View Full Version : Sex ,can you live without it?


royjames
09-10-2004, 19:07
I have thought about this for a while now and I have come to the conclusion that the physical aspect of having sex is something that I dont think I coul'd go without for any length of time
If I happen to go without for a period of say a week or so then I get very iritable,so this leads me to the conclusion that I am probably like the typical male who needs the physical aspect of sex to stay happy and contented.
Hving spoken to my male friends they think the same yet my female friends say they can take it or leave it.
I wonder why this is the case.that women are less botherd that us men.

Caronp
09-10-2004, 19:28
I am no expert but i think it has something to do with the fact that men are stimulated much easier through images and females in general and us girls need a bit more influencing?
Men are designed to plant their seeds here there and every where, where as women are much more chosey, has something to do with finding the right partner to make the healthiest baby, of course we are not aware of these inner workings , but thats what I hear any way.
How long can a man go then? without I mean?? in your and your friends opinion?

royjames
09-10-2004, 19:41
Well I suppose I have been lucky in that I have not gone without for more than a couple of wks.
Some of my friends have gone without for months,male friends I may add.
So you go along with the sowing the sead idea? I dont think that is all it comes down to though.
I think you have a point about men getting aroused more easily but surely females also can get the same reaction.
It just mystifies me why women are able to take it or leave it,or maybe it shows the female to be stronger than the male?:thumbsup:

Strix
09-10-2004, 20:28
Perhaps many women have never known true satisfaction :shakes:. What they've never had, they'll never miss :wave:.

A.B.Yaffle
09-10-2004, 21:21
I could live without it for ages until I met my fiancee... and I didn't need those adult links either! Although I live near the red light district too Roy!

royjames
09-10-2004, 21:33
lol Patchy,me too but dont think I woul'd be tempted by some of the women I see out of my window.

A.B.Yaffle
09-10-2004, 21:49
Oh no! You're not that bloke we call Mr Binoculars in the tower block on the corner of Mitchell Street and Brightmore Drive are you??:o

vidster
09-10-2004, 22:35
After a few days i start looking like this :rant: , then i start getting the shakes :shakes: .

Strix
09-10-2004, 22:39
Originally posted by vidster
then i start getting the shakes :shakes: .

Steady Vidster, there's a joke in there somewhere! :blush:

vidster
09-10-2004, 22:47
Originally posted by Strix
Steady Vidster, there's a joke in there somewhere! :blush:

:hihi: I never noticed that, if i did i would have exploited it! :thumbsup:

Robbie Loving
10-10-2004, 07:57
can live with out it,

just choose not to

J_Horizontal
10-10-2004, 08:36
Suppose so.

How about another poll:

Your left/right hand, can you live without it?

:)

Trekker
10-10-2004, 11:12
Nature make it hard for young people to resist doing it.

PaulTansley
10-10-2004, 11:19
Originally posted by Trekker
Nature make it hard for young people to resist doing it. Another joke unexploited.

Trekker
10-10-2004, 11:26
Originally posted by Cycleracer
Another joke unexploited.

What?

Sidla
10-10-2004, 12:48
Sex ,can you live without it?
Some of us have to. :(

royjames
10-10-2004, 13:24
Nah Patchy I aint that guy lol, but back on track it looks from the poll results that it's quite a close call,this has suprised me somewhat.
Anyway wheres my binoculars lol

venger
10-10-2004, 14:11
someone has actually voted not sure I think that is another joke?


Cheer up Sidla!

miniminch
10-10-2004, 18:57
I'm not unpleasant looking but I have gone without any for two years. I consider myself as celibate except not for religious reasons. This is the longest I have been without it since I was about 13!! You do get used to it.
My problem I can't just have it with anyone - there has to be some emotion - may be love. I hve not been in love for some time :(

Strix
10-10-2004, 18:58
Originally posted by Trekker
What?
Stay awake!! Read the whole thread.

Sidla
10-10-2004, 20:42
Originally posted by miniminch
This is the longest I have been without it since I was about 13!! You do get used to it.
You were having sex when you were 13? :?

royjames
10-10-2004, 20:57
I have got to say that mimi is a hero having gone so long without it,you say you get used to the idea ?I take it the sex drive goes down somewhat the longer you go without.
I dont know if having to be attached to a person is a reason to go without but at least you are not shallow like some.
Anyway I hope your abstinence comes to an end in the near future.

cornfed_pig
11-10-2004, 13:40
3 years 8 months so far...

bigbilly
11-10-2004, 13:44
cornfed I take my hat off to you for going without for such a long time.
Anyone beat corns length of time?

wibbles
11-10-2004, 13:49
Originally posted by bigbilly

Anyone beat corns length of time?
And another unexploited sentence!!! :D

Yodameister
11-10-2004, 13:51
The things you can't live without are food, water, warmth.

Noone ever died of lack of sex as far as I know.

Callassa
11-10-2004, 13:59
In Texas, there is a strange attitude toward SEX. Recently a woman was given a two year prison sentence for hosting SEX PARTIES in her house. In the same state, two GAY MEN were given prison sentences when following a tip off the cops burst into their apartment and found them doing something anti Bible. In certain parts of the world that have to remain nameless, if the woman in a marriage finds her husband is less than the rodding bull, (if ever he was) and goes off to find a new buck, she can be flogged in public and/or executed (which she often is). Whereas it's fine for the man to do this. Gee wiz. CALLASSA

wibbles
11-10-2004, 14:02
Originally posted by Callassa
. In certain parts of the world that have to remain nameless, if the woman in a marriage finds her husband is less than the rodding bull, (if ever he was) and goes off to find a new buck, she can be flogged in public and/or executed (which she often is). Whereas it's fine for the man to do this. Gee wiz. CALLASSA

I think thats in Norfolk???? :)

ilaria
12-10-2004, 09:46
i can go without sex for wks although i might get sexually frastrated i can manage but my boyf i dont think he can wait hes always wanting it with me and belive me hes a great shagger.

royjames
12-10-2004, 14:51
Ilaria, you give out too much information lol.
Besides how do you know hes all that unless you have been with others to compare.
Just out of interest how old is your boyfriend? Because the older you get the better you become, like the old saying says practice makes perfect.
And I am VERY good,having had plenty of practice.

ilaria
12-10-2004, 14:53
my boyf is 36 and im 23

Tony
12-10-2004, 14:58
Mod: Roy - that's far too much information too you old bugger!

I'm closing this for a while until the steam clears from the windows. :)