Just curious cuz I've often heard women toying with the bi-curious idea...Do men think about it too and just don't say anything? Seems to be less judgements passed on women than men about this.

yes, men (in general) are much more averse to discussing it in case they appear to be anything other than a 'macho real man'.

Yes but do men actually get confused?

But of course there are men who think the idea is very weird indeed, without having the need to protect their masculinity!

Yes but do men actually get confused?

i certainly dont.. i like women!! wouldn't change that for the world.. eewww no thanks women are much nicer to snog than a man, they look better 2

So you have snogged men? Aren't you curious?

In my experience, men are just too stubbly - though of course it depends which part of them you happen to be snogging!

I've never been confused.

So you have snogged men? Aren't you curious?


i sucked my mates tongue once but that's it..

i think women on a whole are more curious then men. 2 friends of mine, i found out this weekend, have been snogging and feeling each other up for 3 years, there both women and married hehe.

Confusion is a female speciality.

2 friends of mine, i found out this weekend, have been snogging and feeling each other up for 3 years, there both women and married hehe.


And how are we supposed to believe that without pictures, eh?

Come on! I'm being serious, are there any men willing to share their bi-curious experiences and what made you go back to women? Or wil you always be curious?

i sucked my mates tongue once but that's it..

i think women on a whole are more curious then men. 2 friends of mine, i found out this weekend, have been snogging and feeling each other up for 3 years, there both women and married hehe.

Which "base" have they got to?

Come on! I'm being serious, are there any men willing to share their bi-curious experiences and what made you go back to women? Or wil you always be curious?

We're not here for your titillation you know.

I can't say as I've ever been curious... although the wife says my attempts to visit her on occassion via the backdoor may suggest otherwise. :o

Which "base" have they got to?

snogging, touching with pants on!!, and showering together..:hihi: :hihi:

I've heard that some pop over to Thailand to stretch their boundaries (http://www.mattfacer.com/sounds/partridge/tell%20me%20about%20the%20ladyboys.mp3).

Ive had lots of gay friends, and been in lots of gay clubs and pubs and in all that time Ive personally known for FACT that Im a totty-est. At no time was I ever even remotely unsure of my sexuality, women are just too.... ohhhhh to give up for anything!

And how are we supposed to believe that without pictures, eh?

Worth a shot Basil :hihi:

women are just too.... ohhhhh to give up for anything!

Exactly what I was thinking. I have nothing against people doing what they want but for me the thought makes me a little naseaus. The thought of two women however......Now that makes me...........Oh wait family forum.

**Goes to get cold shower**

So anyway. No I never have once wondered. Apart from the obvious lack of and addition of certain body parts, who would fill the WIFE role. If I told a bloke to get his bitch ass in the kicthen and make me some pies he would just lamp me :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

We're not here for your titillation you know.

I can't say as I've ever been curious... although the wife says my attempts to visit her on occassion via the backdoor may suggest otherwise. :o

you're obsessed about that - perhaps the phrase "backs to the wall" was meant for you

i certainly dont.. i like women!! wouldn't change that for the world.. eewww no thanks women are much nicer to snog than a man, they look better 2

Agreed... But I'm a woman :hihi:

Anyway, I think that everyone is confused about their sexuality at some point. If you really feel that way, you're not scared to show it because that's who you are. I wouldn't be straight if all the world wanted me too, it really doesn't affect me what people think. If they think badly, its their loss, not mine.

The only time I've ever been confused was when my kebab had garlic sauce on it when I'd clearly asked for chilli. Not to worry though, I washed it down with another can of lager, watched the end of Match of the Day, then went upstairs and knobbed the missus.

Confused? Not me.

No I dont think that men do get confused about their sexuality. I think they get "curious" about sexuality in general,as do women. Ive read on SF what Gays, Lesbians, and Bi-sexuals have written, and find it fascinating,but doesnt mean I want to join them.Im just interesting in people,and what makes them tick. :cool:

Jennie sweetheart. Yes men can and do become confused about their sexuality - have you and I ever discussed this before? A young friend of mine has had some difficult times over the last couple of years. Buy me beers and we can talk.

you're obsessed about that - perhaps the phrase "backs to the wall" was meant for you

LOL! :hihi:

Only ladies need guard their rears... mens bottoms hold no fascination for me. :gag:

LOL! :hihi:

Only ladies need guard their rears... mens bottoms hold no fascination for me. :gag:

Yeah Zamo, you can make that excuse, but if you even think about the idea ... that's soooo gay! :hihi:

The crying game can confuse some men...

Thats about it thou... men are all lying cheating b*****s... like i want one of them? haha :hihi:

And not like im anti-gay or anything..but if i see two guys kissing..it can make me feel a bit icky!

The crying game can confuse some men...

Thats about it thou... men are all lying cheating b*****s... like i want one of them? haha :hihi:

And not like im anti-gay or anything..but if i see two guys kissing..it can make me feel a bit icky!

And why this Mtheo? Are you not confortable enough with your own sexuality to just ignore 2 men kissing? did you mean itchy instead of icky?

I've never been confused.

Same here as well :thumbsup:

And why this Mtheo? Are you not confortable enough with your own sexuality to just ignore 2 men kissing? did you mean itchy instead of icky?

that always makes me laugh..... the fact i had no pink items of clothing led someone to say 'are you not comfortable with your sexuality'... im well comfortable thanks.. im not confused at all.... you like what you like.. some things i eat make me feel dodgy, some things in horror movies make me jump, and some things i see make me feel un-easy... simple as... i dont see why its so hard for people to except when you dont like something.

I accept people as people (and im sure theres plenty on here with more good things to say about me then bad).. can't say i've ever brought up someones sexuality, weight, height, eating disorders, scars, addictions, race or anything else like that in a derogatory way. I take people on face value.....and just coz 2 guys kissing doesnt make me fill with the joys of spring doesnt mean anything other than 'its not for me thanks'

Hope that clears that up :thumbsup:

that always makes me laugh..... the fact i had no pink items of clothing led someone to say 'are you not comfortable with your sexuality'... im well comfortable thanks.. im not confused at all.... you like what you like.. some things i eat make me feel dodgy, some things in horror movies make me jump, and some things i see make me feel un-easy... simple as... i dont see why its so hard for people to except when you dont like something.

I accept people as people (and im sure theres plenty on here with more good things to say about me then bad).. can't say i've ever brought up someones sexuality, weight, height, eating disorders, scars, addictions, race or anything else like that in a derogatory way. I take people on face value.....and just coz 2 guys kissing doesnt make me fill with the joys of spring doesnt mean anything other than 'its not for me thanks'

Hope that clears that up :thumbsup:

This isn't about two men snogging and if you like it or not...I was asking if men had ever had the thought of doing it (whether you have or not done it is totally beside the point).

Just curious cuz I've often heard women toying with the bi-curious idea...Do men think about it too and just don't say anything? Seems to be less judgements passed on women than men about this.


:hihi: Like your going to get a lot of honest answers on this subject from blokes:hihi:

But here's one for you.

I spent quite a lot of my youth not always sure which way to turn so felt as though i had to 'conform' and chase girls. Something like 15/16 years ago it wasn't as trendy to be gay as it seems to be now and not as much in the media. Not that i'm knocking gays by the way, just my thoughts over the years. It seems to me to be gay in 2007 is easier to be gay in circa 1991. Maybe thats just misconception due to age back then? Dont know.

Plus back then i lived in a small village...it would be an outrage to be the only gay in the village:hihi:

Anyway had a few girlfriends, engaged for a few years and always suppressed my curiosity.

So a while back a gay mate and myself decided to have a snog in the toilets at a club. It was fun but when he started moving down my body and i could take stock of the situation i realised there was no blood in the fella downstairs and this isn't for me.

Maybe one day i will experiment again if the right bloke comes along but i know i'm more straight than gay.

Saying that, i love winding my mates up being gay:hihi:

This isn't about two men snogging and if you like it or not...I was asking if men had ever had the thought of doing it (whether you have or not done it is totally beside the point).

i was repying to someone who replied to my original post..

if you want a simple response to your question then no, i havent thought about doing it before.


plus spiderpete loves me in a 'non-gay' way.. and if i cant have him then i dont want any man :P

In my experience, men are just too stubbly - though of course it depends which part of them you happen to be snogging!


And there's the problem, women are just not stubbly enough.....

And there's the problem, women are just not stubbly enough.....

You need to get out more! :hihi:

And there's the problem, women are just not stubbly enough.....


Oh I think you'll find there's plenty out there! :hihi:

Not speaking personally, of course. :)