Elsa
20-11-2006, 20:13
Hi, everyone! I’m new to the forum, but have been “lurking” for many months. I have a “problem” dog, and when my other (old) dog died a year ago, I threw myself into sorting her out. I’ve done a lot of online research on books and have bought quite a few. The kind that go far deeper than “teaching your dog to sit” and focus more on actual behaviour and learning patterns. I’ve found nearly all of them fascinating and they’ve gone a long way to help me have a “less-of-a-problem” dog (work in progress!);)
It’s obvious that a lot of you are well-read when it comes to dog training. A lot of very good advice is given on here. Lotti's, in particular.
So, which books come with the Sheffield Pet Owners seal of approval? And why?
I’d like to nominate 2 (to start with…. I’ve spent a lot of money on books this year!).
Firstly, The Culture Clash – Jean Donaldson
This is the first one I read at the beginning of the year when I decided to take control of the miserable situation I was in. I believe that if our dogs could recommend a book for us to read, it would be this one. It really makes you look at things from the dog’s point of view and takes away a lot of the anger you feel when your dog is so BAD! It made me feel like the worst dog owner on the planet, and then gave me hope that things could change.
I think this is the kind of book you either love or you hate, but I wish I had read it before I got my puppy (who’s now 6). Things would have been very different. Anyone who is getting frustrated by their dog’s behaviour should give it a go.
I cried many times during this book! In particular, the bit where she asks you to imagine you’ve been taken in on an alien planet where the aliens speak in high pitched whistles and act in ways you don’t understand. If that doesn’t stop you shouting at your dog, I don’t know what will!
Its only downfall is that she depicts dogs in a very simplistic manner, and we dog-lovers don’t really like that. She is basically trying to tackle people who expect their barking, feisty, scavenging, bitey, fox-poo-rolling dog to be like Lassie. If you’re lucky enough to have a dog that behaves like Lassie, then you are truly blessed (as I was with my first), but if you’ve got a “normal” dog, please recognise that that’s what you’ve got. A normal dog. And it’s your job to help it live by the confusing and illogical rules of human society. This book will help you do that, even if you do feel like you're being beaten with a stick while you read it!
My second recommendation is The Other End of the Leash - Patricia McConnell
This is a LOVELY book. She is pretty much in the same camp as Jean Donaldson, but doesn’t tell you off as much! And she gives a lot more credit for dogs having personalities. There is as much in there about human behaviour being related to chimps as there is about dog behaviour being related to wolves. Every chapter has little stories of her own life as a behaviourist and on her farm with her sheep dogs. She brings her dogs to life and completely immerses you into her world. Every chapter is fascinating. I cried ALL the way through this one, not out of guilt, but out of admiration for our little four-footed friends. If you don’t have problems with your dog, I STILL recommend this one. Every dog-lover should read it. It’s less of a training manual and more of an autobiography. I couldn’t put it down.
As this is a very long post, I'll leave it there for now! Hope it isn't too long. As my area of "experience" is aggression :( , I'll be back at some point with 2 recommendations specifically for owners like me, but I would still recommend the 2 books above to be read first.
It’s obvious that a lot of you are well-read when it comes to dog training. A lot of very good advice is given on here. Lotti's, in particular.
So, which books come with the Sheffield Pet Owners seal of approval? And why?
I’d like to nominate 2 (to start with…. I’ve spent a lot of money on books this year!).
Firstly, The Culture Clash – Jean Donaldson
This is the first one I read at the beginning of the year when I decided to take control of the miserable situation I was in. I believe that if our dogs could recommend a book for us to read, it would be this one. It really makes you look at things from the dog’s point of view and takes away a lot of the anger you feel when your dog is so BAD! It made me feel like the worst dog owner on the planet, and then gave me hope that things could change.
I think this is the kind of book you either love or you hate, but I wish I had read it before I got my puppy (who’s now 6). Things would have been very different. Anyone who is getting frustrated by their dog’s behaviour should give it a go.
I cried many times during this book! In particular, the bit where she asks you to imagine you’ve been taken in on an alien planet where the aliens speak in high pitched whistles and act in ways you don’t understand. If that doesn’t stop you shouting at your dog, I don’t know what will!
Its only downfall is that she depicts dogs in a very simplistic manner, and we dog-lovers don’t really like that. She is basically trying to tackle people who expect their barking, feisty, scavenging, bitey, fox-poo-rolling dog to be like Lassie. If you’re lucky enough to have a dog that behaves like Lassie, then you are truly blessed (as I was with my first), but if you’ve got a “normal” dog, please recognise that that’s what you’ve got. A normal dog. And it’s your job to help it live by the confusing and illogical rules of human society. This book will help you do that, even if you do feel like you're being beaten with a stick while you read it!
My second recommendation is The Other End of the Leash - Patricia McConnell
This is a LOVELY book. She is pretty much in the same camp as Jean Donaldson, but doesn’t tell you off as much! And she gives a lot more credit for dogs having personalities. There is as much in there about human behaviour being related to chimps as there is about dog behaviour being related to wolves. Every chapter has little stories of her own life as a behaviourist and on her farm with her sheep dogs. She brings her dogs to life and completely immerses you into her world. Every chapter is fascinating. I cried ALL the way through this one, not out of guilt, but out of admiration for our little four-footed friends. If you don’t have problems with your dog, I STILL recommend this one. Every dog-lover should read it. It’s less of a training manual and more of an autobiography. I couldn’t put it down.
As this is a very long post, I'll leave it there for now! Hope it isn't too long. As my area of "experience" is aggression :( , I'll be back at some point with 2 recommendations specifically for owners like me, but I would still recommend the 2 books above to be read first.