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John
29-09-2003, 17:37
Are you a tearjerker?

Just as the heading states, you watch a rather sad film, do you cry?

To Remind you the type of film... that might....

ET,
Schindler's List,
Ghost,
Titanic

P.S. Inspired by the tissues tread.

Clik32
29-09-2003, 17:45
Oh yes, I even cry at stupid things like what's on now. These kids starting a new school in Spain and they're all upset bless em. I'm just soppy though!
Chloé

*Twinkle*
29-09-2003, 18:13
Yep *sobs*

Morgana
29-09-2003, 18:13
Yeah, I cry. I mostly cry if it's either an animal I believe might have gotten hurt in a stunt or because of a love torn apart because of death.

Otherwise, movies that made me cry from sadness are:

- The Green Mile
- Titanic
- Message in a Bottle
- Romeo and Juliet

JTH
29-09-2003, 18:20
Oh yes - I cry at sad films all the time.

Moments of 'hopeless heroism' do it as well - like the charge accross the beach in 'Glory'

Or the The Riders of Rohan arriving at Helms Deep.

Terrible, aren't I?

RPG
29-09-2003, 18:24
I voted yes too :(

Sometimes music makes me half go as well (particually Jeff Buckley)

DaBouncer
29-09-2003, 18:28
Hell no. Stronge like bull! Real men dont cry soldier!

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr


*Trying to hide sensitive side*

upholder
29-09-2003, 18:31
Titanic gets me every time :cry:

JTH
29-09-2003, 18:45
Music's a big factor with me as well RPG

But then, that't the composers job - to convey and enhance emotive reactions.

Nevyn
29-09-2003, 18:50
Buckley gets me everytime as well.............

but for a real "nobody leaves the room without sobbing" watch "who will love my children" cheesy 80's film........ omg:cry:

halevan
29-09-2003, 19:01
Yes, I have cried many times when watching sad films!!!

Lickszz
29-09-2003, 19:03
I've never actually cried but I fully understand why people would cry to films especially like Titanic.

spook
29-09-2003, 19:16
..............................

DaBouncer
30-09-2003, 07:35
Originally posted by spook1210
yep although i've usually got something in my eye you understand, ahem. The last time I had something in my eye was when watching K-Pax *sniff*
What made you cry at K-Pax? I think it's an amazing film, but I don't think it's a cryer!

Zamo
30-09-2003, 08:50
All those romantic weepies like Titanic never make me cry, although I cry at just about everything else!

As mentioned in a previous thread, watch the original version of "The Incredible Journey". I shall share the end with you…

Little boy turns to his dad and says "It's all right dad, I knew Bodger was too old to make it."
"Woof, woof!"
"Listen!" says the dad.
"It can't be... can it?!?!" says the little boy.
Over the hill come Bodger, the old bull terrier!!!
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Bloody marvellous! Mind you, I even cry watching Independence Day!

Phanerothyme
30-09-2003, 09:14
The news often has me welling up in tears, and the moment in the killing fields when Dith Pran has escaped from the Khmer Rouge and crosses the ridge to see the Red Cross tents. Awesomely moving. But mostly it is things like Iraq, Victoria Climbie, Jamie Bulger, Afghanistan and the Middle East that make me cry when reported dispassionately on the news.

Belle
30-09-2003, 10:20
I cry all the time about everything
The end of Surprise Surprise with the "You havent seen him for 50 years but here he is now..." always always got me.
It adds to the pleasure for me.
I am delighted to hear that Forum men are not afraid of a few little tears either
Good for you!!
An interesting poll just now, with more men then women having a few tears.

Sidla
30-09-2003, 11:21
I cried my eyes out over the Green Mile.

Lou
30-09-2003, 11:28
I cry at sad films. I must admit I'm a bit surprised that the male vote is ahead of the women at present. I'm sure the only film I've seen men crying in at the cinema was Schindler's List. So you must be drying your eyes pretty quick before the lights come on! Either that or you're having a good cry in the privacy of your own homes!

Sidla
30-09-2003, 11:29
Originally posted by Lou
I must admit I'm a bit surprised that the male vote is ahead of the women at present.
Probably to do with the fact that there are more male members.

Lou
30-09-2003, 11:37
Originally posted by Sidla
Probably to do with the fact that there are more male members.

I did wonder about that ;)

Zamo
30-09-2003, 11:40
Originally posted by Lou
I must admit I'm a bit surprised that the male vote is ahead of the women at present.
Don't be surprised! Us men are still very selective about the circumstances in which we show such emotion. I bet that 90% of the men that admitted to crying would also admit they wouldn't if another man is present!

JTH
30-09-2003, 12:57
Interestingly though, while a greater number of men admit to being cryers than women, 100% of the women that answered the poll admit to being cryers, while about 20% of the men who answered said they wouldn't cry.

For the record, it doesn't matter if theres another bloke present.

whats the big deal about showing your emotions anyway?

cosywolf
30-09-2003, 13:04
I'll be the one girlie who never cries at sad movies then.
I always feel that I'm supposed to be being manipulated into crying at movies, which I object to, so never do.
I save my tears for real life sad things...and for moments of overwhelming hormone attacks like PMT:P - or as my beloved calls it, crying for no good reason at all:o :lol:

John
30-09-2003, 16:08
So, did any of you cried when Princess Diana died?

DaBouncer
30-09-2003, 16:11
Erm..... and this goes no further RIGHT! :evil: But i was teary when Diana Princess of Wales died.

I like what she stood for (with the less fortunate in the world), and it was upsetting in the manner in which she died.

She was a great lady IMHO. :(

Lou
01-10-2003, 11:25
Originally posted by ~JTH~
whats the big deal about showing your emotions anyway?
I don't have a problem with it at all, male or female. I've watched sad films with male friends and they haven't cried is all. I don't know whether to interpret that as them not feeling comfortable enough to cry in front of me or if the film just didn't move them that way?! Perhaps the latter? (I hope).

Zamo
01-10-2003, 12:27
Originally posted by John
So, did any of you cried when Princess Diana died?
Luckily I was in Ibiza when it happened so didn't have to put up with all the sentimental bull (at least not as much as most) that was in the papers and on TV.

As far as I'm concerned she had a fantastically priviliged life and didn't have to work for any of it. Fair play, she did her bit for good causes andwas probably a nice person. That said, I didn't know her personally so when she died I didn't feel any more sadness then when I hear about anyone else (that I didn't know) dying.

No, I didn't cry!

alchresearch
01-10-2003, 12:27
Originally posted by Sidla
I cried my eyes out over the Green Mile.

Me too, more than any other film I've seen. (Not seen Schinders List though).

Sidla
01-10-2003, 14:35
Originally posted by John
So, did any of you cried when Princess Diana died?
Not at all. In fact I don't believe she's really dead, but let's not get into that here...

fuzzy
26-10-2003, 12:57
Sorry but i am a sobber at almost any film. It is making me well up even at the mention of some of these films. I am the one that always comes out red eyed and sniffly. Nomme and Fletch find it quite amusing.

Definetly cried at The Green Mile, Ghost (was going through most of this), and K Pax think i may have even cried at the Sound of Music on some occasions, think this says it all.

JoeP
03-04-2004, 23:38
Nope, films don't make me cry. It's just that I find that with some films I get grit in my eye at the most innoportune moments....

In the past I have acquired grit in my eye whilst watching the films Somersby, The Shawshank Redemption, Jerry Maguire, Groundhog Day (the bit where Bill Murray is trying to stop the old vagrant from dying) and several others.

I also get grit or an eyelash in my eye with emotional films in general. Strange coincidence, huh?

bellis
03-04-2004, 23:47
every time i watch my girl i always cry:loopy:

mojoworking
04-04-2004, 08:06
Originally posted by panda79
every time i watch my girl i always cry:loopy:

Why? What does she do to drive you to tears? :)

Killian
04-04-2004, 09:43
Beaches always does it for me. and lots of others too numerous to mention.

Mosherchik
04-04-2004, 10:18
Originally posted by cosywolf
I'll be the one girlie who never cries at sad movies then.
I always feel that I'm supposed to be being manipulated into crying at movies, which I object to, so never do.
I save my tears for real life sad things...and for moments of overwhelming hormone attacks like PMT:P - or as my beloved calls it, crying for no good reason at all:o :lol:
With you there chicken! Absolutely detest weepies and refuse to watch them - they dont make me cry, just annoyed... ET I wear my teeth down thru grinding!!! The only film I always cry at the end of is The Crow, because its such a beautiful, sad ending, made more so by the circumstances surrounding the film, ie Brandon Lee's death.
Altho to my shame... and I hold the hormones responsible for this I have been known to shed a tear at the end of Monsters Inc *cough* *cough* and in Harry Potter and Philosphers Stone when he sees parents in the mirror....
I have also been known to cry at then end of certain books, but then descriptive, emotive writing tends to affect me more than shameless saccarine moments on film.
xxx

bellis
04-04-2004, 11:33
Originally posted by mojoworking
Why? What does she do to drive you to tears? :)

clever git:loopy: theres always one isnt there lol
i was refering to the feature film my girl:confused:

Killian
04-04-2004, 11:39
Originally posted by panda79
clever git:loopy: theres always one isnt there lol
i was refering to the feature film my girl:confused:

i apologise for my thoughts Panda79 as i misunderstood this as well. maybe you should have put 'My Girl' in quotes as some people might not even have heard of the film.

bellis
04-04-2004, 11:43
no offence took:thumbsup:

saxon51
04-04-2004, 12:17
I cried at the end of 'Titanic'.

All that money spent, for the biggest load of rubbish I've ever watched!!

Killian
04-04-2004, 12:21
i cried (with laughter) at Independance Day, especially when Jeff Goldblum managed to hack into the aliens sophisticated computer system using a laptop running Windows 95!! also when that cropspraying pilot managed to jump into an F15 Strike Eagle and fly it without any training. must have had a PC simulator!!

mojoworking
04-04-2004, 23:30
Originally posted by panda79
clever git:loopy: theres always one isnt there lol
i was refering to the feature film my girl:confused:

Sorry, couldn't resist it.

Shows what a difference a couple of capital letters can make, though, doesn't it?

bellis
05-04-2004, 00:21
YES IT IS ..................:loopy:

sarah_d
22-04-2004, 17:31
Unfortunately i cry at everything,films,news,books etc.I wish i didn't 'cos no-one knows if you are seriously upset or not if you do it all the time.

tiffy
22-04-2004, 19:35
I don't cry at films for some reason even though I can be 'touched' by them but I do cry when I listen to my daughter's school choir performing.

Rich
22-04-2004, 19:44
Originally posted by tiffy
I don't cry at films for some reason even though I can be 'touched' by them but I do cry when I listen to my daughter's school choir performing.

Why?! Surely they can't be THAT bad :)

Sorry, lame joke... I'll get me coat.

tiffy
22-04-2004, 21:28
Ooooooooohhhh, you, you.......(slap) how dare you?

No a few nerves as expected but on the whole pretty impressive.

Rich
22-04-2004, 21:57
Originally posted by tiffy
Ooooooooohhhh, you, you.......(slap) how dare you?

No a few nerves as expected but on the whole pretty impressive.

Much apologies, just my wierd sense of humour :)

tiffy
23-04-2004, 08:31
I was going to say, 'it's a bit rich isn't it'?

Get it, 'rich, Rich, get it?'

Rich
23-04-2004, 13:11
Originally posted by tiffy
I was going to say, 'it's a bit rich isn't it'?

Get it, 'rich, Rich, get it?'

:lol:

Lestat
15-01-2005, 20:35
After watching E.T on the BBC today, I realised how much emotion is put into the end scene - not only by all the crying adults and the final goodbye but also the music! which adds the final touch.

Im not one who's heartstrings are easily pulled but I can understand from films like this why so many end up reaching for their tissues. . .
( I have to admit I was thinking how funny it would have been for E.T - as he's waddling up the ramp to the ship - to fall back and roll down only for the dog to lick his face and sniff his bottom, but thats just me! )

So which film has made you cry or at least brought a tear to the eye?

poppins
15-01-2005, 20:38
Originally posted by Lestat
After watching E.T on the BBC today, I realised how much emotion is put into the end scene - not only by all the crying adults and the final goodbye but also the music! which adds the final touch.

Im not one who's heartstrings are easily pulled but I can understand from films like this why so many end up reaching for their tissues. . .
( I have to admit I was thinking how funny it would have been for E.T - as he's waddling up the ramp to the ship - to fall back and roll down only for the dog to lick his face and sniff his bottom, but thats just me! )

So which film has made you cry or at least brought a tear to the eye?

DELIVERANCE !

Lestat
15-01-2005, 20:42
Originally posted by poppins
DELIVERANCE !

HaHa!:hihi: . . . . and why?:hihi:

poppins
15-01-2005, 20:43
Originally posted by Lestat
HaHa!:hihi: . . . . and why?:hihi:

No reason, just thought it a funny answer, never even saw it.

Ant
15-01-2005, 20:55
The first one to do it for me was the end scene in Willy Wonka when Charlie Bucket hands back the Everlasting Gobstopper. Who's sadder, me or the scene?

The last one was the end sequence to the Return of the King.

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:01
I never cry at films- if you can find one film that makes me cry then I'll be impressed.

The closest to bring me to crying is 'The Green Mile' at then end when he's in the electric chair, being putting to death because he murdered two girls (according to the report but anyone who has seen it knows it isn't true).

The line that ALMOST gets me is when he says 'Don't put that bag over my head boss, I'm scared of the dark' :(

Lestat
15-01-2005, 21:04
ok, hands up all those who find these 3 scenes heartbreaking:

(1) The Lion King - when Simbas father is killed in the stampede and he sits by him calling for help.

(2) Titanic - When Rose gets in the lifeboat and is slowly being taken down but ends up jumping back onto the boat.

(3) Pulp Fiction - John Travolta gets shot! 'Noooooooo!':o ;)

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:08
Definately me for the third one lestat! ;)

How about in Forest Gump just before he marries Jenny he introduces her to Lt. Dan as 'My Jenny'

That has my mum in tears. :)

msbehavin
15-01-2005, 21:15
Beaches - with Bette Midler - when she and her dying friend are sitting on the verandah of the beach house. They look across at each other and smile and it gets me every time. Then later in the film when her friend dies and she goes to comfort the little daughter who she has promised to look after - all done to the soundtrack of 'Wind Beneath My Wings' - corny but good (gulp!) :cry:

fuzzy
15-01-2005, 21:16
Most films make me cry.

Highly emotional woman i am. :D

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:22
Originally posted by fuzzy
Most films make me cry.

Highly emotional woman i am. :D

Hiya mum! I didn't know you'd registered on Sheffield Forum :P

ALEX1995
15-01-2005, 21:34
The top film on my list for making me cry is 'The Colour Purple' with Whoopi Goldberg and Oprah Winfrey.... I sob everytime I see that film.

Also, another film I saw on TV years ago called 'The imitation of life' that is a real tear jerker, anyone seen it?

The Green Mile, staring Tom Hanks, that always gets me.

I guess I am just an emotional wreck.......:-(

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:36
Originally posted by ALEX1995
The top film on my list for making me cry is 'The Colour Purple' with Whoopi Goldberg and Oprah Winfrey.... I sob everytime I see that film.


I cry about it because I have to write an essay on it for literature coursework this year! :P

JoeP
15-01-2005, 21:37
I'm a softy at heart.....

Shawshank Redemption
Field of Dreams
Somersby

Oddly enough there are a few scenes in the film 'Patton' that bring a lump to my throat.

Joe

ALEX1995
15-01-2005, 21:44
Originally posted by IanMitchell
I cry about it because I have to write an essay on it for literature coursework this year! :P

What you have to write an essay on the Colour Purple? I would love that (no I am not offering to write your essay for you)!! I used to love writing essay's in English Literature at schools, I used to have my teacher in tears...they were so convincing.

I bet the colour purple makes you cry.

ALEX1995
15-01-2005, 21:47
Originally posted by JoePritchard
I'm a softy at heart.....

Shawshank Redemption
Field of Dreams
Somersby

Oddly enough there are a few scenes in the film 'Patton' that bring a lump to my throat.

Joe

Yes, Shawshank Redemption is a real tear jerker and field of dreams ('if you build it, he will come), saw both these again recently.

Not seen 'Patton' what's that about?

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:48
Originally posted by ALEX1995
What you have to write an essay on the Colour Purple? I would love that (no I am not offering to write your essay for you)!! I used to love writing essay's in English Literature at schools, I used to have my teacher in tears...they were so convincing.

I bet the colour purple makes you cry.

Well it's a essay comparing 'the colour purple' with 'oranges are not the only fruit'. I've already written the first draft so I can take it from here :P

Nope, didn't make me shed a slight tear.

I'm a real emotional robot.

fuzzy
15-01-2005, 21:49
KPax everytime.

Yes Green Mile, Field of Dreams, as i said before almost anything. The boys watch to see if i'm crying, cos then they know i've enjoyed it.:D

Lestat
15-01-2005, 21:49
Have you called it 'Oranges are not the colour purple':hihi:

ALEX1995
15-01-2005, 21:50
Originally posted by IanMitchell
Well it's a essay comparing 'the colour purple' with 'oranges are not the only fruit'. I've already written the first draft so I can take it from here :P

Nope, didn't make me shed a slight tear.

I'm a real emotional robot.

You couldn't have been watching it properly, anyone with any kind of emotion would cry at that...

igm1
15-01-2005, 21:51
Originally posted by Lestat
Have you called it 'Oranges are not the colour purple':hihi:

lol that's a great idea.

One of my literature teachers already dislikes me!

You don't want me to get into more bother.

Lestat
15-01-2005, 22:00
Originally posted by IanMitchell
lol that's a great idea.

One of my literature teachers already dislikes me!

You don't want me to get into more bother.

No, not at all Ian . . I've been there and done it mate. We had to write an essay about a book called 'In Cold Blood' when I was studying.

I was a sarcastic git then . . . got into enough trouble and know what it's like, especially when the teacher who you're sarky to is grading you!!:hihi:

D2J
15-01-2005, 22:07
Doesn't make me cry but Apollo 13 brings a lump to my throat at the end when they land home :?

Lestat
15-01-2005, 22:11
Originally posted by Deejay
Doesn't make me cry but Apollo 13 brings a lump to my throat at the end when they land home :?

What about Armageddon at the end . . . poor Liv Tyler! she can cry on shoulder any day!

igm1
15-01-2005, 22:13
Originally posted by Lestat
What about Armageddon at the end . . . poor Liv Tyler! she can cry on shoulder any day!


I wish she'd cry on my shoulder! :heyhey:

Sierra
15-01-2005, 22:14
The Color Purple made me cry.

The part at the end where Celie and her sister are reunited after being apart for years. Gets me every time!

In Forrest Gump, when Lieutenant Dan (the classic bitter Vietnam Vet) thanks Forrest for saving his life.

Terms of Endearment with Shirley MacLaine, when her daughter (played by Debra Winger) dies from cancer at some ridiculously young age.

Sophie's Choice with Meryl Streep. She arrives at a concentration camp, and a German officer tells her she's only allowed to keep one of her children. And if she refuses to choose, he'll kill them both. She finally offers up her daughter, and he carries the screaming child away. It makes me tear up just thinking about it.

ALEX1995,

I've seen Imitation of Life. Yep, a real tear jerker. Especially the end, where the daughter of Lana Turner's maid (after cruelly rejecting her mother for years) decides she wants to reconcile with her after all, goes home...and arrives in time for her mother's funeral.

Waaahhh! Where's the kleenex?!

:) Sierra

Lestat
15-01-2005, 22:18
I've remembered another 'lump in the throat bit!'

The Patriot ( Mel Gibson ) - when the little girl walks away from her father and then runs back shouting daddy. . . Why isn't there a crying smiley? . . oh! cuz it wouldn't be a smiley.:|

msbehavin
15-01-2005, 22:23
Just to let you know Lestat that the crying smiley is in the link just below the smileys box - says 'get more'....or type colon then the word cry then another colon :cry:

Sierra
15-01-2005, 22:24
Has anyone seen City of Angels?

Nicholas Cage is an angel who falls in love with Meg Ryan. He sacrifices immortality to be with her. But shortly after he does this, she's killed in an accident. Sad, sad, sad!



:) Sierra

Lestat
15-01-2005, 22:25
Originally posted by msbehavin
Just to let you know Lestat that the crying smiley is in the link just below the smileys box - says 'get more'....or type colon then the word cry then another colon :cry:

Why thank you Msbehavin . . why oh why :cry: :cry: didn't I see this before . . :cry: :cry:

Leebo84
15-01-2005, 22:29
haha Mighty Ducks always gets me going!! An epic tale of woe and a childhood journey through destiny, defeating the odds and overcoming all evil to reach his ultimate goal.

And the ice hockey's quite nifty too!!!

JoeP
15-01-2005, 22:46
Originally posted by ALEX1995
Yes, Shawshank Redemption is a real tear jerker and field of dreams ('if you build it, he will come), saw both these again recently.

Not seen 'Patton' what's that about?

It's a biography of the US General Patton - WW2. There are some quite touching scenes when he's with wounded soldiers, but the scene I always remember is at the end where he's basically been fired and he walks his dog in the countryside by some windmills (earlier in the film he'd been described as a Quixotic figure ). There's a voice over which ends with the phrase 'all glory is fleeting'. Very effective.

Joe

sparklesista
15-01-2005, 22:57
I'm probably a bit emotional when watching films but I'm one of these people that likes to sit in the dark and watch films with no outside noise. I guess it's my way of being really drawn into the film like you're actually experiencing it.

Films that have made me cry or nearly cry with that big lump in your throat are:

The Green Mile (me and my best mate were just sobbing and hugging for ages after that :loopy: I know!

Titanic

Man On Fire (I just watched it recently and recommend it highly!)

Forest Gump

Color Purple

Beaches

The Cure

E.T

Saving Private Ryan

Braveheart

City Of Angels

Gladiator

Armaggedon


That's all I can think of at the moment - will update later :)

P.S The list isn't in any particular order

Ginger_Kitty
15-01-2005, 23:10
After someone laughed at me when I cried at Watership Down (I must have been about 5) I never let myself cry at films again!!! :o
Gladiator got me though, managed all the way through without a tear then the moment it finished i cried and cried and cried!!!!:cry:

poppins
15-01-2005, 23:14
All american films is see, no good British ones ?????

Siân
15-01-2005, 23:22
Truly, Madly, Deeply always makes me cry.

(Steel Magnolias does too but it's not quite in the same league)

sparklesista
15-01-2005, 23:22
Originally posted by poppins
All american films is see, no good British ones ?????

OK, name one that you think is a tear jerker?

JoeP
15-01-2005, 23:28
Oh yes....Saving Private Ryan...Gladiator....

As for a British film, it's quite old but 'Whistle Down the Wind' sometimes does it for me. It's about a bunch of kids who find an escaped criminal and become convinced that he's Jesus.

A more up to date film that is a bit of a weepie is 'Sliding Doors'.

Another one that is quite affecting - The Great Escape. The bit where James Garner is helping the blind Donald Pleasance to try and escape.

Oh...and the bit at the end of The Magnificent Seven where the old farmer is saying that only the land wins.

Joe

poppins
15-01-2005, 23:28
Originally posted by sparklesista
OK, name one that you think is a tear jerker?

Goodbye Mr Chips, also happens to be one of my favorites.

sparklesista
15-01-2005, 23:33
Originally posted by poppins
Goodbye Mr Chips, also happens to be one of my favorites.

Not heard of it? Is it an old film?

Siân
16-01-2005, 00:36
Not heard of it? Is it an old film?

Yes - although there was a remake on TV a while back though starring Martin Clunes

All american films is see, no good British ones ?????

Truly, Madly, Deeply is a British film

jules99
16-01-2005, 00:48
notebook, i was in a complete state when they died together at the end, boyfriend was trying to take a photo of me cause i looked terrible

evildrneil
16-01-2005, 00:53
Big Fish (at the end when the son finaly realises what the father is all about as he is dying in the hospital) and Dead Poets Society (when all the kids stand on the desk at the end - 'Oh captain my captain').

Titanic brings a lump to my throat but only cos its such an steaming pile of formulaic tripe that I can't believe I have just wasted the time watching it trying to convince myself it was gonna get better!

sparklesista
16-01-2005, 00:57
I've not seen Big Fish yet although I've got a copy of it sitting in my office. Might encourage me to sit down and watch it now :)

evildrneil
16-01-2005, 01:02
I though Big Fish was excellent - the only thing is I'm not sure it had the same effect on female friends I watched it with as the theme through the whole film is the father-son relationship - but it is a FAB film :D :D :D

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 01:17
I think the saddest film I can think of is Practical Magic.:)

Sierra
16-01-2005, 01:20
Speaking of british films,

When I was about 10, we had a teacher who was from Scotland.

If we behaved all month, we were rewarded by being allowed to watch a movie one afternoon. Most of them were Disney films, but there was one that was made in the late sixties or early seventies.

It was about a young boy who was having a hard time at home. His brother beat the c**p out of him constantly, his gym teacher was a horrible bully, and things just weren't going his way.

He finds and tames a hawk. He has one teacher who helps him with the bird, and he gets to show his hawk to his entire class. Who are all very impressed.

I forget what happens at the end, but I think his nasty brother does something awful to the bird. I'm not really sure. It was a good movie, and not an American film.

Does anyone know the name of this movie?



:) Sierra

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 01:23
Originally posted by Sierra
Speaking of british films,

When I was about 10, we had a teacher who was from Scotland.

If we behaved all month, we were rewarded by being allowed to watch a movie one afternoon. Most of them were Disney films, but there was one that was made in the late sixties or early seventies.

It was about a young boy who was having a hard time at home. His brother beat the c**p out of him constantly, his gym teacher was a horrible bully, and things just weren't going his way.

He finds and tames a hawk. He has one teacher who helps him with the bird, and he gets to show his hawk to his entire class. Who are all very impressed.

I forget what happens at the end, but I think his nasty brother does something awful to the bird. I'm not really sure. It was a good movie, and not an American film.

Does anyone know the name of this movie?



:) Sierra The film was called Kes and I think it was filmed in Barnsley.

Sierra
16-01-2005, 01:32
Thanks Bikertec,

That's it! What happens to the bird at the end? And what happens to the boy?

:) Sierra

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 01:34
Originally posted by Sierra
Thanks Bikertec,

That's it! What happens to the bird at the end? And what happens to the boy?

:) Sierra At the end she finds her true love and lives happy ever after :thumbsup: But thats just a fairy tale.:)

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 01:38
Originally posted by Sierra
Thanks Bikertec,

That's it! What happens to the bird at the end? And what happens to the boy?

:) Sierra opps sorry wrong film your on about kes. His brother kills the bird because he didn't put the money on a horse like he told him to.:(

Sierra
16-01-2005, 01:43
Living happily ever after? My very favorite ending! :thumbsup: lol

His brother kills the bird? As Bart Simpson would say, Ay Carumba! I sort of vaguely remember the brother doing
something terrible to the bird.

Ah well, it was still a good movie.

Thanks.

:) Sierra

ANGELUS
16-01-2005, 01:43
Phenomenon - the John Travolta film...
every time at the end..

Also Armageddon/Apollo 13/Green Mile/Forrest Gump/
City Of Angels/Braveheart/Patch Adams

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 01:48
Originally posted by ANGELUS
Phenomenon - the John Travolta film...
every time at the end..

Also Armageddon/Apollo 13/Green Mile/Forrest Gump/
City Of Angels/Braveheart/Patch Adams I will agree with them except Patch adams and Phenomenon which I haven't seen.:thumbsup:

igm1
16-01-2005, 08:15
Patch Adams is a good film- I highly recommend it! :thumbsup:

tara
16-01-2005, 14:22
Born on the 4th of july, green mile and roots the series.

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 14:29
Originally posted by IanMitchell
Patch Adams is a good film- I highly recommend it! :thumbsup: Cool what it about :)

StarSparkle
16-01-2005, 15:21
I like to think I don't cry that much at films cos it's so embarrassing, but sometimes you just can't help it .....

Films that have brought more than a lump to my throat include:

1. Sommersby (oh God, this is unbearably sad) - I think everyone in the cinema was sobbing away - lots of noses being blown and throats being cleared when the lights went on!

2. Born Free

3. Tarka the Otter (actually, any film involving animals, pretty well)

4. Forrest Gump

5. Gladiator

6. Back Beat (when Stuart Sutcliffe dies at the end - heartbreaking)

7. Sliding Doors

8. Heaven Can Wait

ok, more than I thought ..... :P

igm1
16-01-2005, 15:59
Originally posted by Bikertec
Cool what it about :)

Not exactly sure- I saw it a while ago at the cinema. :huh:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00004CZMR/qid=1105894735/ref=pd_ka_0/202-9728083-7863013

Bikertec
16-01-2005, 16:03
Originally posted by IanMitchell
Not exactly sure- I saw it a while ago at the cinema. :huh:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00004CZMR/qid=1105894735/ref=pd_ka_0/202-9728083-7863013 Lmao ok must be a good film then, sorry couldn't resist that.:hihi: :hihi:

igm1
16-01-2005, 16:05
Originally posted by Bikertec
Lmao ok must be a good film then, sorry couldn't resist that.:hihi: :hihi:

shush you :P

I can remember coming out of the cinema and thinking 'wow, that's a really good film'.

I should rent it, but Enemy of the state is on tonight!

Angel05
16-01-2005, 16:10
The reason as to why i feel i cry at/during films is because i get so involved ie: what would i do/say/feel if it was me...

:cry: Rating:

My first ever film cry... ET & Annie

Then went onto....

Mrs Doubtfire... I know very strange but like i said... i get too emotionally invloved... you imagine doing anything to see your kids then being banned... then being allowed to see them again... That really choked me... :cry:

Beaches... A sad but great film... The song 'Wind Beneath my winds' now holds a great deal of sentiment to me... :cry::cry:

Pay if Forward... Such a sad ending... especially when he had done so much for others... :cry::cry:

Ghost... The scene that set me off is when they're in the cafe Molly walks off thinking Oda Mae Brown is a fake... Sam shouts 'tell her i love her'... Oda repeats 'he loves you' to Molly... Molly replies 'he would never say that'... Sam then says 'Ditto' Oda Mae says Ditto? Ditto? What does that mean... :cry::cry::cry::cry:

Just seeing the look on Molly's face brought tears to my eyes... then again when Sam gave Molly the penny that Oda Mae slips under the door... an again when Oda May Brown says they're waiting for ya Sam... Sam tells Molly about all the love an how you take all with you etc....

Feel like a Ghost movie coming on

I'm sure i've cried at loads but when it comes to thinking about it... ya mind just seizes

sparklesista
16-01-2005, 16:13
I'd forgotten about Ghost but I would definatley add that to my list of tear jerking films.

What about Bodyguard? Now that choked me as well. :cry:

Miss
16-01-2005, 16:16
Mines and bit, er... random...

In Harry Pottter & The Prisoner of Azkaban, when Harry conjures the Patronus to stop the dementors. It's a stag, which is what his dad could turn into.

I cried buckets. :cry:

Kittenkel
17-01-2005, 22:56
I saw 'Vera Drake' at the cinema the other day, and I had a lump in my throat watching that, especially when Vera couldn't stop cryinging:cry:

Anyone else find it quite moving? It's a really interesting film, although very depressing. It's one of the few good British films.

JoeP
17-01-2005, 23:10
Originally posted by evildrneil
I though Big Fish was excellent - the only thing is I'm not sure it had the same effect on female friends I watched it with as the theme through the whole film is the father-son relationship - but it is a FAB film :D :D :D

I think 'Field of Dreams' is like that.

It's a blokey weepie - although the protagonist is married and has a daughter in the film the central relationships that make the film up are all between the protagonist and essentially older men - his father, the Burt Lancaster 'Doc' character and the reclusive writer.

Joe

Snook
17-01-2005, 23:22
Originally posted by JoePritchard
I think 'Field of Dreams' is like that.

It's a blokey weepie - although the protagonist is married and has a daughter in the film the central relationships that make the film up are all between the protagonist and essentially older men - his father, the Burt Lancaster 'Doc' character and the reclusive writer.

Joe

I agree, I think it speaks to men alot more. I can't help but cry when 'Doc' has to make the choice between playing baseball or saving the little girl...gets me every time!

LBoogie
17-01-2005, 23:27
Forrest Gump makes me cry so much...about a million times. and Life Is Beautiful...that does the same. Everyone should watch that film!

JoeP
17-01-2005, 23:48
Originally posted by Snook
I agree, I think it speaks to men alot more. I can't help but cry when 'Doc' has to make the choice between playing baseball or saving the little girl...gets me every time!

That scene is mentioned by a lot of men. Field of Dreams is one film I can't watch without crying, and the scenes that do it for me are that particular one and the scene where he finally plays ball with his dad.

I'm getting lumpy throated just thinking about it....

Other films to add to the list :

Casablanca - The Marseillaise scene and the famous 'Where I'm going, you can't follow. What I've got to do, you can't be any part of.' speech.
Paths of Glory - the bit at the end where they finally get taken out to be shot.
Angels with Dirty faces - where James Cagney decides to go to the Electric Chair as a coward because his friend the priest asks him to.
The end of 'A Streetcar Named Desire' where they take Blanche away to the Asylum.
To Kill a Mockingbird

Night night!

Joe

nick2
18-01-2005, 07:34
Quite a few films have made me misserable, but not cry, and the second time I see them it has no effect at all, I'm emotionally crippled I think.

NatalieSheff
18-01-2005, 11:37
"stand by me" gets me every time:(

evildrneil
18-01-2005, 11:41
Originally posted by JoePritchard
That scene is mentioned by a lot of men. Field of Dreams is one film I can't watch without crying, and the scenes that do it for me are that particular one and the scene where he finally plays ball with his dad.

I'm getting lumpy throated just thinking about it....

Not a weepie but I always get the feeling that Fight Club was very much a film that spoke more to men than women - I've known plenty of women who enjoyed it but not many who were affected by it. Sweeping statement I know but this is just an in my experience observation!

mer1002
18-01-2005, 15:33
Totally agree ....truly madly deeply has me in tears each time i see it
and i bought lion king on dvd last year so the 1st time i watched it i didnt expect to cry buckets when simbas dad died but i did!

Other than that most films make me fill up...but got to be on my own...dont want boyfriend seein mi' soppy rooorin'

jonsastar
18-01-2005, 15:45
The Champ made me cry I was twelve and sat with my parents my brothers and my evil aunty who was 14. I tried so hard to hide the tears but my evil aunt spotted mine and in a bid to hide her own tears pointed at me and shouted look jons crying.

The evil cow bag, very very humiliating as I was going through a being tough period and every one saw me for what I was, a puff who cried at sad endings, still do today but in private, ha

The green mile is a tear jerker to, still feel sorry for john coffe now. Very good film that one.

msnutty
18-01-2005, 16:18
armageddon. it is such a sad film:sad:
forest gump is a sad film but doesnt make me cry.
lion king doesevery time.
titanic wen they close gates & all those poor ppl & children r cryin.
theres probly more but cant fink of any more rite now lol.

i'm such a wimp wen it comes 2 films.:confused: dunno y

miniminch
18-01-2005, 20:14
I've seen most of the films listed but few have made me cry. You may think this is odd reading some of my recent posts but I can't cry when the plot is so obviously unrealistic - the awful lie in Forrest Gump just makes that film a bag of ****e - any one it seems can be president even the retarded is the message (yeah right - if you are white and male and rich)

One that does make me cry everytime (and you BNP lot will hate this) is a film called American History X - When the Ed Norton comes out of pris and has turned his back on Neo_nazism to save his little brother who is going down the path that landed him in jail. But he is just too late and he his there at the murder of his baby brother in the toilet of the high school- i was in buckets. He was just to late and the destructive nature of the folly of his youth, you know, will be with him for all his life - there is little forgiveness - think on racists

Sierra
18-01-2005, 20:43
Awful lie in Forrest Gump?

I don't know what you mean. In the movie he never became president. He visited the White House to receive a medal for saving lieutenant Dan's life.

There was a funny scene where he drops trou to show then President Johnson where he was wounded. And embarrasses the heck out of his mother.

I agree some of Forrest's adventures were a little hard to swallow. But then, it's a movie. Just entertainment.

That's all I have to say about that. lol

:) Sierra

twinky1
18-01-2005, 21:22
Shawshank Redemption.

A bit dated but - Its a Wonderful Life and To Sir with Love when Lulu sings to her teacher.

LBoogie
18-01-2005, 21:46
Originally posted by Sierra
Awful lie in Forrest Gump?

I don't know what you mean. In the movie he never became president. He visited the White House to receive a medal for saving lieutenant Dan's life.

There was a funny scene where he drops trou to show then President Johnson where he was wounded. And embarrasses the heck out of his mother.

I agree some of Forrest's adventures were a little hard to swallow. But then, it's a movie. Just entertainment.

That's all I have to say about that. lol

:) Sierra

The film is meant to be like that though, his adventures are in contrast to his mentality and gentle nature. That's what makes him so endearing to the viewers.

Hal9001
18-01-2005, 21:55
Originally posted by twinky1
Its a Wonderful Life a

Finally someone has mentioned this amazing film.

Another one that gets me is the end of 'Scrooge' starring Alistair Sim. When him meets Bob Cratched in the snow (sob).

BoroughGal
19-01-2005, 14:25
Another good British one, anyone seen it, "Goodnight Mr Tom" with John Thaw, all about a little mistreated evacuee boy in the war.... it's making me cry now thinking about it....

ET made me cry as a child (in fact, I came out of the cinema sobbing with my mum), but not now, I don't think. Hey Lestat, honey, doesn't Michael Jackson own ET's bones, or sumfink?

:thumbsup:

ALEX1995
19-01-2005, 14:31
Originally posted by BoroughGal
Another good British one, anyone seen it, "Goodnight Mr Tom" with John Thaw, all about a little mistreated evacuee boy in the war.... it's making me cry now thinking about it....

ET made me cry as a child (in fact, I came out of the cinema sobbing with my mum), but not now, I don't think. Hey Lestat, honey, doesn't Michael Jackson own ET's bones, or sumfink?

:thumbsup:

I remember sobbing to 'Bambi' as a child at the movies. 'The Champ' that's annother tear jerker.

pussycat
19-01-2005, 14:39
I cried reading the book of 'The Green Mile', and was inconsolable for about an hour after watching the film (boyf wouldn't let me go to the pictures to see it cos he knew what would happen!). I've never cried at a book before.

Also ET got me in a state the other day. And Titanic is another one - but not cos of the love story (that's tosh), but because of the disaster.

And Legends of the Fall has me in buckets too. I know it's a pants film, but it's soooo sad.

But I think Schindler's List is the one that makes me cry the most.

Lestat
19-01-2005, 15:59
Originally posted by BoroughGal
Hey Lestat, honey, doesn't Michael Jackson own ET's bones, or sumfink?

:thumbsup:

PMSL!! :P It was a made up rumour that MJ tried to buy the elephant mans bones. He likes E.T because it reminds him of himself, his life and how too much attention can be a bad thing.

MJ also won a grammy for doing the narration for E.T in the Audio Books category.

nick2
19-01-2005, 16:29
Originally posted by Lestat
PMSL!! :P It was a made up rumour that MJ tried to buy the elephant mans bones.

I thought he had bought them for spare parts.

miniminch
19-01-2005, 19:34
Originally posted by Sierra
Awful lie in Forrest Gump?

I don't know what you mean. In the movie he never became president. He visited the White House to receive a medal for saving lieutenant Dan's life.

There was a funny scene where he drops trou to show then President Johnson where he was wounded. And embarrasses the heck out of his mother.

I agree some of Forrest's adventures were a little hard to swallow. But then, it's a movie. Just entertainment.

That's all I have to say about that. lol

:) Sierra

Well read between the lines ffs

What the film does is propergate the myth of the American Dream that anyone can become anything despite their background - when the truth is that America is one of the most divided societies. If you are born poor and black or retard you have **** all chance in the capitalist system that serves only to separate the population -- It ain't JUST entertaiment - its cultural brainwashing. wake up and smell the soda:|

LBoogie
19-01-2005, 20:42
It's just a film!?

It's not brainwashing at all....jesus.

igm1
19-01-2005, 20:49
No miniminch is 100% correct here.

Most films generally have hidden meanings- part of the fun of watching them is to work them out.

LBoogie
19-01-2005, 20:54
I know films have hidden meanings. I'm not stupid!

I'm just saying I don't think Forrest Gump has a hidden agenda like the one Miniminch says.

igm1
19-01-2005, 20:57
Originally posted by LBoogie
I know films have hidden meanings. I'm not stupid!

I'm just saying I don't think Forrest Gump has a hidden agenda like the one Miniminch says.

I wasn't implying that you were stupid :blush:

Well, it's all down to a matter of opinion really LBoogie.


Still, Forest Gump is a brilliant film- I'm sure we can agree on that! :thumbsup:

bobsyouruncle
19-01-2005, 21:29
I agree wit angel05, i cried at "Ghost", the song, made me cry
went to se it wiv my first g/f, (if my present half sees this, she'll go ape s*** cos i've never took her to t' flix!!)
:cry:

Sierra
19-01-2005, 21:38
Originally posted by miniminch
Well read between the lines ffs

What the film does is propergate the myth of the American Dream that anyone can become anything despite their background - when the truth is that America is one of the most divided societies. If you are born poor and black or retard you have **** all chance in the capitalist system that serves only to separate the population -- It ain't JUST entertaiment - its cultural brainwashing. wake up and smell the soda:|

No chance for poor blacks in America?

Damn.

Someone better go tell my black neighbor. The LAWYER. And while you're at it, go tell her sister. THE DOCTOR. And maybe let their mother, also A LAWYER in on this. My neighbor's parents came to California from Mississippi in the early sixties. They worked hard, got Government subsidies to go to school, and made something of themselves. They are some of the nicest, most hard working (as in give back to the community) most decent, fair minded people around. The mother (a retired attorney), especially is absolutely amazing. I wish she were my mom!

And maybe someone should inform this woman:

http://www.whitehouse.gov/nsc/ricebio.html

The boogieman doesn't live under everyone's bed. Everything isn't a conspiracy, and I don't want to sit in a dark room playing all my records backwards.

Sometimes, things just are what they are, and movie is just a movie.

Besides, the old studio system is long gone. These days, so many people are involved in getting a movie made, you'd never get them all to agree on anything, let alone try to brainwash the public.

:suspect: Sierra

Lestat
19-01-2005, 21:57
ok, back to the simple question 'which films make you weep?'

No one has yet mentioned the disturbing film 'Sleepers' yet!
The end scene when all the lads are around the table and having what will be their final drink together was rather sad.:sad:

igm1
19-01-2005, 22:02
Monty Python films make me cry with laughter :lol: :hihi:

D2J
19-01-2005, 22:02
Originally posted by IanMitchell
Monty Python films make me cry with laughter :lol: :hihi:

They have the opposite affect on me.. Send me to sleep :shakes:

Lestat
19-01-2005, 22:07
Originally posted by Deejay
They have the opposite affect on me.. Send me to sleep :shakes:

Deejay!! :o How can you say that . . it's almost blasphemous to say Monty Python isn't funny!!:P they are the original comic heroes of our time!!

igm1
19-01-2005, 22:08
Originally posted by Lestat
Deejay!! :o How can you say that . . it's almost blasphemous to say Monty Python isn't funny!!:P they are the original comic heroes of our time!!

Shaaatup big nose! :P

D2J
19-01-2005, 22:09
Originally posted by Lestat
Deejay!! :o How can you say that . . it's almost blasphemous to say Monty Python isn't funny!!:P they are the original comic heroes of our time!!

Im sorry mate :( Star Wars has the same problem too...

Lestat
19-01-2005, 22:11
Originally posted by Deejay
Im sorry mate :( Star Wars has the same problem too...

WHAT!!! . . . :o :o I think we have a serious case here!! You need to be taught the ways of the Jedi young Padwan Deejay. You must learn to use a light sabre whilst doing a funny walk!

D2J
19-01-2005, 22:14
Originally posted by Lestat
WHAT!!! . . . :o :o I think we have a serious case here!! You need to be taught the ways of the Jedi young Padwan Deejay. You must learn to use a light sabre whilst doing a funny walk!

Yes maybe I just don't view the Star Wars or Monty Python films the way everyone else does...

I just can't get into them, counselling maybe an option if this is a problem for anyone :P

miniminch
19-01-2005, 22:16
Originally posted by Sierra
No chance for poor blacks in America?

Damn.



And maybe someone should inform this woman:

http://www.whitehouse.gov/nsc/ricebio.html

The boogieman doesn't live under everyone's bed. Everything isn't a conspiracy, and I don't want to sit in a dark room playing all my records backwards.

Sometimes, things just are what they are, and movie is just a movie.

Besides, the old studio system is long gone. These days, so many people are involved in getting a movie made, you'd never get them all to agree on anything, let alone try to brainwash the public.

:suspect: Sierra


errrr 1 - this is sheffield England by the way - so forgive me if i have no idea but we only just got the talkies - this is not the sheffield in the USofA

And 2 - I was refering to poor blacks who are statistically more likely to end up in prison or die of drug incidents (poverty or stupidity? - you choose) (so I ain't refering to all of the people)

And 3 - when i say brainwash, i didn't mean it in the general - conspiricy type way - only 'that they would like to have you believe' type way-

And 4 - its nice that you have the inequality deal sorted now in the Us - that Bush has done a good job (he's even hired a black person - and a woman - bonus!!!!!!!!!- (psssss - don't give her the keys to the limo))

And 5 - You know there is one thing worse than a racist and that is a black racist - you're like the people who quit smoking who hate smokers more than non-smokers!!

And 6 what the weather like there:) :o

oh Bambi's good - anyone?

Sierra
19-01-2005, 22:51
Awwww mini, mini, mini.

I like saying that... mini, mini, mini.

We are never gonna agree on this. Let's just let it go, no hard feelings. I'm assuming you're not calling me a racist, and if you are, I forgive you anyway. I certainly don't want to fight. You have more testosterone than I do, heh.

The weather here isn't so good right now. Fog, fog, and more fog. The sun hasn't come out all day today. At least no snow or ice, though. In another month, it'll be glorious.

Weepy movie? The Three Godfathers.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B00005A1VE/102-2731701-4795358?v=glance

An old John Wayne film, very good.

:) Sierra

miniminch
19-01-2005, 23:56
Originally posted by Sierra
Awwww mini, mini, mini.

I like saying that... mini, mini, mini.

We are never gonna agree on this. Let's just let it go, no hard feelings. I'm assuming you're not calling me a racist, and if you are, I forgive you anyway. I certainly don't want to fight. You have more testosterone than I do, heh.

The weather here isn't so good right now. Fog, fog, and more fog. The sun hasn't come out all day today. At least no snow or ice, though. In another month, it'll be glorious.

Weepy movie? The Three Godfathers.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B00005A1VE/102-2731701-4795358?v=glance

An old John Wayne film, very good.

:) Sierra

Of course my dear - it would be so rude too - shame about the fog - bloody pea-souper is it?
I've not seen The Three Godfathers but i have seen The Godfather parts 1 , 2 and 3 and thought they were good.
And i wasn't calling you a racist - but I'd advise you to see the film American History X - if you like to see a film about how race and in-particular immigration are still major issues and how white male 'testosterone' fuel hated of difference can still breed inequality and hardship for those that live with that inequality.
Its nice that you mentioned educated black people as a way foward. What is good about that movie is how Ed Norton (the racist) is not poor or stupid and he even has a black principle at school who turns him on to education when he's a child. And, touchingly, saves him when he's in prison for racist crimes. It is about how negative role models can damage even the most gifted minds and the awful legacy when intellect is channelled into hated for the ends of a manipulative minority.
i think its good that Dr Rice has that particular promotion but i think you may have to agree that a woman or a black person in the white house is a step nearer but still a long way off.
We're having a heat wave here - pass the ice bucket sybill!!:)

ginamoi
20-01-2005, 00:24
Moulin Rouge anyone?

we were 5 watching it and could bearly hear what was being said by the end :(

Sierra
20-01-2005, 06:27
Thanks mini,

American History X. Hmmm, haven't seen it yet. I'll have to rent it.

I mentioned my neighbor because I like her. Her and her mother and sister are good people. As I said before, her mother especially is an amazing woman. This lady was raised in the segregation era South. One of her uncles was actually lynched in the 1920's. Yet she doesn't view herself as a victim, and is one of the kindest, most loving people I've ever met.

She graduated from law school at a time when most lawyers were men, never mind black women. She's truly an inspiration, and everyone who knows her loves her.

Racism is very complicated here. There's many groups. Some groups overlap, and alot of people are of more than one, two or even three races.

My own experience with racism occured before my husband and I were married. I have one grandparent with quite a bit of native american blood. No one had ever said anything about this before, so I was shocked and dismayed to hear my husband's Aunt criticize me for this. Like I had any control over it?!!

Racism strikes at the very essence of a person. It was my husband's Aunt judging and disliking me simply for who I was, before even knowing me. It was unfair, and it made me very, very angry. I managed to keep my mouth shut then, and over the years whenever Auntie made an insensitive remark. And she kept 'em coming.

The last one was expressing approval that our kids "looked white". (Good lord, this woman had NO tact!!) My kids are both blondish, although my daughter has brown eyes. However, you'd never guess that my blue eyed son was the great grandson of a Crow indian.

Did I mention that Auntie passed away a couple years ago? :clap:

Anyway, more weepy movies: The Seventh Sign with Demi Moore.

Steel Magnolias with Julia Roberts. Both good movies, but keep the tissues handy!

:) Sierra

igm1
20-01-2005, 08:12
I can highly recommend American History X.


Some parts of it are pretty painful to watch though- beware

timo
20-01-2005, 09:11
Film rarely produces a moist-eyed reaction from me. However, there is one exception, which some might find curious. In the film Kes, there is a scene where the boorish elder brother ["Jud"] is seen walking through sunlit woodland, on his way to a shift at the mine. Two of his workmates greet him as he nears the pit gates, asking him why he is not, "on top of the world" on such a beautiful morning. Jud replies, "I'll be at the bottom of it in a minute".

Perhaps it is the juxtaposition of the sunlit wood with the grim reality of the brutal [and brutalised] character's daily working life, just around the corner, that has the effect? At any rate, it is a scene I find difficult to watch. Jud is every bit as tragic as his younger brother, if not more so.

sparklesista
20-01-2005, 12:22
Originally posted by IanMitchell
I can highly recommend American History X.


Some parts of it are pretty painful to watch though- beware

American History X is an excellent film! :thumbsup:

Lestat
29-01-2005, 16:45
Originally posted by sparklesista
American History X is an excellent film! :thumbsup:

Same goes for Mississippi Burning.:thumbsup:

Susie
29-01-2005, 17:46
The first film I ever cried at was My Girl, it was the scene where they were having macauley culkins funeral and the girl comes running in screaming "wheres his glasses, he cant see without his glasses" sets me off every time.

Susie
xx

chillicat
29-01-2005, 20:20
Lion King
Big Fish

Father-son movies just kill me.

jay_oscar
30-01-2005, 15:03
.........................................

XxGemmaxX
31-01-2005, 20:29
The film that always makes me cry is green mile with Tom Hanks! It's so sad!!

XxGemmaxX
31-01-2005, 20:32
My friend says that Ghost is very sad and that it always makes her cry and for that reason i refuse to watch it lol!!!

_Fate_
31-01-2005, 20:40
Saving Private Ryan is pretty sad.

fuzzy
31-01-2005, 21:27
Originally posted by XxGemmaxX
The film that always makes me cry is green mile with Tom Hanks! It's so sad!!

Was on again last night, couldn't not watch it even though it was late. Cried again even though i know what happens.

nick2
01-02-2005, 08:16
Originally posted by XxGemmaxX
My friend says that Ghost is very sad and that it always makes her cry and for that reason i refuse to watch it lol!!!

It's worth watching for Woopie Goldbergs performance, you can fast foreward through all the mushy stuff.

Voise
01-02-2005, 10:47
The last film I cried at was Million Dollar Baby, I defy you not to cry!!!

Carmine
01-02-2005, 10:52
Faramir's charge against the Morgul Orcs at Osgiliath in ROTK gets me weeping for some reason; the combination of heroic futility, fatalism, rampant hatred and the haunting "Mist & Shadows" in the background.

But then I cry at the last episode of Blackadder Goes Forth.

Zebra
01-02-2005, 11:31
I agree with loads of the films already mentioned, Sleepers, A Wonderful Life and Seventh Sign being among them.
One that faintly rings bells, had Kevin Bacon and some woman whose having a baby 'She's having a Baby' or is it Maybe Baby?
Jack And Sarah, another brit flick, when Sarah dies AAAArrrggghhhh and there's a few other scenes which are tearjerkers.

NatalieSheff
01-02-2005, 11:38
dirty dancing still gets me, heard THE song this morning on radio - got the old ticker beating. what a film

sensuous
01-02-2005, 16:47
boyz in the hood

classic film, one to watch

water ship down

Sidla
01-02-2005, 16:50
The Lion King
The Green Mile
My Girl

craigb
01-02-2005, 21:48
Too many to list (I'm a total wuss!), but the one that gets the most is the ending of City of Angels with Meg Ryan and Nicolas Cage.

Lestat
17-04-2005, 17:07
Just seen 'Big Fish' and got to agree that it's one of the best films ever! it's just such a simple story - made into lots of simple stories with an amazing cast and the brilliant 'Ewan Mcgregor'.

If you haven't seen it yet, watch it whenever you get the chance and forget all about reality for a few wonderful hours. :thumbsup:

robbie
17-04-2005, 17:55
Watership blub Down

dawny1
17-04-2005, 19:53
It has to be Braveheart - I cried buckets at that. Can't watch ever again.

My ex cried at Disneys Beauty and the Beast - hence the Ex!!!

cobaltblue
18-04-2005, 09:10
Originally posted by Sierra
Has anyone seen City of Angels?

Nicholas Cage is an angel who falls in love with Meg Ryan. He sacrifices immortality to be with her. But shortly after he does this, she's killed in an accident. Sad, sad, sad!



:) Sierra

OMG That makes me so mad the ending of that film!!! He gives up everything for the woman he loves and she dies!!!! The injustice!!!! :rant: :cry: I hate films like that - it's like when the wee boy dies at the end of Pay it Forward.

Another film with him in is AI - i watched that at the movies with my son and at the end when he gets his mum back but just for one day OMG!!! Me and my son looked at each other and it was just big fat silent tears rolling down our cheeks. I thought i was gonna choke the lump in my throat was so big!!

Also Full Metal Jacket, Saving Private Ryan, The DeerHunter, Meet Joe Black, Boys Don't Cry, lol the list goes on. The one I get the most ribbing for is the cartoon The Iron Giant :blush: At the end when the robot is on a collision course with the nuclear weapon in order to save the world and he shouts "Superman" :( I burst into tears first time I seen that I was so moved!

Lily04
18-04-2005, 13:33
Originally posted by Lestat
What about Armageddon at the end . . . poor Liv Tyler! she can cry on shoulder any day!
I agree! but I have more and I really don't care if others don't like it!
1.) Armageddon
2.) Pearl Harbor(when Ben & Josh "reunite" and when Josh dies)
3.) The Lion King
4.) The Patriot
5.) Old Yeller
6.) Bambi
7.)What's Eating Gilbert Grape
8.) Titanic
and
9.) The Perfect Storm

Rich
18-04-2005, 14:07
Bambi and ET are the only films I've really cried at.. Especially ET at the bit where he "dies" but comes back to life.

Agent Gypo
18-04-2005, 14:29
Films that make me cry?

I cry with laughter ever time I see a film with Keanu Reeves in it, he can't act at all. And you can include Matrix in that too, it's 5hit.

mitziwillow
18-04-2005, 16:49
*The Green Mile

*Titanic

Can't think of anymore at the moment

:loopy:

mitziwillow
18-04-2005, 16:50
Originally posted by XxGemmaxX
My friend says that Ghost is very sad and that it always makes her cry and for that reason i refuse to watch it lol!!!

Oh, and this too.:)

redrobbo
18-04-2005, 16:53
Schindler's List. Every time I watch it. Pass the tissues please.....

adlinds
18-04-2005, 17:05
Not cried at a film since I was little but back then it was always "The Snowman" (stop laughing). It's the bit when he melts at the end and the little boy looses his friend.

I agree with American History X and Boyz N The Hood being great films, they are my 2 favs along with Shawshank.

cobaltblue
18-04-2005, 19:07
Originally posted by redrobbo
Schindler's List. Every time I watch it. Pass the tissues please.....

The first time I watched that film, the minute I seen that wee girl in the red dress I started crying, you just knew. It's an excellent film, hard to watch at times.

Lestat
14-06-2005, 16:38
Originally posted by cobaltblue
The first time I watched that film, the minute I seen that wee girl in the red dress I started crying, you just knew. It's an excellent film, hard to watch at times.

The little girl in the red dress . . . what an amazing touch by old Spielberg - that bit does get you! :cry:

madowl
16-06-2005, 11:00
MY LIFE - michael Keaton, Nicole Kidman, a story about life, for a man who is dying of cancer.

I LIKE THESE ALSO:
city of angels - meg ryan
you've got mail - meg ryan
addicted to love - meg ryan.

its a meg ryan thing!:heyhey:

samc
16-06-2005, 12:44
Forrest Gump - when his mum dies, when he finds his son, when he marries Jenny, then when Jenny dies.

Green Mile - He dies... Sob

Wonder Life - throughout most of it sob sob sob

Imitation of Life - a real old Lana Turner and Sandra Dee meladrama. At the end when her only friend and house keeper dies and the longlost naughty daughter reappears throwing herself at the horse drawn carriage with the coffin on... Sob Sob Sob Sob

The Pianist - when their family is torn apart. sob sob so


:cry: :cry:

spinny
16-06-2005, 15:51
got to be for me that made me cry.

Ghost- and ET are the once that pop into my head,

And also blade as he kills all the vampires as i love vampires.that made me a bit teary eyed.


But i do not get my eldest siss..She till this day even tho the film wizod of oz is on tv every xmas time,she crys bucketts and i sit there and think why.. :huh:

nick2
16-06-2005, 15:56
Originally posted by spinny
And also blade as he kills all the vampires as i love vampires.that made me a bit teary eyed.


I'm glad it's not just me who always feels sorry for the vampires.

DanSumption
16-06-2005, 17:29
Most films make me cry, there was a period when I took my daughter to see a lot of kids' films and I swear I was in tears by the end of every one of them, even the Pokémon movie (honest), although the Iron Giant made me cry more than all the rest put together.

LordSnooty
16-06-2005, 17:38
Singing In The Rain makes me cry because it is so damn good.

lucyjuicy
19-06-2005, 19:55
titanci makes me cry when they are sinking and the boy (leonardo dicaprio) dies and says

Promise me rose bit you know in his sprit :|

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 14:57
God! I have just watched 'Million Dolla Baby' and I think it rates highly as one of the saddest films I have ever watched. I want lists of the saddest films ever, so when I'm feeling low I can go one step further and weep into oblivion! :D

I mean upset sad, not crap sad by the way!

My personal list (not sure of the right order though)

1. Nicholas' Gift
2. Million Dolla Baby
3. Lorenzo's Oil
4. Green Mile
5. Fried Green Tomatoes

Oooh my minds gone blank - I'll try and think if there's any others and get to you.

Come on! Storm some lists for me.

WM x

spyro2000
14-08-2005, 15:00
MY minds gone blank, ermmm

Boxing Helena

weenireeni
14-08-2005, 15:01
1. cats and dogs
2. homeward bound
3. homeward bound 2
4. a walk to remember
5. ghost6. one flew over the cuckoos nest

have to say didnt really get into million dollar baby!

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:02
Havent even heard of that one....is it about boxing? ;) Did you cry? What made it sad for you?

WM

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:05
Yeah I think Ghosts def up there in the top ten....Can't believe I forgot that one...

Any others?

WM

sugarnspice
14-08-2005, 15:08
This may sound insane but I think Edward Scissorhands has to be one of the saddest films ever. I love it. It makes me cry a lot. Oh and E.T.

:help:

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:17
Yeah E.T...I still cry fresh tears every time I see that film...I was just thinking that Finding Neverland is a really sad but beautiful film too.

WM

hj dary
14-08-2005, 15:20
Originally posted by sugarnspice
.... Oh and E.T.



When E.T was re-released a year or two ago we took the boy to see it.

Near the end when they think he is dead, this little voice floated across the cinema from the front.

"But Daddy, you said he didn't die" *sobbing*

The whole cinema forgot the alien for a bit and collectivley all went "awwww", at the cute kiddy in the front row.

weenireeni
14-08-2005, 15:21
for films that make me cry the most also have to add pearl harbour!!

banesmabes
14-08-2005, 15:22
The Color Purple - I've never cried so much at a film in my life as the first time I watched this, and it still gets to me every time.

Zenmaster
14-08-2005, 15:22
I'd say the saddest film I've ever watched has to be "The Piano" followed by "Moulin Rouge."

I think its the sad sound track that got to me in both cases.

Snook
14-08-2005, 15:23
Originally posted by weenireeni
for films that make me cry the most also have to add pearl harbour!!

Made me cry with boredom.

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:24
I still havent watched The Colour Purple - and dont hate me for saying I dont really know what it's about!

My friend mentioned Pearl Harbour, but I havent watched that either. I have it on DVD but it has been viewed.

WM

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:27
I got told what happend in Moulin Rouge and thought it would spoil it for me. So I watched it anyway - I cried so much! lol..you know when you start making noises like you cant breathe and your mouth is full of saliva.....hmmm pretty picture :rolleyes:

WM

anabel
14-08-2005, 15:28
Bjorks Dancer in the Dark
Truly, Madly, Deeply
Trainspotting

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:29
OI TRIPE LOVA I'M IN HERE!

dawny1
14-08-2005, 15:31
For me it was Brave Heart - I cried buckets.

wysiwyg
14-08-2005, 15:34
Life is Beautiful
Leaving Las Vegas
Pure

brooksy
14-08-2005, 15:37
Philladelphia , especially at the end:(

shaz22
14-08-2005, 15:40
well my saddest films are as follows:

1. watership down
2.rapunzel
3.sleeping beauty
4.when yuko met me
and last but certainly not least

5.the pixie massacre

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 15:52
YES 'When Yuko met Me' was one of the saddest filmed ever created! The bit when the soliders of the Nebraska fall to their deaths and when the leader of the Full Moon daughter dies sue to the tripe poisoning....Gosh! I cried so much

WM

Sidla
14-08-2005, 15:57
The Green Mile always makes me cry. So does the Lion King when Mufassa dies.

DragonofAna
14-08-2005, 16:05
Saddest film - and I'll get some stick for this one - Love Story.

Always brings a tear to my eye.

Dragon

Fragonard
14-08-2005, 16:29
'Beaches' made me roar for DAYS!!

'Wisdom' brings a few tears to my eyes.

Lucretia_73
14-08-2005, 17:25
The Notebook - very underrated - made me cry most of the way through. Managed to exert some control in the cinema but when I watched it at home...True love never dies/people growing old together and still loving each other always gets me and the fact that it's an unrealistic expectation makes me cry all the more. *Sigh* Back to cynic mode now...

robbie
14-08-2005, 17:31
Watership Down
Christmas in August

katy1981
14-08-2005, 17:43
mine is


---- my girl

i cry my eyes out everytime

SpiderPete
14-08-2005, 17:48
Oh this is sooooo difficult for me as I like to see people get killed and cut up in films, with plenty of action.

Also like sci-fi films where they are blowing planets up and ships.

Also like horror films,

So ... after 3 mins and 14 secs thinking it has to be :

Watership Down

sob sob sob < see cryin now>

Jon
14-08-2005, 18:15
Titanic, what a load of crap that film is i couldn't wait to get out of the cinema.

WintersMist
14-08-2005, 19:02
People alsways used to mention 'Beaches' to me and I hadn't seen it. They said how wonderful it was but very sad.

So I sat down and watched it - cried a bit - wasn't very impressed on thw whole though.

WM

tslogf74
14-08-2005, 20:44
Originally posted by anabel
Bjorks Dancer in the Dark
Truly, Madly, Deeply
Trainspotting

I kept my composure throughout Dancer in the Dark and I thought I thought I'd beaten it. Then about 6 seconds before the end credits rolled I started sobbing my eyes out! Very moving ending.

tslogf74
14-08-2005, 20:46
Also, inside I'm dancing.

Lol - bit of a dancing theme.

JA5E
14-08-2005, 20:48
Have to agree with Green Mile.

Also, Big Fish and Forrest Gump.

pattricia
14-08-2005, 21:03
Lassie Come Home. Animals just get me crying.

deepaktailor
14-08-2005, 21:07
the answer is easily GREEN MILE

StarSparkle
14-08-2005, 21:58
Originally posted by pattricia
Lassie Come Home. Animals just get me crying.

Oh no, don't get me started on animal films - I'll be sobbing all night :(

Born Free;
Tarka the Otter;
Ring of Bright Water;
The Incredible Journey.

:help:

Other than that :D :

Sommersby;
Backbeat; and
Heaven Can Wait

Heaven knows I'm miserable now....

StarSparkle

john t
14-08-2005, 22:11
Sorry you lot..i got you beat hands down..
The champ..with a certain Mr voit,and a very young Ricky Schroider..the ending were's he's telling his dad..come on champ.wake up ..awesome ending never fails to bring on the water works

jt

JoeP
14-08-2005, 22:22
I'd go with Sommersby. I remember leaving a cinema surrounded by people who'd all mysteriously got something in their eyes.... :)

Backbeat was a good one as well.

I can think of lots of moving films but few that I'd put in to the category of sad. I suppose I'd add :

The Remains of the Day.
A kid for two farthings
Whistle down the Wind

Joe

PIF_Tails
14-08-2005, 22:31
Inside I'm dancing made me cry buckets.

Also .....

Jack and Sarah - The scene with Jack waking up in hospital is so upsetting.

Mask (with Cher) - You know what is going to happen from the beginning but it still makes you cry.

The Boy in the Bubble

Pay It Forward

Starting to think that all the films I watch are depressing :suspect:

valentine
15-08-2005, 10:27
I cried buckets at Armegeddon, I think it was the soundtrack that made it sadder

BruciesBabe
15-08-2005, 10:39
'Beaches' did it for me
Oh and the DVD version of 'The Butterfly effect'
A very old film called 'I know my first name is Steven'
Philidelphia

I also cry at Lion King, Bambi and free willy!!!

Oh and a film about an alcoholic mother and Whoppi Goldberg is in it - cried all the way through it, but can't remember its name.

bellis
15-08-2005, 11:23
my girl , think it was made in 1991 it starred the dan ackroyd jamie lee curtis and that brat from home alone it does get better as he gets stung by bees , but it is a very moving film and i always cry when i watch it

Lea1979
15-08-2005, 12:02
I hardly ever cry at films - I have cried at four films in my entire life (that i can remember of anyway) :

1. Beaches - I sobbed and sobbed for days.
2. Forrest Gump
3. Philadelphia
4. Pay It Forward (cheesy I know but hey it got me !!)

nick2
15-08-2005, 12:07
I hate it when you can see a sad bit coming, like in Beaches or Philadelphia, it has no effect on me. I'm more effected by sudden things like when the CSI guy got killed in CSI Miami last week.

redrobbo
15-08-2005, 12:18
The Red Balloon (1956) directed by Albert Lamorisse
Romeo & Juliet (1968) directed by Franco Zeffirelli
Schindler's List (1993) directed by Steven Spielberg

Edit: Should read 1968; don't now where the smillie has appeared from; and unable to edit it out!

Lea1979
15-08-2005, 13:02
Originally posted by nick2
I hate it when you can see a sad bit coming, like in Beaches or Philadelphia, it has no effect on me. I'm more effected by sudden things like when the CSI guy got killed in CSI Miami last week.

its just more shocking really and doesn't make me cry when something happens out the blue.

its the build up of it all that gets me, the lump in my throat, wobbly lip, then the line gets delivered that brings out the hysterics :cry: :cry:

TimmyR
15-08-2005, 13:08
This has to be the only film that made me cry (nearly - of course I sniffed back the tears to maintain my manly exterior):

Life is Beautiful - about a father and son who get taken to a concentration camp during t'war. The guy pretends for the whole film that they're on holiday which is hilarious. He gets killed in the end which is the sad bit.

nick2
15-08-2005, 13:15
I remember going to see Titanic (gawd knows why, I knew the ending) at the cinema, there was a couple sat behind me. At the end when Jack is hanging onto the plank (or whatever it is) and is dying the woman behind me was sobbing, but her boyfriend said (realy loudly, in one of those silent moments) "If I were her I'd push him under, no point in them both drowning". I had to do that silent "vibrating" laughing.

Lea1979
15-08-2005, 13:22
Originally posted by TimmyR
Life is Beautiful - about a father and son who get taken to a concentration camp during t'war. The guy pretends for the whole film that they're on holiday which is hilarious. He gets killed in the end which is the sad bit.

one of my favourite all time films. funny, clever, romantic, sad and action in it - what more can you possibly want ?

doesn't make me cry tho but i definatley had a lump in my throat.

pete_jim
15-08-2005, 13:53
Yes Life is Beautiful - truly sad film I wept buckets, but not as much as Il Postino (Italian with subtitles). This is even worse when you know that the main actor was really ill when he made the film and died just before it was released.

BruciesBabe
15-08-2005, 13:57
Lee1979, Pay it Forward - excellent film and very poignant (not sure how u spell it!)

Cardinal
15-08-2005, 14:02
Kramer vs Kramer!! Have to say that 'Titanic' bored me sensesless.

willman
15-08-2005, 14:07
Philadelphia
Elephant Man

Lea1979
15-08-2005, 14:11
Originally posted by BruciesBabe
Lee1979, Pay it Forward - excellent film and very poignant (not sure how u spell it!)

Pay It Forward is one of those films that i would normally not like based on the actual plot as its cheesy american rubbish. but its just so well acted by Kevin Spacey, Helen Hunt and by the i see dead people kid (Hayley something ????) it just works for me. i think its a fantastic film.

TimmyR
15-08-2005, 14:19
Originally posted by pete_jim
Yes Life is Beautiful - truly sad film I wept buckets, but not as much as Il Postino (Italian with subtitles). This is even worse when you know that the main actor was really ill when he made the film and died just before it was released.

Another of my favourites! Saw it years ago but can just about remember it. I like films that aren't from america.

TimmyR
15-08-2005, 14:20
Originally posted by willman
Philadelphia
Elephant Man

I watched the elephant man when I was little and cried a lot. but I cried at anythign in those days. Like the snowman and winnie the pooh.