View Full Version : Why do Women dress scantily and then moan when they are stared at?


bladesufc1
01-12-2006, 15:17
show there legs / boobs off in town


BUT

when they cach you loking they say "WHAT U LOOKIN AT"

if you dont want us to look then put them away

BrainThrust
01-12-2006, 15:20
So they have to responsible for your wandering eyes?

Maybe they're wearing those clothes for confidence in themselves, not for your enjoyment.

Wilf

Jesus, I'm such a new man, someone give me a slap.

_Kirsty_
01-12-2006, 15:20
I never said that- id love the attention. id show em more if they asked nicely.

Ashcroft
01-12-2006, 15:20
attention seekers, some of who get a kick out of causing trouble:confused:

Halibut
01-12-2006, 15:21
There's looking and there's staring. Maybe you need some practice differentiating between the two? I've never been shouted at like that, maybe not drooling and rubbing my privates at the same time helps too...

bladesufc1
01-12-2006, 15:22
I never said that- id love the attention. id show em more if they asked nicely.


hehe "he asks nicely!!" PLEASE

bladesufc1
01-12-2006, 15:23
There's looking and there's staring. Maybe you need some practice differentiating between the two? I've never been shouted at like that, maybe not drooling and rubbing my privates at the same time helps too...

its normally comes from the, can i say this "the common women" haha

_Kirsty_
01-12-2006, 15:23
hehe "he asks nicely!!" PLEASE

Unfortunately, im not down town tonight- i will let you know when i am though ;) :hihi:

bladesufc1
01-12-2006, 15:24
cheers BABE x

(hehe taken from another post)

_Kirsty_
01-12-2006, 15:24
cheers BABE x

(hehe taken from another post)

:love: :love:

Halibut
01-12-2006, 15:25
attention seekers, some of who get a kick out of causing trouble:confused:

Have you got some kind of woman hating thing going on?

Minesadouble
01-12-2006, 15:27
attention seekers, some of who get a kick out of causing trouble:confused:


Is that a ''Yes I've said that'' and been thumped for it :confused:

Cyclone
01-12-2006, 15:29
show there legs / boobs off in town


BUT

when they cach you loking they say "WHAT U LOOKIN AT"

if you dont want us to look then put them away

If they say 'lookin', then they're not classy enough anyway.

For that matter if they've got the goods on display that blatantly then they probably aren't classy in the first place.

Ashcroft
01-12-2006, 15:33
Have you got some kind of woman hating thing going on?
no way. thats what sort of people ive seen in town doing that. and shouting at some bloke so another bloke turns on him.. most women are not like that :thumbsup:

Clare85
01-12-2006, 17:00
Bet you don't think that when your looking through Loaded or whatever tripe is for sale these days.

Bago
01-12-2006, 17:39
How do you know they want YOU to look at them ? :confused:

Maybe the woman wants to dress for a mate, or someone they fancy, or will meet up on the actual night out ? Most, (and this is unfortunately, a downfall for women), save on the cloakroom cost, and convenience sake, so they just don't even take a coat out.

I think you will find that a lot of women do find it intimidating when you find them sexually desirable, especially when they don't know you ! Trust is important, even when meeting people for the first time.

I really do hate those whistling idiots when you just walk by.

If the woman really wants you to look, and don't mind it, then their body language says everything. You wouldn't find them crossing their arms trying to cross the streets ! Subtleties like that saves a lot of hassle on a Friday night out.

melthebell
01-12-2006, 17:40
I never said that- id love the attention. id show em more if they asked nicely.
AHEM!!!!!!!

:P

melthebell
01-12-2006, 17:42
Bet you don't think that when your looking through Loaded or whatever tripe is for sale these days.

nuts



oh errrrrrrrrm i dont read that at work then pass it round the lads

honest


honestly i dont


oh ok, i do

cressida
01-12-2006, 18:31
have you ever known a man who wore what he didn't want to?

Cyclone
01-12-2006, 21:07
How do you know they want YOU to look at them ? :confused:


Maybe they don't, but if they've gone out in public dressed to show off then I guess they don't really have much grounds for complaint.

Bago
01-12-2006, 21:27
Well, technically, the women are not complaining, they're just shouting abuse at you ! LOL.... :hihi:

So, guys shouldn't complain if this happens too. :P

Guys may think that is what the woman intended by her actions, but if her actions are intended for a different reason. Then do not complain. :P

yummyyumyum
01-12-2006, 21:27
i think the women who wear these clothes do so for male attention to them male attention=self confidence.
im sure they would go home gutted if no one gave them the eye.
i know if i go out flashing me ample cleavage its free for anyone to admire!!:D

King Rat
01-12-2006, 21:32
i think the women who wear these clothes do so for male attention to them male attention=self confidence.
im sure they would go home gutted if no one gave them the eye.
i know if i go out flashing me ample cleavage its free for anyone to admire!!:D

Could you show it in you're avata?

Bago
01-12-2006, 21:33
Well, I didn't! lol...

When I was young, I did it out of defiant. You know the usual thing.

I think, a lot of girls do it for different reasons. Not everybody wants the whole entire world to look at her. Some may want this, but some don't. Now, will a typical guy be able to tell the difference ? No.

Anyway, some guys will whistle at anything. Whether you're dressed scantily or not. So... how does that work then ? Are the girls asking for such sexually aggressive attention ?

Pingpang
01-12-2006, 22:31
I never said that- id love the attention. id show em more if they asked nicely.

please please please

etc

:hihi:

pattricia
01-12-2006, 22:51
Now these lasses are doing no harm.We all did it at that age. Page three girls get paid for it,so why shouldnt these lot strut their stuff. :thumbsup:

Jabberwocky
01-12-2006, 22:52
If i went out in a mini skirt and a top that showed my boobs off and people yelled and stared at me id be...

Actually I dont know what id think.... Im going to have to try it.

BluePolo
01-12-2006, 23:09
I had a feeling Jabbers would turn up sooner or later......

Jabberwocky
01-12-2006, 23:13
I had a feeling Jabbers would turn up sooner or later......


Are you looking at my legs???? (http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/Doppler1/507340_7cb82704e6_m.jpg)

BluePolo
01-12-2006, 23:15
Pink socks would have matched better than black.

pattricia
01-12-2006, 23:15
Are you looking at my legs???? (http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/Doppler1/507340_7cb82704e6_m.jpg)


Now you might get raped looking like that.Have all the guys in Sheffield after you !! :D

Jabberwocky
01-12-2006, 23:16
Now you might get raped looking like that.Have all the guys in Sheffield after you !! :D
Yeah you can tell im gaggin for it! :D

Bago
01-12-2006, 23:20
:hihi:
Oh dear, I've forgotten about that pic !
Pink looks lovely on your Jabber. ;)

pattricia
01-12-2006, 23:22
Yeah you can tell im gaggin for it! :D


I do believe youre Bi-sexual Jabbers. ! :D

Jabberwocky
01-12-2006, 23:23
I do believe youre Bi-sexual Jabbers. ! :D
I never had sex with a bison in my life!! I few sheep and the occasional goat yes, but a bison? Never!

pattricia
01-12-2006, 23:25
I never had sex with a bison in my life!! I few sheep and the occasional goat yes, but a bison? Never!


I give up. I cant win tonight.!:D

Grandad.Malky
02-12-2006, 06:15
its normally comes from the, can i say this "the common women" haha


Mutton dressed as lamb may be the expression you are looking for.

:gag:

PopT
02-12-2006, 07:09
There's nowt wrong wi' a bit o' window shopping

Grandad.Malky
02-12-2006, 10:29
There's nowt wrong wi' a bit o' window shopping


Just because you’re on a diet doesn’t stop you reading the menu.

:D

Ms Macbeth
02-12-2006, 11:07
When I was young, skin tight jeans, then mini skirts (remember Mary Quant) were very fashionable, and I certainly loved wearing them. I'm all for the young being followers of whatever fashion they choose - but I'm surprised that some women think showing acres of flabby flesh is attractive! People with toned bodies and firm skin can look good in revealing clothes, the rest of us should really check in the mirror before we go out. :hihi: Low slung jeans look great if you don't end up looking like a muffin in them - neither is the massive builder's bum look attractive! Perhaps thats why some people get stares? More about laughing than leering?

Malky has already mentioned mutton dressed as lamb - I sometimes feel like saying, 'we had our turn'! Older women can look great, if they choose the right clothes (look at Twiggy) but when you're 50 don't try to compete with a 20 year old! Skin thats lost its elasticity (and it can only be delayed for so long) looks much better covered up - a bare midriff that resembles a beer gut is also a no no! :gag:

Grandad.Malky
02-12-2006, 11:28
Macbeth – you have got it :-

A women in her 30`s doesn’t look good dressed like a teenager nor does a size 14 look good in low cut trousers and a crop top and as for a thong that’s in view every time you lean forward, forget about it.

Next time a man looks, think is it admiration or a look of disbelief followed by a tut tut under their breath.


:suspect:

funkymiss
04-12-2006, 13:06
To be honest Malky I have many friends who are a size 14 and look lovely in a low cut top. One of them is 6foot tall so because of her height she looks easily a size 10 - you'd never know ;)

Why should women care if you tut?!

NEKRO138
04-12-2006, 13:07
I think most girls like the attention. The ones who complain are just troublemakers not worth bothering with anyway.

D2J
04-12-2006, 13:29
Not bothered about a woman's class me you know..

It's when they look like this (http://www.chavscum.co.uk/4images/data/media/37/YUK.jpg) with all that fake tan :gag:

Jabberwocky
04-12-2006, 13:50
Not bothered about a woman's class me you know..

It's when they look like this (http://www.chavscum.co.uk/4images/data/media/37/YUK.jpg) with all that fake tan :gag:
Thats enough to put anybody off, even a grade A pervert like me!:gag:

funkymiss
04-12-2006, 14:10
eww that's not fake tan, that's gravy browning and a healthy smothering of lard

weenireeni
04-12-2006, 14:26
ok i admit when i go out i do like to show off my cleavage, but i dont think that justifies the comments, staring and groping i can receive. i dont dress sluttily - i keep my legs covered, but just because im not flat chested, men think they can say anything

it really makes me feel sick when a man thinks he can come up and fondle me, or touch me up. how would he like it if i groped him!!! (ok dont answer that!)

my point is its rude, and only happens in nightclubs with stupid drunks, it wouldnt happen if i was in meadowhall!

i refuse to cover up my chest - if i did id look huge, as i have to wear clothin to show i have a waist - usually wrap dresses.

do girls in short skirts get mistreated too? i remember a few years ago i used to wear a rara mini skirt and men used to put their hand right up my skirt!!! disgusting! just wondered if that still happens?

and any men admit that they touch women without permission......??and why?

D2J
04-12-2006, 14:42
Thats enough to put anybody off, even a grade A pervert like me!:gag:

I thought that is what passed for classy in Sheffield, orange complexion with a cigarette wedged between the clevage :hihi:

Jabberwocky
04-12-2006, 14:43
I thought that is what passed for classy in Sheffield, orange complexion with a cigarette wedged between the clevage :hihi:
Yeah for me maybe but not for a woman for gods sake! :D