View Full Version : Which same sex person would you have an affair with?


Susana
31-08-2003, 21:23
Assuming you are heterosexual. Is there anyone of the same sex who if you were forced to, you would consider having an affair with.

Strange question I know. Someone asked me it the other day. I am completely straight, never had any desire to be any other way, yet I came to the conclusion that if I absolutely had to have an affair with another woman it would have to be Meg Ryan, or maybe Felicity Kendal.

Funke88
31-08-2003, 21:50
I can't believe you've actually asked us to consider this:?
Can't wait for the straight men to reply.
If you're gay you shouldn't have a problem.
I'm still thinking? I'm stuck. Hmmm?
Felicity Kendal? Why? :lol:

Susana
31-08-2003, 21:55
Only one reply. I'm disappointed. I thought there would be tons. Only one person brave enough to even consider the idea! I have to admit though Iquite surprised myself when after much deliberation I said that if I absolutely HAD to it would have to be Meg Ryan.

I'm not sure why Felicity Kendal, she's kinda cute even though she's quite old now. I was more meaning in her younger days.

I don't think any of the straight men will reply. Women I think are more open to open thinking, if you know what I mean.

Anyway to complicate things more - if you're gay, which OPPOSITE sex person would you have an affair with!

t020
31-08-2003, 22:19
Don't disgust me.

estar66
31-08-2003, 23:52
dont know what made you think of this but interesting question.just so anybody does not get the wrong idea , im straight but if push comes to shove(pardon the term. lmao) ricky martin.

emma_uk
01-09-2003, 06:54
erm I'm not sure

...

Kate Lawler from Big Brother last year, yes I think so.

Moon Maiden
01-09-2003, 08:42
Pink and that girl from Evanescence

Moon

Hodge
01-09-2003, 08:53
Well, I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality to answer: probably Brad Pitt (spelling?). A versatile actor and talented bloke. Fair dinkum.

Lou
01-09-2003, 12:01
Angelina Jolie I think.

Lindseyw
01-09-2003, 12:11
Angelina Jolie - definately..........erm was a little too enthsiastic there maybe....going now !!

Moon Maiden
01-09-2003, 12:14
I think Angeline is quite attractive a damned talented actress and seemingly a devoted mother.

Moon

Tony Ruscoe
01-09-2003, 12:15
LOL :lol: we used to discuss things like this quite a lot at uni. One of my mates said "Bob Monkhouse" ... :roll:

Can't remember who I said. :o

cosywolf
01-09-2003, 12:18
I can't decide who.
But I think you're right. I was thinking this just the other day - most heterosexual girls aren't afraid to point out another girl and say wow, she's really gorgeous. But heterosexual men seem unable to do the same when they see an attractive man.
Why?
Are women just more confident in their sexuality by nature?

Moon Maiden
01-09-2003, 12:21
I know a young lad who can appreciate other men as to why a women would fancy them....everyone thinks he is either Bi or gay and denying it!!!!

I think there is less of a stigma attached to women over sexuality. I mean obvisouly if she is a slapper and put it about a bit then she will get grief.
My mates and I used to snog each other in the nightclub should one of us get a letch hanging on who didn't understand the word no. It wrks okay until you get a clever dick who asks if they can watch!!!

Moon

cosywolf
01-09-2003, 12:23
Tee hee, done the snogging a girlfriend to get rid of a guy a few times too...but it has it's faults, as you pointed out :lol: :lol:

Foxxx
01-09-2003, 12:59
Originally posted by t020
Don't disgust me.

Why are you disgusted? If it bothers you so much, don't post in the thread!

In answer to the question....have to think now...I was asked this question a long time ago and I used to say Alanis Morrisette. I wouldn't say that now though.
Drew Barrymore maybe.

tinajones
01-09-2003, 13:21
i wonder if the same sex female posts disgust him too?

this thread is mostly pandering to male fantasies.
its all a bit britney-madonna-christina, what with them snogging at the MTV awards.

max
01-09-2003, 13:40
I think it would have to be Martin Clunes. After what would probably be disastrous sex it would be nice to have someone with whom to laugh about it.

A lifetime ago in NZ my friend and I used to pretend to be gay so we could talk to the women at parties. Otherwise, it was men round the beer barrel and women on the other side of the room with sweet sherry. God, I learnt to hate sweet sherry.

Classic Rock
01-09-2003, 13:56
Sharon from Eastenders

mikey
01-09-2003, 14:13
If I had too, it would not be

Bernard Manning
Eddie Yates
Ricky Tomlinson
Eddie Murphy

at a push
Robbie Williams
Freddie Mercury - not that I am a necrophilliac, when he was alive

Funke88
01-09-2003, 16:06
It would have to be someone rich, good around the house, can cook, clean and be a great hostess. So I came up with Martha Stewart. Well, I'd have to be desperate! I couldn't come up with anyone else.

Susana
01-09-2003, 21:02
Brillilant! But as has been pointed out, the women seem a lot more comfortable with this than the men. Today, there has been a lot of excited chatter amongst my male colleagues about THAT kiss between Madonna and Britney.

oh Maxt! Even I wouldn't consider Martin Clunes and I'm a woman...

blondee
01-09-2003, 21:27
Kylie! or Davina!!!!

and just think how much I could sell my story for . . . . .

t020
01-09-2003, 23:31
I couldn't contemplate having an affair with a man. The thought disgusts me, and if you don't like that, I suggest its because your menthatdon'tfancymenist.

emma_uk
01-09-2003, 23:41
Ooh yes Davina!!

Hadn't thought of her but have to agree

Classic Rock
02-09-2003, 11:17
I think that there may be some men here trapped in lesbian's bodies.:D

Abdul
02-09-2003, 11:39
Originally posted by Classic Rock
I think that there may be some men here trapped in lesbian's bodies.:D

Stop confusing me. You mean a womans body don't you? Or are lesbians bodies different?

:?

max
02-09-2003, 12:23
Originally posted by Classic Rock
I think that there may be some men here trapped in lesbian's bodies.:D

If that happens I suggest liberal application of Vaseline.

Alternatively, if you pour liquid chocolate in it should come out a treat. (Doesn't work now they've been renamed, does it?)

Belle
02-09-2003, 14:44
Jessica Lange maybe, is that the right spelling?

Carlwarker
02-09-2003, 14:46
Grace Jones - isn't 'she' a man in diguise.