Who on here have really, really and honestly found their soul mate? How did you meet? Did you know as soon as you met? The world is pretty f***** up at the moment so lets share some heartwarming stories for a change.
You lucky people you!

I 'thought' I'd found mine four years' ago but alas it wasn't to be. There have been only really two or three times when I thought 'this is it'.

In my opinion we have to be true to ourselves before we can be true and accept others.

In all honesty I have never found this and hope that there really is someone out there that will truly understand me and my complex nature....

I have found mine - she's the best.
We met in Uropa of all places (she fell on me drunk) and that was that :P

I have. :)

She's my soulmate and my best freind,i really cant imagine what things would be like without her, she's everything to me. :)

I am very very lucky. :)

Originally posted by Dirk Diggler
We met in Uropa of all places

Is that place still going or was that ages ago ?

5 yrs ago almost now ;)

Yes i believe i have met mine. I met him years before we got together in a local pub that i worked in, he used to come in for an after work beer and read his books. He was known to me as Stella man, though it was afew years before we got together at another friends birthday party.

I composed a very long reply to this post, which I have deemed unecessary to submit.
All I can say is Yes! I met my soulmate (now my wife) eleven years ago. I waited a very long time for her to come into my life. We met through a mutual friend.
Life would be unimaginable without her. I consider myself to be very, very fortunate. :love:

After several failed attempts with Otis Redding, Wilson Pickett and James Brown, finally Aretha Franklin and I are very happy together. Ugh! Get Down!

Do soul mates exist then? I've spent 33 years looking for mine. I thought I'd found her a couple of times, only to be swiftly kicked in the teeth on both occasions.

I'm still looking, but I confess to not holding out much hope. I believe in many things, but I'm not sure soul mates is one of them any more. It would be nice if it were, but the evidence says otherwise.

Nearly 24 years now, married for 21.

How the hell she puts up with me I have no idea.

We've had ups and downs and I've been a total pillock on occasion, but she's still hanging on in there.

Joe

Well, after a bloody dreadful year in which the person I thought was my soul mate turned out to have, er, other ideas... Today I feel like I *might* have found one. Bumped into an old mate from Uni in a Loughborough club 6 months ago, while I was at rock bottom. She was struggling too. Stayed up all night listening and talking about all the stuff that had gone wrong in life. We'd been seeing more and more of each other as mates over the summer, and really supported each other. Had some great times together and shared everything, with not a hint of anything more than friendship.

But my feelings finally got the better of me on Tuesday and I told her how much she meant to me and other stuff. And she's been feeling the same thing :)

Dunno whether it'll work out - plenty of time to find out - but it goes to show that sometimes wonderful stuff does happen, even when times are bad. Weird to bump into an old friend on a random night out. Even weirder to then discover that you're two peas in a pod. Hadn't seen her for like 6 years or something. So I've spent the last few months running around chasing girls like some silly teenager, only to realise that what I really want has been right in front of me all along

I haven't found mine yet. But I've got a pretty good idea who she is. Just need to get round to talking to her really lol.

Originally posted by Dirk Diggler
I have found mine - she's the best.
We met in Uropa of all places (she fell on me drunk) and that was that :P

did you throw her out:D

I once thought i had a soul mate, she also liked funk and other similar types of music....i'll get me coat:gag:

Seriously though, I thought I had someone but you never know their true side of until a problem arises, then you find out who they really are.

Originally posted by Beastieboy
I once thought i had a soul mate, she also liked funk and other similar types of music....i'll get me coat:gag:

Seriously though, I thought I had someone but you never know their true side of until a problem arises, then you find out who they really are.

It's funny how people can change. Small factors can turn a persons mind in the complete opposite direction. I once saw a girl for 4 years and she moaned at me the whole time about some of the things I did. When we split up she started seeing someone else and started doing them all herself! Nag nag nag, that's why I'm single.

You're all very lucky if you've found your soulmate. It must be the greatest feeling in the world knowing that someone loves you as much as you love them. I've reached the conclusion that I may never, i'm 29 now and time is running out I feel. Speedy_Jim's is a good story. That is fate if ever i've heard it, you were meant to bump into each other. Nice one mate.

I found mine! She lights up my world and I never ever want to be without her.

What a fine feeling that is! :)

i may be 18, but i trully belived i had found mine!
we went out 2years.
had ups n downs, like most relationships!
but when i was with him, he made me feel so special, he 'made my world go round'!
i missed him when he had to leave, but my whole week was looking forward to seeing him next!
he made me laugh n made me feel so nice!
he looked so cute n just looking at him made me go week at the kness!
i felt special to be with him!

then it all went wrong, because he wanted to be single, which i understand, hes 19 and i 18, met when i was 16 n him 17!

stil friends, but i want to get rid of this feeling, because i cant move on until i have!

sorry to bore you lot! :)

so no one has found more than one soul mate at a time?

is that possible? is the soul for sole occupation? (see what i did there! if not pm me and ill explain!)

or can the soul be shared?

soul mates?

personally i have one and she is great, she takes up my whole soul and so she is enough for me

I thought I had found mine too but evidentally not.

BUT

I have not given up hope. I know out there there is a lid to every pot.

even if the pot is not a regular size..............

I've found mine as well!

We met on ICQ by doing a random search for south yorkshire and it picked us both out!

We've been living together 4 years now and engaged for the past 2 years and are now about to move into our new home in Hackenthorpe!

I belive in fate now so much because my fiancee and I are so much alike it is unreal.

well i found britney spears, she just dont seem to have discovered me yet he he

i thought i found mine unfortunately not, we split up last nite i really thought he was the one well i wont give up theres plenty fish in the sea

Short answer - yes.

Longer answer - she's great, fantastic, love her to bits, she knows she can tell me anything and she is a great listener.

She's funny, gorgeous, charismatic, intelligent...you get the idea yet? :) I'll pass you a sickbag.

I knew her for a few months before we started seeing each other and fancied her like mad and am still pinching myself she felt the same.

*waves to the girl in question* :) :P

She's worth 10,000000000 of my ex who I was with for 7 years (damn that mirror!).

Do people believe in the concept of "soul mate"? Or is it just someone you get on with very well.

I think the implication of "soul mate" is that there is only one of them in the world foreach person.

If that is the case is there some sort of destiny or telepathy or whatever working to bring you together? or is it just a one in billions chance of finding them?

I honestly think I have, we were friends for about two years before we got together, all that time we both wanted more than friendship, but were both two scared to say anything, at the beginning of this year we started just hanging out together at my house, and then in february this year we got together and Ive been the happiest Ive been ever since, and then in the new year were gonna start the ball rolling to move in together :)

Susie
xx

im glad people have found happiness thats what counts.

Yup - and to think it all started because of an Adam n the Ants tee shirt... even if he did ignore me on the moor a few months later :P Took a while but got there in the end :D

Had a bad time of it with an ex, crazy sod who now looks like a yeti, was feeling really rough and low and I knew it'd take someone ruddy fantastic to bring me back round again and I met him. *waves right back* was bricking it all the way to the Harley but glad I went now :heyhey:

Love him to bits, we're on the same wavelength... most of the time :wink: (grrr maps) and can ramble on at each other till the cows come home and never get bored, Im more comfortable with him than I have ever been with anyone else and everything is just gravy :clap:

hands out sick bags :)

Eeeee... this thread warms me cockles :)

What do you all think about 'soulmates' we are supposed to all have one - have you found yours? They are supposed to be someone from our past lives that we have 'unfinished' business with ( passionate one-night stands) and the like. Have you found yours and how do you define a 'soulmate'?

I think ( hope ) that I have found mine - can't tell you what he does for me - and it's all mentally! really! I think it's got to be a mental connection first - the sex is a bonus.

Originally posted by missb
What do you all think about 'soulmates' we are supposed to all have one - have you found yours?

Nope still looking :D maybe they might be reading this ;)

I did, but it wasn't to be sadly :( a lot of people don't believe in soulmates, I think it's one of those things you only truly believe in it when it happens to you. I don't think there is one person for everyone though!

I think fate dictates whether you actually meet them or not.

"Soul mate"....two little words, one big concept! A belief that someone, somewhere is holding the key to your heart...and your dream house. All you have to do is find them. So, where is this person? and if you loved someone, and it didn`t work out, does that mean they weren`t your soulmate? Were they just a runner up contestant in this game show called `Happily ever after`? and…...as you move from age box to age box, and the contestants get fewer and fewer, are your chances of finding your soulmate less and less?

Soulmates.....reality, or torture device???

(Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City, series 4, episode 1)

Aye - had her --- lost her --- found her again ---- lost her again ... Third time lucky perhaps cos I doubt if either of the first two key holders will return - mores the pity.

I shall keep on looking. She's out there somewhere.

Dragon

I'm pretty sure I don't have one as nobody would be tolerant enough to put up with my mood swings. :lol: What can ya do eh, besides get therapy. ;)

I think i did and i still can't get over him. But i read this really good book called "only Love is Real" its written by a doctor, who did not believe in past life regression and then ended up becoming a past life regression therapist!

IT can be found in the philosophy section fo bookstores and the first chapter summarises the soul mate concept. It made me understand why I found/find it so hard to move on from my ex boyfriend.

Nah, he's out there though... I just know it! :D

Wish he'd come with a label attached to him saying "Caprice's Soulmate" :clap: ~ Make it a whole lot easier lol!

Originally posted by missb
What do you all think about 'soulmates' we are supposed to all have one - have you found yours? They are supposed to be someone from our past lives that we have 'unfinished' business with ( passionate one-night stands) and the like. Have you found yours and how do you define a 'soulmate'?


In this instance I would say forest gump styleee - Life is like a jigsaw puzzle...takes a while and alot of hard work to get the pieces together and normally our soulmates (the last piece ot the jigsaw) fixes everything together and makes the picture complete.

I haven't completely figured out where this re-incarnation thing goes into my beliefs yet, so I couldn't agree or disagree with the past lives idea.
I believe I have found my soul mate. Whether we were together in a past life or not I don't really care, now is what is important.

Moon

Mod: Threads merged.

I believe the only true soul mate you will ever find is yourself. We spend most of our lives trying to come to terms with who we are, what we want, what we stand for. Then we keep pressing the self destruct button ; Eating too much, drinking too much, meeting and having relationships with unsuitable people; hating the way we look, beating ourselves up over perceived failures, mostly of our own making. If we don't learn to love ourselves then we haven't got a hope in hell of somebody else loving us. We have to master our own deamons, first and foremost. As Dorothy Parker once said ' The hardest thing in life is comming face to face with yourself '

I don't know whether my wife is my 'soul mate', but she is the nearest thing to the concept. I am as much in love with her as I was when I first met her [20 years ago]. She has made me exceptionally happy, and informs me that the feeling is mutual. Isn't that enough in itself? What more can one expect?

I thought I did but then he turned out to be the nastiest man I have ever met.
I dont think I can trust anybody enough to find out after that but I wish I could find my soulmate cos I love being all happy and in love, I think its the best feeling in the world.

Anyone who does not believe in a soul mate is a sad person - imo. Doesn't hurt to look forwards to something --- at least - I don't think it does.

Now maybe we should change it to Rock mate or Reggae mate ... sorry - flipped out for a bit there...

Anyhooooo - there is someone for everyone and that someone is always going to be more special than anyone else. Just recognising it is the hard part.

All of you who have found the one - at last - I am envious, but you are lucky so-and-so's... don't go on about it.

Keep looking Pauly - there will be someone.

Dragon

Originally posted by Dragon
Keep looking Pauly - there will be someone.

Thanks matey. I'm in no rush though. Happy to be single for a while yet. :D

The successes on this thread are so sweet.

I'm still looking for my soulmate! :help:

someone once said.............you can only be truly happy with someone, when your truly happy on your own.
makes sense to me

Yeah I think I have found mine.

I love him more with each and every day we are together. When we are apart it feels as if part of me has died. :gag: I know soppy but that just the way I feel. Never thought there would be someone so special in my life.

Everyone who hasnt found yours yet, they are out there and they will turn up when you are least expecting them.

Originally posted by cloudybay
I believe the only true soul mate you will ever find is yourself. We spend most of our lives trying to come to terms with who we are, what we want, what we stand for. Then we keep pressing the self destruct button ; Eating too much, drinking too much, meeting and having relationships with unsuitable people; hating the way we look, beating ourselves up over perceived failures, mostly of our own making. If we don't learn to love ourselves then we haven't got a hope in hell of somebody else loving us. We have to master our own deamons, first and foremost. As Dorothy Parker once said ' The hardest thing in life is comming face to face with yourself '

Never a truer word spoken... its all so very true... :) well worded Cloudy...

Originally posted by honeybee
Yeah I think I have found mine.

I love him more with each and every day we are together. When we are apart it feels as if part of me has died. :gag: I know soppy but that just the way I feel. Never thought there would be someone so special in my life.

Everyone who hasnt found yours yet, they are out there and they will turn up when you are least expecting them.

That is so sweet!

I havent found mine yet. I am enjoying being singl and after nearly three years iv got used to it. Im not in any rush to find a boyfriend yet, but if he happens to come along then that'd be cool, lol.

To the world you are one person... to one person you are the World!

That one person is 'your' Soul Mate...

I think its a lovely idea to think that there is someone out there holding the key to your heart... just waiting to unlock your stored love!

Soppy cow... i know... thats me! lol :P

Originally posted by Angel05
To the world you are one person... to one person you are the World!

That one person is 'your' Soul Mate...

I think its a lovely idea to think that there is someone out there holding the key to your heart... just waiting to unlock your stored love!

Yeah, I know what you mean. Thinking like that though makes me just laugh it off and think that there wont be anyone out there willing to put up with me lol

Originally posted by Angel05
Never a truer word spoken... its all so very true... :) well worded Cloudy...

Gosh, thanks.

Originally posted by Kirsty_87
Yeah, I know what you mean. Thinking like that though makes me just laugh it off and think that there wont be anyone out there willing to put up with me lol

We all feel that way at times... best thing to remember is to... Never put yourself down... there are plenty out there who will do that for you... :D

There is someone out there for everyone... you just have to find each other... but the secret is... dont go looking for him/her... as he/she will find you...

In time they WILL find you... the time is just not now!

Originally posted by Angel05
We all feel that way at times... best thing to remember is to... Never put yourself down... there are plenty out there who will do that for you... :D

There is someone out there for everyone... you just have to find each other... but the secret is... dont go looking for him/her... as he/she will find you...

In time they WILL find you... the time is just not now!

Ah well, we'l see... Like iv said, im not in a rush, im only 18!! lol

If im still single when im 30 il come back to this thread and keep reading your posts lol

I thought i had met my soul mate but she wasn't to be ...guess i'll keep looking ;)

Originally posted by Kirsty_87
Ah well, we'l see... Like iv said, im not in a rush, im only 18!! lol

If im still single when im 30 il come back to this thread and keep reading your posts lol


Now do i take that as a compliment or do you still think at 46 i'll still be posting soppy posts lol :?

Originally posted by Angel05
Now do i take that as a compliment or do you still think at 46 i'll still be posting soppy posts lol :?

LOL i meant il come back and read the things you have posted tonight, on this thread!

Probably. Twice. Time will tell. Thats true for all of us.

Originally posted by Kirsty_87
LOL i meant il come back and read the things you have posted tonight, on this thread!

Ker! :roll: silly me... lol

See there ya go... who wants an idiot... :blush: :hihi:

It's strange how married people seem to live in a Cocoon. They live perfect little lives, have perfect little families, live in a perfect little house, have a perfect little pension, go for perfect little meals with their perfectly superficial friends..............................then it all hits the fan................... they expect so imperfect little me to sort it out for them. I never seem to exist until they need me....................strange really.................

Don't thinkpeople look to you to sort out their troubles for them Cloudy. Reckon you make yourself available as a shoulder to cry on when the ... hits the fan, and that is very admirable - but you cannot blame them for looking to offload their problems onto someone they believe cares.

Yada yada yada! You don't want to believe in a soul mate then that's your choice, just same as its your choice not to believe in a god or goddess, or fairies, or christmas. But some folk like to believe and that is their choice.

For me - like I said - I found my sould mate. I have found her twice, and it gets really complicated to explain. But I have lost her twice as well, and now I look for her a third time whilst I continue to enjoy my life.

I thank those people who supported me each time I went through the crap. Means a great deal to me that they were there for me. But I aint going to be a burden to anyone so as soon as they have had enough - they cut me loose and have done wih it.

Hope that one day the ice will melt and you will all know what it is like to actually be with, or at least to know, the person who is your soul mate. Yin and yang. Hey diddly ho.

Dragon

Originally posted by cloudybay
It's strange how married people seem to live in a Cocoon. They live perfect little lives, have perfect little families, live in a perfect little house, have a perfect little pension, go for perfect little meals with their perfectly superficial friends..............................then it all hits the fan................... they expect so unperfect little me to sort it out for them. I never seem to exist until they need me....................strange really.................

WOW... i love your description of " Smug Married people"..its so true.
I bet your single like me...invisible..This world is geared up for families and couples. Even down to shopping...everything is in bulk!

You think you have met them (I was with someone for thirteen years) until it all goes wrong. Then you don't.

Then you try to meet someone who will be the next soul mate but they don't quite meet the soulmate stringent criteria (which has increased threefold since the first candidate.)

So, do you write them off as you know they are not 100% soulmate or just keep searching but then come home with nothing?

It's a bit like Christmas shopping when you think about it, with this deadline of Christmas eve looming. . .Personally, I will wait for the January sale of life, rather than have something I am not satisfied with and I find out doesn't work without added extras.

I found my soulmate 5 years ago.. in Scuba (the nightclub not the underwater activity!). It was lust at first sight then after our first real date I realised he was pretty special, that we had loads in common and that he could well be 'the one'.

We never argue, seem to manage to be quite independant and really close at the same time.. we're best friends and fancy the pants off each other and have a right laugh all the time. I think it helps massively that we're both really positive people and fairly well balanced.. we don't seem to get the normal relationship ups and downs. Its just a really happy, no-hassle relationship. :thumbsup:

I don't believe soul mates exist. There are plenty of people we could love and be loved by... To me, that's a happy thought.

I once thought i'd found my soulmate... told him things i'd never told others... he was a great listener... so understanding and caring... we were very much on the same wavelength... even thought the same way... he'd come out and say what i was thinking or vice versa... i felt that real connection between the 2 of us... a true love bond...

Never felt anything like that in my life before... where 2 people feel so connected... its not that easy really to explain... :?

I've had close to the above... a couple of times but not close enough... :(

In response to earlier descriptions of 'smug' and 'perfect' married couples, as a happily-married man I feel fortunate certainly, but not 'smug'. I have a happy marriage, certainly not a 'perfect' one. Marriage, to coin a cliche, involves sacrifices, hard work and commitment just as much as love and sexual compatibility. I certainly would never take mine for granted, or try to make singletons feel second rate. I can understand Cruella's point about 'invisibility'. My feelings are, make yourself visible! There is no reason why you should come 'second' in anything. Marriage does not confer superior status, and some of the wisest people are those who know that they are not suited to the union. They are often admirable types, at ease with themselves and the world, as opposed to the social catastrophes who go from one failed marriage to the next. Marriage is just one form of social structure not the form. It just happens to suit me [and from what she tells me, my wife too].

I've definitely found my soulmate. Someone who understands how I tick, what I'm thinking and loves me inspite of my faults. Relationships aren't always plain sailing and without their fair share of hardwork as my fine friend Timo points out. They often require one to be selfless, to compromise or to bite one's tongue but that's a small price to pay for happiness and companionship. But if the foundations of the relationship are strong, built upon trust and there's a lot of love then the rest will fall into place.

I'm not married and neither do I think that married people are 'smug'. When drawing conclusions about the idyllic state of marriage one must always remember that altercations are often out of earshot.

As my pal Jon says, 'Altercations are often out of earshot'. How very true. Who really knows what goes on in a marriage, except the two parties involved? Appearances can be very deceptive sometimes. I once overheard a conversation at a party I wasn't supposed to, in which an 'ecstatically happy' couple proclaimed their sheer loathing for each other. I struggled to keep my face straight when they later affected adoration for each other as hosts.

Originally posted by timo
I once overheard a conversation at a party I wasn't supposed to, in which an 'ecstatically happy' couple proclaimed their sheer loathing for each other. I struggled to keep my face straight when they later affected adoration for each other as hosts.

Exactly the kind of people I was referring to. The Social catastrophies with short memories. As they shut you out of their oh so perfect little lives, they forget who picked them up last time it all came crashing down around their ankles. Such a shame I wont be available to pick up the pieces next time.................

Originally posted by caprice
Nah, he's out there though... I just know it! :D

Wish he'd come with a label attached to him saying "Caprice's Soulmate" :clap: ~ Make it a whole lot easier lol!

Stands here with a label saying "CAPRICE'S SOULMATE - HOPEFULLY"

Yes I met mine....but I met him at the wrong time and the wrong place...it wasn't meant to be. We are best friends now even though he lives far away.

But I think one day in a strange Bollywood twist of fate we will end up together.

Or maybe I'll bump into a new soul mate in a strange Hollywood twist of fate.

Originally posted by cloudybay
Exactly the kind of people I was referring to. The Social catastrophies with short memories. As they shut you out of their oh so perfect little lives, they forget who picked them up last time it all came crashing down around their ankles. Such a shame I wont be available to pick up the pieces next time.................

Don't be bitter, why are you bitter towards your friends?! What happened to friendship. I would be there for my friends through thick and thin, their happiness is my happiness and equally if they are sad.

Well, I'm glad that I have good friends...didn't realise I was so lucky till I read that

Originally posted by cruella
WOW... i love your description of " Smug Married people"..its so true.
I bet your single like me...invisible..This world is geared up for families and couples. Even down to shopping...everything is in bulk!

I'm really happy being single! I didn't ever realise it was a crime?!

I found my soul mate - but lost him due to my pig headed-ness. I have an awful thing for picking faults- turns out that I was the one with the fault... and I realised this a year too late.
I can't hold a normal relationship without thinking about this person.
This guy understood me, he loved my faults, he even respected alllll of my weirdness. And I lost it because I have some sort of weirdo trust issues! Grrrr

Anyways know I am back intouch with him - He says he doesn't want a relationship right now as he has been hurt twice - from me and his latest ex. I can understand this. Even though we are just close friends, and thats all we will ever be again, I still think that he is my soul mate
:clap:

I've been close, but not found mine yet. Still looking :)

My friend recently found the love of his life on here...
http://www.guardiansoulmates.com

I used to think that I had found my soul mate, but in reality i was the soul they were the mate. That is to say, I was looking and feeling on a much deeper level than they ever could, they really just wanted the comfort and support of what would be a mate.

strange really...

My true soulmate is still out there somewhere... I just hope I find them soon

Originally posted by livestrong
I used to think that I had found my soul mate, but in reality i was the soul they were the mate. That is to say, I was looking and feeling on a much deeper level than they ever could, they really just wanted the comfort and support of what would be a mate.

strange really...

My true soulmate is still out there somewhere... I just hope I find them soon

Don't cry. I know how you feel

Originally posted by cloudybay
It's strange how married people seem to live in a Cocoon. They live perfect little lives, have perfect little families, live in a perfect little house, have a perfect little pension, go for perfect little meals with their perfectly superficial

Isn't that a bit (or a lot) of a generalisation??

I would hate to generalise anything. I can only speak as I find.

Originally posted by cloudybay
I would hate to generalise anything. I can only speak as I find.

Oh dear, sounds like you need to change your friends. Most of my friends (me also) are married and I have not come across this.

I often find single people to be the smug ones, especially other women my age:

"I'm single, I don't let anyone tie me down *cue pitying look* I don't have to be anywhere at a certain time, no-one tells me what to do, I go with who I want, when I want, oh yeah, don't plan your future around him"

When I say I have to go as I have arranged to meet my boyfriend its often:

"Don't let him tell you what to do! Stay here if you're having fun!"

whether I want to go and meet him or not seems irrelevant! Often people my age seem to want the 'perfect person' without ever compromising by staying in if their partner is ill to look after them or putting up with them if they are in a bad mood.

I believe in soul mates but I think there are more than one of them for every person, shaped by similar experiences and similar outlook on life, and they can be friends as well as lovers.

Originally posted by bonny
Oh dear, sounds like you need to change your friends. Most of my friends (me also) are married and I have not come across this.

Perhaps our perceptions differ? Perhaps I see them in the Divorce Courts, screaming for money? Perhaps I see them as superficial, money grabbing, chardonnay drinking, working class hating, lying, worthless cheats? Or is it me? And that's only the women.

Originally posted by cloudybay
Perhaps our perceptions differ? Perhaps I see them in the Divorce Courts, screaming for money? Perhaps I see them as superficial, money grabbing, chardonnay drinking, working class hating, lying, worthless cheats? Or is it me? And that's only the women.

sounds like a trailer for footballers wives!

Shhhh....don't tell anyone but I think I have found mine.....he's the most fantastic, gorgeous, kind,caring funny, intelligent, crazy person I have ever met...I love him