Hi,just Wondering Does Anyone Know Any Anger Management Group,or Counselling ,free Or Very ,very Cheap .i Think I Need Some Help With My New Husband .thanks:)

go to your doctors and have a chat with him/her, there is often a counsellor attached to a practice and your GP can refer you, even if there isnt one at the surgery, he/she will be able to refer you to a NHS counsellor free of charge.

hope it works out well.

thanks.called today nhs direct to get some information ,but they weren t very helpful,they gave me some number of some depression group .i understand that only anger management group is in manchester.is after the wedding my husband became very stressed and short temper person ,i care about his health as well as my peace but i am not willing to pay a private counsiling.anyway i ll try my gp this week ,if not i will have to divorce him.:hihi: just joking.

It`s already been mentioned but go see your Doctor! I know there used to be a place in sheffield, not sure where exactly. Have you considered Relate here`s a link http://www.relate.org.uk/aboutus/ They can help in all type of ways according to the bit I read.

redbee,

nhsdirect is no use!

Is English your first language?

What is the language of your husband?

Do you have any children?

well,i had to try nhs because i can t aford any private help.i am romanian,my husband is english-canadian,and we have no children .why?

Simple.

If you have no children, your husband is "new" and has anger management problems to the extent of needing treatment ...... leave him!

Is there an immigration issue?

i appreciate your opinion but i come from a traditional family.is nothing to do my status i will be romanian forever,i haven t even changed my name .i love this man ,and he loves me back .that is the base of our marriage ,i think man sometimes panic after getting married just for a short period of time.why i would separate from me,he hasn t done nothing wrong to me .is seeing him in a bad mood and getting irritatable or annoyed by little things makes it very hard to communicate with him.i ussually leave him alone when is a bad mood but i wish i can understand him ,talk to him,help him.and the fact that he is aware that is difficult to live with him sometimes ,and he wants to get help ,that shows me that he cares about us.is my husband and i love him to bits ,i will be there for him all the time ,and this is just an obstacle ,we are to strong not to keep going.:)

try share psycotherapy - not free, but they negotiate based on your income. also, try sheffield MIND. good luck with it

So.

You think that your new husband, from a different background, gets a bit angry from tme to time?
Actually .. not 'time to time' .. because you are newly married.

If it was a problem, why did you marry him?



If he wants to seek help, why is he not doing so?

Hi,just Wondering Does Anyone Know Any Anger Management Group,or Counselling ,free Or Very ,very Cheap .i Think I Need Some Help With My New Husband .thanks:)

Depends what you are after:- Sheffield Mind offer free counselling but have a waiting list of about 3 months. Best thing to do is visit your GP ... that's what I did and I've got an assessment appointment with a Mental Health Worker plus the NHS run free workshops on stress management, self-confidence etc.

Hope this helps:hihi:

So.

You think that your new husband, from a different background, gets a bit angry from tme to time?
Actually .. not 'time to time' .. because you are newly married.

If it was a problem, why did you marry him?



If he wants to seek help, why is he not doing so?

cgksheff I understand what you are getting at here but I think you are being a bit hard on this lady. I think you should back off a bit, and offer helpful advice if you can, not hassle her with the 'whys and wherefores'. She has enough to cope with without being asked why she married him.

well i been living with my husband before i got married for 3 years ,i think this is just a new him .i don t think people should be left alone,epecially the one you love when then need you to be there.i think many people experience a bad period in their life.i just don t know how to make him talk more to me ,about his fustrations.i think having a medical help ,doesnt mean is a critical situation ,is just getting some advice ,how to overcome this period.i will never say no ,if i have a problem of any sort ,to a person who is experienced in the area that i need help with.

cgksheff I understand what you are getting at here but I think you are being a bit hard on this lady. I think you should back off a bit, and offer helpful advice if you can, not hassle her with the 'whys and wherefores'. She has enough to cope with without being asked why she married him.

thank you for understanding.all i want is some information ,i can understand his point of view but what i am trying to say they are many couples in this situations and maybe they need help like me ,but they are afraid to ask for fear of being judge .anyway i think i got now the information i need.

cgksheff I understand what you are getting at here but I think you are being a bit hard on this lady.

You have no idea what her problem is.
Neither do I.
If anyone is going to give realistic advice, they need to know more.
Hence the questions.

I have made no judgement .. so what is the "being a bit hard" all about?

You have no idea what her problem is.
Neither do I.
If anyone is going to give realistic advice, they need to know more.
Hence the questions.

I have made no judgement .. so what is the "being a bit hard" all about?

I just think your post comes across as being a little aggressive.

I just think your post comes across as being a little aggressive.

You may not be the only one!

Your interpretation is up to you.
The language of my post was factual, and my intention was not aggressive.

Your doctor will be able to give you information about any resources that are available in Sheffield. There may well be a free service if you ask! Good luck x

redbee does your husband have a job.

You have no idea what her problem is.
Neither do I.
If anyone is going to give realistic advice, they need to know more.
Hence the questions.

I have made no judgement .. so what is the "being a bit hard" all about?

You must have made a judgement in order to offer this advice.

If you have no children, your husband is "new" and has anger management problems to the extent of needing treatment ...... leave him!

You must have made a judgement in order to offer this advice.

Yes. Fair point.

k .people i am going to asked to be removed this thread,because the a simple issue ,it took a wrong dimension.my husband works ,full time ,i work too we love eachother all i want it was an advice about where is sheffield are this kind of groups.thanks for those who helped.
ps and no we are not on benefits ,or taking drugs

Redbee

If your husband is concerned he should consult his doctor. It's not necessarily a medical problem, but counselling is available and whilst there may be a wait, he might as well get himself on a waiting list. Anger is often related to anxiety and/or communication difficulties, so anxiety management can help, as can assertiveness strategies. Ask your GP what is available in your area.

Please contact Relate. or the Samaritans your GP or your Priest The first few months of a marriage are sometimes quite stressful as you try to learn to live together and share all aspects of your life together in a loving way. This is sometimes particularly true when people are of different cultures/ religions/ backgrounds etc I hope that you manage to sort this out together and have a long and happy married life

thank you all for your advice.going away for 2 weeks on holliday ,is good sometimes to change the air.

You can find some information on anger management at http://www.guidetoangermanagement.com/.

Hope it's of some help.