View Full Version : Do men have Engagement Rings?


Lady_Cat
05-04-2007, 14:57
As the title says... Do men have engagement rings aswell as the women and if so where do you get them from? I have never seen them before and never heard of a man having one?
I am just curious as to what happens when a woman does the proposing etc.

Birth-Peace
05-04-2007, 14:58
I got my hubby a chunky titanium ring to celebrate our engagement.
He wore it till our wedding :love:

Now I wear it on my thumb as its cool x

mojo1
05-04-2007, 15:00
Yes they are called shackles.

Lady_Cat
05-04-2007, 15:00
Thats a good idea. :)

saxon51
05-04-2007, 15:01
It is customary for the bloke to buy the girl a ring, and for the girl to buy the bloke a Ferrari of some kind .......................... honest it is.

You didn't know this did you, otherwise you wouldn't have asked. :)

scoop
05-04-2007, 15:02
My husband got a new golf club as an engagement present.

saxon51
05-04-2007, 15:06
My husband got a new golf club as an engagement present.
You mean you hadn't heard of the Ferrari commitment either? :o

babychickens
05-04-2007, 15:09
my guy gave me an engagement ring when he proposed, and i didn't have another ring as a wedding ring because i don't like to wear too much jewellery (although i've demanded a new ring for a 10th wedding anniversary). upon getting engaged we went and bought him an engagement ring, too - he wore it until the wedding, was then presented with it, and now wears it as a wedding ring. like olliek's guy, my guy chose a titanium one.

since an engagement ring represents that the wearer is no longer available (amoungst other things), i thought it was only fair that if i was wearing one, then my bloke should too. thankfully he agreed.

scoop
05-04-2007, 15:10
You mean you hadn't heard of the Ferrari commitment either? :o

No he need never know :hihi: .

Jabberwocky
05-04-2007, 15:11
Im living with my other half and were classed as engaged by her family and our friends because we`re planning to get married.
One day...
One day in the far distant future if I have my way...

Anyway, I have an engagement ring, its a Titanuim one because I cant wear gold for any length of time without it trying to rot my finger off. So yeah, men wear engagement rings.

Lady_Cat
05-04-2007, 15:22
Thanks for all your replies!

I am taking a long think and doing my research about the Ferrari comment before i believe it :hihi:

mojo1
05-04-2007, 15:34
Thanks for all your replies!

I am taking a long think and doing my research about the Ferrari comment before i believe it :hihi:

The ferrari commitment basically means that if he thinks he's getting a ferrari he needs commiting to a hospital. :hihi:

Lady_Cat
05-04-2007, 15:38
The ferrari commitment basically means that if he thinks he's getting a ferrari he needs commiting to a hospital. :hihi:

Too true! :)

saxon51
05-04-2007, 15:47
Thanks for all your replies!

I am taking a long think and doing my research about the Ferrari comment before i believe it :hihi:

How dare you doubt (http://pic2.piczo.com/DaSheffield4-M/?g=24168681&cr=2) me?:mad:

debsutd
05-04-2007, 19:19
i am engaged too but my partner won't wear an engagment ring, he doesn't like to wear jewellery so i have relented but i still keep trying :)

astronaut77
05-04-2007, 20:10
When we got engaged I bought my hubby a watch. He wouldn't have worn an engagement ring (mainly because he can't wear jewellery for work) but I wanted him to have something to keep.

funkymiss
05-04-2007, 20:11
My brother has an engagement ring. I think it's only fair!

TattyBear
05-04-2007, 20:22
My brother has an engagement ring. I think it's only fair!

Your engaged to your brother! :wow:

funkymiss
05-04-2007, 20:58
Haha it did sound that way didn't it!

But no

*Cinderella*
05-04-2007, 21:00
I'm very happy to get engaged to anyone who'll get me a Ferrari

scoop
05-04-2007, 21:48
i am engaged too but my partner won't wear an engagment ring, he doesn't like to wear jewellery so i have relented but i still keep trying :)

Mr Scoop wouldn't have worn one either. He tried to get away without a wedding ring, but I refused to marry him without one.

Lady_Cat
05-04-2007, 22:34
How dare you doubt (http://pic2.piczo.com/DaSheffield4-M/?g=24168681&cr=2) me?:mad:

ha ha! brill

whitewitch
06-04-2007, 10:21
i bought my ex fiance one when we got engaged, if i did it again i would probably get him one too,if he wanted one that is

angelgirluk
17-04-2007, 19:20
I was proposed to on my 18th birthday, but I bought him a ring too. It was a gold celtic band design, but you can go for anything really. It's a nice thought I think and greatly appreciated by the guy too. Go for it!!!

Lady_Cat
18-04-2007, 20:06
I was proposed to on my 18th birthday, but I bought him a ring too. It was a gold celtic band design, but you can go for anything really. It's a nice thought I think and greatly appreciated by the guy too. Go for it!!!

Did he keep it on when you were married and he had a wedding band, like the woman keeps her engagement ring on?

angelgirluk
02-05-2007, 19:23
Men seem to replace their 'engagement' ring with their wedding ring, not like us women, who are greedy & wear two haha!! Although I guess it is personal pref really!

spicey
18-05-2007, 15:02
Wearing rings isn't traditional for Hindus but something we picked up from the British.....

However my bloke insisted on an engagement ring. It's white gold and quite plain. Cost loads though (fat fingers).

His wedding band is platinum with a 0.3k diamond and half frosted. Cost more than both my rings put together.....

mazjam
01-10-2007, 18:43
My hubby to be was desperate for an engagement ring !
(Thought....is not wanting one a sign that they don't want to advertise the fact they are engaged too widely ?? Hmmm....)
He settled on a plain narrow white gold band from Ortak (Orkney jeweller, in the Meadowhall centre) which he will pair with a narrow yellow gold one on the day itself. Ortak, or is it another Orkney based jeweller?) actually sell ringe for men consisting of multiple bands if you are unsure how they will look together. if you look around you may find one set with a small diamond !

angelgirluk
01-10-2007, 23:02
SO, have there been any wedding bells between us girlies just lately?! Everything hunky dory? I was at my friends wedding a month ago, which was a truly lovely day!!