. Finally ended up alone in her room and she asked me to sleep with her in her bed but didn't want any hanky-panky... I'm the perfect gentleman (lol) and so obliged, to then be kicked out of the house at 6.30 the next morning! Never saw her again :P

Not quite the one night stand I was expecting...
Maybe you should get some men size nappies next time, she wont notice the accidents then ;)

Nah ...women don't care what other women think.... they do care however if a man thinks they are a bike, or easy lay blah.

I guess I am just talking from my own perpective and my freinds experiences. Most girls who have one night stands are usually on the re-bound.
Dieting however is something you should do if you are fat, not to look cool

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Maybe you should get some men size nappies next time, she wont notice the accidents then ;)

You mean my mates have been lying all this time and they're actually put off by that type of thing!? :D

Originally posted by Squeaker
Most girls who have one night stands are usually on the re-bound.
That's not true - some maybe but not most.
There are more girls having one night stands because they want to not because of being on the rebound.

Again I think you're generalising your own view to fit the majority rather than actually seeing what's going on.

Originally posted by Squeaker
I guess I am just talking from my own perpective and my freinds experiences. Most girls who have one night stands are usually on the re-bound.

Ooooh, thats the worst time for one night stands, when you are most vulnerable! Always avoid it!

I DO LIKE GERNERALISING....TEE HEE
But no honestly, I am going on some factual evidential experience of others

Originally posted by beckyaa
Ooooh, thats the worst time for one night stands, when you are most vulnerable! Always avoid it!

The worsteeeeeeeeeeest ever time... yup...in the whole world...unless your in a relationship thats worse still of course

Originally posted by Squeaker
I DO LIKE GERNERALISING....TEE HEE
But no honestly, I am going on some factual evidential experience of others
Don't get me wrong I can see where you're coming from but having worked on the doors of sheffield pubs and clubs for some time (no longer tho thankfully) I have seen A LOT of 'goodtime girls' out for one nighters.

OK I dont know the majority of them and I don't know if they're on the rebound. However something tells me when I saw a lot of them coming to the bar I was working at and leaving with a different guy on the Friday AND Saturday then doing the same the following week AND this carried on over some time.
I tend to question your theory.

I think that women these days (younger women especially) are more in touch with their desires and are happy to go out and get it without the need for settling down just yet.

It's probably more like 6 of 1 and 1/2 a dozen of the other to be fair Squeekster ;)

mmmm interesting information... yeah I must admit those girls probably are just looking for the attension side of things... they think if they can bag a different bloke each night then they are obviously sooo gorgeous ...... ....

nah I don't believe for one second it's really about sex... its about points, their own childish ego's and in the long run. I am sorry but this new femail LAD culture is totally going to backfire on the female race.
Unwanted pregnacy, crabs and you know what thay say STD's alway come in three's.

If you are going to have a one night stand it should be inpulsive and fun not calculating.

Originally posted by Squeaker
mmmm interesting information... yeah I must admit those girls probably are just looking for the attension side of things... they think if they can bag a different bloke each night then they are obviously sooo gorgeous ...... ....


If they can bag a different man every night they probably are.

Originally posted by nick2
If they can bag a different man every night they probably are.

Or it could just be the ol' beer goggles? :P

Not necessarily though...be honest there is a fine libe between looking gorgeous and actually thinking you are...
For example you might be well pretty, but the only way you can make yourself actually feel pretty is to be able to have a different man a night.
We all know that only 50% of women acheive an orgasm through sex and infact thats a high estimate...threfore sex for a women is not about orgasm as it is for her male being

Originally posted by TracieJC
Or it could just be the ol' beer goggles? :P
Or possibly that some blokes see Ms Bike and take the EASY option ;)

Originally posted by Squeaker
We all know that only 50% of women acheive an orgasm through sex and infact thats a high estimate...threfore sex for a women is not about orgasm as it is for her male being

It's not our fault the button is in such a silly place. You girls need to help out... :nono:

By the way, why do you call yourself "Squealer"?

Originally posted by Squeaker
Not necessarily though...be honest there is a fine libe between looking gorgeous and actually thinking you are...
For example you might be well pretty, but the only way you can make yourself actually feel pretty is to be able to have a different man a night.
We all know that only 50% of women acheive an orgasm through sex and infact thats a high estimate...threfore sex for a women is not about orgasm as it is for her male being

The way you make it sound, I'm surprised all women don't become nuns.

Originally posted by Squeaker
Not necessarily though...be honest there is a fine libe between looking gorgeous and actually thinking you are...
For example you might be well pretty, but the only way you can make yourself actually feel pretty is to be able to have a different man a night.
We all know that only 50% of women acheive an orgasm through sex and infact thats a high estimate...threfore sex for a women is not about orgasm as it is for her male being
Would you care to enlighten us where you get these "factual" statistcs from ;)
Not that I'm doubting you... OK I'm doubting you!

Originally posted by Zamo
It's not our fault the button is in such a silly place. You girls need to help out... :nono:

By the way, why do you call yourself "Squealer"?
Funny Zamo tee hee..
It's Sqeaker... and its not rude...

Squeaker I mean...and its defo not rude

Originally posted by nick2
The way you make it sound, I'm surprised all women don't become nuns.

Hee hee...no honest....I am just being honest.... as for statistics..I made it up... but I saw a documentary
Also why do you think all those toys you can buy are aimed at women if you know whay I mean!

Originally posted by Squeaker
Hee hee...no honest....I am just being honest.... as for statistics..I made it up... but I saw a documentary
Also why do you think all those toys you can buy are aimed at women if you know whay I mean!
You seriously expect a serious answer from that ;)
Think about it!

No honestly...

75% of men and 29% of women always orgasm with their partner (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

If thats with a partner the percentage is less on a one nighter!

Originally posted by Squeaker
No honestly...

75% of men and 29% of women always orgasm with their partner (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

Quote and link to your source ???

Originally posted by Squeaker
If thats with a partner the percentage is less on a one nighter!
A generalisation again - come on squealer!

Originally posted by Squeaker
No honestly...

75% of men and 29% of women always orgasm with their partner (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

If thats with a partner the percentage is less on a one nighter!

I would think it would be higher, one nighters have the excitement factor that can sometimes be lacking in a relationship.

Originally posted by craigb
Or possibly that some blokes see Ms Bike and take the EASY option ;)

I probably am being completely naive here but how can it be nice for anyone - male or female- to just take the easy option? Seriously, isn't getting to know someone, going through all the thrill of wondering when they will call, day dreaming about them, that butterfly feeling when they accidently brush your arm... isn't that the best bit? If you sleep with someone straight away, it sort of breaks that down; sure there are still things you don't know about them but you can never go back to just holding hands.

I got it off google... I am at work and will get in trouble if look it up again but research it yourself if your interested.....
I may make a few generalisations but all I am trying to say is one night stands for women are less likely to be satisfying for a bird than a geezer... more times than not it's about affection not getting off

Originally posted by nick2
I would think it would be higher, one nighters have the excitement factor that can sometimes be lacking in a relationship.

Good point however you partner will know all you bits better

Originally posted by Squeaker
I got it off google... I am at work and will get in trouble if look it up again but research it yourself if your interested.....
I may make a few generalisations but all I am trying to say is one night stands for women are less likely to be satisfying for a bird than a geezer... more times than not it's about affection not getting off

What about lesbian one night stands then ?

Dunno...never thought about that one mmmmmmmmmmmm

Originally posted by TracieJC
I probably am being completely naive here but how can it be nice for anyone - male or female- to just take the easy option? Seriously, isn't getting to know someone, going through all the thrill of wondering when they will call, day dreaming about them, that butterfly feeling when they accidently brush your arm... isn't that the best bit? If you sleep with someone straight away, it sort of breaks that down; sure there are still things you don't know about them but you can never go back to just holding hands.

Without being insultive, that is being a bit naive!
I had what would have effectively been a one night stand, it was a strange one coz I met her for a drink one evening and walked her to her house afterwards. Nothing was going to happen and I was about to leave when there was a sudden spark and it was amazing, I ended up staying the night.

I've had one night stands before and it's the general excitement of the moment that makes it all... you can still have the 'thrill of wondering when they will call, day dreaming about them, that butterfly feeling when they accidently brush your arm' afterwards!

By the way, that lass now just happens to be my wife of 6 years this year. :clap:

Originally posted by Squeaker
I got it off google... I am at work and will get in trouble if look it up again but research it yourself if your interested.....
That's not the way it works - you quoted facts and figures you have to prove it otherwise it's just something you're saying.

If I had said that's not true actually x% of women bust a nut everytime they get nailed then I'd have to prove it.

Tut tut squeeler ;)

Originally posted by Briano


By the way, that lass now just happens to be my wife of 6 years this year. :clap:

Congratulations to you both! :clap: I'm a romantic, old fashioned girl at heart ;)

Originally posted by DaBouncer
That's not the way it works - you quoted facts and figures you have to prove it otherwise it's just something you're saying.

If I had said that's not true actually x% of women bust a nut everytime they get nailed then I'd have to prove it.

Tut tut squeeler ;)
See this then...
http://sexuality.about.com/cs/sexualhealth/a/sexstats.htm

Originally posted by TracieJC
Congratulations to you both! :clap: I'm a romantic, old fashioned girl at heart ;)


Lol, thanks TracieJC :thumbsup:

Originally posted by TracieJC
I probably am being completely naive here but how can it be nice for anyone - male or female- to just take the easy option? Seriously, isn't getting to know someone, going through all the thrill of wondering when they will call, day dreaming about them, that butterfly feeling when they accidently brush your arm... isn't that the best bit? If you sleep with someone straight away, it sort of breaks that down; sure there are still things you don't know about them but you can never go back to just holding hands.
I agree completely - 100%, my point was that unfortunately most (not all) people these days do not think like that anymore.

People like you and me are a dying breed it seems :(

[edit] Oh, and I didn't say it was NICE to take the easy option, just that people do.

Personally I think (as with most things in life) the easy option is not the best option, and certainly isn't in this case.

Originally posted by craigb
People like you and me are a dying breed it seems :(

Probably because you never get round to reproducing.

Originally posted by craigb

People like you and me are a dying breed it seems :(
How Dare You! (http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?postid=271949#post271949)
:roll:

Originally posted by craigb
I agree completely - 100%, my point was that unfortunately most (not all) people these days do not think like that anymore.

People like you and me are a dying breed it seems :(


As long as I'm not alone, I don't mind! :D I bet there are other people there with the same views, they're just too shy to admit it ;)

@ DaBouncer

I didn't say we were the only ones! Just rare! Calm down son! ;)

Originally posted by TracieJC
As long as I'm not alone, I don't mind! :D I bet there are other people there with the same views, they're just too shy to admit it ;)

I'm of the same view. I think there are probably loads of people out there that feel the same. It's not really considered the cool view in many peoples eyes though is it? I think that's why people keep quiet about it.

Originally posted by nick2
Probably because you never get round to reproducing.

:lol: this made me chuckle... my sister always accused me of being a panda (apparently, they only mate once a year???!! :D :D) I tell ya, I'm just fussy! :P

Originally posted by TracieJC
As long as I'm not alone, I don't mind! :D I bet there are other people there with the same views, they're just too shy to admit it ;)
Probably so, which is sad in it's own right.

I'm proud of thinking the way I do about these things... even if does make me inherently lonely :(

Originally posted by craigb
Probably so, which is sad in it's own right.

I'm proud of thinking the way I do about these things... even if does make me inherently lonely :(
Come on - get out the worlds smallest violin ;)
you trying to score a date with Tracie son :P

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Come on - get out the worlds smallest violin ;)
you trying to score a date with Tracie son :P
Nah - I wouldn't be so presumptuous :heyhey: lol

Originally posted by craigb
Nah - I wouldn't be so presumptuous :heyhey: lol

Blimey.... I'm all embarrassed now :blush: I think I'll just sit here and mumble for a while until my face returns to its normal colour... :blush: :blush:

Originally posted by craigb
Probably so, which is sad in it's own right.

I'm proud of thinking the way I do about these things... even if does make me inherently lonely :(

Hehe, aside from trying to get in there with Tracie, there is no reason that these views would make you anymore lonely. There is a difference between not wanting to have a one night stand, and not being able to get a one night stand.

LOL - ok, just to clarify.... not trying to "get in there" with anyone (although my PM box is open should anyone want to send one ;) ).

Originally posted by Snook
...there is no reason that these views would make you anymore lonely.
If only that were true, but unfortunately (in my case at least) it isn't...

...although I suppose it could be down to something else (like my unbelievably low self-esteem for instance) ;)

While we're at it... how did this serious discussion of the pro's and con's of one night stands turn into "take the p*** out of Craig thread"? ;) :P

one nighters aren't right or wrong, they just happen and they can be really good or really bad and anywhere in between. i do think they are either something you grow out of or at the most something you return to in phases... if you've been a serial one nighter for the last 20 years or so then something is wrong and it's time to start asking yourself some questions!!!

Originally posted by Melanie
if you've been a serial one nighter for the last 20 years or so then something is wrong and it's time to start asking yourself some questions!!!

A question like how you still have the knack after 20 years :suspect:

You are right though, neither right or wrong :)

Originally posted by Deejay
You are right though, neither right or wrong :)
Absolutely, like most topics along these lines it is all about personal preference.

Originally posted by Deejay

You are right though, neither right or wrong :)

I agree, at the end of the day it all comes down to your personal feelings about one night stands. I wouldn't think less of someone for choosing to have a one night stand and likewise, I hope they wouldn't think badly of me for choosing not too :D :D

Damn it Tracie.. why is it you keep saying what I've tried to say, only better?! :mad: :P

Originally posted by craigb
Damn it Tracie.. why is it you keep saying what I've tried to say, only better?! :mad: :P
Cos you two are in wuv :P

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Cos you two are in wuv :P

ROTFLMAO :hihi:

I think 1 night stands are completely uncalled for & wrong. and cant believe 32 of you have said they are ok. I mean what if your partner really cares about you and u go and sleep with someone else behind their back? I dont know how people have the heart to do it.

Originally posted by Squeaker
The worsteeeeeeeeeeest ever time... yup...in the whole world...unless your in a relationship thats worse still of course

Who said anything about sleeping with someone behind your partners back _fate_?

As squeaker said earlier, that's not acceptable!

Oh, well when i think of one night stands, i think of cheating on a partner ... I guess if you arnt even with any1 then they are fine. :D

Originally posted by _Fate_
Oh, well when i think of one night stands, i think of cheating on a partner ... I guess if you arnt even with any1 then they are fine. :D
Obviously if you had read the entire thread you'd have know what the conversations have been on about :roll:

Originally posted by craigb
ROTFLMAO :hihi:
Have a look at this (http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?postid=272688#post272688) Craig ;)

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Obviously if you had read the entire thread you'd have know what the conversations have been on about :roll:

Yeah ... and im going to sit here and read 9 pages about somethin as stupid as one night stands ..? :loopy:

Originally posted by _Fate_
Yeah ... and im going to sit here and read 9 pages about somethin as stupid as one night stands ..? :loopy:

Yet you are stupid enough to post about something you obviously no nothing about :loopy:

Originally posted by DaBouncer
Have a look at this (http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?postid=272688#post272688) Craig ;)
LOL - unfortunatly that means very little/nothing to me as I don't know where anything in Sheffield is really unless it's like right on my doorstep (don't get out much) ;)

....oh, and not a stalker :P

Originally posted by owdlad
Yet you are stupid enough to post about something you obviously no nothing about :loopy:
Exactly - not only that he's too ignorant to find out what the thread was actually about before criticising people for the way they voted.
Who's the real :loopy:

Well done Roy though ... starting a thread that has no political agenda !!

:clap: :clap:

My own view is that it's up to the individual, and what feels right for them and what they're comfortable with.

There's a certain amount of sleeze factor that's attached to one night stands that I think is a bit crap. Why should it be fround upon or considered slutty to have one!? ... so long as all partners and being honest with each other and taking precautions and being sensible (within reason) and not hurting anyone ... they should go for it.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

I personally wouldn't wanna have one, but I can see why other people might if they can't get a regular partner or don't want one. Is it just me though that thinks that out in town on a Friday or Saturday night, come supping up time if you've not pulled it's a mad dash to grab anyone that'll have you? It seems that way in Hillsborough and West Street at least! Sex is good and everything but isn't it better with someone special?

It almost seems compulsory for people to "pull" on a night out - minger or not, as long as you get laid it's fine.

Is that really what you want out of life? They do say "why buy the cow when you get milk for free?" I guess!

Or the other saying ,why have beef burgers when you can have steak at home.
I have to say when I started this thread I did not expect this many replies,still just shows the power of sex.:hihi: